Did getting fit help you get a girlfriend?

The kind of girls I like are now intimidated
The ones attracted at first glance can quickly sense the autism

i never meet any single women worth dating soooo no.

witnessed

It helps indirectly. Lifting helps you with confidence. If you're more confident, its more likely that you'll go out and try to find a girlfriend.

No.

I'm still here after all.

Helped me get a bf, we're both into getting stronk so we even train together whenever we can.

Girlfriend?

quints of wisdom

It's probably all in your head. Women most likely find you a lot more attractive than you realize.

>like this girl
>mutual friends say she's into me too
>go on date
>she slowly stops responding to my texts afterwards
>mutual friend confirms she's no longer interested

Can anyone recommend a routine for personality gainz

drugs
girls love drugs

Yes. I've had at least 5 women fuck me off tinder just because of my ass. Getting a gf is more about personality, the body is just a good introduction, they'll get used to it after any amount of time spent with you though.
Do your squats gents.

It gets your more attention for sure. You also feel more "worthy" of women being jacked so that's what mainly helps you imo.

So true, I'm just figuring this all out. I no longer feel guilty about one night stands... It's like I'm doing them a favor.

>meet a down to earth qt
>get her number
>set up the first date
>good time
>don't get laid but she seems classy so who cares
>set up a second date
>wow haven't gotten this far in a while
>"let's go play some pool I'll teach you it'll be fun!"
>get some food first it goes fine
>get to the pool hall and she's terrible
>like misses the ball 3 times in a row terrible
>give her some basic tips that she immediately forgets
>try to make the best out of it and compliment her as she starts to catch on
>all feels so forced and just not really connecting
>get bummed and end the date
>emotionless hug and goodbye
>Probably no third

> :'(

juicy

Sometimes this happens. You need to talk to more women rather than being upset that the first one you talk to isn't compatible with you.

since getting fit I feel more comfortable hitting on cute girls

but no gf yet :/

You know that awkward laugh after a weird guy sais something, coming from that weird guy, and he widens his eyes. That what that
>he he
Reminded me of.

my experience on the dating market is that if you were a 7/10 as a dyel, then getting fit will get you to like, 7.1 or 7.2

if you were fat, then you might go from 4/10 to 6/10, which might be more worth it.

women are all about frame, face, and money. gaining 30 pounds of muscle didn't really improve my pulls

Yeah I understand but thanks, I'm not "upset" and the crying emoji was only ironic but it's still not the best feeling, I meet a lot of grils but not usually cute ones with brains

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Yes and no

>be fit
>get gf
>turns out shes a stripper
>shes fucking crazy
>break up
>gain weight
>meet new gf
>shes a solid 6/10 could be 8/10 if I bought her the fake tits she wanted for her bday
>she drives to my college to give me blowjobs in the parking lot on her lunch break at work
>swallows
>we go to vegas together
>fuck 5 times in one day, spent the whole day in the hotel room
>rave all night
>during this time I lose a ton of weight, best I've looked aesthetically since highschool
>break up with her because she's extra clingy
>talking marriage and kids etc
>meet new gf
>8/10
>she doesnt suck dick unless its to get fucked with it
>lame sex
>I see her once a month, twice maybe
>she's totally self absorbed and full of shit
>cruise controlling this relationship until I find something better kicking myself in the ass for leaving the 6/10

Getting Veeky Forums won't help you get a gf if you can't talk to women, but there's no reason you shouldn't be at your "fight weight" when you're single.

Veeky Forums either turns you gay or into an asexual misogynist.

>> :'(

How much do you squat?

Just broke up with my gf of three years yesterday, I didn't expect to feel these feels. I truly loved her but we just weren't meant to be. Hold me brehs.

you have better ass than my ex gf, how do you build that?

Wait two months, first days after broke up are amazing you don't feel shit, but with time....with time you will fell the pain

LAKUPIPU!!!!

She was too good to me user, I had to let her go, I didn't deserve her. Fuck these feels

Im 27 and ive never had a gf
How bad is my status fit

>Did getting fit help you get a girlfriend?
no but being attractive did.

Really bad, fix it fast.

Yes. It changed my life.

Anons help, I have a date tonight. How to not fuck up? She seems keen, lots of texting with some flirtyness etc. Going for dinner then drinks. Terrified i'll run out of things to say or something.

Not bad. People were conditioned to believe they needed someone else to make themselves happy. If you aren't bothered by it, why bother fixing it?

iktf

Made me more attractive certainly, but I'm unfortunately still a virgin even after getting pretty shredded

cope

>dinner and drinks on first date
You fucked up. You are very likely being used for a meal and a drink or two. You never do dinner on the first date.

checked

the hardest redpill that all these gymcels simply don't want to accept. Getting a good body is the easy part. You cannot change height, face, or frame. You cannot become an alpha with a few simple mannerisms. The difference between an Alpha Chad slayer and the regular, average man is just lightyears. It's simply impossible for a beta to even comprehend what it's like to be an alpha, much less actually become an alpha.

All this brings me to my second point: there is absolutely no use in trying to get a girlfriend who is above a 3/10 in this day and age if you are anything short of an alpha male. One second of eye contact from Chad will erase years and years of any sort of romantic history you had with your gf. Why try so hard for something that can be stolen away from you in a matter of seconds? Women do not care about loyalty. All they care about is what they can get out of someone, whether it be money, sex, whatever. As soon as they realize they can do better, they will. They will not give it a second thought. They do what they feel like doing in the moment, and do not usually think about their actions.

Book of Pook x 5
Go out and socialise x F

No, I got my girlfriend before I got fit. Now we've been getting fit together. Probably going to marry this girl.
>pic related, she looks like that now

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Some people swear by How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

Don't hate yourself, be comfortable with yourself 3x8-12

Talk to a girl you're interested in and don't be apologetic or afraid about your sexuality 3x5

>know multiple nice, pretty girls, who would most likely go on a date with me and become my gf, if I asked them to
>however, I don't want any of them, as I like one girl in particular
>she's the closest to my ideal woman I've ever met
>without too much into detail, she's almost too good to be true: beautiful, smart, kind, genuine...
>she plays three instruments, sings literally more beautifully than any girl I've ever met, reads actual literature, not just YA crap, writes and does sports
>do something I've never done before: actually ask out a girl - the girl
>she indirectly refuses
>deal with it

>some time later I notice that she seems to like my best friend
>I'm fine with this, as I know they would be good together and that they deserve each other
>I can honestly say that I don't feel envious, as I love my friend like a brother
>tell him that the girl likes her and tell him to make a move
>"Meh, I dunno."
>despite the fact that the girl is probably the most wife-material woman since Eve, he's not interested at all
>tell him all about her, but he doesn't care
>wtf, man
>I would be beyond euphoric, if the girl would be as interested in me as she is in him
>I don't know if I'll ever meet a girl who could surpass her

your friend probably knows you have the feels for her and doesn't wanna be a dick to your face because he's already smashed and dashed that shit a few times.

What do you do then

just drinks
let the fuckers make their own dinner

I finally got my first gf at 27 after getting fit actually. She loves groping my muscles and feeling my body all over. Feels great.

I always thought I wasn't bothered by it but when I finally got a gf my life changed. You think you're not bothered by it because you've never had it in the first place and never knew what you were missing. We are hardwired into finding a mate and you're just kidding yourself if you claim that you're somehow a special snowflake that goes against millions of years of evolution.

haha im not fit

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How did she react when you told her she's your first girlfriend.

As a 29yo khv being rejected for this is one of my fears.

I've had plenty and I'm not bothered with being single. Prefer it to the constant bs someone else brings into your life.

Christ

Just tell her a half truth like you've been with other girls but never got serious.

Got a gf who goes to the gym with me. Feels good man.

You seem insecure

lol

No. It was my charming personality.

Jesus Christ you faggots, stop lifting for girls. It will never work. Lift for yourself and you'll get the attention.

same here my dude

Abs > girls

T H I C C

fuck
>qt follows me on twitter
>19 y/o virgin w no car
>start talking to her
>she wants to drive me to her work (pet store)
>tell group chat about her
>rich lanklet friend hits her up
>he says he is going to smash and pass just to emasculate me
>they meet on a friday (i didnt know about this until she told me a week later)
>see friend at college orientation
>talk to him about it in person
> they hung out at a barnes & noble, says she was ugly
>he gives side hug and blocks her on all outlets of social media
>she texts me some time later "He was being really nervous and quiet is he normally like that?" (no)
>"does he think im ugly?
>"do you know why ____ blocked me?"

>always sends me pictures of her legs in bathtub talking about how lonely she is
>she is depressed
>was in an abusive relationship

>wants to meet today and I said yes

this is what has been keeping me up at night for the past 4 days

*asked to meet me today 4 days ago
(planned)

forgot to mention
>they met a couple days after they started talking
>ive been talking to her for a month and a half

fuck

overall ive been a beta pussy for the most part because i dont want to be the one to ask her out if I cant fucking drive, she essentially asked me out twice
what would chad do?
>"hey u tryna hang?"
>"sure!"
>"ok come pick me up"

it actually didn't help me at all, I got TooBig™ ("like those bodybuilders ew") and now I'm lonelier than ever. thanks Veeky Forums

spot on, user

jesus christ did they never hear of a fitted suit? it looks like they're wearing curtains

>do you want to descent

Get rid of your oneitis, fag

thats a good word

Your post sounds like khvnogf talking.

You just learnt of it? No wonder.

Nope but it has brought exes out of the fucking woodwork trying to reconnect after seeing more recent pics of me.

But this way I get to go to a restaurant that I like, and eat it with a qt. Paying for them to eat as well is a small price for the potential of giving the ol' lickaroo.

not the same guy that was referring to but yea it's relevant

Alright, 2 things
> Rich lanklet friend is a gains goblin, get rid of him
> No more of this group chat shit unless things go somewhere

You're probably sticking your dick in crazy like I did, she turned into a gains goblin

How do I achieve the undisputed king of aesthetics physique?

>just saw the ex gf on bumble

rreeeeee

>men
>have to put in months and sometimes years of exercise, strength building and dieting in order to be sexually attractive
>women
>lol just don't be too fat

FUCK it's not fair bros

>tell group chat about her
>rich lanklet friend hits her up
>he says he is going to smash and pass just to emasculate me

>friend
Drop those fuckers, they're not worth your time.
I'm not even sure if the fact that he failed is better or not. What a fucking faggot holy shit.

But user, men are so privileged.
Being a woman is hard, so shut up.

>men
>have tons of ways to be attractive, either be confident or funny or rich or good looking.
>women
>pretty or bust

No, getting fit just made me more miserable. Getting into Stanford didn't get me a girlfriend, either. I get the impression my issues run pretty deep.