hey guys
so I have a bit of a unique problem. I can keep an erection no issue, but I can almost never cum without really hammering my dick, so in most sexual scenarios I just end up going home with blue balls.
How the fuck do I train myself to cum sooner or get more sensitive?
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you make her finish you off when she's done
it's not that easy mate, I'm saying it's extremely difficult to come to orgasm for me, we usually run out of time before that happens.
Stop jerking off
Alternatively, you might not be attracted to women
Take supplements, space your fap sessions out 2 days minimum, edge and do Kegels. No one said it would be easy but if you want to fix it you gotta start
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i'm bi, was with a guy ecently
your dick might be desensitized from excessive masturbation. it's not really that unique, this is a googlable problem. this is the one time nofap is warranted.
Guys can someone help me out? If my dick isn't constantly rubbed/sucked I'll lose my erections almost immediately, like with 2 or 3 seconds. I get random boners, but those too are just like half erect. Should I go to a urologist and get checked out?
It makes putting on a condom/penetration tough, because by the time i can put it in her, I'm already losing my erection
Yes, it is. You just have shit focus.
I have the same issue. Work on your will power, faggot.
try fucking dudes?
You may need to reconsider that position on your sexuality.
Are you on anti depressants?
its this. If you do fap (which you shouldnt) make it a really long session and use lube. otherwise slow down with fapping.
Bumping for answer
Stop jacking off so much
same problem, dunno how to fix it either
I just think of gains.
Are you circumcised?
Go without a condom you fgt lol
I tried it without one, still same issue
I have the same thing.
sometimes I have to plow her for 3 hours straight.
causes us to have allot less sex because it takes so much time it becomes difficult to schedule
what happens when you masturbate?
>run out of time
Are you exclusively fucking prostitutes?
You can go to a urologist if you want and they might get you Viagra to help keep you hard. I had a similar issue, and honestly it was mostly just a nervous / mental thing. I could never stay hard as I worried about staying hard.
After some time with a very understanding gf, honestly isn't a issue any more. Take it slow, calm down, and enjoy yourself. I doubt it's a medical issue.
2 pump chump here. How do I last longer like you macho men? I want my girlfriend to love me
Had this issue for some time. Spent some time and found a position that was very stimulating as well as mentally satisfying to my personal kinks. Now when I want to finish I swap to that position. It can still take up to 10 min but a extra 10 min is a lot better then a extra hour.
I am you. Feels shit. I make her cum everytime by eating her out etc. But penetration gets me done in a matter of a kinute or two. Fuck.
Same thing, I will get erect, but i think my dick doesn't get fully erect. It sometimes stays below parallel.
I don't want to start viagra at age 22 m8. I might still go to the urologist.
This is good advice. You need to train your dick for sex. Get viagra and slowly (SLOWLY) cut dosage as you practice sex over a period of 1-3 months. You're dick learns to be hard when it is sexy time.
>take le viagra
>foreplay till viagra kicks in
>eat pussy
>if dick is still hard after not touching and focusing on pussy you are good.
When you can foreplay and stay hard without viagra it's all g bby.
t. Guy who had erection problems
Take viagra. Erection problems are a COMMON problem for someone your age as your doctor will tell you if you swallow your pride. Practice makes perfect bro and a small handicap is ok.
I feel you man. I don't really have a refractory period though so I can fuck her multiple times. Just sucks that I have to stop and cum all the time. Can usually go for like 3 times. But stopping multiple times kinda kills the mood.
I'm going through a similar issue.
I spent my teenage years doing prone masturbation.
I've been training myself to cum only with my hand, and nothing else. It takes me up to 20 minutes, and the orgasm isn't even that good.
I stopped for a week, and then fapped. Then I did 5 days, and fapped. Then 3 days, and fapped. Now I fap once a day, and slowly and slowly I've been building up sensitivity.
Today, I jerked off 7 times about 10 minutes each today. That was a bad idea, so don't do that.
I can only cum when I'm having sex in missionary or when she's laying on her stomach. I've never been able to cum from oral, or handjobs.
Some girls like that I last so long, but some of them really want a load in their mouth and I can't ever give it to them.
Just quit porn completely, no matter how good that harem hentai is.
Fap once a week.
Take supplements.
This. Do no porn and masturbate less
Damn ok seems like I don't have an option. Can tadalafil work just as well?
Consider buying a meiki onahole to train. I used to last less than 7 minutes now I can go for almost an hour
Don't fap with deathgrip (pay lots of attention to this)
Refrain from fapping for a while (couple of weeks)
Don't fap multiple times or if you're not really into the mood (ie don't fap out of boredom), cause it requires deathgrip and furious beating.
After a while she should be able to make you cum by combination of jerking you off and oral.
Try edging
I will probably never be able to make use of all this advice
fucking lmao
I've tried nofap a couple times before and could only make it a few days. Maybe I ought to take it more seriously.
What? That I'm not attracted to anyone? Dumbass.
No, I'm not
Yes, I know I'm already fucked on that front.
Are you doing kegels while you are fucking? That will help you.
Stop masturbating. I notice this too when I'm in a position and its not hitting a certain area on my dick.
No homo
No shame in it, I've accepted my faggotry after a long period of denial. But I love the puss too, I swing both ways.
I take like 1-2 hours to cum and it sucks. So does my wife. I got amazing abs.
post pic of abs or gtfo
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