Just work and lift

>just work and lift
>single, autistic, hate leaving house
>30 years old

it's over. fuck

What kind of work? Are there no females there?

Go on a dating site or craigslist.

>autism bux and lift
>single, autistic, hate leaving house
>29 years old

its over. fuck.
Memes aside (none of that is a meme) I've never seen anything for myself, other than just being alone all the time, and just existing for no reason.

>These tits are making me thirsty!!

Barf. Apply yourself, OP
Didn't read btw

I read your post
Kill yourself OP. Please

>Fear leaving the house


being single and 30 isn't the problem, problem is you are insecure and thus "hate leaving the house"; comfort turns you into a vegetable you gotta challenge yourself, but first you gotta make mental/spiritual gains then everything else will fall into place

You're a 30 year old man in good health with stable job that you enjoy? Maybe even a career that's brewing? You're in a western country too?

Man, your life is just beginning. You can literally do whatever you want to do with it. Just pick a goal and go.

If youre 30 and still havent realised the persuit of boobs is futile and pountless then I dont know what to tell you. Also have you considered fly fishing and hardcore porn?

>24 kv
>wake up at 6 am
>lift
>work (medfag intern)
>go home
>play wow at weekends, since i dont drink or smoke i have literally 0 friends
I've been doing this for a year, all i have left are my "gains"

Start working your way up the pyramid.

Make list of goals, start knocking goals off the list one by one. One at a time. Biggest one first.

Shame this is photoshopped. Still, pretty busty without it.

what did he mean by this

age is a meme

gains are all you need breh

milkies

>tfw missed on on hs megatiddy girl
>tfw missed out on college megatiddy girl

Now I'm in the "Real World" and there are none or they're so haggard as to make them unbearable.

OP here

I had a GF for four years who I thought I loved. In the end she drove me crazy and I cut her off.

I was miserable as fuck with her. Just as miserable alone. Even more miserable fucking 5's off tinder (all my status allows for)

FUCK. I hate being a whinging cunt but this is my only outlet

How do you find MEANING

BASED

Thanks for posting man. feel the same.

>Have a GF
>Wish I was single so I could hit up tinder

I'm 8/10 guy and still have a hard time pulling chicks on tinder. Is it because I have a shit social status? I have no game too, I expect my looks to do the work, i guess i have a grill mindset kek. Tfw 8/10 and still can only get 6/10 girls easily in clubs.

sauce on original?

>tfw been stuck on belongingness and love needs since i was 22
>30 now

>29 year old KV
>being a virgin for so long has turned sex and intimacy into more of a bizarre abstraction in my eyes
>I have the parts, I can feel the biological urge, but I'm having trouble translating this into action
>women intimidate me, feel depressed if I occasionally catch feelings for someone because I know that I won't do anything
>gradually turning into an emotionless husk
>quietly terrified of whether my lack of experience will prevent me from forming a normal relationship or if I'm fucked forever

I guess I should get some professional help.

I made a fake dating account once with a female model to see how many messages it would get. The account got over 1000 messages in 24 hours.

I'd imagine chicks tinder accounts are the same.

You arent an 8. If you are, you know. 7 is way above average however, and more than most men could possibly wish for. But an 8 you are not

at that point just buy a fucking $20 hooker
you don't even need to impress them just get your dick wet.
It drives me up the walls how stuck the fuck up some of these Veeky Forums dudes are when it comes to getting laid.
Male sexuality is so god damn easy, this is why shitty men become gay.
wait, I lost my train of thought.

Has anyone else here only ever been with girls that are way out of their league?

Fugg. With fresh haircut, tan and some tinted moisturizer i feel like a 8. Guess you're right, am probably a 7 :ss. Gonna cut more to get them sunken cheeks. Yeah, even 6/10 girls are getting mad attention on tinder so they have their pick. Tfw not chaddy enough to smash hotties.

>out of our league
someone here doesn't understand how hypergamy works.

>go to party
>super hot blonde at beer pong table
>she's the center of attention
>I move in and start talking to her
>we end up playing on the same team and eventually go dance
>she says we should go somewhere a little more quiet
>we go to the garage and we're there by ourselves
>we talk the whole night and it's great
>she says "I'm not like other girls I don't really hook up with guys on the first night"
>saying this as I'm feeling up her thighs cuddling under the blanket
>night starts coming to an end
>roommates that gave me a ride there say they're leaving
>fug I won't have a ride home if I stay here with this hot girl
>she says she's gonna change into something more comfortable
>i walk out of the garage and she's literally in lingerie
>autism intensifies
>tell her I have to go
>she looks confused as fuck
>hug her and get her number before I leave
>text her later, but she never texts back

Not that retarded anymore thank god

>giving up a safe means of getting home for some pussy
made the smart decision user, taxis are expensive :^)

>YOU FKIN WAT M8?
Dear god man, I would sold my left kidney to drug cartels to afford the uber to go home after smashing that shit like hulk

are you 12 years old?

Stop being autistic, faggot. Best decision I ever made.

Eh at least tell yourself that you destroyed her self confidence as well. If that's any consolation, what a situation geez.. I honestly don't know how I would have reacted.

>Decision
Good meme. You can't fix social anxiety, im 20 and have been trying my whole life.

>You can't fix social anxiety

You can fix how you deal with it.
The greatest human achievements have been made by people who were scared out of their minds at the time, and a lot of performers are terrified every time they have to go one stage.

Start using your balls.

I must have my esteem needs in order to talk to my friends.
When i feel like i failure i ghost them.

Dont do this

>there is none just accept it or take the ultimate pill
watch kino, the Leftovers

It's not easy but yeah you can. For me, empathy was the key. What I felt is that it can absolutely decide my day how people interact with me. If someone smiles and is kind, it can make me happy as well.

If you can get used to keeping in mind that you can also brighten other people's day by just being warm and kind, people will also be more likely to be kind to you. If you are bitter all the time and can't control your depression, people will be moody with you as well.

Be honest, be kind, be yourself and don't try to be funny if you feel like you can't really talk about anything. Try to be interested in people, listen to them, ask what they're doing or how they feel. You'll get used to it over time. I'm pretty autistic as well but after working at a multinational company for one and a half years, everyone seems to enjoy my company even though I'm kinda boring and kinda look like the high school prime mocking target nerd.

This is not the only way to get over yourself but working out alone won't be enough.

that sucks but I'd be your friend user

for fuck sake, just go to a bar and wait. some silly bitch will come up to you, women from 18-50 love guys in their thirties so long as we havent fallen apart physically.

we age slower, you'll be fine.

how does one respond to a single emoji on tinder?

you don't, you drop that bitch and search for a new one.

dont

flawless advice

think about it op

do you really want to be dealing with a emoji sending bitch all day?

>just go to a bar and wait
really? just sit at the bar and someone will come up to me? even if i'm alone?

do i stare at my phone while i'm waiting for this magical girl to suddenly appear?

watch a game or something, people do just hang out in bars...
its easier to strike up conversations with guys, striking up a conversation out of the blue with a woman will usually result in a rebuke so you cant keep doing it over and over again in the same place..

if you can, forget all about picking up a girl, chill out anyway and let it happen by itself

hello user i feel you

>I had a GF for four years who I thought I loved.

>In the end she drove me crazy and I cut her off.

What happened ?

How did she drive you crazy ?

>stare at my phone
that's the ultimate beta "don't talk to me" closed body language

correct. eventually some woman will give you a hard stare, which is an invitation.

Dude, wtf ?

Why didn't you just find a cab ?

I don't know what is sadder, your life or mine.
tfw be aesthetic as fuck, not manlet (6 ft 1 in), social (many friends), but so fucking autistic with girls that I can't even get laid even if the girl wants to fuck me.

>hard stare
are you sure its not some other reason?

i'm 27 and NEET

so basically i just lift and play video games

i'll probably have to get a job at some point, i just don't like the idea of my taxes supporting single mothers and niggers

>be aesthetic as fuck, not manlet (6 ft 1)

>social (many friends), but so fucking autistic with girls that I can't even get laid even if the girl wants to fuck me.

Just ACT confident, dress well, smell good and talk to them.

>watch a game or something
what if there is nothing going on?

and are you suggesting i drive to the nearest bar to watch a game by myself, instead of watching it on TV or streaming it (and drinking at home)? seems like a lot of work, especially if i drink a beer, don't want to drink and drive

You forgot to say no homo bro

go to a bar that has something happening in it perhaps?

>i just don't like the idea of my taxes supporting single mothers and niggers
No, you just like people supporting your life and your hobbies.

>Moved in with my partner, she's great
>Started getting serious about my passion - it's looking like I might be able to make a career of it
>Moved into a new, great job in the meantime
>Finally getting fit
>Gettin' gud at Overwatch
>Got to a buddy's best man and the godfather to another one's kid

It's been a fucking good year so far, man. Feel like an adult.

>>Moved in with my partner, she's great
This is where you fucked up and will probably regret this decision.

Nah, it was the right time, and it's been going great. When you find a good woman, you've got to commit. Hardly in abundance these days.

>21 KHV
>Not terribly autistic, I just have no confidence with girls even though I'm at least pretty fit from climbing/cycling
>Never had any intimate contact with a woman
>start lifting seriously
>stop watching porn
>suddenly much more comfortable making eye contact with girls even just passing by, giving them a smile
>tinder it up, start chatting with some girls
>be a gentleman, actually ask a girl on a date to a restaurant (don't just use some shitty pick up line unless you are 9/10 or better)
>lose my virginity to the first girl I meet on our third date

It's really all about confidence bros. I'm sub-ottermode and barely look different in clothes than I used to, but fapping less frequently and not watching porn really made a change. Don't be a beta, but don't try to act like a Chad if you aren't one, and you can get a girl. Of course, finding a wife material girl isn't that easy, but you have to get experience with it.

>i just don't like the idea of my taxes supporting single mothers and niggers
>i'm 27 and NEET

you're basically a nigger lol

You seem content with this so keep on doing what you're doing

You re in the process of getting your career. Don't worry being a physician can consume your life if you want it to so no need for friends

what are autism bux how do you get them

28 kv, barely leave the house.

Moving to a different flat soon. It's close to a real nice bar, like 300m. I'm going to make all kind of social skills, brehs. Wish me luck.

I'm pretty sure she had BPD. And in the end I couldn't live with her. But I'm a spaz myself and don't like having people around me for extended periods because I end up exhausted trying to deal with them and present myself as I like to be seen, whether they have BPD or not.

>28 kv, barely leave the house.
if you haven't made a change until now you won't later. nothing will change. you will stay inside at your new flat

you have no idea how socially stunted you are. 15 yo kids are better in socials situations than you ever will be

this won't magically get you laid if you're an autist

hell, it's probably even more difficult. even 5/10 sluts get 400 messages a day on dating sites, it's just so much fucking work competing with ~50 other guys

She was hot as hell too, I still jerk off to her nudes with a diamond cutter while my dick gets limp with other girls half the time.

With that said after living with her for 6 months I was still sick of fucking her. It's like you just can't win.

What are you gonna do when you realise that you feel 'happier' (less stressed, more content) staying inside on your computer?

Iktf

At this point in life many people are starting to think I'm gay just because I turned down so many women because of autism around them.

I just haven't got a fucking clue of how to interact and be witty and playful around them. I can't help but be a serious, stiff faggot around women.

seconding this

The feel of having no gf hit me real hard in the past few weeks. I want one, buddy.

i'm the opposite. i find most people boring as fuck and conversation gets awkward fast. women talk about the most uninteresting shit most of the time and i just can't stand it

Mazlow's is bs, btw, the caring nature of human relationships and the importance of the ability to see meaning in one's own actions in life both show that Mazlow vastly overestimates the value of physical needs over psychosocial and metaphysical ones.

> most people don't even get to the third stage

Way to go buddy!

Almost every guy out there has a relationship and gf.

except on fit. almost everyone here doesn't, never has and never will

How do you get to stage 3 without faking it

That's what I think too, hence the reason why I can't be witty, playful and teasing around them. I'm interested in politics, history, fitness and sports but seriously, what women talk about just baffles my mind most of the times. But hey this is the reality so I better fucking adopt to it...

I don't want to come off as an arrogant faggot but I've often thought of myself as being just too smart for women. I know it sounds incredibly gay and obnoxious but still...

It's more than having a GF. You can have "friends" and a "gf" and still feel like you don't belong.

>single
>27 with a stable job which lets me buy whatever I want
>enough time to go to gym, work and then work on my hobbies(drawing/music composition), and then some to play vidya
I am living the life. Why the fuck would you guys be sad ? Is there something I'm missing ? Something I'm supposed to do ? Are you guys implying I need to get a gf or I won't "make it" ?

I'm rarely sad when I'm alone at home but I feel like shit at work when all the qts are talking to everyone but me.

people have different goals in life. some don't care about having a family at all while for others it's #1 goal. some people are fine being alone while others can't stand it.

Satire or reality?

Anyway only you yourself are holding you back. Godspeed!

I could never comprehend the idea of being sad because of someone else. i mean it is justifiable when somebody close to you goes away, or dies, but why the fuck would you keep your happiness hostage to a "qt" girl who doesn't give a fuck ? If you want her, just do normal conversation thing until you convince her that you're not autistic, and then you'' probably be happy. Will you be happy then ? To what end ? maybe your qt f will cheat on you, maybe you'll stop liking her, maybe she'll get fat or maybe you'd start liking some other girl and cheat. Getting hurt in some form is inevitable. Why not just do your thing ? Want a gf ? Get a gf. First step to happiness is being content with your life and knowing what you want. I know I don't want a gf , and if i got one I can't cheat on handle being cheated on, and I definitely don't want to hurt a girl by telling her I don't love her anymore. Basically just BEE yourself

Your in the prime of your life, stop being a fucking sad cunt and be a sick cunt bro. You are a failure and you have only yourself to blame.

I think most people on this board are stupid as fuck for not being their own bosses. My 18 year old brother has his own business making him 3k a month and he just graduated highschool. Are you telling me that my 18 year old brother has higher test levels than all of you fuckers?

I'm 20 and I just got my first gf last year, I was KV. I can tell you from experience that getting a gf will not fix your problems in life, make you happier, etc on its own. Not having a gf is a symptom of the disease (which is autism), not the disease itself. Just go outside, do social events, do things that make you uncomfortable, and pretend to be confident. Combined, those things make you an interesting person and add some substance to your life, which girls like.

well yeah that's obviously a given

but i thought it'd be interesting to add that i have an ideological objection to working as well

>33
>V but not autist, just afraid (by now terrified) or messing up
>last "gf" was 17 years ago
>job, money, friends had families and moved on, social life ded, can't make new friends
>lost all taste for life, just work and come home
>think about death constantly
>yesterday started finding white hairs in hair and beard
>feel like I'm 75, waiting to end it

Anons, we pay for your outlook on life and constant pessimism. Smile more, love people while you can, develop hobbies. I think I'm done.