Found out from my girl's Instagram that apparently she's been training at her university's gym with one of her...

Why the fuck are you following what your ex does

If he is helping her with form he is touching her. It is only a matter of time before that mildly intimate touching leads to a crush and then you are screwed. Maybe you should start training with her and become more involved otherwise you are on a non-stop express to cucksville.

If she's too dumb put herself in your shoes and see how this feels, you gotta go

/thread

Best advice I can give is dump her and move on. If she doesn't tell you she's training with him, it's because she doesn't want you to know. She will dump you the moment he makes a move. Get rid of her now.

I'll second this.

Watch this op. It's you right now.

youtube.com/watch?v=GvttgV0vL90

You're fukt, m8.

Also watch this

youtube.com/watch?v=9aofoBrFNdg

Sorry user. I'm about to start cucking some guy because she wants me to take his gf to the gym to make her butt bigger and says I can do it for her.

rip

The good news is that you don't have to worry about his balls slapping against her too much because his dick hangs lower than his balls.

Bad news is his dick was unaffected by roids. He's still going to fuck the absolute shit out of her

She sees her classmate as more alpha than you. Perhaps the only reason she's still with you is because he has a gf but that doesn't mean he is not fucking her at the moment.

Ask yourself why she's asking another man for workout advice and not you.

>they're fucking

This. So much this.

Every righteous bone in my body doesn't want it to be true but my heart knows it is.

Either put an end to their "pointers" or end it with her. I detest ultimatums but they serve a purpose. If she really wants to be with you she'll be nonchalant but caring about your concerns and leave him alone.

>inb4 femanon say otherwise

The only real solution:

> hop on roids
> train in her gym with her
> mark your territory

This OP, it's not so much that she's training with Chad, though that's an issue, it's the fact she tried to hide shit from you. She didn't want you to see for a reason.

When girls think they got hotter they immediately try to "upgrade".

Are you working out and improving every day?

Because "your" girl will quickly find someone who is.

>cardio
>helping her with her form for "cardio"

Holly shit my sides

>when girl got hotter they try to "upgrade"

Why don't you stop with the bullshit?
Also you must have such a low consideration for yourself if you think that if someone is more jacked than you then it's automatically an upgrade compared to you, that's what makes you a cuck.
Problem in this relationship is at the ground for lack of communication: there is no fucking way she didn't ever tell you about this. Speak to her and solve the problem, if she doesn't understand drop her

>it's automatically an upgrade compared to you
yeah this is way wrong!
Girls can upgrade to guys who are DYEL as well, its not about looks alone
But girls are always looking to upgrade though but its not always to the juicy 6'1'' guy

Start roiding and beat him up

Found the guy who doesn't lift

He is right though
Sometimes girls just want attention and if they get it from some dude it´s an upgrade over their current one who works out 5days/week

He said when girls get hotter. Not all females all the time.

>he's right
You mean "I'm right" samefag

Then it´s incorrect.
All girls are always looking to upgrade

I got cheated on when my gf went for a 5'6 balding numale cuck with bad teeth and no job.

Sometimes women are just fucked

SHOCKING!

Pics of gf and jacked guy.

Is he hot? Would you suck his dick user? If so then she probably has already.

>its not about looks alone
yeah m80 you're right, it's only 99% of it! the other 1% is basically not acting autistic.

It sounds like you and "your" girl need to have a serious talk.

Sorry man. There are better ones out there.

I would start cheating so u could keep my ego intact

I'm not, the only reason I know is because a mutual friend told me she was engaged since she knows we used to date. I also see her at the gym occasionally when I got back home

>be me on some machine
>ex and her personal trainer are there, once again moving their entire workout to lift right in front of me to make me jealous I think?
>not sure what her end goal is
>all I know is she's still bitter as fuck I dumped her two years ago
>they walk away together to the next machine
>reflect on the fact that her boyfriend lets her workout with another man
>wonder if he's a cuck or if maybe they actually do have that much love and trust in their relationship
>look at ex and trainer walking away
>he puts his arm around her shoulder while walking
>moves it down to her waist/side and rubs up and down a few times
>finishes by patting her ass a couple times
>burst out fucking laughing
>she dumps her bf a month later
She also made daily posts about how in love with her bf she was, no idea how he didn't see it from miles away

Sorry, mate. On to the next one.

Confront Chad, period

Tell chad to fuck off, hell tell your girl, and if your girl gets angry and shit there was mutual attraction and theres nothing you could do about it bro

give him a good beating atleast

Self reminder to never bring up a relationship on this board

>Confront Chad, period

So he and your soon to be ex-girlfriend can laugh at you-

Just cut all contacts with that girl, and start looking for a replacement.

when was the last time you two had sex?

wait how does posting abt how much she loves her bf imply she's going to dump him?

Go and train with her

A lot of girls actually have sexual fantasies about fucking their personal trainer...

Sorry OP but I would ask my girl to stop seeing him. A little jealousy is a healthy thing, it shows you care and girls like their men to show a little possessiveness. She might just be doing it so you give her more attention.

In any case, you HAVE to say something to her again along the lines of "stop seeing him.". How would she feel if you were doing stretching and yoga classes with a tight bodied cute yoga instructor? Think your gf would be a little jealous? Matter of fact you should go sign up w the hottest yoga instructor you can find.

AND your gf is posting that shit on Instagram! How autistic can you fucking be, posting pics of another dude when you have a boyfriend

>you should go sign up w the hottest yoga instructor you can find.
desu he should be doing that anyway

So You found out through her ig? Looks like she hid it from you. I dunno dude, seems pretty fucked at this point. Do something, don't let it happen like you hadn't seen it coming and act like an idiot when she dumps you for him. I'd say fuck him up, dump her.

Why is Chad helping her and not you, dingus?

This, jesus fuck I can't believe how insecure everyone on this board is. Do you actually get jealous from another guy talking to your gf?

OP, how long have you been with her? Do you not trust her?

She's probably fucking him, and f not she's at the very least thinking of it often.

Time for an upgrade user.

This seems risky but seems to be the most alpha option

Eh if you routinely ask her how her day has been and whatnot and she intentionally avoids telling you, and it's not because she found your hidden Veeky Forums girl folder and simply wants to become that for you, then yea maybe some concern.
You could always ask to go with her, ask the guy to show you how to leg curl, and load it as heavy as possible. Then just pull his pants down, take your mount, and establish dominance in front of your girlfriend, can't fail.

If you told her not to see him you will come across as insecure.

If you confront her and don't follow up you will seem like a passive loser who lets his girl run wild. The kind of guy who would stay with her even after she cheat(s)

If you don't do anything you will be seen as a cuck to the rest of the world and your social groups.

I would recommend cheating on her and focusing on finding new attractive people to hang out around. Be nice to her and treat her like normal, but slowly ghost on her and show her that you don't need her.

t. a previous beta loser who got cheated on but now I do the cheating

Also, watch how people interact with each other at the gym. Are you cool with Chad "spotting" your girl while she squats, with his arms wrapped around her torso and cock up against her back? Are you cool with them giving each other hugs while sweaty and wearing nothing but a sports bra and leggings? Are you cool with it when she gets cold and her nipples show through the sports bra, and Chad jokes about knowing what her boobs look like?

This.

Damn son, hurts just reading it.

>cervixs gettin bruised day in day out

And when she feels frisky

>colons gettin MURDERED day in day out

And when she feels submissive

>pharynxs getting fucked up so hard even the cervicals getting chipped

THIS

Definitely this, it's over user.

Not the poster, but it's basically like how people with low self esteem are bullies. They try to make it look like everything is fine in dandy to everyone in an attempt to convince themselves that it's true.

Those may be her intentions, but hey aren't his haha

and you know it

Post pic of your gf OP so we can tell if there is anything worry about or not, for all we know she could be a land whale.

>fine in dandy
>In
It's fine AND dandy.

>university

OP dump her and move on. Enjoy your Y O U T H

I think it's just man psychology to need to get something out of providing time and effort. If the 'Chad' in OPs story got confronted by some frumpy fat girl in his class and asked him to workout together do you think he would just out of the kindness of his heart and the gift of spreading knowledge? fuck no, that's never happened. But he was probably talking to her in class already and she noticed he works out a lot and goes "hehe I want to work out but I'm nervous going alone and don't know what I'm doing." He then gets to hang out with some hottie after class and watch her squat down in skin-tight sexy yoga pants and touch her inner-thigh instructing her to "Push her knees out" hehe. Guys don't just hang out with girls for fun, he obviously is trying to fuck her.

Listen to user OP, don't kid yourself. The simplest answer is usually the correct one. You should start snooping or just ask her if you've asserted your dominance in the relationship already

KEK the look he gives him after he says I wish kills me every time

The fact that she didn't come out and tell you herself is the biggest red flag. She's a dishonest flirt at best.

Holy shit it's Chad

Man is animalistic in our needs and wants. It's cucks and betas like OP who fail to realize what Chad's true goal is even if he comes off as just a "nice guy".

Fuck him in the ass to assert dominance and solve whatever problem might be happening or in your head.

Not whoever you were talking to but...

Do you really think that OKCupid is comparable to the real world? I mean the fucking girls on OKCupid are just as desperate as the guys at that point and of course they are going to flock to the hot guys because they've probably never talked to one in their life.

I'm not fucking hot and I use to be un/fit/ and I've pulled several hot ass girls from really hot guys because of how fucking bored they were with them. Personality does matter.. a lot. I'm thankful for my personality because I'm definitely mediocre in the looks department

also to OP,

The easiest way to do this is find a girl to date before you break up with your current girlfriend, so once you break up you can transition to the other one. Not the manliest way to do it but in this case your gf is being a cunt.

he's fucking the shit out of your girl 100%

Too bad you aren't rich, then you could just pay some spics to break his kneecaps.

cuck