Is monogamy sustainable?

Is monogamy sustainable?

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Yes? Billions have done it before you, billions will do it afterwards. You just have to find the right person.

With a healthy social order, yes.

So not currently.

I don't think so anymore. I was one of those hopeless romantic types for a long time, but I've just given up really.

>have to compete with ADD culture
>culture and media tells everyone YOLO do what you want when you want
>women's movements ruin many and tell them that relationships are oppressive, maaaaan
>chicks can find a million dicks online
>dudes WILL try to fuck her through social media even if it's clear that she's in a relationship
>half of these chicks grew up with single moms and have weird relationships with dudes; can't stand stability

If you a woman, why would you even settle down with one guy for a long time? You can find dick, you can even have a baby and then leave him and bleed his wallet dry. And worse case scenario, you find the big bull (daddy government) to pay for your existence.

It's not, I've cheated on all my girlfriends. How can you stay monogamous when women throw themselves at you?

Its called self control you pathetic nigger

It definitely is if your partner is also monogamous.
Finding someone who is monogamous is another story though.

Yeah no, that's called being gay, bro. If they serve it to you on a plate and you don't take it, you're not of the heterosexual persuasion.

Monogamy isn't just sustainable, all alternatives are completely unsustainable.

Polyandry only exists in small portions of the Himalayas because of the scarcity of land and the fact that parents frequently murder their infant daughters (Sons can take care of you in old age).

Polygyny results in 1% of the men hoarding 99% of the pussy. That 99% of virgins then rises up and butchers the uber-chads at the first sign of the Chad's power weakening. This phenomenon is also what caused the Bronze Age Collapse leading to the utter destruction of every civilization (The Mediterranean and Middle East) except one: Monogamous Egypt.

"""""Free""""" """""Love"""""" just results in anarchy and bloodshed or descends into monogamy.

No.
Love is a chemical reaction that wears out over time.

Nigger detected.

He used proper punctuation.

Uh...
Polygymy actually results in Alpha females declining being a part of Chad's harem so they can amass the attentions of the thirsty 99% of the virgins.
Most women who aren't above 8/10 and are above ....11 and below 25 won't get in, will be seen as a burden.
Mainly because the women who do fit into that harem yet aren't in it are more then willing to settle for second tier chads or be whores.
Meaning that every man will get a taste thus the vast majority of women, well over 80% will be seen as less valuable then horses.

throw them back

I really hope so, or else my dreams are not sustainable.

Go watch Scooby's livecast that they did with his husband, no joke. A ton of great advice as always. Their relationship works solely because they don't spend every waking hour together. They even had their own rooms when getting their house. Each has separate hobbies, and each even works out separately. The resounding key is in the fact they treat marriage like an extension of being really close housemates. Most relationships fail because they spend too much time together; people can't stand someone else to that degree. Hell, people can't stand being around themselves all the time hence why solitary confinement exists.

It's called self control you degenerate

I read that humans sleep so they don't have to be around themselves for a few hours

I think a growing number of people have some level of cognitive dissonance surrounding monogamy.

I think it's possible, but maintaining and respecting the individual and not oversaturating the relationship is crucial. I personally don't ask it of my partners, maybe when I breed I'll see it differently.

Love definitely isn't an exclusive concept, and finding a balance between acting on it and self restraint is key.

nobody fucking knows why people sleep

Cuckoldry has been a thing since we lived in caves and shat in the woods.

We have never had a "healthy" social order, the only thing you can do is find someone who has enough dignity to rise above their baser instincts.

We're social animals who live in tribes, so no

False. Healthy social orders can be defined the same way a healthy body can. When you're healthy, you don't notice your body. When you're sick, you do. You don't notice that the mail comes on time. You don't notice that your water and electricity almost never go out. You don't notice that you're neighbor doesn't stab you over a loaf of bread.

But if you want to continue bitching about the fact that in any social structure a percentage of human individuality must be sacrificed for the benefits of coherence and conformity, then fine.

The image in your head is a fantasy, and if you thought about how real human beings would behave in your ideal world you'd realize they'd shit all over your utopia. And if your solution to that is genocide to those who don't fit, well that's why you're not in charge.

Its really the only form of society that IS sustainable.

Hey retard, clearly "social order" in this instance is related to intimate relations with others, no social as in society and culture. Learn to read

Read the sticky

If you are a feral nigger who's inner desire to be a primate overrides your cultural norms then no

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Nowadys?
yes, for up to around seven years, if you have children.

monogamy is totally sustainable. it's just that you have a way more exciting love life when you are a single guy, focused on short term romance.

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Get /x/ we got a case of Mr Mandela on our hands

For some reason this reminds me of the good ol chan days

COME ON MODS

I mean seriously, they're not even trying anymore

Compared to most anons here, I'm old fag-tier. Believe me, I'm not bragging.

who hurt you user

The longer we've been here, the less of an excuse we have for still being here.

I mean, as they say, it was never good. Just... This isn't even in the realm of on topic.

Also, I miss that people used to understand the difference between funny racism and boring, edgy teen racism

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It was good in its ways; they're just harder to see as the world changes.

And don't get me wrong, I am racist as fuck. I just do find it's better to use a little wit about it.

Idk man. This is something that bugs me too. Maybe we have to get used to feeling like we are missing out on things.

>see hot girl
>think about life together
>see another hot girl
>think about life together

It doesn't matter if I'm in a relationship or not. It's a cycle that never ends. It tears me apart because I want to be faithful and not hurt the girls I'm with but it's so hard.

It's not the natural human state. However, civilization only springs up when the population is socially engineered to do so, and disappears into violence and chaos whenever it strays from it

not in 2017, I can barely fap to the same pornstar for no more than a month, then I cheat with multiple other pornstars, even the uglier ones, the uglier the better sometimes...ahah, fuck

that's why we need to regain control over women and civilian men, public tortures for the cheaty ones, tv must see a change too with positive propaganda about being a good mother and demonize sex, people are stupid and they do anything highlighted, they would even eat their own shit if TV tell them so...man, I saw an icecream commercial the other day, it had a gay boy licking his lips, a guy biting a girl's ass while she was tanning...look at this, literally "think about sex and sex related stuff, anything else does not matter, be a slut and a degenerate, it's the way to go!"
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