Im a virgin, but i lift for 3 years now and i already achieved a nice physique...

Im a virgin, but i lift for 3 years now and i already achieved a nice physique, so regular girls who are used to average fags would find me hot.

The thing is im still kind of ,,scared'' to fuck a cute chick since im getting nervous pretty easily, so i think i will go for 4/10 girls first just to practise sex until i get used to do it. What do you think?

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yeah why not

you'll get a 4/10 preggers and she'll keep the child and you'll have to pay. She better be thic

sure bro just do it

Bad idea user, your dick won't work if you're not attracted to the girl, best case scenario youll just have bad sex. Just work on talking to girls and get a qt

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I don't understand the whole practice for sex thing. Sexy is easy as shit, the hard part is convincing a girl to fuck you by either being confident enough to take a girl home from a party/club or not sperging out on a date and acquiring a gf

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What you want is a thot

Why not go for 6-7s? 6s will be happy to fucked at all. 7s are nice enough to be forgiving and understanding. Anything 8 or above though will be disappointed if you don't perform confidently.

I'm in the same position. I've had 5/10 offer me sex and I turned them down out of pure nervousness :(

Yeah i know what you mean. I never went whole hog on getting fit cause I know it can't make me interesting, fix my personality or make my face less mediocre. Same reason I dont really quit porn, there's no point cause I'm not gonna be able to get a gf anyway.

What do you guys look like?
ive gone from 77kg to 89kg and i havent made any progress in the getting laid department so some guidelines would be great

NO slam piggies, do not give fat chicks the validation that shit is cancer for america

find yourself a nice 5 or 6/10, they'll enjoy the dick

i usually just date 17 yr olds when girls my age don't wanna date me.

do normal guys (not r9k) care if a girl is a virgin or not? im 19 and a virgin, i dont want to fuck random boys and i have never been in love...im getting older and older and im getting nervous because of this fact

Personally I dont really care. It's a nice little plus but as long as they're not easy enough I have to worry about STDs and shit then I'm fine with it.

>do normal guys care
short answer:no

Most guys prefer virgins. Especially if they're looking for something more serious.

OP, you're thinking too much which is basically your problem worth the whole girls topic.

Don't think about 'going for someone'. Just do it. After your approached ten chicks you will know where you stand in terms of attractiveness, which includes look, body language, game etc. From there you go upwards as you get more experienced. If it helps find a chick that does not scare you. But let me tell you as a former lvl 26 wizard, after some practice I am conditioned to love the adrenaline flush right before I approach a girl. Be a warrior, just do it, spill your spaghetti, but do it with all your heart.

Bad idea. It doesn't work this way. Even if you practise with 4/10 a lot, You will be nervous with cute chick

Same with me, but this was when I was a 70 kg skinny alcoholic, now as buffed 90 kg clean trained guy, they never do the first step.

Marriage material

okey, i'm glad to hear! thanks for your answers :)

Brapppp

Just hire a prostitute

>Im a virgin, but i lift for 3 years now and i already achieved a nice physique, so regular girls who are used to average fags would find me hot.

The minute they realize you're a virgin they'll laugh in your face.

Also if you're a virgin then you probably have a hideous face and are an aspie. Never gonna make it

fucking Christ dude.

i wish /r9k/ never came here

Depends on where you live. In Germany, if you want to have good Sex, hire a 1000€ Escort, because a regular Hooker is mostly a east European woman who came here under "not so good" circumstances and hate every minute of her Job and act exactly like that.

Just fuck whatever you can get your hands on

also

>braap

>i dont want to fuck random boys and i have never been in love
who DO you want to fuck then?

Go for dumb bitches that like to fuck and are easily impressed, and/or have a female friend hook you up with somebody.. It's fool proof. I'm 5'11" and a 350lb morbidly obese waste of life and I've been with 4 women ranging from 4/10-8/10. My only strengths are intelligence, sense of humor, nice hair, and slightly above average dick size. I have no confidence whatsoever, and I'm a complete social autist. If I can do it anybody can my man.

my first boyfriend

She is a girl (or so she claims) and they are strange
They want to fuck but only want to fuck this one special dude, but they wont give any dude the chance to prove he is the special guy

its the dating equivalent of divide by zero

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I don't understand why you (or anyone for that matter, sheesh) doesn't always aim for the fwb zone, the area between friend and g/bf. Like, you get to have sex with someone you actually like but without falling off a clip into commitments and monogamy. Relationships are a myth we invented anyway.

What do i do if im a virgin with a foot fetish and im 27 years old. Ive been lifting for 4 years now and I've made decent gains (same situation as OP)

should i just become a wizard and count my blessings

DO NOT TOUCH ANY GIRL UNDER 6/10. YOU ARE MAKING THINGS WORSE.

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I get why i personally dont do it, because i cant find a girl to have that type of relation with
So lack of options i guess

We're A L L gonna make it user

I lost my virginity to 4/10 when i was 18. Now (20) i have 8/10 atheltic gf and im not complaing

I come from a 1% family. Private school. Fit. The works.

I would not consider any girl with a notch count above 0 for a serious relationship.


Any guy that understands the importance of pair bonding and that also wants a serious LTR is the same.


Most high rollers in my group have the same opinion, but a couple still keep slags around.

Pretty much what I'm focusing on right now. Know a 4/10 and am trying to succeed in fucking her for the Salem of practice and breaking out of the anxiety. I'd even date her, just for the experience. Everyone and their mother would tell me I could do much better. I think of it as being no different than working out. Start light and work your way up to a 10/10 thicc 1rm

Try to convince yourself that you are not a virgin and I'll be easier.

It'll *

What? Are you retarded? Men fought wars over virgins nigga.
A virgin girl will be guaranteed to be free of STDs. They also attach to you more and their sex will essentially revolve around the one man she ever fucked. A virgin is a prize for a reason.

she said not r9k guys

im not him but r9k doesnt care about virgins, do they? those faggots are women haters who want the top 1% of women and get pissy when they cant have her
/pol/ however loves virgins last i checked

Yea, may as well. Whatever you fancy, man.

too late babe ;)

Cunt, you have nothing to lose so try going whole hog into fit and see what happens.

I honestly dont enjoy it though. I realize the health benefits so I do enough to stay in average shape (and keep job standards) but it's always been a "chore" to me, more or less.

And I know it's mostly my personality, it's not just gfs that have left. I've had 1 friend in my life that hasn't disappeared after a year or so at most.

M8 the value of a females virginity goes back t ancient times and is embedded in most religions. This isn't r9k bullshit

yes

if shes a virgin im 5 times as likely to commit to her

Sure, go ahead and fuck a 4/10 if you want. Just make sure to wear and condom, keep in mind those girls are trash and have to take whatever sex they can find, so it's basically a horrible idea to begin with considering the amount of dirty, disgusting men they've probably been with. If you go in raw, expect an STD, a child, and a lifetime of regret.

>relationships are a thing we invented anyway
>ignore the fact they are in literally all cultures which have been seperated for thousands of years, proving that they are biologically engrained in us
go back to jerking off over Neil Degrasse Tyson or some shit you pseudo-intellectual vaper
I personally would prefer if a gf was a virgin, because everyone likes to feel special and knowing that a girl cares about you enough to have sex for the first time is a lovely feeling, being 100% honest

You need to start making social gains. Read and watch youtube videos to learn how to excel in social situations.

For a serious relationship, men will typically prefer women who have had fewer partners. People who disagree are mostly people who engage in casual sex and don't intend to have serious relationships in the first place.

>do normal guys (not r9k) care if a girl is a virgin or not?
Yes.

This was pretty inspiring

>the hard part is convincing a girl to fuck you
>convincing
lol

meanwhile Chad does nothing and women come to him like moths to a flame and he gets sex for free while so called "Alphas" have to "work like dogs" and "act like loud arrogant monkey clowns" to get women interested.

This, except I'm not 1%. Why would I buy a used car when a new car is the same price?

> read YouTube videos
what did he mean by this

that's retarded OP,fucking a 4 wont make you any better at talking to an 7-8,seriously if you want to grow confidence and balls just go to a 7-8 and behave to her as you would to a 4 until she's the same as a 4 to you (which is to say a human being,you shouldnt be afraid of)

protect your virginity with your life, user. I hate to sound like your christian mother (I'm not Christian) but really waiting for marriage is the best.
My fiancée was a virgin and it means the world to both her and I that there is a special bonding between just us because only we have shared something that precious. It's one of very few things that you can only give once, and it's a pretty big deal.

People who fuck around are only living in the moment and are never truly happy

If you quit porn 4/10 becomes 6/10, so it not so bad to fuck the uglies. You might wanna try it op; get some experience that way. And if you much hotter than them they will literary worship your cock

>I come from a 1% family. Private school. Fit. The works.
lmao, I'm dying "I would not consider any girl with a notch count above 0 for a serious relationship." As if you have any choice in the matter.

lmfao

Yeah every woman rubs her clit thinking of Paul Singer and Mark Cuban guys. That's why women hang around the yale campus looking for 'prestigious' manlets at the debate club instead of going to the football game to suck chad's cock right?

lmfao

What are you like? Meaning your personality.

This is some /pol/ type shit

That's a pretty bad analogy for a number of reasons
>and it's a pretty big deal.
And this is just retarded bullshit

Once you lose it you realize just how little being a virgin actually means. Anyone who elevates sex to that level is adding some religious crap into it.

Yeah, it's nice to fuck a virgin for a bunch of reasons, but for most dudes it just comes down to the conquest.

This man is a retard. Any girl that is over 20 and still a virgin is either ugly or maladjusted. That would mean they have never had a serious boyfriend, which is a pretty big red flag once you're that old. Looking for virgins is for ugly autists that know their dick is too small to compete and need to find someone as maladjusted as themselves so that the girl doesn't realize how pathetic their 4 inch dick is.

nice pic

I'm a big fan of that artist tbqh

You have the right mindset. The first girl I started getting sexual with was a mediocre/fugly looking chubby chick. She started giving me blowjobs and I began fingering her. It really helped me build my self confidence with women.

As far as sex is concerned the first girl I fucked was this 5'0 petite Greek cutie. She had a nice body and a decent face despite her rather big jew looking nose. She was also a virgin, but very socially awkward and somewhat of a female weaboo. She did not know I was a virgin, because I followed the whole "fake it til you make it" advice which worked greatly.

Since then I fucked a few chubby girls there and here, but stopped since getting a good looking girlfriend. Want my advice? Use mediocre looking girls to build up confidence with women and practise other sexual stuff like bjs and such. You don't really have to fuck them. Once you have used them up I suggest than going for better looking cuties. Just don't get caught on only fucking the uggos.... because you might end up regretting it later on. Just saying. The best to place to start is seem chubby/fat women, because they really are eager to please, have very low self confidence, and are relatively easy. You don't really have to start fucking A BUNCH OF 4/10s like you said in order to get good at sex, because if you are a good looking guy you can do much better.

The real key is just to fake it til you make it. The first girl I lost my virginity to was so convinced I was not a virgin, because of the way I carried myself and how well I took care of my body. It's really easy to lie to women. Do it. Best of luck, OP. Be confident in yourself and realize that the first time you will have sex will suckered.

P.S. Get the fuck off Veeky Forums if you want to get laid and stop asking for sex advice online and actually go out and stop giving a fuck even if you don't succeed at first. The clock is ticking.

It's hard to be objective about myself. I make a lot of jokes that usually seem to do well (people laugh most of the time and it's not fake). I dont have a lot of hobbies. I think this is probably a big issue, I'm just boring. I'm fairly smart, not saying I'm a genius or anything close, but I did pretty well in school. A lot of it is random bullshit/trivia though, and I try to not be pretentious/know-it-all about it. I'm pretty introverted. Pretty poor self-confidence/self-image at this point, though image wise it's probably justified.

When I lose friends it's never a "falling out" type thing, they basically just stop talking to me or inviting me to things, etc. If I see them somewhere it's still friendly but basically I'm "out of the group" or whatever you want to call it.

all my friends who's gf's were virgins are super loyal, me and my other friends who had slutty gf's ended up leaving us for other guys. my ex was 17 when we started dating and she slept with 20-30 guys, slept with a guy days after our like 3 year relationship.

normal people won't care but id probably prefer a girl who has under like 10 lol

ignore the retards in the thread,anyone that ends up liking you won't give a shit if you are a virgin,quite the opposite infact im pretty sure any man would be quite happy to know that you don't sleep around,and i'm speaking about people that actually plan to have a relationship with you but i wouldn't be so sure about the guys that do one night stands if that's what you are looking for.

Everyone has to start somewhere. Its like lifting weights. gotta start with the bar to get to 1 pl8. then go for 2 pl8s.

How do you get to that part where you and the girl decide to fuck? I get it that you get to know them, flirt, make them laugh, or whatever until you're confident they like you, but it feels like I'm missing that crucial step where you and the girl get to fug. How do you bring it up? What do you do or say?

you dont need to say anything. start with kissing and then talk with your body.

>this exact situation applies to me
>except I also have a micropenis

I could train myself to learn charm and game but I will never have any sexual confidence.

You can't fix the unfixable.

Stop measuring yourself by how many women you can bag. It won't bring you happiness and it is well documented that porn stars are some of the least happy people on the planet.

Work on yourself and the rest will fall into place. What do you want in life? What do you stand for? Seek the truth for the truth will not seek you and just about everything we're told are lies. You must be present, mindful, experience it all for yourself, learn from experience and not what someone has told you it ought to be.

Become who you are, if you want something (ie to be a slut) then do it. Imagine yourself as chad, say you're going to become chad. Learn about what it means to become chad, practice practice practice. The key to self-confidence is practice. But don't take my word for it, do some research.

1) Law of Attraction
2) Eat Healthy, Drink clean water
3) Stop watching shit entertainment TV and shit news
4) Learn Something, Read, Meditate.

>Work on yourself and the rest will fall into place
I hate that meme. There are failures out there with girlfriends, I wouldn't consider myself to be one, since I have a stable job, car etc. but no gf.

when your older you'll think about the time you lost your virgnity and you'll just be seeing an ugly 4. just fuck a 6 or 7. dont fuck a really ugly girl, you'll regret it

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I was in your position 10 years ago. Find a grill online in the next town over who is a 6/10 if you are decent looking she'll be all over you. Don't get emotionally attached just fuck her and practice sex with her (i'm talking read/watch better sex guides etc etc and practice on her) before it gets serious dump her. Don't let her meet your friends or family and don't stay in touch with her.

Wow, asshole.

What's up roasty did this happen to you?

what a moronic thing to do. just find a hot girl and have sex with her instead

I wouldnt even know what to do with myself if this was on the bed next to me.

I think im beta by design, I would have made a good serf.

Having drunken sex with some girl once isn't going to give you sexual confidence like fucking a girl for a few months and trying all sorts out on her.

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