You in a relationship user? How is it

Who are you quoting?

Awesome i text with her through the day and she asks when i want her to come then we watch netflix and fuck and cuddle afterwards
When she sleeps at my place and i have to get to work earlier than her she cleans my room

There's more to life apart from the dark tunnel you're going through, I'm just a random faggot user, but when I went through my breakup, it was one of the worst pains in my entire life, I was constantly depressed, constant pain, constant shitty thoughts, just shit. It took me 2-3 months at least to start feeling better.

What I'm trying to say is, life gets better no matter where you are.

I'm so fucking glad I stayed the course, my life is now so much better, I couldn't even imagine at that point how much better it can get.

But it never will if you end your journey here. I don't know your situation, so I won't pretend to know what you are going through, but unless you have a terminal disease, it does get better. A lot better. Hang in there through whatever situation you will have to go through and you'll be a better person at the end of it.

You know how it's so annoying how all the good things pass and you want them to last?

There's a good part about that too. It's the same for all the bad things, they pass as well. They're temporary.

No chance. She's a qt shy girl that does nothing besides uni and work, she has 0 friends and doesn't go out to nightclubs

>>sex seems like a chore sometimes
Pretty clear to me

>wanting the guy you've been with since college to remember your birthday is a bad thing

Who hurt you?

>>know deep down that she's the one for me
>when I'm pissed at her sometimes there's a voice screaming in my head to break up with her
>don't really feel that aroused when I look at her anymore
>sex seems like a chore sometimes

M8 you're clearly not attracted anymore to your gf don't be delusional thinking she's "your one" when in fact she is not and you've proben that to yourself.

holy cringe

MOLLY is fucking MCMURPHY while NIGEL studies and MASTURBATES back in England!

It's laid-back and sophisticated, thanks for asking. Going over to his for dinner tonight; he's making soup. Only problem is how much I drink when we're together rather gobbles the gains.. Trying to keep it to only every week or so.

Kekk

Im not and i doubt i ever will again
Id love a relationship, always wanted a family but i dont see a girl worth pursuing or investing any time in
She is going to fuck right off when she gets bored/finds another dude so best case scenario we have a year, maybe two before she replaces me and worst case she makes the time we have together pure hell with nagging and cheating only to end up leaving anyway

I dont see a relationship working out with how women are built and dating is set up these days and it makes me sad because it makes me feel like ill never have something of my own
Ive had relations before so this is where most of my experience comes from

Yes I am in a 4 year relationship with a female.

It is good. She's not the hottest girl in the world, solid 7/10. She genuinely makes my life better and improves me as a person.

Without her I would probably still be in my parents basement working that shitty retail job.

My life is much better with her in it.

Bump

It's pretty great. We don't get to see each other alot because we're both super busy uni students. But we still go on short dates like hour or so lunch dates between classes. Also the sex is fucking amazing.

>Tfw no fap
>tfw school stress
>Tfw gf comes over and we fuck
>It's super fucking intense as all that nofap sexual tension along with the school stress is fucked away.

God it's just fucking amazing

It's ok. She's cute and clever with an amazing ass.
Somehow i'm not quite feeling it 100% though. I dont know, between my last relationship and this one i was single for all of 2 months.
I get hit on quite a bit and while i've never cheated i still get the urge to play the field.
Still, i know i'm an asshole and that it wouldn't make me happier, so i really should be happy with what i've got.

Thanks for the input, dudes.

Dude, no joke, try to rekindle something. Take a few days off and go on some dates/hang out with her. Try to enjoy her company and such.

If you still feel the way you do after that, then you should probably break it off. You don't want to stay with someone you're not attracted too/love

Yeah, it's great. Going on 6 years, she's perfect to me. I've been friends with her since 1st grade and we're each others first everything.

Pretty good this time
>Fell in love with a woman with BPD
>Everything goes good for 3 months
>She ghosts me
>Skip a year forward meet her again
>We get together
>Turned out her life turned to shit
>3 months later she's stable again
>She ghosts me
>Happens 2 more times
>Every time we get together her life is shit and she feels like shit. And by the time she leaves me she's happy and stable.
>Dont give a fuck since the times when we are together are the best times of my life.
>Not even heartbroken or mad when she ghosts
>Date, have gfs and sleep around when she is gone. She's probably doing the same though.
>Tells me she leaves because she doesn't deserve me and doesn't want to hurt me in the hell she calls her life.
>I'm the only one she's stable with and her family just loves me.
>4 months ago she contacted me
>She had been in therapy for 4 months and wanted to contact me sooner but didn't dare to.
>Ask to meetup
>Tells me she ghosts me every time because she's afraid I'll hurt her since I stabilize her and give her a feeling she is loved and loves. She can't handle that shit.
>Back together, she's still in therapy and we're going to move in together next month.

For all the haters that will call me a cuck, I don't care. I've fucked and been with enough women and not one relationship or lay was as satisfying, fun and great as the ones with her. I knew from the first time I saw her that she was the one I'd end up with. This might not even be the last time she disappears, aslong as she doesn't cheat or end up pregnant by someone else I dont care. I love her and I always will.

>tfw no gf

>single for all of 2 months
>I get hit on quite a bit
fuck you

Why does she wear the mask?

does she know that you were moulded by the darkness?

Why?
If it's any consolation i was a massive loser up until about 21 when i finally got a haircut and lost my baby fat. Over one summer things turned around completely. Started faking confidence which led to success which in turn led to real confidence. Smooth sailing ever since.

Had no sex or gf in the last 2 years.
Lifting doesnt fix the problem.

Of course it doesn't. As long as your not short or crazy skelly/fat your body is of very little importance. Sure, you muscles might attract some vapid slut but that's not really someone you want as a gf anyways.

I'm in a relationship, it's OK, could be better could be worse. I'm old and I don't think I will be able to find a better girl than her though.

Well I've been talking to this girl in my English class that I matched with on tinder (weird coincidence in a school of 40000 people). We swapped numbers and walk and talk and fuck I haven't jacked off since October I want a fuckbuddy so bad and I have no real plan to make it work other than to hint at her that my favorite shows and movies involve characters with fuckbuddies and imply that I identify with the guy that gets the fuckbuddy and she could be the girl and maybe idk go hangout at hers and bring some wine and get us sloshed then just risk it all but text her the next day after fuckin something like "oh I don't wanna hurt you but I had so much fun what can we do about this???" Which I guess translates to "please fuck me regularly but don't be my gf" but idk I've never done it before. I don't have time for a gf. I just wanna go to class, read my books, fish, and fuck somebody but shit if I fuck up she sits right next to me in that small class of 20 people

Jesus christ dude use periods. Your shit is unreadable.

Goddamnit anons. How?

How do you achieve winning the trust and love of the human female.

Genuinely autistic in this field

be confident
be nice
be funny (not very difficult, since women have a shitty sense of humor
be dominant in bed

You don't get to bring girlfriends

"or so she says..." said the increasingly nervous Englishman for the fifth time to himself.

expensive

Ah, well if she's X, Y, and Z then clearly she won't cuck you. Every other dude in a long distance relationship who got cucked just didn't have a girl as shy and cute as you do.

ask ur mum

LOL U FUKIN GOT REKT FAG

Mad

You forgot the most important thing of all: have money.

You could be the most confident, nice, funny, attractive, dominant in bed with above-average penis, etc.

But if you're a NEET with no money who lives at his mom's house with no car or cell-phone, or if you're homeless, then you're not getting any sex at all.

You need money, financial security is by far the thing that women are attracted to most.

>been talking to this girl in my English class

He obviously doesn't pay attention in his English class.

It's good. I fixed my broken dick with a few weeks of noporn + l argenine.

The problem is I want to fuck someone else now. It's been 3 years. I am a bit bored. The problem is I doubt I'll find someone this well suited to me. She's basically perfect for me. I just want more pussy variety.

Have any of you successfully cucked your gf? The ideal scenario would be to have both of them at once but I'l be completely satisfied if she just let me fuck random thiccies on tinder. Any tips appreciated.

>financial security is by far the thing that women are attracted to most.
This might be true but youre forgetting how you

>You forgot the most important thing of all
Having money is the most important thing but its ONE of the things, you need looks, money, charm and well everything atleast at average levels if you want a girl

>You forgot the most important thing of all: have money.
You make it sound like you need to be rich to get a nice gf, which is not the case. Sure, you can't be poor or living with your mom but that's nothing weird. Who the fuck would want to live with a man child.
Also, plenty of hot women date loser artist types with no financial security.

Not true. You can get heaps of girls with nothing but money. Also it's basically impossible to have money and no friends.

Wasnt that guy Elliot Roger from money?
Money isnt a sure fire, girls are spoiled these days because there are so many quality guys looking to score who raise the bar you cant get by with just one thing

Lol I don't know what you think qualifies as quality but i think most guys are pretty autistic, ugly or beta. I'm very happy with the amount of competition in my marketplace right now.

Im 6'1'', good looking, educated and fit but im middle tier at my market place
There are tons of quality dudes but next to no single girls to approach

>My fiance and I are doing pretty good for the most part.
>He is from Quebec and me in the US and we met online
>would visit each other's country every 7 or so months.
>The only bad things about it is yeah he lives in another country and wants to move here but having cold feet about programmer jobs here
>And is pretty dickish when on his ADHD pills
>We don't really have Skype sex since he has a hand/glove fetish, slowly he is liking pussy
>Real life sex is very meh, never came in me and selfish on getting blow and handjob with gloves since vaginas are gross and slimy
>I give more in sex and get hardly nothing back
>He is more on cuddles than sex to begin with even though sex bonds fucking people
>We are planning to get married but I also want a happy sex life

>You make it sound like you need to be rich to get a nice gf,

You need to have AT LEAST a wageslave job (fast food, retail, etc.), and if you're only making near minimum-wage you need to compensate with looks.

>Who the fuck would want to live with a man child.

No one, that's my point, even if they're a very attractive muscular man-child, no female will ever be with you long-term unless you have money.

>Also, plenty of hot women date loser artist types with no financial security.

They probably are producing some level of money, might have a part-time job or produce a little money with their "art". I agree this is something that tricks stupid females ("stupid females" is redundant).

Where do you live? Come to NZ everyone is a drunk tradesman lol. And we still have heaps of hotties.

reminder:

duck out if the compromises make you miserable. duck out if you get miserable. duck out if it just makes you uncomfortable.

the goal is not to force a relationship to keep going. its to find a relationship worth keeping.

there is literally no benefit to frankensteining a relationship other than possibly sex, but you're better off withotu it if it isn't working.

emjoy the relationship for as long as you can. and if it goes south, leave, cuz all you're doing is preventing yourself from finding the good one that might last.

lasting isn't the point, it isn't the goal.

And yeah you have to take the risk of making a high stakes deal with a potentially very unstable person, plus people change. That's life, you can't play all of it safe.

If you're worried about hurting someone, DON'T, because that pain and shame will pass faster than you think but the pain of regret lasts the rest of your life!

Which county?

Sorry, not even american bro
I think its mostly the lack of women that does it, there are maybe 5-10 guys per girl in most places you go here

>>sex life is kind of meh
>don't really feel that aroused when I look at her anymore
>sex seems like a chore sometimes
>know deep down that she's the one for me,
Be more delusional will you. Resigning on a good sex life is dooming your relationship.

for all you unsatisfied anons I'm reading

Yeah that's going to fuck up the supply/demand of any marketplace. Where is this btw? There must be so much rape where you live.

Does that go for meBecause I am all good with this relationship. I just want to fuck other pussies and bumbums lol.

>There must be so much rape where you live.
Funny you should say that because its Sweden
I dont think we have more rape than anyplace else in the world but 99,9% of girls are in relationships when you meet them and talk to em for a few mins and find out most girls in their mid 20s havent been single for a day since they turned 14

Demand for chicks is fucking insane and supply is extremly low, only single chick ive met in a year now was a militant vegan who dressed like a boy and was on a break from her gf

>tfw 34 years old, not fat, and still virgin

It'd great and I'm very happy.

Funny you should ask. At first things were great, thought she was my soul mate, fulfills all my wildest fantasies in the bedroom (for a guy like me that takes some effort) and have the time of our lives together. Fast forward three years. The sex is still pretty good but after we've both had an affair, assaulted one another, destroyed one another's property, and hurt each other in every way that you can imagine, I'm ready to leave. It sucks because we had so much potential, but we're just too fucked up. Just waiting for the right time.

I have friends who are married by choice, not because they have kids. Because they are in the military. Only 22. To me, marriage says "im complete. Im self actualized. I am at equilibrium." I laugh at my friends for the choice. To think you are complete at age 22? To be attatched to someone till you die or divorce at 22? I think they will soon regret their choice. Soon meaning age 33, when they are still young but tired.
Meanwhile ill be off adventuring and experiencing
When the right woman comes, ill know. But for now im just gonna keep developing before i make a stupid committment like marriage at the height of my years

gave me some feels while im shitting senpai

It's physically, mentally, and emotionally draining, but the sex is so goddamned good.

I need to stop this

And then i think, oh maybe they are not complete internally. Maybe their spouse allows them this feeling. So now they either live the rest of their lifes relying on a spouse for completion (aka not complete) or find them selves and realise that they are too young for marriage
Sounds shitty. Desu desu

U fucking turbo cuck have with ur whore gfs demolished vagina ur fuckin life my man how do you sleep knowing ur "love" is such a selfish slut?? Kys yourself

Britty good
Long distance relationship
So I have enough time for gym, studies, friends, other hobbies during the week
I visit her and sometimes she visits me in the weekends
Sex is britty good

Only negative is that it seems like her relationship with me is the only 'great' thing in her life
>2 months together
>Talks about shit for the future like living together
>''I love you''
>''I miss you'' everyday
>No real hobbies or interests
It's not bad it's just I don't have to do shit for it

>8 year relationship
>Engaged
>She is pregnant with 3rd kid
>She can't cook, cleans OK but does laundry and just leaves it in baskets
>I do all the cooking
>I'm trying to loose weight but she still wants to eat like shit.
>Would be easier if I could keep shit like chips and cookies out of the house but I feel like I'm on playing the weight loss game on hard mode.
>She doesn't really support me positively at the gym. Example: she gives me shit if I want to go to the gym at night.
>Sex is between OK to great though since she's been pregnant there has been none
> She would look a lot better if she dieted and exercised but is lazy bitch who wants to sit on the couch on her days off

Going good, having first kid now.

FFS, don't settle for third-rate sex. You don't have time for that

>you proposed to her

yeah you're retarded and have no right to complain

>So now they either live the rest of their lifes relying on a spouse for completion (aka not complete)

That's what they mean by "I'm complete", as in "She/He completes me", stupid. It may be cheesy stupid bullshit, but you're also stupid for not understanding it.

>since she's been pregnant there has been none

This is the only thing that's a problem.

I want to have sex every day, once a week is a deal-breaker for me, and finding a woman with this kind of sex drive who isn't a complete trainwreck slut is impossible.

If women had the same sex drive as men civilization would have already been destroyed much sooner though.

Therapistfag here. You need to know some stuff user. I'm happy treatment is working, but it takes a long time...

Sounds like what she's been doing is "splitting"...this is a feature of BPD where they swing back and forth from under valuing you to over valuing you. You're perfect...then your satan. It's hell! She also probably has a trauma history, my professors used to say BPD people are "emotional burn victims"....ALL FEELS HURT them. Just so you know what your getting into. You shud ask her to let u come to therapy?

user you don't understand.the feels don't go away, no matter how successful you may seem to other people.

I feel like I'm living in some fantasy power-couple paradise.

>We work together
>We then go work out together
>We record a podcast together
>We play vidya together
>We write stories and scripts together
>We help each other out in the garden
>We make songs and music together
But we don't live together. Heh.

We've been together 3 years and never fight, us working at the same place has never been a problem, we get along like best friends and lovers, and we're always trying to better ourselves and work on creative endeavors together. I feel lucky.