I originally came to fit from r9k when i was overweight. Now im down to 100lbs (Im a 5' womanlet), and can finally do things I never dreamed of, like run 10k or swim. But i realized something.
HOTBOIS STILL DONT NOTICE ME.
For guys it's easy. Just be swole and grils flock to you. But girls always have to have that mysterious something, the X factor that I don't have (boobs?) to get a bf. So tell me Veeky Forums, how do I get a fit boi?
Tldr I want to eat some beef
Anthony Hill
post a pic
Lucas Morgan
go up and talk to em you massive faggot.
You've seen guys on this site, they are autistic and dont know how to talk to women.
your turn to initiate.
Blake Foster
Will you go out with me?
5'6 132 lbs 190lbs bench max
Charles Baker
I have a friend with an ugly face, who does lots of squats to make her ass pop. She puts out like crazy (7 unresponded texts and never stops) and she goes out all the time and always gets lots of attention. You just need to let go of your fear of rejection.
Brody Foster
>For guys it's easy. Just be swole and grils flock to you. This is what girls believe!
Admittedly we have far more options, we can still develop a personality and basically attract women at whatever age we please. It involves a lot of work, but it is doable with some dedication. Women have the shit end of the deal, they have extraordinary potential at the start, but then their value freefalls from their late twenties onwards, up to when they're worth jack shit.
As for "hotbois" not noticing you, that will probably never change completely. But wear nice clothing, use makeup, etc and you improve your chances.But all in all women are on the passive end of the spectrum and reactionary to whatever guys do
Also, as suggested a pic would be useful because it might point to the problem
Anthony Ramirez
/r9k/ role players pls leave.
Caleb Perez
>talks to quiet but swole chadlet at the gym >he replies with one word answers REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE I'M NEVER SPEAKING A WORD AGAIN >asks 6'2 Chad that I can't see the weight numbers, could he move >he replies "HOW BOUT YOU SEE THIS COCK" REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE NOW I CAN'T SLEEP WITH HIM OR EVERYONE WILL SAY I DON'T HAVE STANDARDS >Mirin fitboi at gym >he gives me his snapchat >look him up on Facebook >he's been in a relationship since the last two years REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE WHY WON'T FATE LET ME BE PENETRATED
Adrian Peterson
Also, beyond the gym do you have any hobbies whatsoever? It's a bit of a meme, but huge percentage of people go to dancing classes (especially salsa) to get laid.
Xavier Taylor
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Dylan Torres
My other hobbies are STUDYING (and also tutoring people). I also do gymnastics but that's 99.9999% female.
Hunter Watson
What nationality are you? Your body looks pretty fun to throw around.
Carson Jenkins
...you have to be a foul fucking specimen to have trouble
Logan Thomas
So average body? I'm not saying it's bad, it's just that I couldn't pick you out of a line up, especially without a face. But I understand, I'd say you have potential depending on facial aesthetics. Just put yourself out there more, be sociable.
Camden Long
Pics or it never happened fag. Post them titties.
Kevin Bell
Well, that's your problem then. Studying is not a hobby. Take some dancing classes, start painting in a group, do something where you can meet people.
Adrian Sanders
Fellow grill here. When I got fit I started getting catcalled pretty much once a month, men started approaching me on the street, people were nicer to me, I made more friends, and it became easier to get people to trust me. If you're not having the same results you need to examine other aspects of your life (your face, your hair, your clothes, the way you carry yourself, whether you smile when you walk down the street, whether you make eye contact with people) because it probably goes deeper than something like how fit you are.
Angel Turner
stop going for chads your dip.
Unless you are a hot cardio bunny or EXTRA THICC they wont give you the time of day.
Go one level down.
Sebastian Bennett
I don't know if you have noticed but actual attractive men are a rare sight. I don't know if women have make up in their favor or what is it, but everywhere you go you'll see women more or less attractive. However seeing actually handsome men is a rare sight. Handsome men are a rarity, they are actual diamonds and crowns of the social hierarchy.
It's not like you'll just randomly get one. There's very few of those and there's not enough hot men even for us attractive women.
That being said, being young and somewhat skinny is not enough. You need long thick hair, skin waist, great ass, tits, nice clothes, charisma and also social status (education, family backaground) to get anything but dick from attractive males. No one deserves a hot man just by existing, and if you want one, you seriously must think what you bring to the table. Your goal should be to be the table.
Jason Cox
that granny on the left looks based and fit as fuck
Gabriel Ward
It's not average in terms of functional capacity. I've got low RHR, explosive strength, remarkable flexibility, and high speed + good endurance.
But that's the problem. I work for strength, not aesthetics, because I've got no idea what's aesthetic for women aside from "half naked" because that's all you see on women's mags. The hottest girls have varying body types, some are stick thin and others are thiccck. Idk what I'm supposed to work on
Angel Ortiz
Get a nice ass with squats, focus on cardio...
But all in all it sounds like you are really not putting yourself in situations where you could ever meet guys. Or your standards are too damn high.
Benjamin Jenkins
See, the thing is, I get those things. I get catcalls (disgustingly enough), groped even, complimented, etc. And people say they know SOMEONE who is interested in me. But very few admit it up front, and none of them are ever H O T B O I S.
Thomas Parker
It's almost like you're not entitled to top tier men simply by existing and your market value is determined mainly by factors you can control.
Now you know what being a man is like excerpt the average male can't get the average female (you)
James White
Speaking as a guy who practices daygame and regularly approaches women on the street to great success, I primarily focus on physical traits (looks, height, nice face, etc) but I have on occasion talked to fairly unremarkable looking women because of their quirky dress sense, how they smile, etc. In other words, do something to stand up from the crowd and catch people's attention
Logan Reed
Well then something is still wrong with: >other aspects of your life (your face, your hair, your clothes, the way you carry yourself, whether you smile when you walk down the street, whether you make eye contact with people) because i get approached by attractive men without having to put forth any effort. It should be easy for you otherwise. If nothing is wrong with the way that you appear to others, then you should be getting approached all the time unless you live in bumfuck nowhere. I had a guy stop his car, get out, run over to me and ask me out on a date. If you can't even attract one attractive mate, you still have work to do.
Colton Clark
*stand out from the crowd
Dylan Lopez
Today I became a wizard.
Gabriel Reed
There's a problem with your attitude or the dudes you're going after. Take some time to meditate and reflect on how to approach and appear to others.
Levi Gutierrez
>average body >mfw
You look fine OP. One of the problems as some anons have pointed out is that guys seeing you working out might be intimidated by you or have the same questions or doubts as you.
>what if she already has a bf? why bother >she looks fit, better not look like a jackass, I should avoid her altogether >she can't possibly be into me >oh god she talked to me, I should sound uninterested to try to not look like a creep
I say just keep trying to be nice and talk to everyone and smile as much as possible. If you want people to approach you try not to look too busy or tired. Instead, try to look around and see what others are doing or something similar.
Michael Moore
It's average in Europe where people don't need mobility scooters to move around. But other than that, I agree with what you posted in that guys often don't approach out of fear.
Luke Hughes
not everyone is beta, my man
Henry Reed
>guys seeing you working out might be intimidated I'm finna bust the fattest REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE of 2k17
WHAT IS LIFE BUT EXERCISE
Colton Murphy
Not OP but what are those situations? I'd love to meet young athletic bois but it feels like that the only place to meet them is on Tinder. I thought sportsbars would work but nope, even the bouncer asked what the heck are we doing there cuz only ugly people comes there kek.
Jacob Jones
I've mentioned them before, salsa classes, art classes, generally anything non work related that gets you out and socialising with people your own age.
Liam Price
>sportsbars Try normal bars. Only men go to sports bars. All of the single men are at regular bars trying to meet women. Bars are for picking up a lay though, not for anything long term. Other places to meet men include: the office, an athletic class (NOT yoga or pilates, if you're that desperate you can even try crossfit to meet men), a ballroom dance class, church (doesn't matter if you're not religious, just smile a lot and wear a sun dress), or at some sort of local event. If you're not great looking you might need to be the initiator, but in any case you should expect the process to be a little time consuming.
Henry Mitchell
Lmao I don't know where you are from but I definitely doubt that there's any straight, non-numales of Australian origin in any of those places mate.
Luke Campbell
>meeting guys at church As said I live in Straya, no one is religious and I don't want a religious man anyway.
Jonathan Powell
>As said I live in Straya ...no, you didn't say that. Anyways, I just gave you a ton of suggestions, and if all you take away from that is that you're not going to be able to meet a man in church you're beyond help.
Nolan Gutierrez
Veeky Forums is a sexist board, no girls allowed. Why is this so hard to understand? WHORES GTFO.
Jack Sullivan
this x9999999999
she's lying for attention anyway
Leo Campbell
Found your job lady :)
Ryder Brooks
Yeah fuck off roasties gb2 /r/xxfitness
Ryan Rogers
Just ask yourself if the guys who goes to church are the type women usually go after
That's the same as you'd tell male anons to look for girls from retirement homes. Or bingo events. Just as appealing
Lucas Cruz
Wow this has been a fucking education.
I wouldn't worry about it considering how much shit you've been through in the past year. Someone will come along, just keep doing your thing.
Joseph Baker
Read: >Anyways, I just gave you a ton of suggestions, and if all you take away from that is that you're not going to be able to meet a man in church you're beyond help. Why are you focusing in so much on the fact that I suggested church? I gave you a ton of suggestions but you're so autistic you can't just ignore the one that you don't think will work.
Aiden Martinez
OP here, you gotta be 6'2 minimum and bench at LEAST 2.5 pl8 to board this ride, little guy
Hunter Collins
>I don't know if women have make up in their favor or what is it That's exactly what it is, there's a million little things that can fuck up your face and makeup fixes almost all of them. Women would not be the "pretty" sex if it weren't for the social pressures preventing men from copying their tricks.
David King
In the message above I told you that Australian men doesn't attend salsa or art courses. You don't meet straight men in those occasions and guys who goes to church are off the cards for other reasons. Although I have absolutely zero interest in dancing or arts so I'm not sure if I even want to date a man who's passionate about things I don't give a shit about
Adam Edwards
Go work on a farm.
Adrian Lewis
you sound like a bit of a cunt there m8, the best of luck to your miserable ass
Owen Barnes
>In the message above I told you that Australian men doesn't attend salsa or art courses No, you didn't. Why do you keep saying that you said things, but you didn't say them? Reread your post: >"Just ask yourself if the guys who goes to church are the type women usually go after
>That's the same as you'd tell male anons to look for girls from retirement homes. Or bingo events. Just as appealing"
Also, you're just being a loser now. Enjoy your life alone because you're unwilling to try anything at all to meet people. This is like when a fat person asks for advice on how to lose weight and then has an excuse for every suggestion you make. Good luck. I'm in a relationship and have had several in the past, but obviously I don't know what I'm talking about.
Kayden Perez
You shouldn't be trying to meet guys st sports bars unless you have kids, getting on in years, and are recently divorced.
Charles Sanders
yeah I found her facebook you're pretty and I like short girls, talk to guys and see which ones you have things in common with, just get used to being nice to everyone and someone will jump at the chance to date you it's like indian or something
William Cooper
She is obviously a bit chubby, with no tits. I am not comparing her to models, but its an average body of a girl in yurop. She is also not very smart and obviously has inflated ego and unrealistic expectations - so a typical r9k user has once again visited our board.
Now tell me brehs, how do You help a robot?
Elijah Gomez
That's not my job, everyone wore the same shirts with a different back design.
Ayden Morgan
>yeah I found her facebook
poast
Isaac Carter
>how do You help a robot I used to be a robot and now I'm You can't help people when they're at this tentative stage. They will either Make It or they wont. When I was a robot, I spent all my free time on my computer and thought I'd never make friends. A year later I was going to parties, meeting people, making connections, and being a normal functioning human. There's no one comment that anyone made that made me change, just a series of reality checks that led up to me realizing I'm not hot shit.
William Smith
Looks like this guy
Isaiah Peterson
OP here, stop pretending y'all are me REEEEEEE Just secured a date with an aspiring MMA wrestler (praise the Gym Gods, they want me to get that gud high T). Get on my level fags
Liam Richardson
this
Chase Bell
haha, fuck all that shit.
Noah Davis
Holy fucking shit you have way too much free time
Cooper Miller
Well the answer I was aiming it at was "tell them to kys" because i figured that infi in your post was common knowledge
Robert Reed
>There is women on r9k
Why would a woman post there?
Asher Cruz
Well fuck, you dress like that you cant really expect too much attention, eh? Not saying you gotta be a whore but thats just frumpy.
Hudson Lee
>For guys it's easy. Just be swole and grils flock to you.
Fuck off, you stupid cunt.
Brayden Gutierrez
Eh, she obviously just ran in some sort of 5k or something in that pic. I'd be more interested to see how she dresses on a day to day basis.
Henry Bailey
What's sad is how retarded they are.
Isaiah Brooks
OP, lose the glasses, wear makeup and do your hair and wear something that seems a bit more braggadocio, like something that would make a normie girl jelly and you will slay dick.... glasses only work for guys an insanely hot chicks because avg guys don't care if you are smart or not. also in ur pix u look p homely, so just as a habit spend more time every day getting made up and it will become a habit....
>not my proudest fap
Bentley Williams
>not being able to find dox thru tiny bits of information
I shiggy diggy, bet you have never even had the cops called on you phaggot
Bentley Thomas
L O N D O N O N D O N
Zachary Sanders
post you faggit, so we can mire or laugh at her
Xavier Jenkins
Honestly what did she expect. She has an instagram too. She's not an Aussie but a fucking Leaf - also
OP, you really don't have to do much to woo men. You look fine, but considering you are from r9k you should just expand your circle of friends if you want boybutt. You can afford to be pickier than men. If you are going to college and you still can't find a guy, you may have debilitating autism; it gives you a serious chance to break out of your social circle. Otherwise you can only settle for faggy Indian sticcs. As long as you can take care of your body and not go hamplanet, it's already within the scope of the majority of men's eyes. You should workout for yourself, for performance, not to get dicc. Try olympic weightlifting or playing volleyball.
also i am a wizard manlet and i would eat your ass if that helps
Leo Jackson
>i dox her i found her le facebook You gonna add her as a fwiend sniper rifles?
This is me.
Dominic Cox
>OP, lose the glasses, wear makeup nothing wrong with a short girl with glasses, and I personally don't like makeup, every chick uses makeup to raise their points and you end up in a society of cake faces which will damage your skin in the long run
Justin Bell
you are literally an aspie fuck who even if you would work up the balls to hit on a grill like OP she wouldn't count that as the attention she wants
OP obv wants Chad to notice her and lost weight for that sweet Chad dick
Brody Davis
you're like... mid 20s? and talk like a 15 yo that just discovered Veeky Forums a couple weeks ago
Charles Morris
lol big talk for a fucking anonymous poster who doesn't post pics, your so fucking pathetic your even less than a unrecognizable voice that pesters without risking taking criticism, because you can't annoy me, i can ignore you, bye user, go back to your pathetic life, and pathetic lifts, and pathetic body.
Jesus Christ this thread is a train wreck. I imagine aliens who have never interacted with humans could give better advice than you fucking aspies
Angel Perez
You wanna cheap lay just go to any party and get a little drunk, you'll be getting harassed in no time.
You also need to evaluate what kind of guy you want/ can get.
If you're posting on a Mongolian hand fishing enthusiast form about why men won't like you (which isn't true you're just overlooking the uggos like everybody), You're gonna have to stop expected Chad/The hot boy/ or the cutie guys to like you.
Get realistic, have standards, and go talk to men. You'll eventually find somebody that can tolerate you
Gavin Sanchez
>Uggo from r9k gets called our >But MUH manlets
Thomas Bennett
>all the autists saying "dress better than pic related"
Unless that's a massive troll, it's obvious this is at the start of some sort of half/marathon. Her top even has a race number for fucks sake, I doubt she dresses like that normally
Joseph Robinson
>lol big talk for a fucking anonymous poster 99% of people here are >because you can't annoy me, i can ignore you yeah really looks like it
honestly you have something mentally wrong with you though
Owen Walker
ladies and gentlemen, stupid anons
Blake Campbell
Ask other heterosexual women. Most people here are dudes and dudes here aren't chasing and banging fit hetero men. We give advice about what we like but women have a much better perspective at what gets and holds male attention.
Same holds true for men chasing hetero women. Go ask your successful male friends what they're doing or what they did. Women give real shitty advice about what gets and holds their attention.
Caleb Hill
>everyone should post with a name ok reddit
Ryder Long
>catcalls (disgustingly enough), groped even Here's the thing. Personality is important. You sound like a brainwashed feminist and you are far more arrogant than you are entitled to be. Stop acting like such a fucking cunt.
Jacob Gonzalez
W e w
Elijah Butler
I think she is softly and slightly ironically trolling you.
I remember something similar to this happening on /adv/ way back and it turned out to be a friend of the girl fucking about, so this may be a no bully free zone.
Jordan Thomas
>Womanlet >Implying anyone wants to cuck their genetic superiority just for some roasted beef
Ryder Barnes
Interesting name attached to the retarded comment.
Easton Turner
I am a shill and sometimes this happens, no point in hiding now. >Womanlet, pls go
Connor Bailey
Lower your standards If Veeky Forums men have to do it, so do Veeky Forums women
Also >London?
Camden Morris
No and also no Why don't fit men and fit women just GET TOGETHER THO
Ryder Cruz
>complain that you're alone >lower standards so you have a wider pool to choose from >no shame youre not >London though
Then again, why don't you approach guys if you're so confident in yourself lmao
Bentley Adams
OP Post your instagram so I can fap
Lincoln Murphy
Are you C H I C A G O? You are p cute w/o glasses. If the Chads you're looking for aren't dicking you because of their own autism you'll have to do it yourself. Don't always hang around the same people you dyke.