Tfw cute girl at the gym keeps checking me out

>tfw cute girl at the gym keeps checking me out
>tfw too nervous to say anything because of autism
>tfw weights don't cure autism
>tfw she will have a bf by the time I talk to her

Tell me about your gym crush /ft/

Can this be a /crush/ general?

>be 18
>girl in my tutor group (a group that meets in the morning before lessons through the day)
>she's in the year below, and the years rarely ever see each other unless it's in tutor sessions
>she smiles at me one day
>smile back
>follow her on instagram to snoop around
>she follows back instantly and likes my most recently posted photo
>do nothing for weeks
>see her in the gym one day
>she smiles at me again
>friend gives me her snapchat and I message her a few hours later saying "hey, saw you at the gym, you're in my tutor session, you looked good"
>chatted for a bit
>she stops replying out of nowhere
>don't message her again for fear of looking like an autist
>ignore her for 2 months and pretend I don't know her out of fear of looking like an idiot
>yesterday she smiled at me again for the first time in months
>see her again the next day and she looks me directly in the eyes and I see them light up as she says 'hey' to me as I pass her in the corridor
>haven't seen her for a week

Honestly have no idea what to do. Rarely ever see her and don't want to talk to her over the internet again because it looks pathetic.

>be a complete autist with girls
>one day just decide fuck it, I am who I am and I'm not ashamed of it
>go to gym and everything's so fucking perfect
>lifts going up
>cute girl smiles at me
>smile back and go talk to her
>we smalltalk a bit
>I get a restraining order
>new gym only has two squat racks
fuck women

Sounds like maybe she was talking to someone else for a while, but it feel through?

If you have her social media you should try to talk to her. It wouldn't be that weird especially if she's interested.

>few years ago
>just started lifting
>qt watching me out of the corner of her eye
>racking weights for bench press
>put on 200 to impress her
>at the time could only do like 140
>she keeps watching
>puts away her dumbbell and starts walking over
>begin rep
>not going well
>cant get bar off my chest
>"need some help?"
>its her
>get nervous, then angry
>"fuck off"
>finish rep
>she looks at me and walks off
>cry later

jesus fuck dude its a girl not a alien.

just keep an eye on her and dont look away if she seees you looking at her.
wait untill she goes to the water fountain when she does go also and sasy this.

>"Hi" (user)
>"H-hi" (Slut)
>ive seen you in the gym alot. Im user.
>Hi user im Slut nice to meet you. Ive seen you in the gym alot too(Slut)
>Haha yea, youre looking good.(user)
>t-hanks(Slut)
>wanna go out sometime?(user)
>Uhm Yea! sure! (Slut)
>okey whats your number? friday good? (user)
and take it from there.

Never really considered that, thanks bro

I know, it's just when I try to approach girls I get really nervous and look creepy

youre gonna have to sometime. cant live in the shadows. let the gains do some actual work.

>cant live in the shadows
is that a challenge?

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>cute girl checking me out for past few weeks
>don't talk because autism and don't know what to say

REEEEEE END THIS SUFFERING

>t-hanks
>t
>hanks

I feel as if there is more to this story.

>cant live in the shadows.
get a load of this normie, cam

Top fucking kek

XDDD

you two made me laugh more than i have in months. thank you

im 6'3 and good looking

qts mire all of the time, and make it clear theyre interested, but im still too autistic to approach.

guess ill just have to settle with the average girls that throw themselves at me

...

>started going to the gym at 7AM
>notice woman in oversized hoody every morning, former fatty trying to hide that extra skin
>music pause between tracks
>' he's wearing one of those cartoon shirts you like'
>makeup caked chubbo giggling at JoJo shirt with former fatty who is trying not to make eye contact
> later former fatty signing up for class 'I-I like your shirt'
>assume she is doing this because she realises I overheard her friend laughing.
>"jojo has gotten a lot more popular, naruto is usually the most you get 'round here''
> suddenly embarassed? Spit out 'yeah'
>she looks embarassed and excuses herself
>she is actually cute in the face and knows about anime
>look her name up from sign up sheet
>beach pics on social media- she has never been fat
>what did I do?

I usually have no problem speaking to girls but I probably gave her the impression she was pissing me off when she just caught me off guard. What does it say about me that I assume women in the gym in baggy clothes must be fat/ex-fat?

>assume women in the gym in baggy clothes must be fat/ex-fa
In my gym the fatties are straining seams all around

>went to the gym for the first time in months this week
>also happened to get two girls numbers this week

COINCIDENCE? I THINK NOT

I find myself autistic as fuck around average girls because I know I can get them but don't want them, never flinch when it's a hottie way out of my league tho, doesn't make sense

pic of jojo shirt pls.

just say to her that it caught you off guard and proceed to have a conversation to her

Are you me?

It's now the third time that my gf/ex breaks up with me "because it doesn't feel right *cry* *cry*".

Why am I such a goddamn retard and took her back when she was crawling at me?

I swear I will never find a woman that is willing to commit. It's insane.

Wtf how old are you? Why are you looking to commit?

This post screams balding numale beta

>how old
22
>why are you trying to commit
Why not? It is what I enjoy and am looking for.
Realistically it takes at least a few more relationships until it actually works out.
By that time I am probably in my 30s.

>tfw too nervous to say anything because of autism
NO!

You're too nervous to say anything because you are UGLY! You KNOW you will get rejected by a cute girl because you are UGLY, not AUTISTIC.

>for a while
How much is a while?
Most dudes keep talking on the PC like it is a forum when the hoe wants to be asked out.

>mysteriously brown
>tig biddies
>always being bothered by creepers because she's the only young woman working with weight in the early morning
>lots of eye contact, but never says hi

She doesn't understand she's towing that line between "I'm shy" and "you're creepy" that freezes me socially.

...

stop masturbating.

I know what you mean senpai, I feel like with the hot ones I know I don't have a chance so I don't have to care about impressing them or whatever, which means I just act normal and confident around them. But when it comes to average girls it's the complete opposite

Hey that's mean