Get a hot gf

>get a hot gf
>niggas hitting on her all the time, bothers me at first but usually it's really stupid shit so get used to it
>some cunt crossed the line yesterday
>texted her something thats not ok to text her

I've never been in a fight before. I'm pretty fit, but this dude is taller than me.

How do I go about confronting him without seeming like some angry manlet(i am a very angry manlet) and make a fool of myself? If this type of shit is going to be happening often, should I cancel my gym membership and join a boxing gym or train some martial art? Can't afford both.

Anyone here got any experience with this?

>get a hot gf
>Anyone here got any experience with this
where do you think you are?

>being an insecure bitch
You're going to lose her

Dude dont blame the guy. if your girl isnt stopping that shit then its her fault. Sorry your getting cucked bro but thats not his fault.

>your "gf" allows them to hit on her and text her and you're her "bf"...

I got news for you user

and yes i have experience with this and the best course of action is to be single and fuck girls without having to be jealous. if you a jealous person you shouldnt be dating, youll just hurt yourself and the person your dating

Either tell your bitch to stop giving dudes her number or get some friends and jump him. Fire with fire.

She might just want OP to fight for her
If OP wants to deal with that shit, go ahead
But usually I agree, unless the guy is harassing her, usually she can just ignore him if she wants to, and if she doesn't she probably wants it

nothing insecure about standing up for your girl if someone is saying inappropriate things. Much better than being a beta pushover and just letting it go.

Asking Veeky Forums for advice on street fighting

>Bring your canesword m'sir
>tiptiptiptip

>being in such a shitty relationship you have to even raise the issue
Yeah, you're definitely going to lose her.

In regards to this

Did you know that porn companies pay people to post fetish baiting thread on internet forums?

Just ask /k/ which is the most cost efficient 9mm hand piece.

Bigger they are harder they fall. And easier to hit.

Centre mass.

that used to happen with my ex cause she was pretty good looking, but no way i could fight anyone cause i was 5'10 and skinny and i didnt really know what to do. what did youre gf respond to that guy with, did she even respond? i only really told my ex to not respond or something cause im really not a confrontational person

She could just block his number and ignore him.

If not, enjoy your felony record when he presses charges against you or sues you.

Stop being insecure, people will text your girl disrespectful things and, at some point, some slut will disrespect your relationship by trying to sleep with you. Part of being an adult is ignoring dumb shit like this.

Gave him the good ol I have a boyfrien but still

>>niggas hitting on her all the time

How do I always forget this? I always think I should be with an 8+/10 without factoring in having other dudes hitting on her constantly is a constant part of that. I fucking hate confrontation, but mfs always wanna test shit. Oh well.

She should shut it down with "not interested" anything else is asking for drama. "rude! I have a bf" translates to "are you better than my bf?"...

Tell her to shut it down instantly with a single blunt reply containing only two words "not interested". If she doesn't then start making moves to cheat on her (discreetly) because she is sending other subtextual messages to guys, essentially keeping the door open.

Actually everything is worse than "letting it go" if you can't trust her enough to not fuck you over then she isn't even worth your time. Move on and find someone who will actually worship you

This is exactly what it is ,even if you confront her she will deny/not understand.

Have dealt with, got cheated on.

Either way if you confront him, you look like a dick thats insecure, and if you dont, she will use as an excuse that you didnt fight for her, to cheat.

Have fun with her, but cheat on the side and dont get emotionally invested, at all.

This guy gets it.

OP your come of sounding young and immature. Get over it and move on. Stop trying to prove yourself.

I just got out of a relationship from my wife who was lying to me about having an affair behind my back. You're damn right she's gonna pay for it, but these guys are kind of on the right track.

You can confront her once. Once and only once. You can confront the guy once. Once and only once. That should at least put them in the know that you are aware of what's up. Don't be insecure about this shit, but let them know that lines are being crossed and it's not okay. If they push back and saying you're over reacting, that's a huge red flag.

If it persists or things get weird, trust your instincts and trust your gut. Don't let it linger, don't let her lies befuddle you. Where there's smoke there's fire, but there's no reason for you to get caught up in it the flames.

> Where there's smoke there's fire, but there's no reason for you to get caught up in it the flames

Sheeeeet we got a fucking poet here

How big are you and how big is the other dude? I think you just took fit memes too srsly

i agree with this, saying i have a bf sounds to me almost like i have a bf but if i didnt i would

how much we talkin?

Counter punch

lol if you have to fight to keep your gf away from other niggas you already lost son

you might think its just one guy, but the problem is her. There will eventually be another situation like this, even if you manage to solve this through conflict

Just punch his chin until he falls down

How did a black guy get your gfs number?
Why didn't she say not to message her?
start looking for a new gf, then dump the old one

Eh, I answered a job posting for XXXX company.
"Add service/ marketing agent"
Requirements were to type 125+wmp
Bachelors in marketing.
High level computer proficiency.

Made it past first round.
Pay based on workload starting at 5k maxing at 55k(for a shit load of extra work)
Turned it down because fuck that, and because fuck that.

Also in similar league big production movies will "leak" LQ/HD/Recorder quality movies to similarly proficient persons as the only source. Then they scrape costs off of the add-space, that way they still make some of their money back.

>you might think its just one guy, but the problem is her. There will eventually be another situation like this, even if you manage to solve this through conflict
yeah, this.

if you have a hot gf you can be sure she gets A LOT of male attention and has gotten that all her life. I have a hot gf myself and I don't think guys understand just how much and how often hot girls are approached by other men. hell, she was approached by a random guy when we were on our very first date. the only thing you can do is trust her and show her you trust her, because there is nothing you can do to keep her from cheating if that's what she wants. on the other hand, being jealous, insecure and accusing her of not being faithful is a great way to lose her even if she's absolutely loyal to you. if you ever find out she's not loyal then dump her ass immediately, but before then don't create problems that aren't there.

>i agree with this, saying i have a bf sounds to me almost like i have a bf but if i didnt i would
I use this myself (I have a gf). it's just a softer way of rejecting someone, it doesn't necessarily mean I would have dated them if I was single. being told "not interested" can be pretty harsh because it's almost like saying "I judged you and you're not good enough for me", and especially guys can respond to this kind of ego bruising with extreme anger. your hot gf has surely experienced this lots of times so you can't blame her for using a softer form of rejection where the focus is on her situation (I have a bf) instead of the guy not being good enough. I hurts less, which makes it less likely he'll get mad.