How do I stop thinking about her

No, that will just make things worse

then whats the problem?

Cut out all your social media for a few weeks, it will do wonders

Fuck how do I find a non prostie girl who will let me put my penis in her vagina consensually?

me and my gf of 6 years broke up with me 10 months ago. it hasn't gotten easier. the worst part is i don't hate her or anything. she still wants to be friends. hasn't been with anyone else. but she'll never be mine again and that sucks.
i've hooked up with a few girls since we broke up but it didn't help. in fact i felt guilty afterwards. one of the girls i actually liked and had a connection to a few weeks ago said she just wants to be friends and not FWBs either. but she just got out of a shitty relationship. bad timing for me because she was the first girl that i thought could help me get over my ex.

slide into a deep sleep and never wake up.

or lift harder.

Go to a club and grind on drunk chicks?
It's not rocket science dude

wondering the same.

Okay anons, I got rejected from a girl i've known for years, thought we where hitting it off but apparently she's just into someone else, no biggie, however what should I do to stay friends and make it so things aren't awkward between us?

chop wood

2nd'd. First step is cutting out all contact, next step is distracting yourself with anything else. But you can't do step two first.

SQUATS & OATS

This is going to be difficult my beta friend.
The only right answer is

You must find another one, so just fuck 10 another womans. One of the if not all of them, will be alot better than your ex.

So go out and Approach all the Girls that you like.

Are you me? Tell me her name, user

I wish I knew man. Living with her for two years [spoiler]with her and her girlfriend[/spoiler] certainly didn't help.

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Talk to other girls. Doesn't matter where.
If you've been with her before, you're on withdrawal. It's not easy, but talking to and flirting with other girls makes it so, so much easier.
That and stay busy. Never sit in front of the computer - sort yourself out.

What if its a oneitis?
I cant stop thinking about a friend in my group. We kissed last weekend but shes holding off so much I doubt she likes me. Happened at a party

haven't been able to initiate anything further

Caitlyn.

its a man baby

The only reason I made an Instagram was because when we were first starting to know each other she said she posted a video of her dancing drunk in her apartment and I told her I'm making one just to creep on her. That night I drove 30 minutes through a blizzard at 1am to spend the night at her place. The only social media I have is a snapchat and thankfully she unfriended me on there otherwise I'd probably swallow some bleach.

Yeah I used to pick on her for sharing his name

Dude seriously delete that shit. Protect yourself. Cut everything off, delete number, message archives. You don't wanna stumble upon a picture of herself with another dude. trust me. it sucks to do now, but it's better in the long run

during a date go in for a kiss
dont apologize for doing it either if it gets weird or shes not feeling it

>the question is how long will it take

I'm working on 7 years. Good luck bubba.

I know you're right. I've given other people the same advice. But putting it into practice is too hard. Her insta is public so I'd need to block the entire site if I were to go that route. And I can't delete our text history. Reading our conversations puts a smile on my face. I know it's prolonging my suffering but I don't want to forget the good memories I spent with this girl. I hate being this way but I can't help it.

i know buddy, it's tough. I've been through that a few month ago. I've never felt such like shit before

Keep yourself busy, give yourself time to grief, pick up a new hobby, travel, go out drinking with friends, lift a lot. things WILL get better, i promise

I've lost 2 girls I'm pretty sure I loved, broken a few hearts myself so feels like karma, one was childhood crush who used me as a fuck buddy and other was girl I saw for 3 years

I got over them by banging around myself but what I did that worked was everytime I thought about them I'd hit myself, hard, like knuckles to my head (obviously don't try and draw blood or kill yourself and make sure you do it alone so you don't look like a freak) and I stopped thinking about them, I think my body accustomed me to thinking about them to physical pain which was the plan, probably seems weird but honestly it works

It's called negative reinforcement, in case you want to look it up

Just not being a faggot and lifting heavy weights, user.

Hey user, it's ok, don't worry. You miss someone that doesn't exsist anymore. You miss that version of Her that gave you love and motivation, you probably miss the sex too, that's normal. She, as a person You miss, doesn't exist anymore. You surely don't miss the current bitch that sucks 6 dicks a week and gets drunk everyday, do You? So don't worry, it's like missing a deceased relative, when you think about Her, cherish the old times and go on. You're gonna make it.

I know that feel brehs. 4 year relationship ended 2 months ago. Lemme tell you some stuff my cousin told me.

Distance yourself

1. You will have a good time talking to her and catching up with her. You will re-live those little mannerisms that she has that you used to love. You will hold onto the past and pretend that it isn't over.
2. You WILL eventually hear about her fucking another guy. Odds are, she did it way sooner than you thought was okay. If it took her more than 2 months, she's an outlier. Odds are, one of these guys she has slept with since the breakup is a guy she knew BEFORE you broke up. You know what it's like to find out she's been fucking that "friend" she used to talk to all the time?
3. You will get insecure. You will repeatedly be demoralized by watching her move on with other men. You will be crushed by watching how well you still get along with her. You will repeatedly think about the past and dwell on the end when everything between you two unraveled. You will hold onto those feelings you've always had.
5. Stand on the sidelines as she finds a new boyfriend. A new guy to hold her at night. A new guy meeting her parents and celebrating their anniversary. A new guy that she truly believes she loves, and who loves her back. This is what's best for her, man. That's what we all need eventually.

So your options are thus: either go through those above stages, or move on yourself. As hard as it is to cut ties with each other completely, it's the best thing for both of you in both the short term AND the long term. Be selfish. Do what you have to do to be strong emotionally. And if you domt know what that is, take some time to figure it out.
Move on. Worry about yourself. Fuck other girls. Once you no longer have feelings for the ex, you can move on to your next relationship. She will be kind and smart and beautiful and incredible to you.
You can get through this my guys. Its gonna be okay.

what was the fourth thing your cousin told you?

truest words spoken on Veeky Forums in awhile. i always think of my ex's as dead because they are way different people now

thanks space cowboy

BLOCK HER user.

Trust me, might not help a lot. But it will stop you from looking.

blow your brains out

hmm, maybe i should try this. currently dealing with a vengeful woman

that's a secret only he can reveal in esoterick signs

I was going through something similar and an user posted this message in a thread I made
It helped me out a ton, more than I thought any anonymous Veeky Forums post would and it helped me to move on
I saved it just in case it could help anyone else

Man, I can't relate to you normies at all.

holy fuck

Why are you worrying about staying friends with a girl? Wtf man. Read some good literature and lift more.

Cut things off completely or you'll only end up suffering for it in the end.