Okay Veeky Forums, I need your help

Okay Veeky Forums, I need your help.
I'm a 23yo guy who's been banging young insecure girls since he was 14.
I'm usually interested in them for a couple of weeks, then i get bored and I have to dump them.
I never cared pretty much for anyone, but this time I found my nemesis.
This girl is basically me, especially emotional-wise, meaning that she's able to get an upper hand on me and whenever I let her do that I feel used and unappreciated. I can't keep it this way.
I'd love to date her for a long time, but I feel like it's not gonna last because we're always trying to slam each other to the ground.

So, I have to fuck her with all the strenght I've got and leave her immediately.
But there's a problem.

I'm usually good in bed, I have strenght and stamina, but as soon as I get even a little anxious, I lose my focus and I nut within a minute.

>What can I do to focus my mind on something that isn't my dick in her pussy and last at least half an hour?
>Any proven methods to control the urge to cum?

you sound like a fucking neurotic train wreck

take some horny goat weed if you want a bigger boner

that porn star johnny sins (the bald white guy, im sure youve seen his ass) thinks of gore and sick shit to stop him from cumming

Kill yourself

>Thinks of gore
That would make me finish faster

How do I recognize which girls are insecure and lonely and so on easily fall for you?

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>you sound like a fucking neurotic train wreck

I am. That's why I can't handle her

Insecure girls care about looks, vapid romanticism and any aesthetically pleasing concept you can sport or express. The kind of girls you can pick up if you're on the fake 'til you make it path

Get somel l theanine, an amino acid that calms you down found in green thea. Helps my add but I noticed that my dick is less sensitive when I used it once and fapped an hour later.

Combine with caffeine for focused energy without anxiety that coffee usually gives.

that caffeine usually gives*

This is some solid advice, thanks a lot brah

inject tren in your dick vein
4cc

not Veeky Forums related. but if you can just focus on something else you can stave off the nut busting. like after leg day, i can go infinite in bed. just focus on the soreness or something.

Is this /adv/ or your diary? Please fuck off.

You could fuck her for hours and hours, have her texting you for weeks after until you eventually have to block her number, but you'll still remain psychologically unhealthy.

Find true inner strength and nobody will be able to get the upper hand on you ever. I recommend regular cardio and personal development. Learn goal setting tools, they'll help.

>banging girl
>gonna nut too soon
>imagine shoveldog.gif
>get soft
T-thanks Veeky Forums

You're welcome man, I've never used it before sex but I just might tot see how much it affects me. Good luck.

I've been training regularly for three years, I have a nice body and personality but I'm still fucked up.
When I met this girl I thouht that finally I could've found someone that may stay by my side while I tried to find my balance, but she fucked up my head even more.
I've been reading some Kierkegaard lately and I may have found some answers, but It's still not enough

Oh man I know a guy like you. Fuck, I used to be like you. Still am but getting better.

See, you might be deeply lonely on the inside. In that case, don't fuck her. Don't talk to her. Cut her off. She's not good for you.

Also stop sleeping around and stop talking to girls outside of just a platonic level for a bit. Actually take the time to build a healthy, functioning friendship with a couple of them. You'll be surprised by how much better it gets.

Like I said, it's a weak spot of yours, a vulnerability, an Achilles heel. And personally I hate being vulnerable to anything, so I recommend fixing your psychological issues instead of feeding them because that's what you're doing rn

Everything you said it's true and I've also acknowledged it for a long time.
The problem is that if I don't close this thing with an upper hand, I'd be obsessed for years.
I know it by experience, I wasted my last three years after my oneitis just to fuck her and leave after a month and a half.

Do what I did: cut off all connections to that particular individual, and make it an actual goal that you won't fuck anybody this month, or even try to. With that, you can focus on exploring yourself and see where this is coming from.