When i'm walking down the street where am I supposed to be looking...

>eye contact with strangers feels needy

pathetic

let me put it this way, thinking there is a right way to look is the real issue, accept and live with the awkwardness you feel instead of being a slave to your minds insecurities, start looking wherever the fuck you want to look.

>eye contact with strangers feels needy
lmao. How much of an autist do you have to be so that eye contact is done out of neediness (i.e. a need for some human connection) rather than confidence

great, thanks, now im looking manually

retard

>read up on body language
>Walk like I have purpose chest or chin up shoulders slightly swinging
>Make eye contact with anyone who looks and let them break it first
>Read that interested girls will always make eye contact
>Only 10% girls in college make eye contact and not the hot ones usually
FML
I just wanna make it and go Chad mode

How much do you think about where other people look? Not at all unless they do something really retarded, right? The correct answer is to act like you don't see other people, just stare ahead like you would when walking alone in the woods. If you want to attract women you should obtain and hold eye contact though. Look away after they look away, don't keep eye contact after (it's creepy) but don't break it before they do (it's beta)

when I spot some girl looking at me, then I give a little grin, many times they smile back.
But I'm like 6'3".

where are you from? if you are from yurop i'd have my eyes at the back of my head and scan all around me 24/7 never dropping guard. you never know where the next peace strike will happen

Also if you engage in conversation , always look straight in the eyes,just relaxed you know, with a little smile, like you control the situation.
I'll say something and their tone of voice will change into this playful one.
This girl asked me something, can't remember what I told her and just immediately switched to her playful tone and said "hey quit teasing meee" while she blushed and bit her lips a bit.

stare at your phone

Also this.

It's like you're not even a real person.

>height privilege

from which porn scene is this?

"ordering a latte from my local Starbucks "

just make sure you're not 100% pic related

Literally just use sunglasses and people can't see where you look

>>Make eye contact with anyone who looks and let them break it first
This sounds autistic as fuck man. Don't do that

Stop thinking about it. If you have some kind of pattern or rule about what you're going to do, you are a beta bitch.

Just do as you please. Stop giving some stranger's opinion of you the power to change your behavior.

I like to look wherever i want. I'll look up at buildings, around myself randomly, at people. Whatever. There's a lot to see out there, nothing wrong with looking at it.

If im walking by a girl and i can see her nipples through her shirt, or her cleavage is noticeable, I will take a nice long look at her boobs. I figure if they're out there she won't mind and I'll look alpha in the process, and also i kinda like being caught. Also i love girls feet so I am constantly scanning girls toes and soles. I live in florida so girls are barefoot a lot.

And thats how ya do it.

Lel I just stare at yoga pants girls with camel toes

t. beta

just look into eyes and smile its not that hard you fucks

If you actually have to ask this, you're on the spectrum

I stare at eternity. Kinda like gazing something really far away

this, or usually i will make eye contact then look down at their boobs. it funny lol

just ghost people my dude, look straight ahead and don't even acknowledge their existence. look past them. it'll piss everyone off

i constantly have that "im thinking" look. i will look ahead for a bit, maybe side to side, look at my phone. not darting eyes though because that makes you look like a serial killer freak

Honestly, I agree with this. We're so bored we overthink this shit too much these days.

Sunglasses can hide autismo. Larp as a lion among sheep, good posture, powerful strut, keep your chin parallel to the ground.

this and sometimes I just stare a bit at something I find interesting.

I hate it when girls and sometimes women purposefully come into my trajectory and bump into my arm or shoulder. Never do this.

What do you do? Not look them in the eye? Break eye contact first?
Back to r9k

worst thing is to be autistic and not deal with it

This is the way

>Hot: Keep eye contact, smile slightly
>Ugly: Break and keep walking

Too real

You need to look at what you need to look at?

Head straight ahead, you can look at the ground at a distance and plan accordingly so you don't need to stare at your fucking feet.

If you make eye contact with someone just nod or something. Men will usually nod back, I think women don't know how nodding works, desu I don't really care. Half-smiles are also good.

If you're legit walking then you have so many things to look at that you shouldn't ever maintain eye contact too long with anyone.

Feels kind of autistic to explain this shit, mostly because it usually just happens without thinking about it.

brown qt

What if approaching girls are looking to my eyes, but when I look into theirs, they lower their heads and stare at the ground?

Probably depends on the local culture.
Texas is supposedly more open and friendly but most fucking millenials get insecure when they're not staring at their phones.
If people want to be "threatened" or uncomfortable by strangers acknowledging let them.

I usually make eye contact with people and smile. It's nice when you do it to an old person and they smile and you can tell it makes them feel acknowledged. It makes many foreigners visibly uncomfortable for some reason lol, they're probably not used to people being friendly to them.

>look everyone in the eye at a distance
>can't look people in the eye for more than a few seconds when they're a foot away
Help

You must resist the beta urge to look away. But don't stare at them like a serial killer. Just relax. Always add a little more time to this looj. Push yourself. You will see it's no big deal. Don't stress it, it's nothing. In the beginning you can just picture something totally different from the situation, while looking them in the eyes

whos dis qt 3.14 grill?

I would like to know this too

do drugs and go walking around high as fuck

I reflexively try to make eye-contact with girls I find attractive. If they find me attractive, they don't avert their eyes and I take that as in invitation. If they look away, then I keep moving.

I think this is the best way to go about it, you shouldn't worry about being "too needy."

stare at your phone and look busy

>10% make eye contact

Nearly every girl makes eye contact with me, even girls holding onto their BF's. I don't think I'm that attractive tho, but I also don't think im that ugly as to seem like im standing out. Also, the beta guy rarely look at me, whilst i try to make contact with Alphas too, just to see the difference

Means they aren't interested, and they reget looking your direction because they don't want to give off the signals that they are interested into you.

It's politely saying No thank you.

You're interesting to them not attractive enough that they can fight through their self-confidence issues and maintain eye contact.

mind train yourself to look without looking. rather than having to look/focus on something engage the entirety of your visual awareness such that you become simultaneously aware of everything withing the entire viewing screen. that way you can look into space without looking but still simultaneously see everything.

If this is legit user then I want to be you, teach me all you know sensei

I live in a shit area if I followed that rule and be stabbed and would have bled to death before reached the end of the street

god damn I miss her instagram

I love people like you user

Is it bad if a woman does several of these things when walking? Is it still autistic?

What if you have this autistic weasel habit of darting your eyes around, looking at strangers in crowds? Hopefully it's more subtle (not like I'm rubbernecking at a different person every two seconds) or maybe I look schizo.

>be me
>be beta bitch
>decide to force myself to not look down at the ground when walking past people
>instantly spot qt3.14
>time to do this.jpeg
>walk past and look her in the eyes
>she sees me
>she looks back
>she stops and asks what I want
>flop sweat engage
>panic and stutter the words firing myself to eyes people
>she's visibly on edge from his
>anxiety is in overdrive
>I just fucking legged it, sprinted to the end of the road and round the corner
>never fucking trying that again.gif

girls make eye contact because they usually arent beta as fuck and dont even have to think about that kind of thing. same with most guys

Can confirm, my neighbor died from this. Wind gust my man.

Peple will just think your on crack

nothin wrong with that

The patrician drug for getting Veeky Forums

>where am I supposed to be looking?
>how do i perfectly follow society's rules?

Stop trying to do that you oversocialized plebs. Look where you want to look and don't be ashamed of it. It's your right to look at whatever the fuck you want.

a bit of the crack rock never hurt nobody

At least I am thicc and a lot of times i catch qts staring at muh bootiah

Follow up on this
>Be me walking down the street
>Seeing people go about shopping
>Qt blonde standing at the corner
>Our eyes lock, I raise my eyebrows after one second as if expecting her to say something
>She smiles
>I smile back
>"Hi would you like to sign this petition for refugees?"
REEEEEEEEEE

Girls just make eye contact, it doesn't mean anything to them.

I do this all the time

>"Hi would you like to sign this petition for refugees?"
I'm always slightly amused when a hot girl tries to get me to do something like that, I always decline but I make them put a little effort into it first.
Last time it was a hot nun who first tried to charm me into donating, then she tried guilt tripping me by putting a cross in my hands and saying blessings

Look straight ahead like you're going somewhere important. Like pretend you're on your way to the next building.

Look at the most alpha chad or hot female and see how they walk. They'll have their head up and be looking straight ahead. Just do what they do.

I've always done this, do they really get pissed?

>I'm 6/14
G-good enough, right?

This is what I do, but its also easier because I dont have perfect vision without my glasses, and I dont wear them on the street, so everyone looks slightly blurry until they are practically within talking distance. This enables me to ignore everyone but also make very long eye contact if necessary. I have the advantage because to me their eyes and facial expressions are indistinguishable, but they can see mine. So from their perspective I am making strong eye contact, but from mine I am looking at a blurry face that is incapable of intimidating me. Hahahaha!

>actually stopping for those vampires
>not simply telling them you hate the thing they're trying to save while walking away
>"i hate refugees"
>"i hate children"
>"i hate cancer victims"
>"i hate whales"
>"i hate the rainforest"

Usually gets a smile and then a quizzical look, which in turn makes me laugh. Gotta give happiness to get happiness motherfucker.

think about it, most people use the brief eye contact afforded by crossing paths to exchange some kind of pleasantry or acknowledge each other's existence, whether it be with a smile or a nod. by ghosting them, you basically tell them that their existence doesn't matter to you, which causes their egos to falter a bit. you can even respond to their pleasantry while keeping your fixed gaze for a similar effect; it sends the message that you are willing to engage in the chatter that makes up casual social interaction to an extent, but ultimately have more important matters to attend to.

source for this info: my ass