Veeky Forums i need your help. you guys are all i got
>be with girl for 2 months >entire time all she does is talk shit about her ex and say how hes a loser, ugly, smells like shit, absolutely hates him etc >he constantly messages me and threatens to kill me for seeing her >dont think much about it because she says to ignore him and hes crazy >everytime I see her in person its literally perfect. she comes to the gym almost every day with me and does literally everything I wanted in a girlfriend >constantly tells me how much she loves me etc >find out shes been seeing her ex the whole time behind my back >says she wants to be with me but is scared to leave him because she said he will literally kill her
besides the gym ive got literally nothing to do in my life so this girl made me legitimately happy and now im back to >tfwnogf
last time i saw her 2 days ago we went to the gym, had sex, got food, cuddled all night, told me she never wants to lose me and im the greatest thing that ever happened to her etc i just dont get it
what should I do Veeky Forums?
Chase Davis
>what should I do Veeky Forums? kill both of them find a new sloot
Hudson James
Staying with a girl who picked another man over you makes you a pathetic pussy no matter the reason or condition.
You lose for even considering staying with her, but cut her off and don't be the biggest loser you can be.
Luis Powell
Is he fucking her ex behind your back doe? Sounds like you're getting cucked
Parker Murphy
Lol why are you with a nut job? How old are you?
Josiah Diaz
Even if she's being truthful. Is involving yourself in all those problems worth it? Personally, I wouldn't want to have anything to do with that mess, but I'm not desperate enough to engage with gym sluts.
Dylan Johnson
since you are not doing the right thing in this obvious situation, you will wait for the one answer you like and think its all good as it is. why even ask?
Oliver Cooper
This.
Not even joking. Don't believe all the hype - it's easy to murder and get away with it. Play your cards right and everyone will think the ex killed her anyways.
Ryan Long
The guy is all talk. Tell the girlfriend if she keeps seeing him, she isn't seeing you.
Then break the guy's face, just a little bit to show him you mean it.
Kayden Howard
kill her and make him your gf. someone that possessive wouldnt cheat on you like that slut
Parker Butler
You're a stupid faggot fucking kys. Dude she's using the "omg I'm scared of him killing me do I'm gonna see him. (Prlly fuck him)" I have no other choice user. You're a retard. She's cheating on you faggot. If she cared that much she'd save the texts and put a restraining order on the guy. Or block him. He's a pussy he ain't gonna do shit. Don't be a pussy on top of everything get yourself a gun and protect yourself retard. You know what just kys. She's cheating stupid
Gabriel Williams
Women don't talk about boys they don't want to or aren't fucking you retarded ass
Cooper Butler
Kill them!
Gavin Johnson
Get rid of her immediately
Henry Nguyen
what state do you live in?
Joshua Morgan
This right here
Just move away, pussy and even temporary happiness is not worth the trouble, also that girl deserves to be killed by him so maybe send him some sex tapes or something if you feel like watching the world burn.
Joseph Nguyen
She wants you to.kill.him
Justin Fisher
There are a million hot girls in the world. Not just girls but legitimately hot girls. Most will not make you put up with this shit. Move on man. Lesson learned. You don't need to be a douche about it. Relationships can essentially never be whole again after one partner cheats. It's sad and illogical but that's the way it is. Tell her this and move on.
Jeremiah Johnson
Everyone tells me that but im 22 and this is literally the first girl ive been with. And yes she did admit she cheated one me but if I cut ties with her im basically back to nothing and if I stay with her im somewhat guaranteed sex and a good time when we are together.
Kevin Harris
>he constantly messages me and threatens to kill me for seeing her
let me guess he's a nigger, right?
Oliver King
im not scared of the guy at all but the girl is literally terrified of him. i told her how she has no future with him since hes 30 and addicted to drugs and her response was basically "we cant have a future together when he will kill us both" and she said how trying to work things out with me isnt worth it because shes scared of what he will do to her
Sebastian Young
t. cuck with no dignity
k y s y s
Dylan Miller
Then keep fucking her and taunt the homo BF. Just don't get involved mentally. You can have sex and be a cold hearted prick also, I mean, It's what she's been doing.
Brayden Thomas
Yea but she's your first so you won't be able to resist feelings and have a real FWB situation. But since she cheated, any relationship you would have would likely just slowly erode your self esteem. The first is always hardest to cut ties with. Moving on is the best decision for all parties involved. I was convinced I wouldn't get over my first GF after she cheated on me. But I absolutely did lol.
Parker Watson
>nothing You now have a girlfriend under your belt so it's easier to get another one. Seriously it's a self perpetuating.
22 is too young to worry about this stuff. She isn't forever at best you all had another year or two. Give it up now and keep searching.
Gavin Scott
Op as a married man sex is over rated. You should move on. Sex is nice but you know this isn't just sex. You're hooked, and she knows it. Girls aren't supposed t9 have power. They're not use to it and it's not in their nature so they tend to go crazy when they have it. You're fucked op. You're gonna stay trying to talk to her like a good little pridress, less if a man cuck and she's gonna hurt you BAD. You're gonna wish you listened to us, and you're goNnamdi hate yourself.
Dude honest advice, ghost that bitch. Cut alllll contact. Forger her name. She'll come begging g for you. If she does or doesn't stay true to your decision like a God damn man.
Jeremiah Jones
Also this. This is some 40 year old tier drama. Don't take yourself so seriously. You're 22. You should not have to deal with shit this heavy. And you're not abandoning her. She doesn't need saving, she could get the police involved if she wanted. And if she truly needed your protection, why lie about seeing him? Be prepared for a serious, semi-coherant guilt trip from her. Don't cave.
Evan Campbell
>gets death threats >doesn't tell the police
you fucking retard
Joshua Gonzalez
It's not the sex I cared about. When I was with her I was happy as fuck. We always laughed and smiled at each other and just got along fucking perfect. We could literally spend all day together and not run out of things to say which normally is impossible for me since I'm usually full autism around girls
Matthew Mitchell
Would the police actually do anything? If I told the police they would probably just give him a warning and make him even more mad
Samuel Foster
She isn't the only woman out there you'll get along with great, but she is the one that has shown her true colors so early, and that's a blessing in disguise brother. Cut and run, or keep fucking her for a nut, but she'll never respect you
Colton Cruz
>can't tell when a girl is using you really makes u high test huh fuck off cuckposter
Nathan Morales
Sounds like you got yourself a girl with borderline personailty disorder. Get away as soon as you can. Only hurt, lies, cheating and pain are ahead. Do some quick searches on BPD and you'll understand why.
Jace Hughes
tldr >girl is a hoe >fuarks ex behind back >op is a cuck and stays with her c'mon son
Oliver Cox
The first 3 months of most relationships are like this. Everybody is smiling and on their best behavior. It's not a lie but hormones mixed with novelty. You can and will feel it again if you try. She serves to masters. That is not acceptable and is, frankly, cruel. If her life was really in danger, she would have called the police or one of them would have assaulted eachother.
Oliver Brooks
I was in a similar situation when I was that age. Get out now. It's not worth the stress. She will eventually choose the other guy anyway.
Justin Turner
Well there you have it. She said you're not worth it. I mean what else do you need to hear to get out? You're the only one going to be hurt in this situation.
Oliver Stewart
I've had guns for stop long I forgot what it was like to take threats seriously. Sounds shitty lol.
Jordan Carter
Quit trying to justify this you fucking prick. If he's sending literal death threats to her and more importantly TO YOU, get the police involved. Who gives a fuck if it makes him more mad? You know what else it'll do? It'll show him that you ain't scared to reach over his head and slam dunk on his ass with the fucking cops. Worst comes to worst, he'll try to do some dumb bullshit and then you can justifiably kill his ass and have yours labeled as self defense.
At the end of the day, you're getting fucking cheated on. Hell I pined over my oneitis for 4 years but if I had gotten with her and she cheated, I would have thrown her away like a fucking candy wrapper. You KNOW she's cheating on you and you're still trying to hold onto it. Not that she DID cheat on you, but she IS cheat(ing) on you. If she was really that afraid of him, or if you really cared about her that much, you'd fucking show the police those death threats. And then guess what? Your girl would show her final form, either by thanking you and being yours alone, albeit guaranteed to cheat again, or getting mad at you and taking that psycho's side in this ordeal. You're the biggest fucking cuck I've ever seen on this site and I've seen a fucking lot of cucks. I hope you shit yourself next time you squat.
Anthony Cruz
if this isn't a shit post, we already know you're gonna stay with her until you either 1. find a new girl, 2. the situation gets so much worse that you can't take it and reality kicks in and you realize how much of a little bitch you're being, or 3.once she cuts you off.
The fact that you're in here semi arguing on her behalf makes me think it's gonna be 3.
but if this is a shitpost, good job.
Owen Butler
*two
Luke Brooks
Man, I hope this crackhead gives her hiv and she passes it onto you. It's no less than you deserve for being such a cuck.
Dominic Lopez
From where are you user?
Nathaniel Watson
Sounds like they both have mental issues. If you actually like her and want to help her then talk to her about why she let's him control her, it's more than just threats. He's probably a spineless, manipulative POS and she's just psychologically fucked from being with him and is vulnerable to manipulation. This type of relationship dynamic is more common than you think. You basically need to tell her/help her stand up to him. As soon as that happens he'll crawl away like the little bitch he is.
Also, if that doesn't work confront him and show him that he needs to stop fucking with you two. But if you're a pussy/more rational, just go tell the cops.
Also, please weigh out the costs vs. benefits before doing anything.
William Richardson
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Tyler Rodriguez
You've got two options.
Force her to get a restraining order on him and stop seeing him. If she does, you're fine. If not, break up with her cheating ass. Can stay FWB / fuckbuddies, but don't date her, for the love of God.
OR
Break up and leave the whole mess behind. She's clearly got issues to work through and is already cheating on you after two months.
Jaxon Morgan
>accepting being cucked
Evan Miller
just fuck her till you find something better.
But user, actively look.
Isaac Rodriguez
I swear I had my sides a minute ago...
Jacob Bailey
Flawless plan.
Xavier Evans
This... or at least assert your dominance and capture her
Eli Kelly
BRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAPPRPRPA
Brody Perez
Women always want to see men kill each other The modern world is no place for a woman's arousal
Cooper Wright
just trick him into ODing user. what drugs is he addicted to?
Lincoln Collins
So many red flags here...
I'll give you a break because this is your first real relationship and probably are a NEET average Veeky Forums user. First of all, a girl that talks about her ex constantly is a huge red flag, and the fact that the ex gets involved so directly by texting you makes it very obvious that something's up. I wasted 2 years of my life around your age with this bitch that started off exactly how your relationship started and I learned my lesson.
In general, if a guy persists on texting a girl and her new man after the girl says their relationship is "over", it's because the girl got probably sick of fucking the guy, wanted to keep him as an emotional tampon while slowly easing into the next one. The "lol he's gonna kill me if I leave" excuse is pure bullshit that she's using to distance herself from the guilt of having cheated while having you accept it.
Here's the only advice I can give you, and the only correct one in this situation : Dump this bitch, move on to the next one that's not completely psycho. If a girl ever even mentions her ex and starts talking shit about him, and it eventually becomes a recurrence, leave her, that's just the first red flag of many to come
Also, she fucked around on you once. If you forgive her, you're giving up any respect she might have had for you and setting yourself up for it to happen again
Brayden Sanders
lrn2femalebrain
hate = love asshole = turns me on crazy = does what he wants loser = i wish i wasnt attracted to this guy
Caleb Taylor
>entire time all she does is talk shit about her ex
didn't read past that, leave her. Never be with anyone that talks about their ex in a good or bad light. Shows they still aren't over them, also it's very disrespectful, bitch should fucking move on with her life.
Landon Wilson
You're literally a cuck Kys
David Jones
Both she and him are fucking nuts, abort abort abort immediately. You should have already dumped her based on the red flag of her constantly talking about him
Zachary Hernandez
Bro. You literally are already nothing. You literally forgave an insane bitch who cheated on you. You are lower than low. You are utterly pathetic. Cut her off right now and never see her again and possibly redeem yourself, or continue being a wretched cuckold who sold his dignity for broken pussy
James Bennett
are you the guy that the ex found out what gym you were going to? if so we already told you she was still talking to the ex. grow some balls and end it bro.
Jose Gutierrez
this desu
Ethan Anderson
I would give advice about your high school situation, however: >literally >literally >literally That's 3 strikes and you'rrrrrrrrrrrrre out, son--
>literally Are you trying to go for extra credit or something?
Ryder Moore
don't bother. he's shopping for the answer that lines up with what he wants to do most and discarding the rest. he wants to be a cuck so bad its sad. oh well. be sure to keep us updated when she breaks things off with you op.
Hunter Russell
its not going to be possible for you because you are an autistic fuckhead but If I were you I would keep nailing her but cut off all kind of support.
"oh user im so hungry lets get food!" "Nah sorry just ate"
"Oh user there is this movie i heard its SP FUNNY" "Ehh sorry I gota go see my grandma"
Just go over and fuck her, maybe take her to the gym if she doesnt hold you back, but stop giving her anything else and I guarantee youll see where her motivation lies. The bitch is using you as a self esteem boost while she perpetuates the cycle of hating and fucking and fighting with this other dude that her shitty upbringing makes her seek out for love.
Cheers!
Evan Wright
Also start seeing him behind her back.
Get a friend to film and narrate and you have the makings of a wacky summer comedy.
Nicholas Foster
Here bf fucks her better than you do, thats why she still sees him. She's just using you for all the romantic relationship bullshit. The other guy treats her like shit and dicks her down and you respect her and get cheated on
Austin Morales
This guy gets it.
Jeremiah Moore
This
Zachary Nelson
shut the fuck up you arrogant piece of shit. You have no perception of alpha, this guys in a sticky situation.
Take it to the police user on the condition she stops seeing him completely. Not gonna lie she shoulda told you way earlier which is scraping on cuck tier, but if she makes any more inclination toward him break it off immediately, no matter how tied you are to her and how much you like her.
What this guy said
Aaron Jones
She's a dishonest prick.
Drop her. Don't buy that bullshit excuse. If she wanted to leave him, she would have been in jail for making death threats.
Open your eyes and realize you're being conned.
Daniel Fisher
Pipebomb
Ryan Wilson
Eat the bodies for max gains
William Taylor
This smells fake as shit, only in the movies do people surprisingly forget the police exist
Joseph Rogers
>You have no perception of alpha >Take it to the police >Stay with a girl who caused you to taste the dick of the other guy she's been fucking and lying to you about Fucking Obama voter.
Mason Phillips
Have you tried calling the police and talking to them about assault or harrasment charges?
Technically an assault is only threatening someone, battery is when you hit them.
Cooper Flores
>ask to bang at her place >take a couple pics she's no doubt down with it >wait for her to fall asleep >text ex from her phone for dat der booty call >ask for eta >he arrives, 3 minutes after you call the police >two minute window >cops arrest two inconsolable citizens for felony possession of methamphetamine found in a girls purse and on the hood of a man's car parked outside >cops think they're talking about shadow people, way tweaked out on meth.but you were real.you were very real. >you write to them in prison >you take lasagna to their families and talk about how good of friends they were to you >one lasagna night three years in you shit on their porch and disappear forever >seven years into their sentences you send the ex guy the nudes from that night you banged ol lassie, scrubbed of all chronologically damning information, and a couple cute stickers from a hello kitty children's book
Oliver Anderson
>lasagna >not jizz brownies
Nathaniel James
Honestly man, I hate for it to be this way because you seem really hopeful for this relationship, but you need to break her off. I would just CALL HER and tell her that you can't be with her anymore since she cheated on you and you wish her the best. Nothing more than that, don't give her any more validation. If she's cheated once then she'll do it again, and since you reacted softly to her cheating the first time she likely has very little respect for you. All the romantic stuff she says to you is larping to make herself feel loved. I wish you the best user
Ian Clark
just leave her. none of this is worth it at all, trust me
Jace Roberts
lol
Isaiah Bell
You are an actual cuckold, fuck her, cum on her titties then say I'm leaving you, you'll get some self respect back
Aiden Jones
she is a whore who will use you up and then return to her ex.
Joseph Perry
youve clearly made up your mind. just know that when youre done being a dumbass for some useless girl, whatever you allow her to do to you will tear you up inside for a while. just keep moving forward and improve your life one day at a time.
Isaiah Kelly
Force her to get a restraining order and then leave her. If she doesn't get a restraining order leave her.
The dumbest person in your story is you op too.
>I'm so scared of him I talk to him all the time and fuck him >it's just like all those horror porno parodies
Do you also fuck the guy too op? Do you also want to eat his cock seeing as you're also terrified of him?
This girl is smarter than you. She has her cake and eats it too. If you stay with her you are dumb as fuck... well, even dumber.
Make her get a restraining order so at the very least it's inconvenient when you guys split up when she fully commits to him, say something about not liking being cheated on, and then ghost her. You don't need manipulative whores in your life. You're young, you can find someone else.
Unfortunately you're also stupid and guillible as fuck, but you should still find someone. At least you have the experience under your belt now.
Daniel Scott
This is not /adv/ faggot. Seriously kill yourself what are you even asking? Hur durr I like this slut just tell me I shouldn't leave her, what the fuck should we say?
Joshua Williams
this. now fuck off op
Brody Morris
How many calories do you think you could get from an average sized woman?
Josiah Lee
DUDE YOU'VE GOT GOLD ON YOU!!! keep fucking the slut that cheated on you and then start talking to other girls, eventually start cheating on her and you'll be drowning in pussy, sluts love guys in relationships, it makes them feel better, like she is better than the girl you're with
Ryder Morgan
This pretty much
She's already proven she's a liar and you've already proven you're a cuck. Ditch the bitch and tell that cunt if he squares up to you you'll put him on his ass.