My girlfriend has depression linked to body dysmorphia. We've been in a relationship for over three years...

My girlfriend has depression linked to body dysmorphia. We've been in a relationship for over three years. She's absolutely gorgeous. It's almost destroyed our relationship several times because I don't know how to help her anymore, although around the second year she seemed to get better. Recently, it's gotten worse.

She's 5"3 with these proportions, but less in the chest. Closer to small Bs.

That is fat

I realize how much of a compassionate person you are into wanting to help her with her condition, but it might become cancerous and end your relationship. Speak to her seriously about it. The worse thing it will do is end your relationship, but that has already almost happened.

What do big B's look like?

post pics

I honestly couldn't be fucked to keep talking to her about it if you already tell her you like her body

Sooo... You're a chubby chaser. What's the issue?

Damn.
I would make your girlfriend into your ex-girlfriend you future cuck.
Where are you located?
I want to talk to her.

doesn't sound like she loves you, and is torn between:
>1) hating being stuck with you
>2) hating herself and afraid of being alone

This is super easy to fix, just eat her pussy for 2 hours once a week.

Deep, intense, female orgasms release so much endorphin that it's impossible to stay sad.

If you really love this girl, the only safe way to make her happy is to force her body to dump all this adrenaline and release the happy drug inside her brain, to combat her depression.

Downside is, she will probably leave you when she is happier/normal, sounds like right now it's a destructive relationship for both of you.

She isn't OK with pictures. Once I fucked up and she caught me trying to take a video of us doing it doggy. She threw me out of her house with my dick hanging out.

You dont have a non-nude?

it can be linked to de diet. to porn consumption or to many things on the environment in which you can have control over.

But most important this is not Veeky Forums related sage.

"she's got these proportions, except boobs that are proportionately half the size of those breasts, thus making her entire chest a significantly different size but yeah really those proportions."

Your girlfriend is fat and has no tits.

If it's been going on for 3 years you're beyond broscience tips and tricks. She needs professional help, and you need to be firm with her about, be it by setting an ultimatum. Be nice about it, let her know you want her to be happier, even if you must be harsh to make it happen. that's what couples do, help each other grow, especially when times are hard.
If you don't, you'll gradually accept more and more unacceptable things "because she's sick", and either you'll enter a lifelong toxic relationship, bad for both of you, or you'll break up, which will damage her more than you insisting on getting a psychotherapist's help.

drop her

end it

It will never get better. In fact it will get worse as she gets older. Drop her for another female.

I'll strangle your ass, you motherfucking low-test bitch.

Sounds shitty desu

Well, that's your fault.

>She's 5"3 with these proportions

Yeah. I guarantee your gf doesn't have these proportions. She's fat for sure.

>2 hours once a week
Have you ever eaten pussy? It's great, but it's not easy. Two hours of eating pussy right and your jaw might have serious issues.

Eating pussy for one hour, twice a week might be easier, but even still, hope your jaw can take it.

>tfw I ate my muslim girlfriend's pussy for hours
>tfw she said she was temped to fuck every time
>never did and one reason for breaking up was the temptation
Damn she was hot though...would of been worth it for that halal meat

>my muslim girlfriend

fucking idiot should've just put it i

What were you waiting for? An invitation form?

Bet she said she doesnt feel ready yet Lmao

I feel like it's our generation's hallmark to think that you can't be a real human being without having overcome some significant tragedy, which is why everyone seems to be so intent on fabricating some terrible atrocity they have to live with, and also why we all seem to just accept other peoples' bogus issues instead of calling them out on it.

In truth though, modern lives are better than pretty much ever, yet talk to anyone on the street and they all have some shit they think makes them so damaged (especially girls). Honestly, at some point you just have to disconnect and stop them, it's unreasonable for them to expect you to just sit around all day and listen to them complain or be depressed.

But, I'm not some asshole who doesn't believe in depression, I'm currently dating a girl whose body is broken from fighting cancer three times as a teen. I have seen depression in her, so I just don't really strain a heart string when you tell me your girlfriend is depressed because she thinks she's fat.

Put your foot down dude, even if she's depressed due to chemical imbalances she has to put some effort into fighting it and having a normal relationship, or what, will you just continue forever with the relationship as it is? Is that honestly sustainable?

you used so many fucking words incorrectly. Pick up a dictionary.

> B cups
She should have body dysmorphia then

Hahaha what a fucking cuck - eating her out for hours hoping she gives you access and each time she said fuck no.

BRAAAAAAAAAAAAAPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP.....oh yess.....sniff....most delightful, dare I say BRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRFFFFFFFFFPSSSSSSSSSHHHHHHHH....oh yes, more my poot princess RRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP

> why does everyone need a dramatic story
> here's my overwrought sad story listen to me!!
What did he mean by this?

There it is

mate it sounds like your girl is fat and its up to you to either slim her down or deal with a piggy who knows shes a piggy but doesnt want to drop the weight.

I'd pull this woman's buttcheeks apart and delicately lick her anus, if you know what I mean!

neither the pic nor the proportions you told matter. her problem lies within her own inability to see herself without seeing something bad.
Try taking her out more maybe and do stuff that distracts her so she doesnt focus on her self.
Also dont just tell her she is beautiful the way she is, tell her that it is okay to not be fine with how you and that you understand her and are there for her. Whenever you get shit for making her feel alone it is likely that you are the person she hopes will make everything right no matter what but you cant change the size of her breasts waist ect. Try to keep your calm during those times as it is unlikely that she is actually upset about you unless you fucked something up.

What is she doing about her body if she is unhappy with it.

Other than moaning the weight away

Take some mdma with her, it will sort those issues out overnight.

> small Bs
Get her some G implants, looking like a girl might resolve her issues

you can't even see her ass did the fart come from her boobs? out of her nipples? that would be soo weird i wonder what it would smell like haha

Shes gonna have to get over it user. Whatever shes dealing with you gotta get her to talk to a professional or its gonna continue to ruin things. Or tell her to work out with you and leave humanity behind.

how do you think i put 3 inches on my lower jaw?

take her to the GP - then get her sign posted to a pro that can help.

she'll only get over it by fucking CHAD or JAMAL behind your back since her insecurities stem from her appearance not being "good enough" even though she's already in a relationship, she just wants to know that she can pull dick anytime she wants

Pretty much the end result

Literally this. OP ill be your jamal for the night if you need me to save your relationship. Im not black but ive once done weed.

>delicately
nah, I'd just jam my face in those cheeks m7
Good shout, get some diz and get her right cunted. She'll have a great time. Only problem is pilly willy.

The OP has probably bailed out of this thread but I had a similar situation.

Girl had BDD and was under psych care for most of the time we were together (4 years). It'll never get better, and she'll take her shit out on you always.

It's not worth the roller coaster and eventual train wreck your relationship will be due to her omnipresent issues.

Nothing helps these people. Nothing.

>my gf is depressed
>I told her to stop but it didn't work

Like go see a specialist or something?

Is that really all you got from his post?

Bipolar is an entirely different thing - its classed differently to things like major depression and dismorphia because its almost psychotic. People with bipolar rarely actually acknowledge they are ill beyond depression and this lack of introspection makes them a nightmare - they fully regard the problems as the fault of others and their own actions as reasonable, refuse help and refuse to monitor themselves.

Being in a relationship with a bipolar person is, in my mind, more foolish than being with a schizophrenic.