See a topic saying, "Dude, just be confident to get girls!!"

>see a topic saying, "Dude, just be confident to get girls!!"
>tfw 26 and never had any female attention ever
>tfw missed out on teenage relationships
>tfw went through hellish years of university without any social life at all
>tfw never had any social life or acquaintances since 18
>tfw lift weights but will always be ugly
>tfw resentment is too cyclical to motivate me
>tfw never been to a party or pub or club
>tfw you need friends to make friends / get a gf and after that all you do is jockey for status and act as entertainment for women
>tinder / internet has confirmed that women only care about top tier Chads and have extremely easy lives
>too middle class and quiet for slags, too ugly and nerdy and quiet for middle class girls, don't fit in anywhere

So what do I do, apart from losing all hope and empathy for other people? It seems like society is a major scam. Picrelated, the thought of going to any social event is a joke by now. The only thing people talk about is social subjects.

>>R9K

Uhhh guys I think he's crying

You're a loser and you have a loser mentality. I'm not surprised girls don't want you

Dont meet girls at bars/clubs.
Just find hobbys, and find girls that do the same hobby as you.
Girls have pretty low standards, people see ugly guys with hot girls and think its only about money, but in reality they kinda just date whoever theyre dating.

Read Models by Mark Manson. Also stop being a bitter bitch, you're unapproachable as you are and people notice

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>the problem isn't me, it's everyone else!

Well bro, you should unironically just end it all.

Why? You failed as a human being already, it's like an adult person who never learned to go to the bathroom alone.

You failed, there's nothing to redeem just kill yourself you know what the FACE HEIGHT FRAME shitposter is actually right, you are a virgin and you can't do ANYTHING about it, it's just out of your control.

Just kill yourself just do it.

We know you can, just end the suffering

there's a guy in my town who is literally deformed. i think it also affects his sight because he wears really thick glasses. well guess what, he's one of, if not the most popular guy in the scene, because he attends virtually every rave in this area. i'm pretty sure he could even get a girl if he wanted. is stress this because you can't imagine how ugly he is. but looks don't matter as much as Veeky Forums would like to make you believe.

What did you study that didn't allow you to meet people and socialise? I'm an introvert and people won't fully notice there because you're basically forced to talk and interact which is a good thing for me of course.

develop an insanely good sense of humour or get rich

I think he knows that he has problems. The issue is that it isn't fixable. If you're born ugly you will always be ugly. If you're ugly, nobody will want to talk to you, so you won't make friends. If you don't have friends, then you won't get girls. etc.

Meanwhile you have Chad who was born attractive and only knows life through the lens of an attractive person who gets tons of social attention.

Basically, if you're ugly, if you've drawn the short straw in life, then you're fucked. This is what the systematic oppression of ugly people looks like.

You don't have to be beautiful to be well liked. Being interesting and genuine are important as well.

A man's self worth does not hinge upon his looks.

That is just pua nonsense

We are a generation of men raised by women. Do you really think another woman is what you need?

Pic related

just cauase u didnt have a dad and now have daddy issues dont mean everyone else does

You need to make up your mind. Do you want to be a social normie or not?
If everything you've done hasn't gotten you what you wanted, then try something different. Force yourself to make friends. Force yourself to be social. Fake it till you make it.

If you hate social shit, then you should stop crying about it. There are girls who are home bodies, you might be lucky enough to find one. Don't be an anti social cynic and then wonder why you have no friends, that makes no sense.

ebin

The best advice I was ever given is that people don't pay nearly as much attention to you or your perceived flaws as you believe they do. People will believe you if you pretend to be cool and confident, even if you feel obvious or nervous. People have no idea what's going on in your head and will go along with the image you present. Fake it till you make it and eventually you will start to mentally conform to your actions and actually become confident.

Go watch fight club or kys faggot

>You don't have to be beautiful to be well liked.
You do if it's by women.

I'll be your friend.

Takes 21 days to build a habit and 60 to change your mindset

>tfw you're 3 weeks away from appearing as another person
>tfw you're 2 months away from being another person

No, I've seen many cases where the guy is average or ugly, and the girl is hot/cute. Those guys are usually super social, and funny, even though they aren't super good looking.

I hate this fucking advice. My hobbies are biking, hiking, gym, restoring my car, I want to drive in a rally this summer, video games, reading, going to strange museums, all solitary pursuits (except rally if you know people) unless you ALREADY have a friend to share with.

Why not say the truth and tell people you need to get into a sport? I didn't meet anyone until I decided to go and learn martial arts at a mcdojo at age 25. That, Friday night magic, and video game club on campus have been the only places I've really met people, but I still feel like a loner.

You're a little bitch. You literally have to do nothing to get women - just go out and enjoy your life and one will glob onto you. That's not to say that it's a problem. Women are like those birds that sit on Crocodiles. Yea, it can be annoying having a bird on you sometimes, but they add value in their own way.

can someone explain to me where this is Veeky Forums related

Get a job somewhere that forces you to talk to people.
Can't fuckin run if you're gonna get fired for doing so

>having a loser's mentality
Don't blame the hand you've been dealt for your problems. Blame your incomplete inability to play it.

So youre a piece of shit and agree youre a piece of shit. And refuse to do anything about being said piece of shit. And you want us to fix it for you?


What a piece of shit.

Bout to drop some God tier advice. Start watching sports hilights. Whenever you go out you'll always have that card to play in your back pocket.

Just say "hey how about them [insert team]" and just listen.

You only need one friend to get indroduced to half a dozen more. Odds are one of them will have a female friend they'll want to introduce you to if you mention you're looking and arrange a group outing to see if you hit it off.

Also make a habit of doing things you don't think you'll enjoy doing but offer a chance to socialize. I took a basket weaving class once. Tonnes of cuties and making baskets isn't half bad.

Remember, there are plenty of people uglier and dumber than you who are getting laid.

Find some plain Jane and fuck her brains out. Post pics and we'll rate

>basket weaving

Please DON'T bully me

fixed your shit

Ahahaha you should be happy that you are even alive right now. In a more primal society you would not even survive due to your inferior genetics the only reason you exist is due to civilization.

Now there's no quirk, just a dude in his underwear ugh

Simply shut off your computer, walk away from it, go outside, and force yourself to talk to people.

Learn to socialize. It is an engaging process. Sitting in front of your computer is not socializing. You cannot learn to effectively socialize with others in front of a computer.

6.5/10 (no homo)

So you never tried to have a social life and now you blame society for your lack of social life? Reap what you sow.

no, you can be interesting and confident and land decent girls.

the truly unlucky ones are ugly women, they have no hope at all.

T. Hanks

reminder that even this man convinced someone to marry him. this man found someone who loves him enough to wipe his dripping sores clean every day and tolerate his whinging.

you look normal enough, all that stands out is that gargantuan forehead, but everyone has their flaws my man

also that haircut only makes your forehead look worse, figure out some decent looking hair for yourself

>all solitary pursuits
...exactly? Find a social pursuit that you can actually make friends through.

>Why not say the truth and tell people you need to get into a sport?
Yes, that's an example of a social hobby.

My point is just cut the bullshit. Don't tell someone "get a hobby," because the type of person who is suffering from no social interaction is by design a solitary creature, they will seek solitary activities... In the future cut the middle man and just tell them, man up and take classes in something, learn a sport, a skill, join a club, whatever.

I can't do different haircuts, per ar670-1. My 1sg has his hair in kinda a mohawk/undercut type thing (long on top, high high fade on sides) so I'm thinking of letting top hair grow.

Fwiw I'm not the original user, just kinda barged in. That particular pic I sent while flirting with some girl and I got a vagina on my ding dong for my efforts

>they will seek solitary activities
Then they're a fucking autistic retard who can't comprehend the very obvious implication in the suggestion and probably won't make friends no matter how many sports they play.

>take classes in something, learn a sport, a skill, join a club, whatever.
All perfectly fall under the advice 'get a hobby so you can meet people.'

Haha just bee urself bruh, works for me xD

My point is just be specific, you're dealing with people who are sailing in uncharted waters. If you aren't prepared to be a leader then stop trying to lead people.

Christ dude, you're really some kinda faggot.

You break down over anonymous criticism over the God damn Internet over some insignificant bullshit and yet other people are the faggots. OK Bro, good luck with that baggage I guess

Become the villain, user.

Lift out of pure, raw, white-hot, unmitigated hate. Leave humanity behind and become an entity unto yourself. You don't need women. You don't need friends. All you need is yourself and an unflinching desire to be the best version of yourself they could never be.

Then there will come a day, when they'll all look to you and shout, "Save us!"
And you'll whisper, "No."

lolwut? In what world did I break down?

(Also I'm not the guy who made the initial suggestion, for the record)

You got some mild criticism on how to advise and you went full blown REEE I'M RIGHT THEY'RE AUTISTIC YOU FAGGOT, get over yourself.

If you can't honestly reread your posts (and if you're gonna backtrack and claim "hurr wasn't me xD") and see how how much a fag you are then enjoy being unhappy

The narrator had daddy issues dumbass

At least you have a symmetric face you fucking normalfag.

t. permanent uggo

Make a tinder

>you went full blown REEE I'M RIGHT THEY'RE AUTISTIC YOU FAGGOT
Where?

> (and if you're gonna backtrack and claim "hurr wasn't me xD")
It wasn't, and wouldn't make any difference if it was since I wholeheartedly condone the advice, even if the actual user who posted it might see your criticism and think 'hey now, what a clever guy'. I just don't like prompting insults in some poor absent user's direction is all.

I honestly don't even know how you're reading any emotion into my posts at all, I'm literally about to go to sleep. But then, someone who'd flip out at someone suggesting a hobby to meet people, rather than specifying that it has to be a social hobby, maybe you're a little sensitive.

>he hasn't taken the RSDMax pill yet

learn to love yourself OP

I know a lot of guys who aren't conventionally attractive but they immerse themselves in things like LARP, magic the gathering, video game clubs etc. If you get fit but ugly and get good in things like this it'll open doors to women who look past physical beauty, and in my experience the girls wearing anime shirts and cat ears are down for some seriously kinky shit, virgin or no.

Be ready for a little chub

Handsome and cute dog.
No homo bro.

Your face looks a little puffy. Cut some sodium/lose weight to fix that. Besides that you look fine, though this angle really doesn't help your forehead from looking huge.

Shush, shush. Don't you know about the plans to merge Veeky Forums and /r9k/?

/fit9k/.

Was drinking that night, does that cause puffiness? I could stand to lose about 15 lbs though, 191 currently

>flip a guys picture 180ยบ
>get 63867 (you)s
abstract feel

Nut up, dude. Don't be so pathetic. Hit the gym, get a hobby, learn a new skill, and progress in life ffs.

the FUCK

Got half a chub from reading that

It does sometimes. I have that issue on occasion. I also have it whenever I eat unhealthy.

It's a line from The Watchmen

>this is a real person
Pic related

>this guy is married
>I'm still a kissless virgin at 25

MAKE
A
TINDER

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this is a good post

But how do I get attention from men?

Why don't they just let it die?

pull pants down
suck penor

If female: You get attention from men by being alive, unless you're a 1/10.

If male: Stop being a faggot.

If some other retarded imaginary gender: Grab the noose.

This

Are you me?

Tinder is just a way for Jews to collect information from you. That's why it connects to facebook, and requires you to be connected to your gps so it can sell your location to ad agencies.

As if it's hard to make an app where you upload a photo and type out your location.

It's about as related as half the other shitthreads on Veeky Forums

Do you want to have sex or not

Tinder will literally never help you unless you take model tier pictures. I used tinder for 6 months with pictures I took myself, normal shit like selfie, action shot, friend shot, pet shot, 0 action.

Had a female friend line me up for some meme "daddy" shots that showed my tattoos and car and shit and I get matched every day. Women are such faggots.

Maybe you should google how to take a picture.

I had 3 pictures on mine, me in my car (you can't see if it's a nice car or not *it's a shitbox*), me with my dog and me with an undershirt on (not showing muscles or anything below the shoulders

I had nothing in my bio.

I matched with 2-3 girls a day when I was still using it, now I've stopped bothering with it because I have plenty of fuck buddies.

>made a tinder
>set wide age/distance range
>no results

Looks and personality don't even matter to girls compared to money.

MONEY is the #1 thing you need, nothing else even compares. If you're financially secure making $50,000+ a year, it doesn't matter how much of an ugly asshole you are, you'll easily get your pick of a large range of girls.

>Inb4 lol enjoy your whore

EVERY WOMAN in EVERY long-term relationship is a prostitute, name ONE long-term heterosexual relationship where the guy was a broke NEET with no plans to change that, and she started a relationship with him. Guys will gladly do the reverse for women, and many of them even prefer it, but it doesn't happen the other way around because women are all whores.

A hobby where I can meet girls? Like what retard? Girls don't actually have any hobbies beside social media, gossip, Netflix, and cosmetics.

>actually believing this bullshit

Are you in the arctic?

>watching sports highlights
This is good cause it keeps you up with the world, but if OP is a turbo autism then this won't work, it will be like that episode of the IT crowd where Moss tries to fit in

its true you stupid mother fucker.
i went to r9k like 2 weeks ago and put a literal ad for
>make 66k a year 24 not bad looking for live at home neet gf
and i got like 2 qt's hitting up my snap asking about moving in with me.
its literaly fucking true fuck you you enabling piece of shit i hate you.

No, I'm in a popular tourist/backpacking destination city where there are new people flying in every day from all over the world

What you should do is post a pic so that I can see what you look like.

You sound like a stable person.

you sound like a BITCH.

You are not ugly. You are average. This is why people don't notice you, not because you are ugly. You need to form a charismatic personality. This is definitely possible to some degree. Hitler was some unattractive git but he had practiced gestures and speech in front of a mirror. Look how far he made it.

What happens when you meet an intelligent man that can see directly through your act?

I guess that wouldn't matter, who gives a fuck what intelligent men think, and females are too stupid to have that level of awareness.