Why is it dumb to lift for pussy ?

I am lifting for faggots's asses, so no.

Pussy comes and goes, lifting needs to be a regular activity and be maintained for a long time.

Not the same guy but my advice is to just make it clear at the beginning of a relationship that you're not willing to give second chances when it comes to cheating.
If you're paranoid about it and push them all the time about it you're just going to find yourself without a girlfriend or one who cheats on you out of spite. (This happened to a buddy of mine)
You will find out eventually, and when you do don't do the whole "okay let's talk it out" bullshit, just get your things and delete their number.
I've been in relationships where I tried to work things out and it is miserable. Once the aspect of trust is gone from a relationship you're just bailing water with a bottle cap.
I had another girlfriend get drunk and "just kiss" a guy, told her I'd be by the next day to collect my things, didn't say a word to her, deleted her number and I don't think about her at all.
Probably a good thing because my current gf is fantastic and is into the same things I like while also having her own hobbies.
Just watch out for those thots and don't cut them any slack.

Lifting for pussy as an objective is a poor goal IMO.
Lift to better yourself and see the pussy as added benefit along the way.
Also girls can tell if you're lifting to overcompensate for your social anxiety around a vagina, cut that shit out nigger.

You don't need to dominate her, just be indomitable.
Either she's with you or she's not, it's entirely up to her

I think you need to start putting your foot down early on. Most girls who aren't cunts can be dominated in one way or another. Make her know that you are in charge and if she wants her back scratched, she needs to scratch yours first. And when you do reward her, do it so well that she'll want to earn it again as soon as possible.

Is lifting to kill imaginary multidimensional creatures better than lifting for pssy? what about lifting for traps?

You want the truth? I'll give it to ya

Because majority of women aren't even turned on by appearance, unlike us men. Look it up.

Not only they are clueless when it comes to fitness but the ones that are into it generally are just using it as an excuse for self validation (while also being clueless about it).

To be quite honest if you are doing something for women there are far better options other than being into fitness. Focus on getting money, fame, social status,and being a good liar if your end game is pussy.

Don't look for relationships in stupid fucking places user. Girls who are looking for a relationship are looking for something from you. Girl who aren't looking for a relationship are independent and will not manipulate the shit out of you. Join a local soccer league. Join a YMCA/boys and girls club as a coach. Go play in an local orchestra. Go to the library. Volunteer. Find someone who wasn't expecting you.

Because you're lifting for validation. You'll forever feel inadequate because you need someone else to essentially tell you that you did good.

Lift for yourself.

>Because majority of women aren't even turned on by appearance
Do you actually believe this?

>Focus on getting money, fame, social status,and being a good liar if your end game is pussy.
we have a winner, being Veeky Forums will help but without the rest of it you have nothing.

I never understood the go to a library for girls thing. Go there and what? Interrupt the girl that's just trying to enjoy her book in peace?

>What about lifting for traps?

Well at that point you are just a Schrödinger's faggot. Lift only for yourself.

Because all the lifting and muscles in the world won't get you any girls if you remain an autistic, awkward Melvin shut in his room playing the vidya gaem all day.

Because girls don't give a fuck about your body as long as you're not fat or skinny. All the mirin stories you read here are fake.

Not only do i believe this, i *KNOW* this. Its not an opinion, its a fact. Good looks helps, ofc, but its a minor thing to girls. By claiming otherwise you're only revealing how inexperienced and uneducated you are in this aspect of life. Social status is pretty much the only thing women respond to, regardless of what they might say. Look up mating preferences in humans, this has been thoroughly studied

>Good looks helps, ofc,
Thanks for contradicting yourself immediately.

>Schrödinger's Faggot
>both gay and not gay until he puts his penis in

>all I want is a girl that puts my needs first because I also put my needs first and it's important to be on the same page with your partner

ADHD fag with zero attention span has little success with women. What a surprise. Please, continue to believe you are at a level where you can actually discuss this with me as an equal

>4x a week
I have fwbs i fuck more often than that lol

>Please, continue to believe you are at a level where you can actually discuss this with me as an equal

>girlfriend get drunk and "just kiss" a guy, told her I'd be by the next day to collect my things.
You did good user

>By claiming otherwise you're only revealing how inexperienced and uneducated you are in this aspect of life.

Because I want to have it all for myself.

It's all about mindset. Personality and character can make up a lot between the lower and higher percentage bodyfats. Being shredded can increase your likability because you're more confident, but it's not a guarantee. Lifting doesn't cure autism.

Lifting for cock is sublime

Went from being fat to otter mode then got fat again.
Got lots of attention when ottermode, still get lots of attention now that im fat again.
It's legit all about confidence and the way you present yourself. I do have a good face and don't store much fat there though, and I keep my hair well.

I caught my last gf texting some guy about cuddling and I broke her phone told her to gtfo and never ever fucking contact me again. Blocked her on everything. 2 years thrown away in an instant

Prove me wrong then
>You cant

Good, proud of you user

T-thanks you too

Pussy is not the goal. The goal is to live a rich, fulfilling, and good life. If you do that, the pussy comes to you. Don't worry, you have time still.

Why do all you dumb faggots need a reason to lift? Just have some discipline and fucking lift the damn weight

Classify confidence, looks, money, status and humour please.
Personnally I would say :
Confidence > humour > status > money > looks.
Doesn't mean the looks is not important though. This is from experience and what I saw among my friends.

is it dumb to lift/lose weight for dick? (im a girl-not a trap)

You're missing the point, you don't go to the library to pick up girls. You go to better yourself/enjoy yourself and women just happen to be there and take notice.

>You go to better yourself/enjoy yourself and women just happen to be there and take notice.

Not him, but the women who take notice still aren't going to walk up to you and start a conversation (unless your very handsome/attractive).

You still need to find a way to break the ice and start a conversation with her regardless of where you are, there are no exceptions.

THIS.

but lift anyway. it helps a lot. just not as much as being able to speak.

I dont give a fuck about your ignorant beliefs. You want lots of sluts on your dick? Go climb the socioeconomic ladder. Thats it, everything else is secondary.

Since you're too lazy to do any work yourself here is a (very) simple primer to get you started: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mating_preferences

you could get dick without lifting though, you're a grill.

good job man! thats hard to do! stay strong!

lift for health, pussies like a healthy penis

Because if you get rejected, as it often happens, you will think it was all for nothing and are at risk of giving up easily.

The large number of successful men who can't get pussy says otherwise.

I don't think it is.
Even if your main goal is getting pussy, the hypertrophy gains from that type of training will make strength training so much easier in the future. If you give a bodybuilder a strength training program, they progress like crazy. Like, noob gainz x3 crazy.

You're right, and at that moment when they notice, if they shoot you a smile then there is the opening to go talk to them. The guy I was replying to implied that you should just interrupt a girl reading unwarranted, like the main focus of going to the library, or a supermarket or where ever is to pick up girls and not what you went there to do.

What the fuck are you talking about ? I was defending your point of view about looks doesn't mattering.

literally who

Because it's not enough, at least when you're 25+

it turns you from an invisible man like 80% of guys to visible, but it doesn't stop from you from getting brutally rejected, it isn't a golden ticket. lift for your health, discipline and own enjoyment/satisfaction. whatever pussy you get is just a bonus

this

I said successful men, not famous men.

i still dont believe it

Few reasons.
Biggest one is as soon as you get pussy or continued access to a single pussy lots of people stop lifting.
The second biggest reasons is lifting alone wont get you pussy. You can be a skinny dyel or a fat fuck and still pull bitches.

You don't want to believe it because you've deluded yourself into thinking success will get you women.

because pussy won't lift for you

i believe what i see

You saw nothing you fucking incel, actually go out

You see what you believe.
>2deep4me

For a lot of reasons:
1. Pussy likes social skills If you want pussy, you need to up your ability to deal with girl retardation. If you are an autistic quiet nigger who spends all his time lifting, studying and playing vidya, you aren't gonna get a lot of pussy.
2. Lifting and being fit is good for you in the long term in a lot of ways. Doing it just for pussy is fucking dumb. Pussy comes and goes, strength, health and discipline stays with you for the rest of your life.
3. Pussy likes money too, work on getting a good job.
So yeah, you should lift, but thinking that it automatically gives you pussy is dumb. Having good looks can give you more confidence, but it can also give you a kind of bodybuilding anxiety of you thinking that you are too smol to get pussy. You should just chill out and lift for their health, strength, discipline and satisfaction.
Thicc and muscular legs and ass definititely look pretty damn good. Having a bigger chest will make your tits look slightly bigger. Don't worry, unless you roid your ass off, you will not acquire mans voice, retarded bad looking muscle and clitoris bigger than bbc on viagra. Keep in mind tho, discipline, satisfaction and health gains are more important than anything else, even for girls. Consider the way girls are raised nowadays and all the feminism "progressive" bullcrap going over in freedomland and eurocuckland too, lifting and working on being fit can generally help out sort out mental and physical health issues brought by that degeneracy.

success comes with maturity and confidence. why you think all these girls in their 20s go like "i actually like older men, because they seem more mature tee-hee"
focusing on body only is good when youre like 14, after 20 you gonna compete with people who work good jobs, have a good salary, travel the world, do shit on their own. being Veeky Forums is good but no one is gonna get impressed with your autistic muscle mass when you cant say a word and still live at home playing league of legends

Everyone lifts for pussy. Anyone who says "i lift for myself" is like a women who say "i put on makeup and short dresses for myself". They say that so it appears that they're not trying. Everyone wants to appear inherently, effortlessly attractive. Being a try hard implies that there is something wrong with you that you have to compensate for. So we all participate in this big mutual lie with each other, en masse. But deep down we all know. We all know why we do the things we do, because we all do the things we do for the same exact reason - to bang the baddest looking people we can as often as we can.

Allright, can't wait to see your wife when you'll be travelling for your epic business life my man

You're letting someone else be the focus of your self-improvement. Note the "self". It's like reading books just to look smart.

you would literally have to pay for me to spend 5 minutes with these annoying teenage thots

Nah I'm kidding you're right. Don't become shallow though my dude. Wish you the best

He means he wants a:
>what is best for him
>what is best for her
Type of relationship. Where both partners think of each other before making decisions.

Instead he has a
>how can I get X to do Y
>how can I get Y to do X
Type of relationship. Where both partners think of their own needs before their partners. This is typical for most shallow relationships.

Pussy is merely a positive side-effect to lifting. Imagine drinking more water purely to make your piss smell less.

Are you that one fag with the mask?

Wierd my exbf told me the exact opposite. That he isnt worth it because he cant provide for me and i asked do i look like im looking for someone to provide me. I told him i only cared for him that i did not care if he didnt have much money or didnt go to school. But still left lol also did not like that i did not tell him what to do. I told him hes a human being not my dog. I do not order people around.

Faggot.

Only payment is need is getting all up in those asses.

When I first started I went on for 2 years for myself. Then I got a gf and I do it for her now desu. Kinda shit because when we fight I lose all motivation to do anything in life and it's been rough between us for a while now. Constant "I don't know about this" talks and "change" conversations that are just too frequent at the moment... don't know if it'll get better or if i'm just delusional. My problem is I used to be such a great person but now I have low self-worth and hate everything around me.. she's sticking by me but I don't know, I'm making her life miserable because of my own autism and it hurts. Give me advice ;_;

How do you go about getting a FWB situation?

Only 4x a week? Lol she's cheating on you with Chad

So basically getting a GF has stripped you of the need to improve yourself for yourself, AND you're making her miserable.

>lifting for girls

Objectivity. If you achieve your goal, you'll most likely stop lifting. Rather, lifting should be a lifestyle choice. Having a goal that's attainable and realistic will make maintaining a lifting schedule easier.

Lifting for something in which results are not consistent or may yield no results at all will eventually lead to you becoming discouraged, and giving up altogether.

Lift for you, not some other person who is not you.

It's not that I go to the gym with "oga boga i'm lifting to defend/impress her" mentality, she doesn't care about looks one bit, I was a facelet when we got together a year ago, have improved beyond belief since then and she still likes me the same way. I just don't know how to get out of this "phase" because I feel it'll take ending the relationship to get back there on my own. I don't know why I've linked my entire life to her and FUCK user, fuck is it painful not knowing what to do.

If your only goal is to sleep with hot girls you have nothing in common with, it would probably be more efficient to just buy hookers
Lift for you

Um but I want quality dick, like future husband dick

most successful relationships are a mutually beneficial exchange that depend on open communication and some measure of risk acceptance.

that being said, don't be afraid to get what you want in life, including your relationships with other people. to do otherwise indicates a naive or ultimately subservient attitude. it's not necessarily pathological or wrong to get what you want out of your relationships. it's called having a spine.

finally, most relationships will have their primary leader. true partnerships are rare. it's up to you to lead, or be lead.

while you get other dick at the same time without him knowing?

>i lift for muh self
>meanwhile he posts on mire threads

how long have you lifted for?

once you lift for 5+ years, stop making significant gains, realize it's only a small part of what makes a man & keep doing it anyway, you'll understand that it was never all about pussy.

another way to think of it- do old people who aren't on the sexual marketplace give up their hobbies? or do they keep striving toward mastery because it's enjoyable in itself?

Going to the GYM, lifting weights, dieting, doing cardio, are all unpleasasing things
They take you away time, money, energy, especially if you work/study.
Thinking that some men do all those sacrifice for a piece of meat make my blood boil wtf, do it for yourself, I know women are beautiful creatures but come on, have some self respect

>lifting weights
>unpleasasing

hand over your mancard

would rather jerk off mate. but honestly, i cant stand annoying girls

90% of the girls dont deserve investment.

Because girls literally DO NOT CARE about your body.

Lift for whatever you want without judgment but girls who care about your being ripped and shit are about as large a group as men into extreme bbws.

I lift to feel manlier around other men. Virgins and sad chads lift for pussy.