Tfw you will never have a gf

Same here. Just fuck my shit up.

I don`t even want it anymore. It`s a waste of time if its not the person you are going to marry and if you are not the best version of yourself, how could you attract her?

This. Although it can get lonely at times, realise the only point of getting a gf is to eventually get married and have kids.

The whole concept of having a gf just for the sake of having a gf will gets old very quickly once you actually experience it. Eventually you want more then just someone to cuddle with and fuck.

Op, tell me your daily routine. Do you go anywhere? Do you have a job where you can socialize? Are the only social places you go bars?

I met my husband through a friend I met at work. He invited me to hang out one night and that's where I met him.

A whole chain of events led up to it.

If you only go Job -> gym -> home lather, rinse, repeat you're probably not going to meet anyone unless you can talk to a girl at the gym without sounding like a creep.

>stop playing so many video games
>Leave your fucking house for more than just the gym and work

It's not fucking rocket science. You have to put effort into this shit, a girl isn't just going to fall into your laps, guys.

Girls like confidence, not whiny pussy faggots.

THIS.

Same goes for you homos. Go get your gf/bf and stop whining about not having one.

where should i go when i leave my house?

most people only leave their house to meet up with people, i have no friends

That's when you go out and make some. Chat people up at the gym, hit it off, go out drinking with them.

Stop making this so complicated.

Why is a married woman posting on Veeky Forums.

Let me guess, you're a faggot and not actually a woman?

>18, bitchy girlfriend that gave me shit over everything
>20, sweet lass whos parents didn't like me
>23, boned some kids mom
>24, boned another kids mom
>25, dated a paranoid cunt

Bitches aint shit

I hate it when normies give out advice like this when they've never actually made a friend that way.

Normal people don't make friends like that.

You don't build actual friendship talking to some random drunk at a fucking pub or out at some loud obnoxious club where everyone is obsessed with themselves.

I just wish mods would ban these stupid "no girlfriend" circle jerk threads already. Veeky Forums has a whole board for social talk like that that will give you better advice than fucking Veeky Forums will where half the guys just want pussy and the others are just as autistic as the rest of the threads.

this

umm... yes they do. Just this thursday went out with my pal from accounting and a couple of people he hangs out with. Met a couple of qts that were invited to the party. No action but they were really fun people, and knew how to drink. 10/10 time would hang out with again. Alcohol makes socializing a piece of cake user learn how to drink.

Sounds like you either have shit taste in women or should kill yourself before you ruin anyone else's life, user

I'm a normie and i've made friends that way retard. How would you know since you're an autistic faggot?

you went to a party with mutual friends. not a bar or club where you didn't know a single person, and none of the people shared school or friends with you

>no girlfriend
/r9k/ is normieville now, and Veeky Forums has the last remanents of the ">tfw no gf" generation of robots.
>whole board for social talk
/soc/ is shit.
>that will give you better advice
/adv/ gives even shittier advice than Veeky Forums

i don't want a girlfriend

i just want a girl that i can have sex with casually whenever i feel like

is that too much to ask?

It's honestly not that hard to get a gf. It's kind of a numbers game combined with a little luck. I'm not even a chad either. I lost my virginity at 17. I just learned how to stop being such an autist and communicate with girls.

I still live at home and have no job or social life. I am shy as fuck around people, especially women and see myself as completely inferior due to my pathetic life situation

Its over. All I can do is lift for some sort of routine and goal. That and delude myself into thinking I can eventually land a job in tech despite being average IQ and terrible at maths

Its over tbph

Thanks for being there user, sometimes it feels like I'm losing my mind reading these threads.
30yo kissless virgins being told to go to bars alone, to make conversations with complete strangers in parks?
Even Chad the social superstar never does any of this shit.
Get a new job in a company with people your age, join a sports club, a traditional games club, take classes, go on tinder dates, whatever.
Just do what normal people do.

>tfw no kazakh gf to cook you whatever bullshit they eat over there

started University in September .. first night in my accommodation "im going out for a cigarette" , girl goes "i'll come".

>hang out with girl
>becomes 1st gf, says she loves me so much
>dumps me 4 months later, "ive said everything I had to say to you"

kind of hurts

it's not if multiverse theory is true and you'll get another chance

my god.. sauce?

Ah well, at least I have my squats and Skyrim.

Smoking is also really good for socializing.
Like I only smoke at parties, very rarely at work, that amounts to 5-10 cigs a month at most. In practice, since I never go to parties I can go for months without a smoke.
Too bad people are so fucking anal about smoking.
>hurr durr enjoy killing you'reself and paying for it smoking tastes so bad I hate it *downs a glass of vodka as if anybody liked that shit*
Just as obnoxious as smokers who tell you three times a day they have to stop but never do. Moderation, motherfuckers.

@aya_shalkar

>tfw conversate with all professors and guys
>when sloots come up I start shaking and my ears turn red and start stuttering

Been like 10 days in school and I've talked to like 5 sloots and 15 bros

reminder

duck out if the compromises make you miserable. duck out if you get miserable. duck out if it just makes you uncomfortable.

the goal is not to force a relationship to keep going. its to find a relationship worth keeping.

there is literally no benefit to frankensteining a relationship other than possibly sex, but you're better off withotu it if it isn't working.

emjoy the relationship for as long as you can. and if it goes south, leave, cuz all you're doing is preventing yourself from finding the good one that might last.

lasting isn't the point, it isn't the goal.

And yeah you have to take the risk of making a high stakes deal with a potentially very unstable person, plus people change. That's life, you can't play all of it safe.

>5-6th grade
>multiple girls simultaneously wanting to be with me
>reject massive amount of girls
>have teen relationships with girls I thought were the hottest in the school
>inner autism takes control every time when being with a with girl alone
>never have the balls to kiss any of them
>spend most of the time playing video games because I really didn't want to date in the first place
>every thing ends in a month or two
>7-8th grade
>again two hottest girls in the school at my grade show interest
>don't do shit... play vidya instead
>9th grade
>install acne, goodbue bitches
>friends fuck with me because I ruined every chance with those girls
>self esteem totally destroyed
>cocoon mode.. vidya >9 hours every day
>high school
>school going ok
>social anxiety getting fucking bad
>successful in vidya and I spare time playing
>play vs worlds best players in a popular game
>dad tells me I can't use internet after 10 pm
>my dream as competitive player destroyed because I can't play anymore in important tournaments
>start smoking weed every day to fill that void
>now my only goal is to become a successful bodybuilder

Only thing I look forward to is my first steroid injection in four years.
I'm 26 years old now. I have literally no game with women and still no thrive to get into relationship. I think I gotta make some babies before I start injecting tho.

You're immature. Just keep living life and try to get a girlfriend in a few years, no rush.

Why even try anymore?

Wtf, girlfriends are so overrated. Fuck im 22 live on my own and work a shitty office job. All i do is fuck escorts, way fucking cheapee. Try out new fetishes and stuff, some stick around longer till they get called again ( the ones that work for them selces )

Back when I was 22 I was still NEET shutin playing WoW 10 hours a day.

It scares me to think how far behind in life I am

wubalubadubdub

So it should you pussy bitch tits

say that to my face not on the internet stupid kid

>Meet woman.
>She sets everything up to be alone with me.
>Be too fucking autistic.
>Screw up my chance to fuck a 8/10.
..I still haven't forgiven myself for this 5 years later.

When I was 22 I was a NEET shutin playing eve 16 hours a day.

I'm 26, have a degree, gf and my income is in the 90th percentile for my age. It gets better but not much

It is always good to read such stories. How old is yr gf, is she a qt? :3

I'm 29 now and only thing that's changed is that I have a degree and quit wow.

>mfw I have a Veeky Forums [spoiler] husband [spoiler/]

Feelsgood, bros.

tfw no bf
i'm pretty, damn it, why are queers so difficult

Being gay doesn't count, your journey to the woman's eggs is the real challenge.

>first year in college
>netflix and chill
>do this 3 days in a row and never make a move
>we were cuddling this whole time
>she told me she didnt want to wake up mom
>the realization that there were no other cars every time I went
>why did she lie to me
>why didn't I notice

ftfy

Why would I wreck my life by having kids by 20? Best thing about being homo is that you're basically hanging out with your best bro all the time and there's snu snu. Also there's no chance of 'oops I'm now a parent which I obviously planned for' moments.

I would feel less bad about that, at least you had intention to fuck her even when she didn't want to.

It feels really bad here, I now get rejected by 30+ year old 3/10 crazy cat ladies. It's like I wasted every chance.

the people who have kids usually do it raw no condom because of "muh pill"

I haven't done it raw yet, I aint fucking stupid. One of my classmates has two kids at the age of 20 lmao.

Literally all my friends from high school got their gf's preggo and are not stuck at home all the time, doing shitty jobs just to get by and they all tell me how happy they are, but when you look at them you know otherwise.

Even with protection there's always that slip up. still. Which my best friend sadly happened to him and it crushed his idea of college and building portable snes's. Now he builds those camera copters things as a hobby (forgot the name of em) and he did managed to build one snes portable, but doesn't have money to build more cause two kids now.

I'm sure by now I'd be swamped with kids if I were hetero lmfao

I lost 20kg during 2016 and I bought new clothes last Monday when the sales started and today I went walk/shopping and I met a girl I hadn't seen in months and she stood there talking for me for like 35 minutes, she just wouldn't let me go.

She wouldn't shut up about how she's no longer a slut and now doesn't go clubbing anymore and doesn't fuck around and she likes to stay home and be a good girl.

What did she mean by all this? I'm not very experienced I used to be fat

She wants your approval

What does she want my approval for?
Why does my approval matter?

Is this the thing about "insecurities" I keep hearing to stay away from?

>I used to be fat
She thinks you look decent now and wants to do something with you.

She's ready for you to forgive her for her slut days and become a beta provider for her

HAHA FUCK YOU PATHETIC FEEL POSTER YOU WILL DIE ALONE AND SPEND THE REST OF YOUR DAYS ON Veeky Forums KILL YOURSELF ALREADY

Hey I like vodka, but I socially smoke too so there is that.

>these posts

Normies I tell yea

>tfw gay bong
>tfw experienced heartbreak late last year
>tfw still talk to him, feels like shit
>tfw i just want a Veeky Forums husbando

Does the pain stop soon

That feel when my Gf dragged me shopping. I want to go home and play video games and Jack off. Help user.

For those of us that are actually autistic and not just sad normies who want to seem like victims it's nearly impossible to learn these communication skills when I look at womans face while I talk to her I can not tell whether she's into me, wants to kill me, doesn't even notice me, or just wants a platonic conversation

so how do i find someone if i have
>no friends
>don't drink
>don't like to go out
>hate clubs
>don't have any other activities apart from lifting and cycling
>too tired at the end of the day for any other new activity

feels like i'm spinning wheels and getting older

>be inna runnan club for 1.5 years now (also lift)
>have a normal run thing on tuesdays almost every day
>some girl joins, but learn that she has a bf
>tis okay I guess, she doesnt seem that very bright anyhow
>but she still runs and rarely slacks off
>not sure why she has that willpower
>but slowly gain respect for her
>she is a bit socially tarded though
>never talk to her though
>still kinda grow on her
>nyr faggotree and the faggot eu close greeting thing happens
>realize I really like her

well fug

>Yea bro, I've had a house before. It's pretty overrated and hard to maintain. You're better off without one

What's worse? Not feeling loved at allor felt love but lose it?

The latter, easily.
The most heartbreaking thing I ever read was in response to me telling someone I loved them, they said:
>I loved you
>D

Find activities that might interest you and go to related events to find people of relation to said interest. Cut time off from other things (like posting on here for example don't lie you do it all the time it's time to do less of it).

Mostly it's just proper time management. Like fuck. Video games took a lot of my time and kept me single forever until I decided to not do so much of it. Now I'm awesomely married. How old are you? There's always time to try/learn new things, besides lifting.

>I loved you
>mfw I realized that she was just as autistic as me and I will never find someone as near perfect as her

One day

>mfw I realized he shared all my interests, I let him pass me by, and I'll never find anyone as perfect again
>mfw faggot so it's even worse

This is a very special profound type of loneliness.

>tfw my gf of 2 years dumped me 6 months ago
>get on tinder
>go on dates with probably 10 girls. Only banged one
>just want my gf back
>it would be beta as fuck to text her and beg her to take me back and it probably wouldn't even work out

This is the worst feel

I've had multiple family members that have been smoking daily for over 60yrs. Also have an aunt that never smoked in her life and is outlived by her husband who smokes.

Lucky?

i'm already doing activities that interest me which are lifting and cycling. i go to the gym in the morning and go cycling in the evening because that's the only free time i have. i'm 30 and work from home otherwise.

i tried joining a cycling group once and it was dreadful. they cycled like grandmas and talked about most boring shit you can think of. i have no idea how people can talk about every day stuff and be that excited about it. i quit it the very next day.

>she always comes back to your head whenever you go to bed
Leave me alone feels I need my sleep gains

How do you guys go to sleep without thinking about her?

Nothing wrong with having an average girl (5/10) as long as she isn't fat

Usually they are more loyal, more likely to be virgins and smarter than the average Stacy because she has to work and knows she can't pass on just looks

Still rather fuck the hotter 7+/10s though tbqh

Would it be too weird to talk to a girl who used to like me in high school and tell her to meet up? We graduated about 6 years ago.

Take NyQuil to knock myself out

drink yourself to sleep

I meant find OTHER activities. My bad. What else do you do besides lift, cycle and work?
To just ask her out of the blue? That would be creepy weird.

I don't.
I just sleep on a wet pillow.

Don't expect commitment from women. Seriously.

You should 100% expect every single relationship in college/uni to fail until you're given a very good reason otherwise. Unless she's waking you up blowing you, swallowing your load, and then saying she loves you, you have NO reason to think it will work out for more than a few months.

>not lifting for your waifu

just accept you're gonna die alone. It's liberating

>What else do you do besides lift, cycle and work?
nothing. lifting and cycling is all that interest me.

Nah, just to meet up, but to be honest I wouldn't have much of an excuse because I never talked much with her.

No I am a guy too. It's legal now dumbfuck.

Don't like tv shows, movies, books, video games, sports, cars? Come on user. Even the little things matter to someone.

>tv shows, movies, books
yeah i do. i watch a few shows, some movies and read quite a few books but what does that have to do with social activity?

>video games, sports, cars
nah

Except you can't live inside your gf, you can't cook inside your gf, you can't use your gf as a house (unless my gf was your mom ofc), you can't park your car in your gf, you can't put gym equipment in your gf, and most importantly she won't keep you warm in the winter

Oh and, you don't need a gf to actually survive.
Even a car has more use than a girl

You're 26, and waiting til you're 30 to get on gear? Are you a fucking pussy? Get on that shit now, your youth is waning fast.