Feels thread

My oneitis friendzoned me because i got needy and strung me along for 2 months while fucking her ex

I was the rebound guy and had her super into me and Now shes gone and i cant stop obsessing over it

When will the betaness stop fuck

>my oneitis
>when will this betaness stop

You kinda answered your own question. You're suffering from oneitis. The cure is to get infatuated with another girl to pine over. Works wonders and you get over her really quickly.

With all these feels its so hard to spark up another girl because i feel like i invested so much into his one, had her chasing me for months at the start and i miss all of that

She was 18 and a virgin only to go back and lose it to her ex when it was right in front of my face and i didnt take the opportunity, and shes hot as fuck.

Your mind is your worst enemy i swear, the anxiety i get from it crushes my soul

"The cure is to get infatuated with another girl"

That wont cure shit. You'll still have oneitis, just with another girl in mind. Betaness stops when you only care about yourself and taking women for what they are.

I actually started doing that when I became Veeky Forums

When a girl sends me unsolicited nudes, I'll reply with "lol" or the address of a local breast cancer clinic. Or if I'm with another girl at the time, I snapchat the girl who sent the nude a pic of me and the other girl kissing.

are you me?

Its the worst feeling in the world, losing sleep over it its pathetic but i cant stop overthinking it. Had her in the palm of my hand and i fucked it up because im insecure but know im attractive. Fuck me

And the fact that now shes unobtainable makes it all that much worse. This shit cut deep idk if ill ever trust a girl again im convinced 99% of girls are hoes

WORK HARDER WHINNING BITCH

My god dude, get over it. You weren't even actually in a relationship with this girl? I can't imagine if a girl left you after a couple of years. You would probably commit harakiri huh?

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You cant possibly understand this. I am in a similar situation to OP. Girl is all over me, calls me at nighttime, comes over to my place etc etc, and STILL I am to beta to make a move.
26y/o kisless virgin here btw.
This was my chance, and I fucked it up. Shame on me

Oneitis sucks. It literally infiltrates your mind, and its the only thing you can think about. You're living a "woe is me" lifestyle. Life will always throw curveballs at you. Always. Learn now from this petty shit like women ordeals before something serious punches you in your ballsack and you really have to wake up then. Realize women are walking sex objects. I dont care what anyone says. Women have power because they are in demand. For what? For sex. Simple as that. Its the only way they can derive confidence for themselves is when they know they are in demand, because why? Men want to fuck them. Realize this now. Maybe you'll find some out of the blue amazing girl who you can trust and shit but right now, as a young male trying to make it. Forget about it. Just maintain focus on yourself and use this as fuel to show the people that doubted you, slept on you, thought you weren't the cream of the crop that you are. Fuck everybody and focus entirely on yourself. Lift, Read, better yourself. Stop thinking you're a victim and that you'll never ever find a girl. Theres tons of roasties out there. If anything, find some fuckbuddy off a dating app and fuck her till you become numb to the other bitch and then put yourself back on the market.

I run into her in the college gym 2-3 times a week, how should i act towards her. Just treat her like a friend?

She was ice cold when she knew i was finally hooked, by playing games and stringing me along just for the attention, i feel used

As long as you guys weren't official it's good my nigga, it will get better. Use the feels as fuel for your journey brah, atleast you almost had a virgin.

Just go man ffs

My mom doesn't care about my gains. I tell her how to make my dinner to fit my macros to the tee. But she sometimes cooks something different because "she thought I would like something different" or "delicious". How do you handle parents not supporting your Veeky Forums lifestyle?

I'd like to also know. I've been a good boi and not eating garbage and eating a lot less than I'm accustomed to. But apparently I'm starving myself. Did lose 17 pounds in a month though.

I'm not the OP. But you're right. Time to be a complete savage. People taken advantage of me most of my life. I'm coming in turns the whole "treat others how you like to be treated" or the "look out for your fellow man" hippie bullshit is all a lie.

I'm turning 21 next week and I think a important lesson to learn when you are becoming a man is that in the real world, All people really care about is what they can get out of you. A funny thing I've noticed is that people act all offended or upset when you are not going out of your way to help them with their own petty problems anymore. Constantly asking why I'm "so aggressive" or "whats wrong?". Looks like not being a little bitch and standing up for yourself is a cause for concern. People start treating you better and show more respect after you been lifting for months and years and look ripped. Why is that? Because you dont look like a pushover anymore. Doesnt matter that you are still the exact same person. The world is petty and dont care about your good character or any of that shit. Stop being a little bitch. People who you thought were friends will hate you for "changing" but those aint actual friends just people that wanted something out of you.

Im going to stop worrying about others and focus on my self and my goals only.

have given up on girls, don't need them. If I want a kid I can get a surrogate mother or something

tell her what you want for dinner every day, don't leave it up to her or to chance. Your mom is just trying to be good to you, appreciate that she cooks for you, one day she will be dead and you will be alone

>Just go outside, be urself, lol, you will get better
>Go outside
>Have a panic attack
>Proceed to fuck everything up
>Someone tripped over my foot and I felt guilty
>Cry on the train home

just ignore her, if you have to interact be straight forward and to the point, but don't be rude, think business

Are you me?
>friends invite me to go out with them
>fuck I could use some socialising
>hot girls everywhere
>anxiety overload decide to stay near friends grab a beer force a smile pretending to have a good time
>girl starts walking past our group somehow manages to trip over my foot
>dagger eyes
>starts screaming something crazy
>can barely hear her the music is too loud
>turn back towards friends everyone thinks I knocked some random girl over on purpose
>go home and don't get laid for at least 4 months

No
The only reason I go outside is to go the the cinema alone.

That's nothing! One time in some club a moron had put their beer glass on the floor and I stepped on the top edge of it sending the glass and beer flying everywhere.

>24
>been in college for 6 years now
>still a fucking junior
>did part time, dropped and failed a few classes
>passing 2/4 of my classes
>hate my accounting major
>not sure what I want to do with my life
>still very behind in my classes
>trying to finish school so I can get a better job to help my mom
>whole family is having money problems
>all my friends are moving on with their lives
>no gf ever

I'm taking 2 classes right now and I'm probably gonna fail both. I really don't know what I want to do with my life. I thought about leaving my retail job and get an entry lvl admin job. I don't know if I want to do that for the rest of my life, but at least that job will give me more opportunities, right?

Why the fuck does she still like him? He fucking rejected her and moved on, I've been waiting for 2 months and she still likes him, right when I think its over she hops to the next fucking guy. I shouldn't give a shit about her but I fucking do, and I just want her to like me. She says if I ever cut her off she'd be really depressed but I just want her to fucking love me damnit.
How much do I need to deadlift to win her over Veeky Forums?

Have you actually told her about your feels for her? If you have and she still doesn't see you that way then you gotta move on. Sorry bro

But hey
at least you didn't fall in love with your lesbian classmate that now lives in another state.

You need to find another girl, make her jealous then rub it in her face and cut her off.

Join the military, navy or air force

You'll make good money and get a sense of direction in life
If your already Veeky Forums then it helps a lot

Thats rough, sorry bro
I haven't gone in depth about my feelings.... I plan to soon today
She sees me with other girls all the time, she even makes jokes about me fucking them but it doesn't work

Consider this. But do not be mistaken that it will for sure give you a sense of direction in life. You may just as aimless when you leave the military as you were before.

>focusing on women
Never gonna make it

Trust no bitch ever

>Fuck everybody and focus entirely on yourself. Lift, Read, better yourself. Stop thinking you're a victim and that you'll never ever find a girl.

This. There will be more opportunities, and it's very likely you will fuck up again op, as long as you can maintain an erection you'll always get another bite.

watch porn and have a fap

trust me it works wonders

It's totally true that people react negatively if you stop being a wimp, best to ignore it.

By the same token don't be a dick for no reason, that's counter-productive.

Neitzche had the right idea.

Don't be a nihilist, seek out adversity because that will make you stronger, don't be a pussy (last man) and form your own values.

>I just want her to like me.

This is the reason she won't.

Sorry.