Virgin

its PIED

i got it too

you gotta do nofap/noporn minimum of 3months

most likely 6 months if you're like me

no its not its because he is on high dose of steroids. contrary to what people believe, long term use of ANY steroid, even just pure testo will fuck up your dick, UNLESS you take proper care of your other hormones (estrogen, prolactin, progesterone, cortisol, etc)

what the fug m8

i had PIED on steroids and off steroids

he could have that deca dick though

its pretty easy to test for that though

do you get rock hard when fapping or not?

if not, its hormones

>>cialis/caber didnt help (im on test deca eq)
No shit you cant get it up, stop roiding fuckface

this. I lost my v's to an escort and it took 3 trys with 3 different girls to orgasm. Now I have to have a few bourbons pre sex to get hour long fuck sessions.

You're a fucking moron.

>can't get hard
>I know I have a porn addiction and I know it's bad
>fuck up relationship because of porn
>go back to fapping 6x a day to porn

You realise you're a fucking dumbass don't you?

How do I go from 0 (zero) female friends to having gf

Hang out with females, get friends to invite females to hang with. Literally just go out?

>Go outside
>Wander aimlessly with no purpose
>Don't get girlfriend

You lied to me.

Everyone has trouble getting hard their first time. But you fucked up by getting on test and all that.

>h-hey Stacy I noticed you were all alone do u want to hang out
>...
>... okay haha bye stacy

Sounds like you're gay bro, don't worry I'm sure there is a buff gym bro out there waiting for you

Actually kekd

Surely you can't be serious

Lol Op when I was a virgin and I was about to lose my virginity, my dick was as hard as a cooked noodle.
I didn't care though, I pushed that rope into the pussy and after like 20 seconds I got diamond hard

Stop watching porn you retard.

Next time, just tell her. And ask her to make a JOI vid. Then while you are ...joiing, she pops out and takes your dick

Guys I have a serious issue and I got nobody else to turn to

14 days no fap but I periodically edged like a retard today, probably 1-2 hours and now my left testicle hurts a bit but I think it's going away now.

Is this blue balls? And if this persists do I have to do the deed and ruin my streak? (I mean it's already kinda ruined anyway)

>now my left testicle hurts a bit but I think it's going away now.

If your left testicle is going away you should see a doctor immediately

I knew my phrasing there would get some flak

You probably have what I had. It's called the "grip of death". It's caused from gripping your dick too tight when jacking off. Try buying a flesh-light (so your dick gets accustom to less friction) and masturbating less (like twice a day if you really can't control yourself).

You're probably fine, maybe stop edging. If the pain persists go to a cock doctor

>cock doctor

a-are you offering?

Yeah prob blue balls. Just blow that nut

No clue what to say to a girl beyond
>hey I thought you looked beautiful could I get your number I'd love to take you out sometime

Tfw no dick trouble but no gf

Guys will I be okay if I don't take drugs and I regularly fap to erotic literature or simply by thinking about stuff?

I can get hard by just flexing my penis until I'm hard.

But I also like porn and I'm worried about it.

yes it's blue balls man I know these feels
You think it's bad now? I had them on day 32 of nofap after i edged for like 30 mins,also it will be gone by tomorrow so don't worry.Also the more you edge the worser it gets.Kek try edging 5 times tomorrow and you will literally want to cut your balls off with a blunt knife

Thanks anons, I was looking forward to having an excuse to blow my load but I'm gonna hold off since this is my fault.

Really gonna work hard to not edge even one for the second half of Feb. It's hardly nofap when all I've avoided is orgasm

>says nofap
>is literally fapping

It's no fap not no cum user

I know, I'm such a retard. I'm just really good at edging, which is how i got into this mess in the first place. shit's not good for you.

Problem is, I always go straight into flatline for some reason, so I keep checking my dick to make sure it still works...it always does of course

You're a faggot, OP.

just get her to suck a bit and all the blood will rush into the benis
u dun goofed

>jacking off 5-6x a day
Dude theres no way thats healthy. Think about it, if a man had sex 5 times he'd be completely exhausted.

>Dick works
>Chick involved, stops working
>Remove chick, starts working

Yeah, you're gay OP

dude, just stop fapping for a few months. Your shit will improve and its really not as hard as you think to change.

>tfw i have ED and im scared this is going to happen to me

I'm on day 80 of nofap and going on my first ever date tomorrow.

havent had morning wood or random erections (or even a proper one) in years

i did this by looking at craigslist a lot.
Had blueballs for days. It legit hurt to walk.
That said ended up blowing the biggest nut on a hookers face.

why do you roid if you can't even please a woman, you're pathetic

So your instinct is to not masturbate instead of seeing a doctor? Are you retarded or just retarded?

It was nerves, user. It has happened to me.

He's doing nofap. He's retarded.

>tfw qt chick that i like has big tits but no ass
>i know i can ask her to be my gf no problem
>but no ass
RRRRRRREEEEEEE

Tits > ass, user

Anyone can build an ass, tits are genetic. Just get her to squat.

>cock doctor
>coctor

Jesus. Fucking. Christ. Why are you people so goddamn pathetic? An object of sexual attraction is there in front of you waiting to satisfy your penis, and you can't get it up? This is beyond anything I have seen or heard in my entire life. The mere thought of not getting hard in front of a sexual partner would send me into a shame spiral that would ultimately end in me simply killing myself, and here you faggots are harping on about how roids have shriveled your dick to nothing and the various mental resets you can do to break away from the cycle of porn addiction. I'm in shock that I share this board with you. FFS I HAVE to fap three plus times a day otherwise I'm too fucking horny to stay off the missus and it pisses her off, and this is after us fucking minimum once a day.

You all make me sick, you don't deserve to pass on your genes. Fuck I can't wait until sex bots become an affordable things so you shut ins can just stay at home with your over priced sex toys and leave the proper fucking to real men who can sustain an erection in the presence of another naked human.

I would puke, but that would ruin my gains.

> mere thought of not getting hard in front of a sexual partner would send me into a shame spiral that would ultimately end in me simply killing myself

Now, do you understand?

I guess I never really think about it in the moment. I'm too busy letting the female suckle my penis like a calf at the udder.

>help i fap once an hour
>why cant i get hard
GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Like said, if he's able to jerk off 5-6x a day, I doubt that his problem is lack of libido. It sounds like he can get erections just fine but has some kind of mental block with women. I've never done steroids so I know nothing about that whole can of worms, but I did have erection problems when I started having sex (lost it at 26). In my case, watching less porn did help. I also had to just get comfortable with my girlfriend and recalibrate my expectations. I guess I'll just tell you about what worked for me and you can try it. I'm not claiming I have any scientific evidence to back my shit up, so don't get defensive when I start using words like "addiction" as it relates to porn and fapping.

I genuinely think that watching porn for like 15 years before I ever started having sex messed up my expectations. and I don't think I'm completely "cured" yet. For example, I get harder erections with porn than with women and I do feel like I'm somewhat "addicted" to porn, but I've got it down to a more manageable level. No one likes to think that they're addicted to something, especially to something as silly as porn, but the truth is that if the only way you can get a boner is with porn, that's a sign that something is not right.

Now brace for my wall of text.

For me, a big part of it was insecurity, as it relates to performing for the girl (i.e. pleasing her sexually). I didn't know if I would be able to please her or not and I was (somewhat subconsciously) making that my priority. What helped a little bit with that was learning to make her cum by eating her out and fingering her. Once I added that to my arsenal, then at least I knew that every time I lost my boner, I could go down on her and that's exactly what I did. There's no point in trying for hours once the boner is lost or won't come up. Once you're in that "I'm not gonna get hard, her sucking my soft cock doesn't feel good and I'm ashamed of myself" mindset not gonna get better, so it's best to wait and try again later. In the meantime, you might as well work on your pussy eating technique. Obviously, she wanted my cock and was sad that I wasn't able to fuck her, but at least in my head I knew that it kept her satisfied enough that she would stick with me as I figured this out. Sometimes she would try to stop me like "you don't have to do this, you know?" but I would insist on doing it, which bring me to my second point: take charge.

You have to figure out what is hot to you, what you want to do to her, and then do it. You can't just show up. If you don't have an objective, then your dick won't get hard because you won't be excited. You're just gonna be nervous. The only way to really know what you want is through fantasizing. For this, you're gonna have to go off porn. In my opinion, porn takes the fantasy out of sex by building the narrative for you. It makes you sexually passive, there's no interaction to be had, and yet sex is an active thing.

For me, what helped was getting the "fantasy muscle" back in shape. In the morning or at night, while I was in bed, I would think about what would be hot to me about having sex with this girl and then I would try to fap to that. For example, I imagined making out with her and then just bending her over my bed, pulling down her pants to expose that juicy ass, slowly spreading her pussy lips open with my cock and then pushing it in. I had a lot of bad fap sessions at first where I didn't cum, but I made it a point not to be weak and return to porn. I've hear former fat people rationalize hunger this way: If you're not hungry enough to eat an apple, then you're not really hungry. I think there's a parallel that can be drawn here: If you're not horny enough to fap without porn, then you're not really horny. Slowly, my imagination got better and I was able to cum without porn, even though I had to jerk off furiously to manage it. It's like lifting, it does take a bit of time to be good at it, but as long as you keep at it it gets easier.

I kept fantasizing for a few weeks and stayed away from porn. Meanwhile, I would try to have sex with my girl every now and then, but it still wouldn't work. We would always have these long foreplay sessions and the longer they were, the more my boner would lose interest. One day, I just said fuck it and took charge. I acted out my fantasy, bent her over the bed, ripped down her pants, pulled her panties to the side, rubbed a little spit on my cock and stuck it in. I came in like 2 minutes. I never really had a problem after that, except at times when I went back to porn a lot.

I would summarize what worked for me this way: fantasize, take charge and forget about her. Doggy is a good position because you don't have to look at her, so it's less nerve-racking. You can just see a nice big ass and a tight little pussy, ready to get fucked.

Anyway, sorry for the insane amount of text. Good luck my man, keep at it, you'll get it eventually.

> I'm just really good at edging

how do you know that? anyone ever complimented you on your edging abilities?

You can have sex more than 5 times and not get exhausted. You just have to get used to it.
What are you? Choco golem?

kek

> implying it's a problem

>An object of sexual attraction is there in front of you waiting to satisfy your penis, and you can't get it up?

Well if you've been jerking off to jailbait for 10 years
and now you have some fat roastie used goods sitting in front of you

You'd have issues too

>not getting hard in front of a sexual partner would send me into a shame spiral
that's the problem mate

Try fapping in a way that uses you brain more by imagination or Erotic literature

If youre watching porn a lot your brain will never need to get itself aroused so it Will become lazy in that way

you are just nervous, get drunk Op, not puking drunk, but get drunk

you're a cuck and you want her to sleep with other men, it's that simple

>/pol/ powerfantasy

>somehow manage to get a hot as hell gf

how the fuck does that happen?

sound_advice.txt

Listen to this guy OP

IS NO FAP A FUCKING MEME OR WHAT

>Be me
>Oneitis I've been crushing on for months texts me yesterday evening (Valentines Day) to ask if I have "plans"
>send snappy reply "just me and my bottle of vodka"
>immediately get a text back "let me help you with that"
>she comes over, we start watching Requiem for a Dream, shes never seen it before
>shes horrified, cries, we talk about our feelings, I get to comfort her, cuddles, kisses, etc.
>she's says shes been attracted to me for months
>calls me "Mr Muscles" and compliments my butt (t-thanks SS)
>suggest we retire to my bed
>we get undressed, it's literally my dreams coming true
>like i've literally fantasized & fapped about this happening
>shes grinding on me, making out with me, touching me
>LITERALLY NO REACTION FROM MY DICK
>Like full on dead zone, feels like a dead slug hung out to dry
>Im so fucking embarrassed
>She gets upset, says "please don't reject me" and starts crying
>ends up leaving in tears
>Im so fucking frustrated I punch a hole in my door
>tfw when I've been doing NoPorn / Nofap since before new years
>tfw when it didnt help at all
>tfw all these gains she was miring but no dick gains so its all for naught
>tfw I'll probably never get that chance again.

SERIOUSLY WHAT THE FUCK GUYS, Have i been trolled for the past two months? Nofap did nothing for me, if anything I think it may have harmed me. Also this is girl is like my oneitis so I'm feeling pretty shitty about it rn. Did i fuck this up permanently? What do I do about the girl? what do I tell her? what do I do about the ED?

FUCKING A MAN it's shit like this that makes me hate myself so much. At least I can smash some PRs today - its Deadlift day.

>tfw 5 plate DL but can't get it up. Feels fucking terrible man.

>She gets upset, says "please don't reject me" and starts crying
>ends up leaving in tears
>Im so fucking frustrated I punch a hole in my door

fucking underages I swear

have you contacted her? don't be a mong, girls always think that your dick isn't working because of them, not you.

Im 26 and shes 21 famalam, no underage b& here

Yeah I want to but what do I say? "sorry I have porn induced ED due to a decade of daily fapping to tentacle tranny hentai?" don't think it would go over well desu

explain that you were nervous because you like her so much or were worried whether you could perform well enough blablabla.

at the end of the day you have to convince her that its you, not her, thats the problem. then get yourself some viagra and go for a second round senpai.

Time for a hard reboot user
Get the willpower to cut the hardcore porn,keep fapping as much but to pictures of non naked women ( like those in the high test threads for example ) and then gradually fap less,like fap 5 times for a week,and then four times and so on.After you are able to comfortably masturbate only once a day cut all visual stimuli but keep fapping once a day

Good luck on your journey,it's a long ride and its gonna take time and dedication.You will relapse a few times but don't sweat it,it's trial and error

t.former porn addict with erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation

>punching inanimate objects at 26
>kys

>telling people to kill themselves on a chinese woodworking forum
>kys

where can one inconspicuously acquire such medicinals?

in the uk i filled out a sham online form and got prescribed it by an internet doctor, literally googled 'viagra uk'. if you're in the us see what pops up, but it might be different legally. of course there are alternatives like the kind of pills you find in bar toilets, could always try some of them by looking for sexual health pills and the like.

>being upset that you've been deemed as an untermensch because you have the emotion control of a pubescent boy
>kys

If she's not a fucking retard, she'll know that shit like that happens all the time.
Women seem to think all guys can just get hard/cum at the drop of a hat, but it doesn't always work that way.
Just like how women have to be in the "mood" and be in the moment, guys have to be as well wtf

Just text her again. If she's cool she'll understand

>not knowing that nofap causes a sexual flatline the first 2 to 5 months

ahahahahaha you uneducated fucks make me laugh everytime
but yeah keep on abstaining from fapping,it'll get better

again, my inner autism leaves me at a complete loss of what to say. Like I've been opening my text convo with her and closing cuz "hey sorry I could'nt get it up last night can we please try again" seems like it wouldnt work.

FUCK what is this flatline shit?? That means I'm right in the dead zone currently.

Look,i'm going to lay it out there man.
I've fallen for the nofap meme as well when i was younger.When you willfully abstain from sex and stimuli in general,your body shuts your libido down,this usually happens after that period of time when you're horny as fuark ( usually the first three weeks after starting no fap ).This flatline is a period of time where you'll experience loss of sexual power,loss of libido,loss of physical attraction for the opposite gender.It can even make you doubt your sexually in extreme cases where it lasts a while.The flatline usually lasts 3 months,but there have been reports of people having a flatline of 9 to 12 months ( rare cases but it can still happen from one guy to another ).

My advice to you : resume fapping,cut the visual stimuli and use only your imagination,it'll be tough the first few times but you'll get used to it i promise.I can also promise you that after cutting visual stimuli and fapping to your imagination for a month or so,you will have ROCK HARD erections with women,mark my fucking words.

What's a healthy frequency?
My 3 times a day is obviously way too much.

I'd say 3 times a day is on the extreme side of the "normal" part of the fapping frequency spectrum which means that it's alright,but it would be better if you cut it down to twice a day

What about stuff like looking at fit girl threads (not fapping)? Does that fuck you up?

It still kinds of fuck with your dopamine/serotonin release wiring but not nearly as much as constantly browsing porn webm threads on /b/ ( which is what i used to do,novelty novelty and novelty porn over and over,desensitizing my shit and making me numb to real girls ) or fapping to porn.

On a scale of 1 to 10 of fucking with your sexual life,looking at porn at lot without masturbating is a 9/10,fapping to porn regularly is a 7.5/10 and looking at fit girl threads without masturbating is a 3.5/10

Thanks user. I think it's worth looking at fit girls at least before a gym sesh, it always motivates me.

So teasing yourself by watching porn without fapping is worse for you than fapping to it? That's probably where I've been fucking up since I don't even watch hardcore or anything fetishy but don't get as hard as I wanna

Yes,because you unconsciously associate,what you see,two person having sex,to nothing,it's just you sitting on your ass doing nothing.Whereas if you fap to it,well you associate that to you fapping yourself so associate a sexual deed to another.

Only looking at porn will make you impotent because your body will remember "Oh yeah i know where this is going,this is sex i recognize it,what do we do when there's sex ? That's right,nothing,i remember that this is how we do it usually" so you won't get it up.Fapping to it is still bad because it will worsen your erection quality because your body will remember the pattern of you masturbating to something arousing so you might have somewhat of an erection,but since you have something physical instead of visual ( the girl instead of a video ) your erection might be 7/10,barely able to penetrate the girl or you might even get a floppy or a semi-flaccid.

Thanks for the wisdom bro.

I don't have full on ED, my dick sort of Max's out at 7/10 hardness even when I'm with a girl. Cutting porn out completely for a while I guess

Chaos & Pain?

Everything about your post, I am the exact same as you user.
I just want to straight up stop, but it's so hard keke

...

>had a gf when I was 17-19
>we had sex a lot
>I was two pump chump
>sometimes I'd put it in and fuck her for 1 minute than have to pull out and cum

I miss her Veeky Forums