Is anyone else's social life finished ever since they started to live a healthy lifestyle?

It is here in yurop. I stopped smoking, then weed, alcohol, eating shitty, in that order.
Every time I stopped with something I eventually lost contacts. Would have said friends but obviously they aren't.
Could have gone out tonight but I can't enjoy seeing my friends getting shitfaced in a bar/club with mediocre music, afterwards eating shit, while being sober.

Fuck I need to meet new people, but no one seems to have non-degenerate "hobbies" and actual knowledge for conversation.
Alcohol, clubs, netflix, games and anime sums up 99% of people and their favorite pastime it seems.

My social life was already finished, but that said I never drinked or smoked or anything either.

Has anyone spoken to you about our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ?

>mfw i eat pizza everyday, i go out and drink, eat candy, smoke weed and still look fucking asthetics while these autists lose friends through their autistic routines and other bullshit

So true. Normies lead shit lives, unfortunately.

On the other hand, I speak to a few guys in the gym, but they have no interests outside of it.

Doing real sport is good though. I do athletics and most people take it seriously enough not to do degenerate things but are not so autistic that they do/talk about nothing else. Myself, I'm moderately autistic, so I don't see them outside of training and competition but at least we have decent conversations about stuff. Obviously if you play rugby or shit you will still have to put up with drinking, so not all sports are as helpful.

Tell me about it.

The women are the worst. They drink every night, and then think an hour in the yoga studio will get rid of the alcohol cottage cheese asses.

You can do all of those things and still have a healthy lifestyle. Just practice control and moderation...the problem isn't everyone else. The answer to your problems comes from within.

I've lived in 4 countries across 3 continents this is an American phenomenon

Very ironic post. If you had close to fully functioning adult-level critical thinking capability you would know weed being legal benefits society as a whole. 100s of millions of dollars in potential tax revenue that is pure profit to organized crime cartels operating in your country is the most glaring positive I'll mention but there are tons others.

Unfortunately there is an entire generation of people who drank the kool aid of 'weed is drug. drug is bad.'

It's kind of a complicated story here in Germany. Somehow many people made drinking alcohol their own youth culture

>Be in my A-Levels classes
>Got my circle of friends at school and basically barely interact with anyone else because fuck them
>Literally every single discussion topic is either about a previous birthday party, a normal party or them just drinking alcohol and doing shit while doing so
Believe me when I am saying those three things are all they are talking about, seriously
>I don't drink (anymore) and thus don't partake in their discussions or don't meet up with them
>Somehow I am labeled as the person hating on them or excluding myself from them because I choose to not simply talk about the only topics they can serve

Also, it is a common to have A-Levels graduation clothing in your final year and you can choose your motto and pictures yourself and they ofcourse took something about drinking alcohol. Result was me not buying one of those because it just seemed ridiculous and I had to endure 10 minutes of the whole class and even the teacher degrading me for not wanting to be part of the class community.

Fuck, they're not even chads or stacies or any sort of that shit. They're just your average retards who have nothing else to offer or to spend their time on.

t. mad

To add:
I have absolutely nothing about drinking alcohol, literally 95% of my friends do so but I can't stand it when people talk non-stop about it as if they're automaticly cool because of it or when they treat it like it is fucking crystal meth.

tl;dr: nothing wrong with drinking, bragging about it is

God damn
Is she the perfect woman?

>everyone
sounds like you surround yourself with trash people

make friends at the gym
find a rock climbing gym in your area and make friends there, do outdoorsy things with them

amazing, problem solved

Shit man, I feel you. All my friends at work just want to get shitfaced then talk about it work next time we cross paths. I hate it because they're slowly becoming one dimensional and have no concept of self -awareness. They also complain that they're aren't getting paid more/promoted, but when everyone only hears you talk about drinking...

possibly

good on you user.

To an extent yes.

The only escape is if you seek out a group that does shit like travel, languages, dance, etc. Otherwise you're stuck with 9 to 5ers who drink, eat, and club at most.

t. desk worker

Yeah, I never got that either. Some people have very little going on in their lives, so getting fucked up is their only release from monotony. Finding others with that same problem makes them feel less like failures.

Usually those same boring university students will grow up to be boring adults and then boring parents. The topic of conversation will change from drinking to "muh kids" or maybe the latest film Hollywood shat out. They're just normalfags. It's what they do.

>naturals on Veeky Forums who squat 300 lb abstain from drinking/smoking while professional athletes still find the time and place to occasionally indulge

HAHAHAHAHA

talk about COPE. Stop coming up with excuses for being a socially awkward weirdo, loser

I recently moved back to the US after a few years abroad and my solution to making friends without the toxic drinking involved is to get back into my old hobbies of jiu-jitsu and boxing. It's an easy way to bond with non-degenerates with plenty of stretching and down time before/after class to shoot the shit. There are plenty of ways to socialize outside the bar scene but you'll have to seek out those opportunities, they won't just magically appear for you.

If you want to make it to 50 at best, then stay with them. If you want to enjoy life till over your 80th, and potentially even get to use the life extending drugs. Then stay with us.

You should realize what kind of rabble you are surrounded with. It always was like that. Generally speaking too you should be more successful at life. Its a good path to walk upon if you want to make the big bucks. Or at least help you doing it. It will remove depression, meaninglessness, it will train you to be focused and persisting.

Why do you think the 10% of rich people exists? Why do you think the jews and their games are so good? Its not because they are smarter, its because they persist more. If you knew how much potential you just had if you switched those neurons to be more aggressive in all sorts of ways.

But you are surrounded by dredges of society, even your family probably "its okay user, you can do it tommorrow" "Its okay user, lets go get a beer if you feel bad and talk about it" and other bullshit things that lead you to them.

But you know, the edge of your teeth. The close shave to death. Would you really be sitting here and planning things if you really wanted to make the biggest of bucks? Every single second you can do something to increase your buckses. Every single second you could not slack. Could learn something, could scour opportunities. Could think of ways to approach people and sell dumb stuff to them. All you need is willpower.

Give me source
Got to convince her to become my fiance asap

Insufferable

>Is anyone else's social life finished ever since they started to live a healthy lifestyle?

This implies that I had one before hand...

There is nothing good about
>DUDE LMAO WEED LOLZ
unless you are vaporizing it or ingesting it. The toxicity of smoking outweighs any benefit you want to pitch. Other psychoactive drugs are much better at the things potheads like without the carcinogenic effects of smoking.

Also, you're excluding other drugs from legalization because of your same petty morality bullshit that other people want to keep weed illegal. If you're on board with weed, why not coke or horse?

>muh morality

Fine, why not ending the pharmaceutical industry's reign and putting all drugs, prescribed or otherwise, on a fair market?

>muh Jews

Yup I give myself one day a month maybe two if I'm feeling wild to go out and be a retard.

Isabela Florentine

Nora Isabel Stadler

Whaaaaat the fuck is wrong with you. You can still enjoy yourself without liquor and smoke.

I still go out with my mates and eat like a king, but I just don't smoke or drink. Since I'm the only clean-cut white guy in our gang, we decided that when the police inevitably show up, it's best they deal with me. They still rib me for not drinking, but I play it off real gentle, no real pressure.

You were probably an outcast before though...

But yea, being healthy is more social than people realize. Having a social circle who is into fitness will only spur you to make the right decisions.

This. Do bar scene, meet bar girls. It's all trash.

Take a class
Get a hobby
Volunteer

Quit surrounding yourself with garbage people and the garbage women vanish.

The actual problem for me is that even though it is annoying I could very well accept that they are like that and are bragging about their bad habits if they just kept it to themself. My main problem is that they're acting as if I am the most boring person on earth who is not capable of socialising because I don't drink.

Very true, when a simple aspect takes over your life, then you sure must be boring.

>tfw 31 and I have no idea how to make friends anymore.

Growing up this was never an issue, I currently have 0 friends in this town. My small group of friends is currently spread out all over the world.