Sexual health thread

and then you woke up

Nah senpai. Masturbation is much more enjoyable. Less people are involved. No one is bitching about, don't stick that there. In your mind, you can have as many women, men, chickens, goats, or whatever you want, and can change partners as quickly as you can change the channel. You can't do that in real life, with a real woman. "What are you thinking about?" "Are you going to cum, because you told me you were going tell me when you were going to cum, so I don't have to swallow that nasty shit." Masturbation is easier, and more enjoyable, with less mess and no financial expenses involved. Grab a paper towel, a little lube, fap, throw away the paper towel, done.

Depends on your partner. If you're in a loving relationship with a partner who respects you, sex is amazing and will never be replaced with masturbation. Otherwise, yeah maybe

Yeah, you say that, until you wake up in the middle of a divorce, losing half your shit, and on the hook for 100K of her debt. Then you go, I should have just jacked off.

thats how addictions work.

tfw waxing your peckershaft to some dude banging a chick, talk about cuckoldery lmao

Why I would use lube to masturbate lel.

ITT virgins

>meet up with qt from my dorm at the comunal room at 4am to """watch tv"""
>make out
>finger her etc
>completely fucking flat
>she tries jacking me off but I'm just limp as fuck
>don't even feel turned on

what gives? I'm always horny normally, but whenever I get in this kind of situation, I can never be turned on or have a boner

Nah. There's nothing like big titty and big assed ghetto chick gagging on your cock until you ejaculate and she pukes back on your crotch.

All I need for life.

this

was 1 month with no porn and basically only sex and blowjobs
fapped two days ago to porn and it was awful, didnt feel right and I regreted it

either fap to your thoughts or have sex

I fap only to cam whores fingering themselvs or using dildos. I feel like a cuck when i watch another dude pound girl and me just watching.

Angry sex > blowjob > drunk sex > regular sex > handjob > beating off

it occurred to me when I was younger and with a single-digits number of former partners

at 34 I'm much more comfortable cumming in a woman than in my socks, even if it's for the purpose of procreation

anyway, the more you get confident with the sexual act with 3DPD human beings, the more you'll enjoy it. Something tells me that you're more used to masturbation than sexual intercourse, but obviously that's a wild guess

next time you make a thread at least try to make it vaguely Veeky Forums-related please

Sometimes, OP. I have a fwb who is just as horny as I am, but sometimes I would rather just stay home and jerk off for 5mins and get it out of my system. If I go over there I have to shower, get ready, drive over, and then hang out for a while and I'm a lazy retard who doesn't like to do that all the time. Overall sex is better than jerking it, tho.

So, it's not exactly a problem, in fact it's like a legitimate sexual superpower, but I can go pretty much indefinitely if I'm attracted to girl and I've not had sex in 2 or 3 days. I have literally gone 13 rounds over 12 hours before, sometimes just cumming and staying hard and not even stopping.
Most girls love it because I can literally fuck from dawn till dusk, but a FWB recently told me how weird it was, and though she wasn't complaining, she says she wonders if I should get myself checked out.
If I only go 3 or 4 rounds I'm usually wired and awake for hours afterwards, ready to go again, and slightly sexually frustrated. It takes around 7 or 8 to wear me out.
Is this a sign of a disfunction of some kind to be like this? Most of my friends don't believe me when I tell them about it.

depends on what you mean by enjoyable

masturbating can be more 'physically' enjoyable because you know exactly what you want but actual sex is far more fulfilling. also sex with someone you're emotionally invested in is the pinnacle. there is nothing like being kissing your girlfriend deeply while you fuck her and knowing that she loves you.

it's like the satisfaction you get having accomplished something in a video game vs actually accomplishing something in the real world

Unless you are doing some kind of drugs, enjoy it while you got it. It won't last forever. 13 rounds does seem a bit excessive, 1-2 times a day is fairly healthy and sustainable

I enjoy both, but it's funny that if I spend a whole week just non stop banging with a raw dick and friction burnes on the rim of my dick head the first thing I do when the girl leaves is masturbate..

I feel like those are just two very different things though, like them both.

Sex is only bad when you care about whether the girl likes it.

I'm like that, too. Cum super hard, still stay hard.

It's especially that way if I'm really into it.

I don't think it's a problem, but you gotta learn to like... figure out how to make that kind of sex rewarding. It took me a while to figure it out that, if my partner and I wanted to have reasonably long sex, I needed to be worked almost from the start.

it's all in your mind too nervous i guess

You probably just really suck at having sex.

>29
if you're still single past 24 just kys

No drugs, just crazy high libido. I'm 23 now, I'll enjoy it while it lasts.
I can literally fuck a girl delirious from sheer number of quality rounds, I hope this lasts a while.
It's always rewarding, though I do lose a lot of sensitivity towards the end, I'd be happier if I could just stop getting hard around the time I lose the ability to have an orgasm in a reasonable time frame, but that is not my fate. I just have to get satisfaction from making the girl cum more.

The feeling afterwards of "omg what if shes pregnant" ruins the feeling.
Even condom+making her swallow + she says shes on BC
I'm the best this girl is ever ganna get, so if she wants to get knocked up, it's ganna be with me :X

>there is nothing like being kissing your girlfriend deeply while you fuck her and knowing that she loves you.
Overrated.

t. had a gf, now single

Need help from people that have had problems staying erect when with a girl.

I've been taking nearly 9 grams of L-Arginine daily for about a month and also quit smoking. Only dry fapped about 4 times throughout the month.

I feel like I should be ready to not embarass myself again and keep it hard, but is there like.. any mental or physical tests I can put myself through to know for sure if my erection problem is gone before I put myself to the test with a girl again?

I can't get my dick up to real grills anymore sadly.

Is it over for me?

Don't think about it so much, you're too nervous that's why it happened in the first place

i hate condoms and they really fuck me up so I hate using them so id say masturbating is usually better then sex with a condom but raw dogging a girl and shooting a big load inside is the best fucking feeling in the world. hardly ever get to do that though.

For the most part I agree. I did have this one chick though. Before we started fucking we would lay in bed watching movies and shit. Sitting on my lap by the camp fire. This happened over the course of weeks. I would give her back rubs. Which evolved into her shirtless and me massaging her tits.

Well a few days before we actually fucked, I would rub her legs inside of her pants. Getting close enough to make her bite her lip and turn her head so I couldn't see her expression. I would run my hand on her mond which was so smooth and soft. The next morning I started touching her. Rubbing her tits and legs and then I went for it. She let out the biggest gasp when my hand touched her pussy and she started squirming around uncontrollably. I whipped my dick out and started sliding it back and forth on her pussy for a few minutes. Then as my dick starts moving towards her clit she pushes my dick inside of her. I turn her over on her back and fuck the tightest, sexiest pussy I've ever had. She was completely shaved and had an innie. Since then sex has been mediocre. She was super generous and loved to be dominated.

I miss that bitch. She tasted so good. God damn it.

I agree with dubs

I'm so far gone if I ever had sex I'd probably cry afterwards

this is so true. There's nothing like it.

Sex + emotion is like... a logarithmic scale for how rewarding it is. Super emotionally charged sex is so much better than casual sex, it's hard to consider them in the same league.

just quit fapping and quit watching porn

if you can get hard on your own you don't have ED

it's all in your head

nofap + kegels + cardio is your friends

Both genders?

How to not cum instantly? Only been with 3 girls, and when I was with the second one I just came after 30 seconds.

Do you want to fuck?

get the first nut done early and dont feel bad about it

stop fucking in the squat rack

>more enjoyable than sex
hell yeah
>to 3d porn
fuck off. I only jerk it to the purest of 2d waifus

People say this but I'm 24 and have been watching porn and jacking off like 3 times a day since I was 12 and I'm still like a 2 pump chump with my gf since it's too fucking hot even with a condom on

I literally have to think about other stuff to even hope not to blow my load in under a minute after years of sex and jacking it.

>angry sex
This is one of the most retarded normie concepts ever. Fucking animals.

false.

edge yourself for 3 hours then blow your load to a 10/10 joi video and you'll truly experience ecstasy.

What is the primary purpose of no fap?
Is there a health benefit, or what?

Read this thread, note all the posts of dudes who can't get it up because they jerk it to crazy porn constantly.
Going no porn helps get your expectations right, both for the woman and yourself. Porn causes desensitization too, so removing that is good. Going no fap is kind of a meme I think, but fapping less is definitely healthy. You don't get desensitized in your dick and from overstimulating your dopamine receptors in the brain from death grip jerking and edging.
It improves sexual health. This may bleed over into other areas of life, or it may not. Depends on your personal outlook and habits. It won't give you superpowers, but it's definitely good. Same as controlling your eating habits and not eating a "death by chocolate" double topped caramel cheesecake twice a day is a good thing.

This. And try to keep going straight into round two. The first nut will go fast, but as long as you're reloaded for round 2 quickly it should be fine.

Dubs don't lie.
And my personal experience supports this.

Don't tense your legs or any other muscles, be completely relaxed.

Ah, I see. Thank you very much for clearing it up.

No problem. Also some guys find that it helps motivate them to go out and try to actually get laid, for sexual release. This leads to social gains and practical life experience.

Sex on molly> sex while stoned> make up sex> drunk sex> sex after she did coke> threesomes> blowjob> masturbating to awesome porn after edging> bad sex> bad blow job

No fap

especially if edge before for a while and then get stoned and blow your load. fucking mind blowing

Good sex > masturbating > bad sex > no sex

Preach boiiiii

I have a gf and haven't had sex with her in over a year. She got fat and I'm repulsed by her disgusting body and I have no interest in ever doing it again with her but I can't wait to get home after work so I can watch some porm and rub it out by myself.

I have yet to feel anything better than getting your whole dick inside her while she moans and comes.
The only thing that could rival it is making the girl come while shes throat deep on your dick.

Either your sexlife is boring or youre weird if you think masturbaition is better.

fucking normies get out rrreeeeeeeeee

I've never had a missus, but i got lucky on Tinder back in January, and I've been dry ever since.

Fml.

I jerk off 6 times a week and still ahve sex with my girlfriend.

Thinking you need to choose means youre fucked in the head, or doesnt have much experience with it at all.

Uhm, why don't you break up with her?

This. Make sure you're not tensing any muscles in/around your anus.

I have never had sex, how good is my sexual health?

had the same thing. no fap/no porn for a month and now i have viagra level boners every time and huge loads. (used to have sad pathetic baby loads, and girls have noticed these cahnges as well).

just a matter of deciding to stop and sticking to it. i havent even had a relapse or any moment of wanting to. just decide youre done doing it.

this legitimately works, i always nut within like a minute on the first round, then last fine the second go

So guys. Is it normal that eating stuff almonds and nuts makes me horny?

I mean my mom left some in place so I ate like a small while studying. I went to the gym and I was super horny the whole time. Hell the hornyness trumped my usual shyness I asked a kinda chubby/curvy girl I knew if she liked to come to my room.

We fucked. A lot. I was horny throughout the whole night. Like next level horny. I did things that I wouldn't consider attractive. Like anal and butt licking (I actually liked it)

Now this wasn't a isolated incident. I tried to drop nuts and my libido was down to normal levels. I ate them again and my libido was way up.

That volume.

Came in like 30 seconds with the gf last week, was not good lads.

Help

Only applies to men desu, they peak at 23 and it's all downhill from there. Women are good till 45 easily.

Its dietary fats. You need to eat to fat to produce test, which obviously boost your libido. Nuts are high in dietary fats. Eat more fats in general, you'll keep the boner gains without having to shove handfuls of almonds down your gullet mid coitus.

>finds masturbating to porn more enjoyable than sex?
Holy shit user, tell me your methods. I'm currently trying to optimise what angle my dick should make with my balls, I suspect that I will derive the most pleasure from pushing my dick downwards and as far away from my stomach as I can comfortably get it while fapping. Can you weigh in on this? Uncut male here.

Reading this triggered me. Can't you just lie to us and tell us sex isn't that enjoyable, you inconsiderate fag

>edge yourself for 3 hours
>3 hours
Fucking how? And even if you could do it, how do you not make that end in blue balls?

I enjoy it
I dont have to worry about the other person having a good time or am I giving him the amount of pleasure that he wants

how do you not bust in 30 sec when on nofap

im on nofap too and i feel like a might bust before i even put it in lmao

>not watching quality porn like lifeerotic

Is there a way to make yourself asexual? I unironically hate all women and my life would be so much better if I just never had to think about sex again. do you think nofap for a very long period would completely kill my libido?

>do you think nofap for a very long period would completely kill my libido?
Yes, at the very least I can say that was what I experienced when I did long term nofap.

I don't really have problem with performance. I also eat enough fats in my diet. Not counting the girl I ate out (although she might not be as chubby for long as apparently getting fucked viciously and getting her asshole licked is a great motivator)

>tfw I trained myself to cum quickly while living in dorms because I didn't know how much time I had to jerk off
>now I cum in like 30 seconds when jerking off
>a few minutes while having sex
How can I fix this?

You completely missed the point of my post so you could brag about eating the ass of a fat chick.

Recondition yourself to last an hour without stopping, then focus less on 'reaching a goal' and more on enjoying the experience.

I've only ever had passable or dissapointing sex.
I can make me cum better than any women I will likely ever meet.
Ain't no pussy tighter than the death grip from my meaty paws

What's y'alls opinion on a girl calling you daddy?
It makes me hard as fuck for some reason and I don't know if I'm okay with that

>hes gullible enough to think that shes actually not faking it

>Women are good till 45

Please user, women start losing fertility around 30. If anything women should be 24 and men should be 27 at the latest.

>lube
silly cutfags

Any of you guys have advice on how to last longer? I am in the same boat as him.