For those of you who have made a turn around to finally lose your virginity, was it easy? What did you do...

For those of you who have made a turn around to finally lose your virginity, was it easy? What did you do? I've been working out lately and I have a nice body and stuff, but I know I need more. Is it hard to make the full commitment?

Joined Uni boxing club, went on night out with them. Got smashed and started talking to some random girl. Just asked her if she wanted to get out of the club. Went back to her dorm.
It was weirdly easy to do, I dunno probably just got lucky. You miss 100% of the shots you dont take I guess

Was pretty easy, it only cost 300$

She was cute too

OP here.

If you were me, where would you start?

>age 20
>no car, but have a permit
>work in retail
>not in school
>decent looking I suppose
>no hobbies or anything, but I do lift frequently

I was thinking I should try and get a car first. Then maybe consider going back to school. I was gonna try and become an electrician.

Met this ridiculously out of my league 10/10 girl on tinder, she invited me to her place.
We watched a movie in her room. I started making out with her, and was terrible at it.
Told her I was "kinda rusty" which she found to be cute/endearing. She told me i could practise as much as i like.
I got her shirt off and then was dumbfounded by her huge boobs.
She said "well, what are you going to do now?"
And I unironically said "I'm not sure, I didn't ever think I'd get this far" which she died laughing at. I told her the truth that I was actually a virgin, which she didn't believe at first because I'm "too hot" to be a virgin at 20.
She then said "well, I can't take your innocence tonight, but....." and told me to lean back and relax.
She gave me a blowjob, swallowed.
Then we just make out and talked till 5 am. We dated for 3 months after that, and she would give me a blowjob whenever I asked for it. She taught me how to go down on a girl. She thought my honesty and "innocence" was cute.
On my 21st birthday we were cooking around she finally just begged me to fuck her. So she got on top of me and I came in like 18 seconds.
The second and third and fourth and fifth rounds were way better though.

Don't be afraid to tell a girl it's your first time. Don't cockblock yourself like I did though, or it may take a few months and destroy you emotionally when it's over.

Join a sportsteam, social rugby is good craic and if you are big you don't need much skill but any sports team/club would be good. Maybe look into doing some training so you can improve your skills and maybe meet new people. Getting a good friend group is priority number 1. If you have achieved that just go out to clubs and talk to people in the smoking area. Eventually a girl will show interest. Make a move and go from there, Thats where I would start if I were you but like everything its alot easier to say then do.

I went full blown low inhibition and had sex with my friends little sister

Is that copypasta?

I can give you a guide that worked for me but thats all really. I was a vegan till 19 but i started lifting around 8 minths ago and have seen good progress. Pre much lift everyday, and make friends with about 1-3 girls. Like friendzone yourself. These girls will then become your trunk of your tree of women, and use them to meet women you could potentially fuck. When talking to them, just smile ask open ended questions but generally dont give a fuck about the outcome. Eventually turn the convos sexual and add touch blah blah blah. At the end of the day virginity means absolultley nothing so dont sweat it bro. Women account for literally 90% of my problems.

If all else fails go fuck a hooker man. Really hot, they want to please you and theres no strings attached.

Gl user i believe in you. Jist act like a man, not a bitch. Be the man you want to be and you will be fine.

Would you say you guys are in shape, and or attractive?

Whenever I talk to a girl it seems like I can only ever get to a superficial level with them. The most recent girl I talked to seemed to have interest in me at first, but then I asked her to go to movies and she said yeah but then said she forgot. This happened 3 times. I kept talking to her because jt feels good to talk to a girl. Now she has a bf. I'm not sure what to do at this point. Not just with her, but in general.

D- Demonstrate Value
E- Engage Physically
N- Nurture Dependence
N- Neglect Emotionally
I- Inspire Hope
S- Separate Entirely

I dunno dude I've never had a proper GF just 1 night stands. Its just a numbers game I reckon. When i first fucked I was definitely in my best shape. You have to have realistic standards, thats 90% of the problem for most people. The key thing is to not let negativity cloud your outlook and become like some of the incels you see on this board. If you hate women they wont like you.

Where did you meet the women you talked to? I work in retail and there are some women that I occasionally joke around with, but it's nothing more than a passing comment or something. I know how to talk to them I guess so that's not an issue.

It woulda been awkward as fuck but she was drunk af and she was a slut so it didnt matter, I didnt even play with her pussy I just went straight in after she sucked me off it was so hard to get it in coz she wasnt even moist lmao I feel like a dick now

unfortunately i lost my boner and didnt finish but thats ok coz i nearly came in the first 10 seconds

>She thought my honesty and "innocence" was cute.
lmfao bruh thats exactly what one of the tinder bitches I fucked thought when I told her I'd only fucked 2 other girls, she had this idea that I was some pussy slaying player and was like omg thats sooo cute

Thank god we're hot tho cuz then they'd just think we're losers amirite

Nah, it's my story. Probably should have greentexted it but who gives a fuck.
I have been told I have an attractive face, just unconventionally so. Good smile mostly. My body at the time was pretty decent, 5'9" around 180lbs, had a four pack and big shoulders. I just got really lucky with her and found a girl who considered my autism cute.

lmao you sound like a needy loser bruh, you have to feign this image that you know a loada other bitches you could hit up any time and not make yourself too available to her

Helps if you got a facebook and tagged in a shitload of pics with babes

you're attractive but you need some style dawg wtf is that haircut lmao it belongs to a middle aged man

I feel in some ways I am a needy loser. I typically act like a loner when I'm around people, and I don't seek out interaction. In fact, most times I'd rather be alone. But sometimes when I'm home I can really feel it just grating at me. I wish I could just not feel this way, but here I am.

I am writing this

Why are you talking like a 14 year old eminem fan from the mid 2000s?

Went to a club, got drunk and fucked a slut in the bathroom stall. Couldn't even get my dick up because so drunk but gotta say worth. Saw her leaving with another guy later, too. Would be top kek if I cucked the chad himself.

It's all liquid courage.

Down

Meant to say im writing this down

Who knew it was all so simple

I'm balding my man. It's a coping haircut. And the shirt is actually to annoy the girl cropped out on the left, we had hooked up a few times and she invited me out, so it was either the bird shirt or the Hawaiian one because I like to dress like an idiot when sex is a sure thing. She prefers birds but she still thought it looked dumb and it got a laugh.

dont you feel weird you lost your virginity to a random slut?

Shit you look like me, I guess I don't completely suck.

Yeah you have to treat social interaction like the gym i think. Set goals and challenge yourself. I wouldnt recommend acting like that guy is saying, Itll just make you come across as an asshole. Its the constant social interaction thats the challenging part, sex will naturally progress from that point.

I felt bad about it for a while but I'd rather do that then still be a virgin desu, the worlds not perfect

I'm kinda the same as you no doubt, but I've just forced myself to make an effort to get into social situations and talk to as many girls as I can whenever I'm out
My confidence has improved so much this way and I've established many friendships with girls, it's kinda weird how effortless it is to talk to actual babes when a couple of years ago I was such a lil pussy

For you

>Hung out with girl for year
>While in toxic sexless relationship
>Finally dump her ass
>Date friend and fuck her
>Was terrible, dead fish, not into the stuff I'm into
>Try again, still terrible, super passive but insists on being "in charge" while I'm into BDSM shit

A-at least I only stuck with her for a year an a month after that

To be honest I feel worse now, after having lost my virginity to a random tinder whore, than I did back when I was a kissless virgin. I feel empty and depressed, the sorrow of intimately connecting with someone, and then never seeing them again makes me sick to my stomach. It made me realize that what I had been looking for all of these years wasn't just sex, but an emotional loving blissful relationship with another human being. I hate being lonely, but it's all I know sadly.

Nothin wrong with the haircut he's just mad

I was kinda exaggerating with my advice haha, but girls really do have this image of me that I get the most pussy out of my group of friends in college when in reality I get the least

So then when you go and actually talk to them, they realise you're actually a really nice guy and fall in love with you

hahaha you're a gas man so at least you got that as well

Do you have any life goals you're working on? Cuz it's weird I'm the exact opposite, I'm in a position I'd dreamt of a couple years back and yet I'm too busy pursuing a career to get distracted with the responsibilities of a relationship

i guess you're right.
personnally, i'm 21 and khhv but i really don't have any strong feeling of needing to have sex. maybe it's just me though

Yeah mate, you probably don't give yourself enough credit. Whiten your teeth and smile plenty, people love someone with a good smile.
Thanks brah, but I'm like a Norwood 3. I just stopped giving a shit, which works better than my old haircut ever did.

>So she got on top of me and I came in like 18 seconds

im so fucking worried this is gonna happen when losing my v card

how can i practice to avoid being a 2pump chump?

Yeah thats fine man. Once thats what you honestly want there is nothing wrong with that. You just have to be sure you arent lying to yourself.

If youre drunk you wont have this problem

You guys make this seem pretty easy. Maybe my mind just isn't in the right place at the moment.

I have retarded ass hair that grows out sideways I've just started shaving it all off every month

Don't worry about cumming too fast it's understandable. Worry about not getting hard at all.

Lost my virginity to my oneitis and dated her for four years somehow. Haven't met anyone ever since. Fucking kill me, how the hell do I bounce back from this?

It's mostly in your head I reckon. First girl I had sex with I was very relaxed around and I just focused on the experience, not thinking about cumming fast. Second girl was the first time I used tinder and she was out of my league. Hot skinny sorority girl with huge tits. Exact same thing happened to me. She got on top and I came instantly.

>She gave me a blowjob, swalloed
>Then we just make out
FAG

She actually brushed her teeth before we made out again. But these days I don't care, if it bothers you, how can you ask a girl to drink it down?

Hey man I feel ya, i'm 19 and wearing a hairpiece since i'm a Norwood 2.5 without it, got it stabilized on dutasteride and hoping to save up for a transplant when I'm older. I know alot of people just say "man up and shave it off" but honestly hair contributes alot to your facial aesthetics, especially if you can't grow a beard like me

Cuming instantly is better than not cuming

Many of my friends didn't cum from their first time 'cause they were too used to jerking off to porn.

Baaaaaad sex first time for most.

>toxic
Back to playing your video games fag

Cold approach. Don't be a little bitch. Just do it

I've realized as I've gotten older and dated more women (24 years old) that it's really all about personality if you've got a decent face and not sloppy body. It helps with a cold approach but I get by just fine with shitty hair, loud shirts, and the best jokes and stories in the bar.

I did it the hard way. I had to go to Iraq twice before I lost my virginity. I was a virgin when I joined the army and stayed that way for many years while because I had friends for the first time in my life and I enjoyed hanging out with them. Finally a year before I got out I found a girl who was willing to have sex with me and that have me the confidence to be with a lot of other girls since.

Tip: if your PC muscles (taint muscle) squeezes and/or palpitates when you're jacking it you're probably gonna prematurely cum. Try pushing out with this muscle like you're trying to pee (called a reverse kegel). I can fuck for hours with this technique and choose when to cum. I'm pretty sure pornstars do this to last ages and cum on cue

>could have lost my virginity to a lovely hot girl last summer
>I don't want to have any relationship or intimate contact with friends of friends
>I'm not comfortable with intimacy in the first place
>see that it's not a big deal and I have 100 other things in my mind to better myself

If it happens, happens. If not then not. I honestly came to a point and age where I just don't care. I also look better as time goes on and as I lift more and more so I don't need validation from women at all.

>be autistic my whole life
>still a virgin at 21, not kl
>neet
>decide it's time I do something with my life
>sign up for classes at uni
>go to class
>qt sits down next to me
>tries to initiate conversations
>social retardation kicks in
>give her short answers
>she keeps yapping about her life even though I'm clearly uncomfortable
>fast forward to next week
>she sits next to me again
>"How was your weekend user?"
>"good."
>silence for the entire 4 hours
>thankyoujesus.jpg
>it's raining
>not just a little rain, you could've legit showered in it
>no driver's license yet and no busses so have to walk for 20 minutes
>she knows, somehow, probably asked a guy i sometime talk to about it
>"I can give you a lift if you want"
>don't want to sit in a car with someone I barely know but don't want to be drenched either
>"s-sure"
>she drives me home
>stops in front of my appt
>fucking grabs me and we start making out
>holyshitwhatdoido.jpg
>we start dating
>only person I hang out with
>5 months later she dumps me, probably because I'm a boring autists who plays vidya all day
>not even sad
>never been this mad b4, raging so hard I could've kicked the shit out of her if it didn't mean going to jail
>start lifting to make her regret her decision
>start going out every weekend
>become social and outgoing
>realize I'm actually really good looking (5'11 manlet tho)
>also yoked now so bishes mire all the time
>have FWBs and relationships regularly now
>still haven't seen her again but I don't really care bth
If it wasn't for her I'd still be that socially awkward permavirgin, I wish I could meet her again so I could thank her for turning my life around.

>girl contacted me out of blue
>was old friends gf
>wanted to meet up, obviously to screw
>we did

The end. It was shit.

>Would you say you guys are in shape
If you are not some conception of in shape or working towards it, I would kindly ask you to fuck off.

If you cum too fast blame it on the girl. Tell her she is just way too hot, you couldnt control yourself. Then cuddle for a bit and go for round two. You will last a lot longer.

mfw lost my virginity drunk didnt remember much,
second time same girl, didnt get hard.
third time came in 2 minutes
Shes still my gf

You can't possibly bounce back from that, you are destroyed forever now

Met her in a course. Talked here and there, asked her stuff, showed interest. Shared some snacks that I had, showed interest in meeting her more. She went in for a kiss and everything went uphill from there :^)

pic related is me - took it 1 year ago when I did intermittent fasting w/o counting calories and lost all my gains ( girls didn't mind tho)


I'm probably the biggest degenerate from all of the anons posting.

I have never approached a girl in my life because I believe girls should do the approaching not the other way around.

>Back in 6th grade my father's best friend had a girl which was in 8th grade at my school and I was really close with her.
>Her girlfriend invited me to a birthday party and only 2 of them were present on it
>they wanted to know what touching a dick felt like and we had sex ( I had no fucking idea wtf I was doing and sat still while they took turns riding
>That was the only time I had gotten laid and I'm 22 at the moment.
>I've had a few girls approach me but I declined them ( 6/10's )
>2016 went out with 9/10 but she dressed like a Red Street hooker and didn't want to dress normal so I broke up with her after 2 dates
>went out with 6/10 a couple of months ago but she wanted to wait 2 months for sex and told her to gtfo

I'm on nofap/noporn for over 2 weeks now and only focused on callisthenics.


A girl at work is either flirting with me or trying to become my friend which I find impossible for a man and a woman to be friends if one likes the other.

Go the GF of my best mate drunk and we had a threesome. Then whores.

>they wanted to know what touching a dick felt like and we had sex ( I had no fucking idea wtf I was doing and sat still while they took turns riding

t-that sounds pretty lewd user...

Worrying about it wont help much

He's used goods now

>hook up with oneitis after she comes on to me
>don't date
>depressed
>months later new oneitis comes on to me
>fuck her
>date
>in love
>get dumped
>no girls will come on to me anymore

Literally all I know is putting in 0 effort and getting the prize. I'm 20 and It's been 2 years since my last fuck and I haven't jerked off since February 2016. I'm legitimately just going to start getting drunk and the club and asking 20-30 girls if they want to fuck in the bathroom

>be 6'4"
>be attractive
>go to university

how do i stop myself from feeling disgust and hate for normies, especially girls?
used to be a skinny nerd, all girls either completely ignored me or mock and ridicule me, all my attempts at even making contact were immediately shut down.
now i'm kind of built due to autistically obsessing over lifting and nutrition, and girls show interest in me, but i fucking despise them for it, because i know that if they knew the real me, they would immediately treat me like i had an infectious disease.

what do i do? how do i get over this massive hate? or do i just have to accept it and go full chad mode, pump and dump girls, and enjoy watching them get sad when i cut them off?

my friend convinced another one of our friends to bang me and beacuse of how much porn i watched i was really really good at sex and fucked her for a few weeks and then got bored and never talked to her again
feelsbadman
she was qt but crazy 8.3/10

>beacuse of how much porn i watched i was really really good at sex

gud bait
i'll post this in nofap threads in the future, i'm sure it'll get crazy reactions from these autists

>asking 20-30 girls if they want to fuck in the bathroom
All at the same time?
Fuark I wish I had that young man stamina again

>do u wanna fuck
>'no'
>go to next girl and repeat until 'yes'

Literally can't fail

Don't forget to get Magnum condoms for your monster dong

Realise that you are exactly the same as you despise fatties but wanna fuck the hot girls.

no i swear to god not a bait.
I watch a lot of porn and jerk off prob 2 time a day, Just watching porn and seeing stuff that looks retarded (the stuff they play up for porn) and the more regular stuff, i was able to lose my virginity with this chick, last over an hour (some girls only like to go for 20 mninutes but she was it in for the long con) and with positions, mixing up stroke rate. She knew I was a virgin that's why she wanted to fuck me and after she said that she didn't believe I was a virgin and I told her I was and she said she was the best she's had and we fucked for weeks after, and she wasn't v good at sex imo (kissing grinding riding etc etc) I'm convinced that all women are shit at sex, but i've only had sex with 4 girls so i mean

>beacuse of how much porn i watched i was really really good at sex

funniest thing i've read all day

I fucked both females I've been with way before I even started seriously lifting, having a nice body won't magically get you layed if it does it'll be some vapid std ridden slut

i dont even hate fatties for being fat
if anything i hate them for being normies because they mostly behave exactly like normie girls, only with a little less success and a bit more bitching and whining

>she said she was the best she's had

Literally every girl ever says that to every guy they fuck

well in that case, doing xtc a few times is what got me to start liking normies again.

I did

I regret it but the silver lining is that it allows me to warn virgins that sometimes banging rando sloots isn't all that it is chalked up to be

pump and dump and let them be sad

I wouldn't say it was "easy". I was drunk, it was a one-night-stand. She was stupidly hot, pretty sure I wouldn't have been able to talk to her if I was sober.
But getting that initial confidence is probably the key

this

>Get a haircut
>Shower
>Go to the club
>Get drunk
>Dont be creepy
Its not that hard

>Ywn fuck your perfect 10/10 oneitis high school gf again
>Chad fucks her a treats her like shit
>she craves his cock
>you treated her like a queen and made sweet love to her
>the memory repulses her

Feels good to thrive in despair

Control your breathing relax. Only tried it once but worked wonders after cumming within 5 mins for 2 years with ex

Anyone else get dumped for atypical reasons?

>then-gf likes to drive home a lot, sometimes I go with her
>2 hour drive
>often fall asleep in the car because I'm a big boy who needs his rest
>this pisses her off apparently but she didn't tell me until she broke up with me
>she also said I didn't have much ambition when I'm one semester from finishing a masters degree while she still doesn't have a bachelors
>doesn't like muh vidya despite her having an equivalent passion for watching tv

the only valid reason for her breaking up with me in my opinion was because I didn't enjoy going out and drinking empty calories with her normie friends.

I still miss her from time to time
because she had nice, traditional values and she enjoyable to bang. She was always very graceful and ladylike during sex

Yes
>sext her for hours on end at beginning of relationship
>teach her how to play with herself
>she comes over
>she initiates making out
>lets me take her clothes off
>let's me fuck, seems to enjoy it a lot
>texts me next day that I'm too pushy
>dumped

Felt great though. She hasn't gotten a new bf in the three years since. Goody two shoes Christian girl ruined by my dick.

High school was weird lads

>broke up because you slept in the car
>broke up because "no ambition" despite being on road to m.sc.
>broke up because not drinking enough

she's lying to you, making up bullshit reasons to avoid telling you why she really dumped you.

Same poster here.

>few weeks after being dumped end up dating a big titty coal burner for a couple months
>kind of a liberal cat lady but she still has her youth and is just a nice person all around
>sex could range from meh to great with her
>had to wear a condom with her so sometimes couldn't feel shit at all
>did shit like spread eagle during missionary which made it even harder to get pleasure out of sex
>had a shallow vag so I sometimes I'd slam my dick into her cervix or whatever it's called. Weird feeling.
>was very generous in bed though, enjoyed exploring my stupid fantasies and always complimented my bod despite the fact I'm like 17-18% body fat

I lucked out when I was a teenager. Found a 7/10 chick who liked me through online gaming, asked me if I wanted to meet up, then initiated everything from kissing to fucking despite how fucking autistic and unresponsive I was. If not for her I'm pretty convinced I'd still be a virgin. I base that off of the fact that since we broke up 7 years ago I still haven't done anything with any other grill, and not because I still have feelings for my ex, but because I'm an autistic sperglord.
So to answer your question: yes, it was easy, but I lucked out big time.

I do this all the time and I rarely get laid (make out with girls frequently enough I guess)
That may be due to living in Northern Ireland though...

>met through online gaming

How'd that happen? Provide a little more context if you will.

Nah man she was pretty for real. She was a super social girly-girl extrovert and I was a pretty introverted autist who only really enjoyed lifting and vidya.

She's the type of girl who likes to think of her boyfriend as a fashion accessory and I wasn't performing socially for her

I was just myself

Dont have to hide your autism, literally just be yourself. Worked for me and im only 9/10

What part?
I'm in Belfast. I can be your wingman

Protestants out