Tfw my entire life...

>tfw my entire life, from school to university to my first after university job has simply been following the set path laid out for me with zero initiative, and I have reached this age and see that Chads and women go up the escalator of good times and success while the conveyor belt leads to the grinder for the non Chad males
>tfw aged 26 and never had attention from women ever or done anything with them unless I paid for prostitutes

When did you realise the brutal truths about being a non Chad male? It's torture to go to work in sunny and hot days like this and see so many attractive women around my age who fuck ten Chads a day from Tider and who consider me a disgusting non chad. No, lifting changes nothing, I can squat four plate and nothing changed.

And then at work I am the loser who nobody speaks to and who doesn't go to any of the socialising events because making small talk with normies is impossible. Even extroverted normies say little to me.

And every single day I beat myself up mentally because I waste all my free time on mourning the previous 8 apathetic mourning filled years of my life.

Engaging with most culture is a rigged game. You read novels and suddenly you're told you have to read boring as fuck novels or else you're dumb. You start programming and are told you have to use academic mental masturbation programming languages or else your dumb. Everywhere you get, at best, hazing (which is acceptable) but in most cases snake oil salesmen but with self perpetuating pressure to accept their shit.

I think even normies see through the BS. We had a minute's silence for the recent terror attack, with the minute being announced by loudspeaker immediately before. Afterwards all the normies thought it was, "lel so awkwerd". Not that I was fooled, I just thought it was bs for the pol reasons I will not go in to.

Wellcome to reality, and enjoy your stay.

Although this thread belongs to be in /r9k, I can tell you that many people here lift to forget, or to ease the pain of their miserable life, and some of them even make it, maybe you will be one of them too...eventually. Otherwise, thinking like that doesn't really make you any favor and you will only feel worse, even if it's the sad and harsh reality. Don't count, just do what you have to do.

surgery you dumb bitch

you just sound like a shitty person to be perfectly honest with you lad

Thank god my life isn't this.

I keep telling women I don't want to fuck and they keep bringing me dinner hoping to fuck.

SHUT UP

I just ignore it, I don't have the energy to care anymore. Yeah I'm an ugly loser, I don't even try to make friends or talk to women anymore.


Maybe one day I'll blow up and go shoot up a mosque. Maybe one day things will change for the better, who knows. Until then I just grind away at this machine like the insignificant little cog that I am.

>(((Mosque)))
You avoiding mentioning something?

>only jews hate muslims

lmao

>I can tell you that many people here lift to forget, or to ease the pain of their miserable life
Seconding this.

I've been lifting for about 5 years. Started lifting moderately at 25 when I was going through depression over job and financial dissatisfaction. Made some decent gains, but it helped give me something to look forward to and it was nice actually reaching goals.

2 years ago I started lifting and dieting pretty seriously after some marriage issues came up (ended up going to couples counseling which was a complete waste of time). Me going to the gym pretty much saved my marriage.

I'm in the best shape of my life at this point, but I'm still pretty unhappy with how my life has turned out. Going to the gym really helps me cope with it though. Gives me something positive to look forward to, gives me motivation to work hard (at least with regards to health and fitness), and gives me happiness when I reach a goal.

I'll probably never be truly happy unless I divorce my wife and win the lottery later that day....but going to the gym helps me more mentally than physically at this point, and I'm grateful for it and for Veeky Forums, believe it or not.

is it worth quitting NEET life for a shot at normiehood?

I've been a NEET for 6 years now (23) and thinking about re-entering society.

agree. the gym is the best therapist

Being a recovering neet myself, and believeing you had a similar bulk of experientes that i did, just do it. Dont buy the neet romance some people on the chans try to sell, we know it is not true. Also, do everything you can to avoid the mental trap of thinking if whether its too late or not, should you even try anymore or not, just do it.

>No, lifting changes nothing, I can squat four plate and nothing changed.

Your life may not be objectively so much worse than that of the people you envy. You're exaggerating the negative aspects of your own life, although you could just be grateful for being healthy. Think about all the apparantely well-adjusted happy people that kill themselves every day. Why is that? Do you think other people don't feel unsatisfied and sad? What do you think where the main tenets and the popularity of buddhism come from? Your problem is that you want to focus on yourself like a child.

> tfw retruded mandible

You sound like you just have a very negative outlook on life, I would start working on that asap if I were you senpai

Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People".

>thinks a "chad" exists
>he labels people and put them into boxes
>thinks in terms of "chad," "stacy," and "normies"
Just kill yourself my dude

I have a 10 year mental blockade, I dont know how to break through. Im willing to believe in whatever just get me out of my head

Begin reading "The Secret" and make yourself believe it

NEETdom is a fate worse than death. Your soul is already in the grave when you get deep into being NEET. Been there, done that, it almost ended me.

>t. Chad

It won't be easy with all the requirements society wants. Filling out a job application hurts when you realize the reason you're neet in the first place.

losers lose, more at 11

either start fixing your shit or stop whining like a bitch