>me: 32 year old man, 6'1, 130lbs, 3 months training. >told to spar against 11 year old kid, under 5 foot, tells me he's 60lbs on his first week of training.
And he kicked my ass. I tapped out 3 times to him but the last 2 minutes were the worst. He had me in a high mount, sitting on my neck. He starts covering my mouth and nose with my hands, every time I remove his hands he just brings it back.
I'm struggling to breathe and eventually am unable to remove his arms. I panic, tap out and cry on the mats. I know the crying was involuntary but I still felt stupid. It was also really unheigenic just having his sweaty hands covering my face like that. Was gross.
1) How was this kid able to outstrength me? That's him in the pic, he doesn't look strong at all. 2) Should mouth cupping be allowed? 3) Should I go back to the gym? Everyone saw me crying against a fucking kid.
Nolan Phillips
>Is there any point in going back to my BJJ gym? no. in fact, just end your life
Aiden Watson
Oh my god you poor thing
Parker Bailey
1) Because you're weak. 2) Yes. 3) No, I wouldn't go back. How are you going to start crying at a kid kicking your ass?
Gabriel Ramirez
I think I cried because he was in control of my breathing and that was scary for me. Also, probably because it was destroying my ego being dominated by a 60lbs child.
Gavin Lopez
Why do you keep posting your story and why did you forget to add the fact that you shit your pants in front of everyone faggot?
Daniel Cook
manlets have better leverages for grappling there's nothing to be ashamed of.
Carter Taylor
i don't care what martial art it is and how skilled the kid is - an adult should be able to win against a kid.
Christian Morgan
Why do you post this every day.
What kind of autism fuels this behavior?
Michael White
>>told to spar against 11 year old kid, under 5 foot, tells me he's 60lbs on his first week of training. oof, yeah man, that sounds like a pretty mom-tier class, probably won't get much out of it as a grown ass-
>And he kicked my ass. wat
Landon Bennett
Yeah, I guess so. But this guy wasn't a manlet, he was a literal child.
I know, I had more experience than him as well. How is it even possible?
Daniel Walker
Its all about genetics op, chad genetics vs incel faggot genetics (you)
Daniel Peterson
This was my thought process as well lol.
The pic is of the kid, it's obvious he doesn't have chad genetics. No offense to the kid.
Christian Cooper
you're 130lbs, you consider yourself an adult man? LOL >gets beat up by an 11 year old child fucking deformed little subhuman imp
Juan Baker
>I got beat by someone I didn't expect to beat me, should I use this as a teaching moment and resolve to get better or should I quit?
Are you really fucking asking this?
Camden Turner
It would be fine if he only just beat me but I was crying. People remember shit like that.
Gabriel Allen
Bjj is all about using your opponents weight against them though. Skilled practitioners can easily win against larger foes.
Jaxon Cooper
Nice pasta
Ethan Bell
That Holocaust survivor in the pic physically dominated you and made you cry? God damn you're weak.
Hunter Nguyen
I guess, but mouth cupping doesn't involve leverage. That's just about strength. Plus, it was obvious that he was stronger throughout.
Aaron James
What is this from?
Liam Martinez
>High mount >sitting on my neck If he was actually sitting on your neck, your entire body would have been behind his hips and you could have easily slipped out. High mount is sitting more on the person's chest with the knees in the armpits, generally. It sounds like you just panicked.
Unless you're just fucking memeing, which sounds more and more like a possibility. If you're not memeing then go back and train.
Dylan Green
Go back!!!!
Thomas Jenkins
>6'1, 130lbs
Mason Ramirez
Was he bullying you? Just punch him in the dick like a grown man.
Jacob Morales
Yeah, I do tend to panic a lot. BJJ is hard.
Because real men punch kids in the dick.
Aaron Morgan
>getting paired up against a 11 year old >losing This can't be real
Samuel Diaz
just fuck his mother to re-establish dominance.
Daniel Perry
Haha I actually saw his mother, she's kind of busty, but her ass is huge so I'm not complaining.
Sorry to dissapoint Colin.
Nathaniel Davis
>she's kind of busty, but her ass is huge so I'm not complaining Why would her being busty make you complain?
Austin Adams
If I was you I'd start training everyday.
Michael Reed
I'm 36, weigh 190 @ 17% BF. I got paired up with a 17 year old lanky kid that weighs probably in the range of 130-140 the other day. This isn't abnormal in BJJ. The owner is a black belt and is about my size. He dominates people who are much taller and heavier. BJJ is effective even with substantial height and weight differences if you're skilled enough (and it's one-on-one). Not practising against different size opponents would be silly.
Jacob Gomez
wtf, were you dropped on your head when you were an infant?
Ethan Thompson
I was a heavyweight wrestler in HS, so I always had to wrestle really fat kids. One time I tapped out because this absolute ham was suffocating me with his armpit. Completely covered my nose and mouth with his sticky fat, it felt like I was drowning. I tapped out before the ref could call the pin, which isn't really allowed in wrestling. I ended up losing and my coach screamed at me after the match for embarrassing him and I cried.
Blake Hill
Welcome to self defense user. The first time i went to the krav maga gym i got my ass kicked really good. The difference is I kept going back and men respect men who do not run from their problems.
I went with that form of training because im not interested in playing in the street. I use that technique if I have to in a worse case scenario. Im not a nigger so i dont go starting fights and if theres one thing ive learned is in the proper scenario you meet force with equal force period. I refuse to sit here and name call because the whole board has turned to shit with it. Anyway I hope you keep training and don't let getting hit deter you from training
Hudson Smith
Real men don't cry
Henry Brooks
Could been worse, you coulda been choked out and shit yourself
Aaron Jackson
Where did he say anything about crying user. A quote would be nice because ive read the thread and he said nothing of the sort...
Michael Smith
Its true if the kid has money for training he will probably hit 130 by 16
Jonathan Johnson
>I panic, tap out and cry on the mats
Christopher Cox
Read the OP dingus.
Blake Rodriguez
I thought you could delete posts but guess you can't do that anymore. I sure did miss the part about crying though. Pain does usually result in a crying response if its intense enough so I understand but why would you just leave and not train anymore. It makes you look like a bitch more than anything.
I remember the first time the krav maga instructor punched me in the face...blood coming down my nose I raged at him and he took me down again and again and again. After class he took me aside and said listen. This is not FUCKING MARTIAL ARTS. Im teaching you this as a life and death defense. He said I turned off my intelligence in the fight and when that turned off my chances of winning went out the window to an opponent who was better skilled.
In the street or on a battlefield this is not the case. You lose often you die. My father was nice enough to tell me plenty of stories of men who held back when they shouldnt have or charged in like heroes from movies and did.
Caleb Howard
I think I will go back.
Are you allowed to punch students in Krav Maga? God damn that seems intense.
William Thomas
Maybe, maybe not. I weighed more than him when I was his age. 60lbs is extremely skinny.
Aaron Cruz
When I started I was the big bodybuilder guy who thought a few street fights made me knowledgeable. I was new and thought I was hot shit so he said "do you think those muscles will do anything against what I know. fine. come at me with all you got and i wont hold back". I literally gave him a hug after that lesson I learned with a bloody nose and everything. Im guessing in a class setting you're not allowed to do that but it was an experience i shared hoping you wont quit training.
If I had to go to war with a man, I'd pray he'd be like my coach.
Aaron Rodriguez
>tfw you win a match in a tournament with a wrist lock
I was on bottom for the majority of the match too. OP, just bee urself because BJJ is better than whatever else you were gonna use that time for.
Alexander Morris
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Luke Turner
>BJJ is better than whatever else you were gonna use that time for Even better than barbell training? I'm also afraid of injuries.
t.another user
Chase Wilson
Maybe not barbell training. You shouldn't be afraid of injuries unless you're too proud to tap.
Jose Cook
11 years old are you fucking joking
Aiden Mitchell
Nope...
Parker Gray
I wouldn't even say that's rare.
I've seen 12-13 year olds dominate adults. A friend of mine would use it as a to show rookies where they stand.
The crying though...goddamn man. All I can say is don't bitch out now. It'd be much worse to be known as the guy who let a little boy chase him out of the gym. Might as well go back and use it as motivation.
Bentley Hall
wouldnt mma fall under asp since its considered an alternative sport????
Its def. no surprise to place a newbie up against a younger opponent in the ring as a learning lesson though. At the same time I consider the fact that this is the board where they couldn't go a round and not get gassed with all that roid muscle not to mention a full bout.
Bentley Lopez
Nichijou
Wyatt Long
You got your ass kicked by an 11 year old and your asking if you should go back? Get the fuck back in there and learn to not be a pussy that gets their ass kicked by an 11 year old!
Jace Stewart
I can't beat him though, he's pretty good.
Yeah, that's true. I will go back, might refuse to fight the kid again though. The mouth cupping was a dick move.
Jack Lee
>The mouth cupping was a dick move. what did your coach say about it?
Levi Powell
Join a different one if you can. If not I'd try boxing, with your height and frame and being only 130 you'd be pretty good.
Luke Evans
No. Asp is specifically for WWE.
Jaxson Jenkins
Well she is not going to fuck u now....maybe if you didn't cry it would look like you were trying to lose on purpose to bolster the kids confidence
Oliver Fisher
You lost because you didn't have the proper conditioning. Boo is intensive and you must learn to be calm when your breathing is stifled. It is a he'll of a workout and worth it in the end tho.
Adrian Hughes
at 6'1 you are literally far too large for being 130lbs. you definitely need to start working on your weight to help build strength.
might I suggest actually eating something you damn skeleton.
Benjamin Morgan
What's boo mean? I agree with the part about being calm, I was way too panicked. I was just thrashing around.
Eating is hard. Anyway, I already outweighed the kid by 70 damn lbs it shouldn't matter.
Colton Ramirez
I have a sister that weighs 130 lbs, unfuck yourself promptly.
It's tough for me to sympathize but I know what it's like to get dominated in a sparring match. When I just started boxing by trainer had me spar a guy that had probably 5x more experience than me. I'm positive I was stronger but that doesn't mean shit when someone has far superior awareness and technique. I got punched in the face repeatedly, but I managed to get a few good shots in that I knew he felt. My face and mouth were bloody but I was proud and my trainer was too. I did my absolute best and didn't quit. That's all the you can do user, do your best and don't bitch out, you'll grow with time and diligence.
Jack Hernandez
It's the other way around though in my situation, I had more experience than the kid! And he won by using brute force.
Oliver Ward
It was an involuntary response to my damaged ego. Plus, being smothered is terrifying.
Hudson Richardson
It's not involuntary, you could have controlled that shit. Why did you cry? You're supposed to be a man and he's supposed to be a child. You can't let him disrespect you like that.
Camden Harris
I really couldn't help it. He was in the most dominant position in BJJ, the high mount where he's got me pinned to the mat. On top of that, mouth cupping from a kid is just humiliating. I just felt sort of powerless and started to cry.
Jaxson Watson
God damn dude you suck
Thomas Flores
Look at the kid's arms, they're twigs. How could you not just remove his arms when he covered your mouth? Are you telling me that his kid sized arms are stronger than yours?
Luis Bennett
This looks suspiciously like another thread posted recently.
Michael Davis
Didnt you make a thread about this about a week ago?