Insecurities Thread

Well youre on Veeky Forums so instead of complaining that youre a short fat fuck you might aswell ask how you can fix yourself.

Seeing as how youre already balding your best bet would be to do a ton of research and jump on steroids as soon as you can. Get them at any cost.

Youre already a freak, might aswell be a savage freak as opposed to a sad freak.

You have to be 18+ to come to fit.

Kek

that's some good terrible advice

Lol made me laugh user, thx

>finally Veeky Forums
>mad girls aren't approaching me left and right in the gym

It's autistic I know

> Seeing as how youre already balding your best bet would be to do a ton of research and jump on steroids as soon as you can

Awesome point. From now on whenever anyone complains about balding I'm gonna use that.

You can only blame yourself for lifting for girls. Lifting won't fix your autism or ugly face.

I'm very "pretty" as a guy and get a lot of attention from girls but

>5'7

If I never went on Veeky Forums I would have never cared

I lift for the hope that nonwhites will be gone someday. Autistically hoping for a free gf is only a side thing

I've been ugly my whole life, have been insulted for my looks, and have always been able to joke about it. Most people who looked like me would be pretty insecure about it

But instead of that, my biggest insecurity has ALWAYS been my lack of friends. It started in high school, and the lack of friends made me avoid wanting to try to get girls or even try to make friends because I did not want them to see me as a loner. This continued into college, because I did not learn how to socialize due to aforementioned friendlessness, and therefore did not want people there to see me without friends as well. And then it has continued into my normal life as well. And on top of all that, being a mid-20s kissless virgin has made me afraid to even try with women due to no experience

Really sucks badly.

This, I'm 5'11 and started caring for a month, then realised that my life is pretty good and it never influenced me in a Bad way.
Keep it up breh.

I'm an /everythinglet/
>manlet
>dicklet
>voicelet
>chinlet
>wristlet
>fingerlet
>footlet
>beardlet

Also I have wide hips, fucked up teeth(the health of them is fine just the shape is bad), horrible eyesight so I need glasses. Because of my insecurity in all of this it stopped me from being social so despite being in my 20's I'm so far behind in development from other people my age. No clue how to make friends, how to meet girls, how to be social at all, etc.

All I have going for me on the positive side is that I have a great hairline/hair genetics but it doesn't even matter at this point.

The better question is probably what am I not insecure about. And the answer to that would be nothing.

>I have gr8 hair netics
Unironically triggered

Good. It's nice that I can make someone else feel as shitty as I am all the time.

Your life sounds like literally hell. You ever think of an heroing?

6'1" 190 lbs fit
7" dick
Thick hair
Konfidant
Smart as fuck

>gyno

Thanks god, thanks alot

>lose weight
>beards are for faggots
>lift and eat
>shave head/wear hats
>deal with being short much easier because confident in other ways
There. Fixed your life. Now fuck off and make it happen

>beards are for faggots
Ill look like an even bigger faggot if Im bald without a beard

Itfb. I am decent at socialising with others in class at work and shit, but I just can't connect too people on a more personal level. All of my former friends have pretty much stopped talking to me, and every time I make a new friend they eventually stop talking to me become they realize something is wrong.

Autism is a curse

>big nose

MAYBE ill get a rhino but idk. it looks pretty masculine so maybe ill grow into it more (only 21)

thats about it

>5'11.5" king of manlets
>lazy eye
>thin wrists
>wide hips
>balding
>can't drive

you're literally fine, post pic for affirmation if necessary

my roommate in college was like that. Dude still got laid. Its a fucking mindset, dude

>5'6
>Glossitis
>Uninteresting and unapealing personality (working on it)
>Raging porn addict for over 10 years (Trying to have it under control)

>acne

>one chance at life
> 172cm

>5'8"
>significant chest gap
>massive stretch marks on biceps, chest, and groin
>social ineptitude

>5'5
>obese
>dicklet grower
>get winded easy
>can't follow through the running and give in when it gets tough
>Have some social skills but it really takes a toll on me
>NEET

So many manlets.

>10 years
just stop you fuck

shut up you lanky cunt

THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING 5'6" OKAY

>6'2

not even kidding, wish I were 3-4 inches taller

>5'6 manlet :)
>fall in love easily
>little autism talking to grills
>still thinking about ex that i broke with two years ago
At least i'm Veeky Forums and have a beard! Dunno why grills love beards nowadays

>shit personality
>boring first impressions
>emotionless around others
>forehead is a bit big
>moles
>shit skin
>look above average in rl but in every picture I take I go from a 7/10 to a 5/10

At least I'm 6' 1" with blonde hair and blue eyes.

>forehead is a bit big

Yup, plus my boring ass haircut I haven't changed since I was 12

Girls don't approach hot guys

They also don't approach ugly ones

>balding

It's weird, I have shitty hair days and sometimes I'll be really insecure, while other times I won't even give a shit.

Some days I say fuck I'm gonna shave this soon, and other days I think, no way!

I sweat like its 40 degrees Celsius around people even when its cold af.

Sucks so hard

>6'
>Fat
>Really fat
>I have breasts fat
>Haven't taken my shirt off outside in almost a decade

Do I have any hope? I've been losing some weight but I'm just worried I've gone beyond the point of return.

>5'11.75 king of kings, did something right
>am a loner, don't like being alone
>parents and their co workers tell me that I am handsome
>did cross country in college, chosen best abs on team after the previous holder left
>have caught girls looking at me: once at adonis belt right after a run, once at my bicep while resting chin on hand in class
>had female bully right at the beginning of puberty
>am fucking terrified of femalse because of it
>was barely able to figure out how to talk to them normally in high school, much less hit on them or make moves
>asked my crush out in high school. she gets tired of my shit because I am clingy (told me so)
>for years later in college tell crush (different person) I like her because peer pressure
>she also tires of my shit
"you get attached to anyone who gives you attention"
>she's completely right. drunk, but completely right. I'm completely useless with women
>graduate with a useless degree, no skills, clinical depression, and a single gray hair
>never going to go out of my way to talk to women (really anyone at all), much less tell them how I feel
>people telling me how handsome I look juxtaposed with my comical ineptitude with women fills me with self loathing
>vidya/picking things up can only do so much

I've enrolled at the local community college hoping to get into their nursing program. I've long since stopped seeing my therapist and taking medication (Wellbutrin). The dark thoughts haven't gone away though. I still wish terrible things upon myself. Will it ever stop? Does anyone know? I hope none of you get depression. It can really ruin things for you and those near you

>Dunno why grills love beards nowadays

Rare phenotype. Same reason blue eyes are interesting amongst a sea of brown eyes

>5'7
>very fit
>skinny wrists
>social anxiety
>don't go out at all unless extremely necessary
>hate communication with people and if forced to do so will start to shake and forget words
>never finished school because of it
>never sought help because of it and the shame of what i have become
>depression getting worse by the day
>turning 31 soon
>never had a job
>don't have a drivers licence
>thinking about suicide every day

could be worse OP, you could be me

>6'0
>5.5 inch wrists (14 cm)
>baby hands
>baby ankles
>due to this my skeletal frame and muscles have always been naturally small

At least when I get big i'll look even bigger in comparison r-right guys

Literally what the fuck.

>Tfw 6'0 and 6.5" dick

Manlet
Fat cheeks, tiny chin
Bald (no ing, just bald)
Eyes too far apart
Neanderthal brow
Acne despite being 23
Fatfuck forearms no matter how skinny the rest of me is
Wide hips, wide waist (thank God my lats aren't too bad)
My butt is shaped like Hank hills but blown up to normal size
Dicklet AND ED

>fat(working on it, currently 225)
>5'11"
>held hands on a date and got so nervous i made up an excuse and left
>useless degree
>anime nerd
>spends too much time on FB/reddit/4chin
>untreated ADHD, doing anything that im not interested in can be literally painful

how did you even get a date in the first place if you can't even hold hands?

Dunno. Holding hands on the first date just seemed so...fast

Did Wellbutrin do anything for you? I'm currently on 500mg and idk if it's working. People say I'm more social than i was, but i still feel very apathetic towards everything. Been on it for ~4 months and am just wondering if one day i will wake up and feel happy, or if this is as good as it gets. I'm running out of meds too. I have about half a month left and i recently lost my insurance. So I'm debating on whether or not to try and get another rx or just submit to whatver i was before.

>People say I'm more social than i was

I was told this too, but I still felt like shit inside. idk what to tell you. I wish I could help. I personally feel meds are a waste of time and a psychologist is more worth the money. But, they are harder because they will tell you how to change the way you think. This only got me so far, as in I don't think about how shitty/useless I am all the time. Only some of the time

>being able to get a date

I envy you so fucking much

This describes me completely. Luckily most of my friends are autistic and we can all go months without speaking then pick up were we left off again.

It was a Danish dude from an /soc/ area code meet up thread... I never even posted a pic, I was just that desperate lol

Also on Welbutrin currently on 150mg and didn't feel like it did much. Told psychiatrist and she said started taking two. It helped a bit but holy shit every day between 4-7pm I'd feel like pic related and it was unpleasant. I'd also wake up with random panic attacks. But those were weird in which my mind was totally calm, just my body was freaking out.

>All these manlets
>I'm a woman and 5'7

Should I be self concious about my height for real? And how come you guys are so short? Are you all Asian? Scandi master race reporting in.

I'm a woman and 6'3. KY womanlet

I NEED TO GAIN WEIGHT AND IT CANT BE DONE HELP ME

you're 5'11 though

damn bro, take these dubs as a gift

>5'11.784"
>one eye
>born without luck

Have you tried not being a huge faggot?

>one chance at life
>5'5"

h-heh thanks mom..

>6ft
>good frame, making progress on getting Veeky Forums
>can quickly grow a beard
>good jawline, qt eyes
>no friends
>no gf
>too shy to talk to women
>scared of rejection, probably because my Mother abandonded me as a child
>bit of a cunt desu, I normally piss people off because I'm too crude/cynical/honest, whatever, I'm not even sure

Doesn't matter how you look user, if you're broken on the inside you're still ugly and unaprochable to everyone

I've got loads of insecurities but the main one is my wide hips and my legs which are too big for my body

I'll never be aesthetic

Youve never gone past the point of no return when it comes to weight user. Literally doesnt exist. You can lose weight at any time.

Spinal cord injury

I was dating a THICC blonde, deaf girl who ran off with a DYEL bogan. He is taller than me, and likes off-roading. This happened while I was away for work.

She deleted, blocked, or changed every means of contacting me. So yeah, I guess I'm pretty insecure about that.

Also, girls who are more sexually experienced than myself. Fuck those cunts

Just gonna man up and do it. I used have extreme social anxiety (Will literally stand near my door for 10 mins, because I might have to talk to someone) and the only way I really fixed it was through experience.

I got a volunteering gig at a small, local charity shop which raises money for kids with severe autism (top kek) and I was basically forced to interact with my coworkers. I started out shy and very quiet and over time talked more and more.

By the time I was leaving for UNI I had gotten a girlfriend (another worker), yeah she was a 5/10 looks wise but she had an amazing personality and let me dominate.

I never would have managed to eat my spaghetti instead of dropping it if I hadnt been forced to interact with people.

Go out, join a club, try out tons of hobbies. So much easier to talk to people when you are also doing something.

two of those you can always change you fuck

screwed up the already shitty self loathing thread

bad points
>im 5'9 so always trying to squeeze up to 5'10
>yellowed teeth that are dark with poor lighting which is always in northern europe
>always got fat abs
>teeth are slanting to one side
>face is slanting, unsymmetrical and poorly balanced, cheek is high near my eye at one side and drooping down low at the other, cant close my teeth at the right side but theyre always closed at the left side
>always thinking about my jaw and paranoid about pulling a strange face and tense my face always
>havnt got laid in 2.5 years and often get called ugly in social circles by girls

good points
>car license, own car
>have degree and job
>can afford rent and a mortgage soon

>8" dick
>but 5'7, ugly and lack the ability to talk to people
sometimes i think the wasted potential is more painful than if i was just a dicklet on top of everything

I don't really have any bigger insecurities aside from my oily/red/acne prone skin.

I have good blue eyes, good eyebrows, girls in HS always used to compliment me on them, good hair and beard genetics, well shaped face, etc, but its all useless when you have a oily red face skin so no matter how pretty you are this it will always put you into a -3 on the scale.

Well I'm still 21 so hoping it will clear up by 25.

Good to know this is what I have to look forward to except I do have a driver's license.

Get a job then

Mentally unstable

>good height
>ideal frame
>nice face
>meh hair
>meh teeth
>meh jaw
>nice chin
>smile holes
>fit
>mentally rekt

>I have only slept with 4 women total and hooked up with maybe a dozen more (blowjobs but no sex), my girlfriend has been with 6 guys total. Not sure why this bothers me so much but it does
>Despite being attractive, I resent how easily women can attract men and have sexual experiences, meanwhile I tend to have to be on my A-game to get laid by a decent looking chick
>All a woman has to do is show that she is sexually available and she gets a ton of attention

I JUST WANT MORE ATTENTION WITHOUT HAVING TO ASK OR BEG FOR IT, OKAY??

> 6'0
> white
> 200 lbs 10% fat
> 7.2" wrist
> 7" dick
> model
> decent hairline
> in one of top unis of country

Autistic as fuck, permavirgin.

I'm Mexican;-; pls love me its not my fault

>thin hair
>asymmetrical face
>not skinny and petite (5'2" and 130 lbs)
>huge thighs and arms
>small breasts
>bad posture
>insecure
>doesn't know how to socialize
>anxious
>whiny

Same here dude

>Can't break up with my gf of 6 years
>Met a wonderful girl a year back
>We fell in love
>Too much of a coward to break up with gf
>Relationship has been stagnating for 2 years despite effort
I'm weak

iktfb, my dads side of the family is legit spanish and theyre 5'10 even some 6'0+ guys in the distant lineage
He married a mestizah mexigurl form mexico whos 5'4
im 5'6/5/7 kill me.

Know this feel bro.

>5'6
>125 skelly
>shitty skin
>have Thom Yorke eye
>shaky voice
>5.7 inch dick
>flakey hair
>can't make eye contact
>shy around pretty girls
>constantly falling in love with every girl that shows me attention

kill me senpai

>>have Thom Yorke eye
pic

n-no I'm too insecure. I hate taking pics of myself. Fucking wish I was better looking. I get jealous when I see people taking selfies.

I bet the diet is sub optimal.