Can you be good at sex your first time

I'm nervous as fuck and have no idea what I'm doing. 20 y/o virgin, just dropped 100 lbs and now I actually have a girl in my life

How do I not fuck this up? No r9k memes please

is it her first time too

tell her it's your first time so you don't embarrass yourself

also alcohol

Do you have any idea what you're doing? Then it might be ok.
What are you asking me for I'm 38 and have already pathed into three colors of magic.

This OP, but not alcohol

It's easier than you think, but you won't be great at it without some practice

Forgot to say: Don't be afraid to be assertive about what you want in bed, girls like it. Don't just stay in one position the whole time. A good beginner routine is: you on top, her on top, doggy style and finish there or back with you on top

Yes, especially if you're somewhat drunk (last longer, even without a condom) but don't get too drunk especially if she's gonna be stone cold sober.
>take it slow with the foreplay. Make out (French kissing is very important); progress down the body going from her mouth to her tits and give some light pecks on her abdomen before reaching her pussy
>once at the pussy, spit or lick your finger before stimulating the clitoris as you eat her out (also very important) but don't rub the clitoris too hard
>alternate between fingering and eating her out
>she'll then most likely signal that she wants to suck you off
>let her do her thing
>once you start fucking her this will be your golden opportunity to show off them cardio and core gains (assuming your doing missionary), alternate speed if it'll help you last longer and play with her tits/make out with her as you hump her
>when you feel like your close pull out and start eating her out
Of course you'll need to take the cues she sends with regards as to how hard, fast, etc. she wants you to fuck her/finger her/play with her clitoris/etc. Don't let American Pie and all those other movies make you think that you'll cum within 1 minute on your first time because you'll be surprised by how much longer you last if you know how to pace yourself (which is why masturbating is good, it helps you learn how to control yourself and your orgasms)

>This OP, but not alcohol
Alcohol helps you last longer but it isn't advisable if she isn't drunk

nah but she's Christian and I like chilling with her a lot
she knows that already
I mean I've watched porn and have done everything except sex. She's just shy so I know she won't correct me if I'm messing up
I was planning on xanax
I can probably manage that

>spit or lick your finger before stimulating the clitoris as you eat her out

Uh but when I'm eating a girl out I'm licking the clit. If my fingers are there idk where my mouth should be. Also I don't have gains yet, just lost a lot of weight but still skinny fat. 6'0 160

thanks for all the legitimate advice bros. You guys are alright

20mg of cialis. Thank me later.

I'm 20 my man have no problem getting it up. And if you're talking about lasting longer I'll just do what said and go down when I feel like cumming

Ignore these replies because they're all overthinking it. Sex isn't something you do with a fucking manual. Just go with the flow and do what feels good and what you think will make her feel good.

She likes you so she'll enjoy it, and you'll get better every time.

>don't rub the clitoris too hard

fag

you shouldn't copy korn, the angles they use are meant for the camera and aren't necessarily for pleasure. just do the simple positions, missionary, cowgirl, and doggy. when she's on top, if you put a pillow under your lower back/ass it goes in at a much better angle. first time I did it on my gf she asked if my dick got bigger. another huge tip is to be very handy, girls love that shit because skin is sensitive. when she's on top or you're doing doggy, rub your hands up and down her sides and hold on to her hips. a lot of people get nervous their first time so don't sweat it and don't be so serious
it's supposed to be fun

Don't worry about being a stud your first time. Most girls don't even care that much how you do - random sloots do, but if this girl is your friend you haven't really got anything to worry about. People who don't get laid don't understand just how easy it to have sex like a LOT. Just get it over with then an hour later do it again. And again. And again. Figure out what works and get comfortable. Only way to do it.

pls do not listen to these faggots you DO NOT eat out your gf the first time you fuck her that will just degrade you to beta boi instantly and she will drop you.

eating her out is something you do after a few monts or even a year when she really deserves it.

I haven't had sex for two years, I'm basically a virgin again. I'm anxious for my next time eventhough I've done it hundred of times with my ex, but it was without condoms and with someone I knew. The only two times I fucked with a condom on it kept sliding, when I pulled out there was some empty room at the tip and it kept making noise while we were fucking. How to stop that Veeky Forums?

buy a smaller condom you retard

It must have been too big, a condom should not slide off even if you're fucking a really tight one hard asf. The trick with condoms is you need to try different brands/types until you hit the one that works, then you won't even notice that it's there.

Just do whatever feels right and enjoy yourself. You will not be great, probably not even good, but as long as youre not bad it'll be alright.

If she actually likes you, she's not going to drop you because of one bad time

b-but I love eating pussy user
sound advice
sounds like a fine line between not good and bad

Well it was a regular brand. I know I don't have a huge dick but it's average, I thought average condoms would be enough

with condoms it's more about your girth I think.

Are you uncircumcised?

yup

Pro tip: its lower than you think

bro, don't worry about a thing. you got the non-mutilated dick going for you. if she's been with cutfags (most likely if american), you'll perform above average as long as you don't sperg out and start calling her your mother or something

don't bang away like it's some porn, just give it to her gently. foreplay until moist before insertion

For your first time make her ride you.
You will last longer and she might be able to get herself off which is a big plus.

If you go missionary you'll bust in ten pumps

You are going to be awful your first try.

But the next time it should be better.
Just tell her you're a virgin and try again. As long as you don't vomit on her you're good

yeah, for real

Obviously not. Get smaller condoms, little man

So I've got an atrophied undescended testicle, and because of this I've avoided sex because I'm afraid girls will be disgusted/horrified of my bad nut. Do girls care a lot about the balls? I'm probably going to get a prosthetic testicle at some point in the future.

Yes
If you beat your dick up too much like I did and get death grip syndrome you won't be able to nut and you can beat the pussy up all night

Nofap fags btfo

It's not a good thing having to Chris Brown your dick in front of your girl to get it to go off properly
If she can't get you off she'll get all kinds of emotional and insecurity issues about it, and it isn't fun to deal with

this desu. Overthinking is only gonna fuck things up

happened to me the first handful of times i had sex.
makes the girl feels super insecure usually

Definitely dont listen to this Jamaican retard.

Your call. I will say 20mg Cialis makes your dick 150% bigger for 36 hours. Goes away when youre not horny too. Also works no matter high or drunk you are. It's sort of a dream pill.

You can't get that over the counter can you>?

Naw but doctors hand prescriptions out for it easily

Just 3 things OP:

1. Don't take xanax. You don't want to forget your first time and it likely just to make it more difficult to perform. If you really want to chill out a couple of drinks to take the edge off is what I did and that was fine.
2. When fingering her put your hand in the the claw position like pic related. Move your arm back and forth like a jackhammer. Makes a world of difference.
3. Just lead it and have fun. Don't be afraid to be dominant. Enjoy it while it's still in the magical exploration stage and not just a routine. It's funner to find things out by yourself.

Yeah Korn was only good in middle school

stop being a beta cuck, sex is literally the easiest thing in the world, even sandniggers can do it.
put your dick in the fucking hole and if you cum early you can just continue 15 mins later
until then you can finger her or talk about the weather whatever
jesus christ

trips of truth

I too have found the claw to be effective.

Look up how to properly use a rubber, and practice it.

As long as you remember the "come hither" motion while fingering (looks like but don't be an autist and go straight to jackhammering), you'll always have an auto-orgasm up your sleeve to lay on a chick no matter what happens. Takes a load off your mind when you're new and nervous about whether you can please.

dont just focus on the clit, its super sensitive; turn your head sideways and lick/suck the actual lips as well, can drive a girl nuts

I doubt they'll notice, and if they do, I doubt they'll care.

Women are *WAY* too focused on whether or not you'll notice the thousand flaws they see in their own bodies to register any little thing wrong with yours as all that significant. Especially when things are hot and heavy and their brains start to turn to mush.

Thanks for the encouragement senpai. I've been hung up on this shit for my whole life

Lube as needed
Don't use a condom
Let her get on top of shes experienced. Hope you haven't been neglecting your hip thrusts

I made one about my cat.

Don't overthink, be cool, relaxed, act like you know what you're doing and she'll assume that you had more experience than her. If you don't know what you're doing ask her to make you feel good and she'll take the lead.