Jerked off 4 times today

>jerked off 4 times today
>gf wants to come over tonight and fuck
>have literally no desire to
>would rather just cuddle with her and watch movies

Seriously, why does watching porn and jacking off make me so uninterested in sex?

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come the fuck on

When she comes over, aggressively sniff her butthole, that's a secret technique to a raging boner, fuck her for more than 10 minutes and then nut whatever you have left in the tank.

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Probably the same reason eating 3,000kc makes you uninterested in food, you've already met your physiological need. I just came here to tell you that you're gonna get cucked. You'd better stop choosing your hand over your girlfriend or you're gonna regret it.

Porn and jerking off make you desire no sex.
Porn is for degenerates. Stop that OP

Take you glorious pill you beta bitch

i normally dont watch porn often but she told me earlier today she was busy tonight so i started watching porn. Now she says her plans got cancelled and wants to see me

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he's a KEK

That sounds pretty beta desu.

sounds like the gf I had two years ago. She's probably gonna leave you soon

I took my gf's anal virginity and since then I'm not interested in sex (I am in porn though). Anyone care to wager why?

You romanticized what it would be like to stick it in her sweet innocent virgin asshole. The reality could never live up to the fantasy you've concocted in your head (probably helped by all the porn you've watched). So now that the deed is no longer a fantasy but a reality that has passed, there's no more crazy forbidden lust involved in your sex life. You don't fuck her doggy style wondering what it would feel like to stick it in her ass anymore. You already know. You've reached the peak of your sexual desires and it was alright. Now what? Try visiting a sex shop and tying her up.

this is me but with every girl i crush on and eventually ask out and find out they aren't that cool.
its more fun to fantasize and la la land

Nobody is that cool.

Not even you.

true

Tell her she can't see you because you went ahead and made plans yourself

Yeah I think you're right. Today I was actually thinking about talking to her about threesomes again. Not the time though, gotta give it some time.

>with girlfriend
>she's in the mood but i'm not really up for it
>for some reason raping her passes in my mind
>immediately get rock hard

Considering that 'rape fantasy' is one of the most common sexual fantasies for women she probably would have been into you acting on that feeling.

So did you do it?

i actually did about a week ago and now we're planning on going to a park nearby and having me chase her and fuck her into the dirt like it's a really violent, adult hide and seek

"local rapist shot by good samaritan who was 'just in the right place at the right time' "

Literally watch a bunch of more porn to get your desire back and definitely do not jack off

You really want to get shot, don't you?

Life is real tough sometimes huh

yes

Fuckin kek.

Seriously though, make sure it's an empty, rarely used park that isn't filled with druggies and actual rapists.

Maybe try to find somewhere more remote?

in all seriousness though we live on the border of SC and NC in charlotte and the "park" is more of a frisbee golf type deal that is COMPLETELY empty past like 7:00, around like 12-1AM is when we plan on doing it

Fair enough. Have fun.

How did you float the idea of doing this btw?

honestly it felt like sheer luck, i was giving her a back rub and just sort of suddenly gave her throat a little squeeze and she made a joke about it and it lead into us talking about essentially play fuck-tag

halloween helped too a few months back, i already joked about being the big bad wolf and her being red riding hood and me catching her in the woods

First, show some dignity and don't' let yourself whack off 4 times a day. 1 is enough. Anymore than that is degenerate, unless you have a good reason.

Second, you gotta man up and fuck her. No, not because you owe her or anything, but because it's a relationship maintenance thing, and it might help offset your Test loss from fapping.
You don't feel like it now, but when she gets over and you start fooling around, you'll be glad you did.
That is, if you're still into her.

Third, stop being a cuck or you're gonna get cucked. Then you'll be on here posting
>that feel when no gf
bullshit and you'll have no one to blame but yourself.

Are you me?

Fucking lol

>jack off once or twice a day
>dick losing sensitivity to pussy
>trouble cumming
>can literally only cum if i think about it
>and only in doggy
>cant cum from BJs

Have your gf cuck you, it will reinvigorate your sex life.

why is this thread not deleted

its the stupidest shit ever

literally i jack off and then i dont wann have sex wat do.

jesus.

gonna need a source, OP

tell her you already jerked off. But seriously quit doing that.

Virgin here, why do guys fap when they have a girlfriend?

i do it because i dont see her every day and besides lifting i have nothing to do

T_T

Same
How to fix this?

>Low test thread

Guys always jack off. I'm married 10 years and do it just as much as when single. Sometimes you're just in the mood for no emotion, no foreplay. Sometimes you're in the mood for some kinky shit you don't want to prep her for. Or a different woman via porn. Or it's faster. Or she's asleep. Whatever.

Basically because you dont have sex as often as you can or want to fap.

Sex is a pretty big investment too, if its not just a quicky. Fapping is easier, less to worry about.

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im the fag you quoted


you just gotta stop jacking off for like 4-7 days dude. it's hard but it'll make pussy feel super extra warm and tight and make you cum quickly srs. I can go like an hour during sex because of fapping insetivity.
Well I can still cum in 5 minutes it's just not as enjoyable

>That pic
Oh god I'd go to prison for rape. I just know it.

Kek

soooourceeeee

Just let someone else fuck her while you watch movies.

See, I solved the problem for you.

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Ahahaha, she was about to get dicked by Chad behind your back but he cancelled, so she now "has the evening off" and she figured your beta ass would be down to fuck.

>Basically because you dont have sex as often as you can or want to fap.
>Sex is a pretty big investment too, if its not just a quicky. Fapping is easier, less to worry about.

This guy gets it.

For guys it's all about nutting, for females it's making out, rubbing, going down, then cuddling after.

Fuck that.

I was with this chick and made a move on her too quick (asked her to come into my room). she said no and we still chilled for a while. I have been talking to her and hanging out with her since but she just seems a little reserved now. What the fuck should i do?

Guess I'm a woman then. Whelp, brb Veeky Forums gotta go get a sex change. Probably help my chances of getting into grad school anyways.

reduce how much attention you give her, but in a subtle way. Don't text her as much, be more busy when she wants to hang out etc. Be less available.

are you me

This might work. The other issue is comfort and trust. The fact she's still talking to you means she's still interested, but she's probably insecure about giving it up.

I'd say dont be too aloof, but dont get clingy either. When you are together, test the water in safer ways and see how far you can get. (light touch, steal a kiss, etc) If she keeps pulling away, then either keep being less availabe, or just fucking ask her whats going on. Sometimes being direct is best.

The Coolidge effect.

Basically your lizard dick thinks you're fucking new partners

stop masturbating you putrid dreg of humanity

What is this style of porn called and is there a video from the back angle?

Why is Veeky Forums so obsessed with cuckolding?

make her wear something nice

maybe a teddy with all the frills and see through

that's what I told my girl when I'm too tired. Then grope her all night. You'll perk up pretty soon.

>stopped watching porn and fapping a few weeks before last Christmas
>gradually start to find a new sort of attraction towards irl women
>don't flirt but rather act more naturally, unstrained, pretty much behave in the same way as i do with men
>get a lot more out of talking with women
>women start to show me a lot more interest
>at times i become nervous when they flirt and i don't know how to respond but it becomes easier
>becoming more and more confident
>cultivating inner strength
>meditate daily and sometimes reach states of mind that are more pleasurable than any fap ive ever had

It's a meme you dip

thank u user i kinda needed this

Keep it up brother

SOURCE GODDAMN IT

When people have debilitating fears and insecurities, they see them everywhere and project constantly.

>aggressively sniff her butthole
this is why I lift

Stop watching porn, you'll end up being a cookie cutter porn addict.

4 times? What the fuck, are you twelve?

drop her. if she wanted to fuck you she would have said yes

>fucking before marriage
>fapping
Lad, do you ever want children and a marriage without divorce? Shape up.

once you get a girlfriend and the "honeymoon" phase is over all you think about is spreading your seed to other women

>have loving, amazing gf
>go to party last night with her
>have fun for a few hours before she leaves to sleep because work in morning
>get more drunk and flirt a bit too much and have my hand up leg of a different female friend
>wake up and feel shitty as fuck
I really hope I didn't fuck anything up by doing this.

How the fuck do you meditate? Every time I try, I feel either ridiculous for what I'm doing, I fall asleep, or I just genuinely feel fake. I want to meditate to deal with stress/anxiety instead of turning into porn.

Any tips?

This was me when I tried anal, no homo. Fags made it seem like it would be the greatest thing ever. Got my prostate tickled but it didn't feel that good and only made jizz drizzle out of my dick slightly. Even tried it a second time thinking that maybe I needed something bigger but it didn't help much. I plan on trying it one more time and if I don't feel fireworks I'll know for sure that fags have mental illnesses which make it seem better than it is. The big benefit though is that I now know that I'm 100% straight and not a literal fag and have lost any slight interest in men since it's not a forbidden fantasy anymore.

Just buy a chastity cage and give her the keys

Try "mindful meditation"

It's what I did when I had the same problem. Basically you just acknowledge your feelings and let them go. When I would try to meditate I would sit there and go "wtf am I doing this is dumb" but using the mindfulness approach helped me acknowledge them and let them go. It made other meditation techniques a lot easier for me.

Nofap.. There is a reason it exists

I don't meditate, but I pray, and any desire vanishes. Not always quickly, but it does. The longer you go without fapping, the easier it is. Just be prepared for wet dreams, lel.

t. christian

how is that a bad thing? I love being able to fuck for hours and still cum when I focus on it.

>I lose interest in food right after eating a huge meal, pls what's wrong with me