Fucking Failure

>played WoW since it came out, JRPGs, ate chinese food every day, at least 3 cans of coca cola every night
>decided enough was enough
>throw away all video games in the dumpster
>throw away all shitty clothing
>thank fuck I was only skinny fat thanks to superior genetics, I should've been a lot fatter
>lose a lot of weight, man tits are gone, get veiny biceps, big chest, blessed genetics blah blah
>finally get fit
>go on tindr
>find girl, she literally posts how she wants me to fuck her in the ass
>next day, I lose my virginity to her. I put it in her shitter, vag, but all those years of heavy fapping desensitized me
>doesn't help I also got drunk for my first time, kek
So should I of jizzed on my first time? Am I fucking gay and should I just fuck twinks or does everyone not jizz when they lose their v-card

stop fapping so much

Veeky Forumsness

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it's a comfort thing. I think I fucked about 10 girls before I was comfortable having sex to actually cum. Just try to enjoy it for what is, it'll come.

At least you're not me. A few years ago, I started masturbating by edging for a long time, then jerking really fast at the point of no return.

Now I cum super fast during sex. I'll be happy if I last more than a minute.

Occasionally I get into my old penis and can fuck for a long time, but it's rare now.

where can i find more like that OP?

Yeah bla bla bla sauce me nigga

Edging is bad? I thought it was meant to be good for improving how long you last?

He's larping or his pelvic floor is too tight and he needs to stretch it more

Larping?

pretending, just like the OP post

Nah same thing happened to me.

First its hard to come because you're nervous, then you come too early cause lmao what am i doing, then you git gud and try to please your partner instead of just humping her like a monkey.

I was so fucking nervous my first time I didn't jizz, but yeah, the excess fapping does NOT help.

Don't feel bad, OP. You're on the right path.

little personal experience with this problem
>been there, ended a relationship because of it. >girl thought she wasn't attractive enough when in reality just couldn't cum cause i jerked off too much
>next girl just told her i can't cum unless im wearing a condom.
>fuck rawdog till shes done then fake it in a condom
Like some anons said its mostly a comfortability thing and a jerking off less thing. I come fine now and i can still last really as long as i want. just jerk off less and you'll be fine

You're not gay, dude. I didn't jizz everytime when I was a dyel

Not pretending. Maybe edging implies I'm jerking the whole time, which is not what I meant to say.

I'll just watch porn for hours while lightly touching my shaft. Really getting into it, but not much going on physically besides light sensations. Then when I know I'm about to cum no matter what, I'll jerk it really intensely for like 5 seconds and the orgasm is amazing. As such, my stamina in sex is much lower. I know because sometimes I'll jerk normally and I last longer in sex after like a week of that, but then I fall back into my habits.

>heavy fapping desensitized
This statement sounds ridiculous. Really glad I have a foreskin. Must suck be a burger and have you genitals mutilated at birth.

I was exactly the same as you except I just owned it. lost my v card when I got fit at 19 and fapped like 5 times a day before that.

I just fuck until they cum. I lose interest immediately after. It's an abstract kind of feel.

look up Frank Cho, he's the artist

>inb4 muh 4skin :^)
I'm uncircumcised and I never let random sloots get at the glands. Shit's sacred.

>all those spider-woman covers
My fucking sides

Totally possible with a foreskin as well. If the woman I'm with isn't extremely tight, I need at least 20 minutes to get off - if I get off at all.