If women really like muscle then why does my mom always say that i am getting to muscular...

She probably secretly means you're getting fat

She's your mom you autistic fuck. She doesn't like watching her baby grow up - she doesn't want to fuck you either, so stop using her opinion to generalize all women.

You might think you'll get laid by looking aesthetic, but you come off as the type of sperge to spill the spaghetti before you get her into your room. The most you'll ever get before you die is a side hug.

Pussy.

>start obese
>get my shit together
>lose 75 lbs
>just barely break under overweight bmi
>mom always says "you're getting too small" or "I'm worried you have an eating disorder"
>6'1 185, and eat 2000 cals a day
>slowly realizing that if my mom is a gains goblin, I'm at least 50% gains goblin

Just what moms do, they get their life force from worrying about their kids.

My dad was a D1 linebacker.
Im 6'3" 200lbs and mom mom still calls me skinny : (

girls only want money, power and social status

Yep, no matter what you do, your mum is always worried

fuck off incel

Disregarding female opinions is the best choice I've ever made.
Just do what you think it right OP.

>ywn be that woman

I mean, holy fuck. Just imagine being that effortlessly attractive. Waking up every day and checking your legs out in the mirror and thinking "yup, that's me." Going outside in a short skirt and knowing everybody who sees you wants to fuck you. Imagine how easy it would be to pull a qt confused schoolgirl.

My dad says that too. He's bear mode, so I think he's just insecure.

>this is representative of the average woman
Jesus Christ, go outside.

Makes sense, women don't have the same "love" for their spouse as they do their children.

You have to be the man, the modern world has tried to change this beta men being the new norm but reality is women want a man who can lead and provide, not another female.

Keep unsupportive people out of your life. Even if your goals are fucking retarded people who care about you shouldn't hinder you. That being said if you're retarded everyone should tell you your goals are also

listen to this guy

Found the gold-digging sociopath

By effortlessly attractive, I mean this isn't a photoshoot, where pose and lighting and makeup are all heavily choreographed to make her look good. She's just lazing around in bed and somebody snapped a pic with a phone camera and yet she still looks insanely attractive.

Pretty much the entire thread is spot on. Even the negative comments.

At my peak my mom was like "it's not good to get too fat" when I had to start buying new clothes that could contain my gains. I wasn't even builtfat I still had a 4 pack and was diddylifting lmao5pl8 for reps.

Don't fall for the women gains goblins. They'll try to shut you down as both a test of your fortitude and to lower you to make them seem better. They're sad cunts and are good for making babies and touching your peepee. Focus on gains and be a strong independent man and things will turn out alright. Also never give up on lifting like I did.

Moms are the worst gains goblins

Go from 170 to 195 bulking and lifting like crazy
>user you're getting too big
>why do you need to be so strong
>you should lose weight
>girls don't like it when guys are that big
Cut down to 165 around 15% bf (goal is 155)
>user why won't you eat the dinner I cook
>user stop starving yourself
>you don't need to lose anymore weight
>then just don't eat the sweets I'll bring them in the house if I want

Wtf mom

>user carrot juice isn't a meal eat the potatoes and beef I cooked
REEEEEE MOM LEAVE ME ALONE

lmao look at this MANLET everyone!! look at him and LAUGH hahahahahahahaha!!!!

>Not living on your own like an independent man
>Oedipal Mother
Never going to make it

I'm 19 and don't have a destructive relationship with my parents so of course I live at home

your mom is lusting for you but as women always do; is mindful of the social stigma (which would be even greater in this case)
it's essentially her version of the girl who "doesn't fuck on the first date" then proceeds to get pounded senseless in the ass safe in the knowledge she pretended it was a one time thing

tldr; your mom wants to fuck you and her saying this is a wya of playing the social game; if I say he's getting big it means I don't want his dick teehee

My mom is proud that I'm not a skelly anymore. She always talks about how broad my shoulders are now. Went from 145 to 185lbs at 5' 11"

My mom is proud that I did nofap for 30 days. She rewarded me by jerking me off, but when I started cumming she put her mouth over my dick to capture all the cum.

Women fear strong men as much as they secretly admire them.

Nothing against your mom, but she is hard-wired to be a gains goblin, so she is just playing the part.

Unless your doctor (male doctor) tells you to stop getting beefy, keep getting as meaty as you like, OP.

>be 230 lb
>Start losing weight
>gf tries to lose weight also
>she can't
>starts trying to sabotage me
>scared i'll leave her for better looking girls
>get sick of constant sabotage
>leave her for a better looking girl
>tries to nail me for common law
>fails
>only around 200 lbs at this point
>keep on gains train
>Replacement gf tries doing the same shit
>on to replacement GF #2 who is 5'8 and 115 lbs

Kek you sure told him user.

I'm confused, where exactly in his post did he say that the picture was representative of the average woman?

Something on your mind? I'm here if you need to talk bro

Fucking this.

Although maybe mothers don't like it that their son is growing into real man.

That being said, both my mom and my dad are constantly giving me shit for being "too big", even though I just reached 1/2/3/4. They're saying it's 'vulgar' and for lower class people, etc etc.

tl;dr fucking babyboomers

>>slowly realizing that if my mom is a gains goblin, I'm at least 50% gains goblin
kek

This is just blaming women for you being weak-minded. No healthy woman wants her man to be a little bitch. Testing is just that, and believe it or not, there are men who don't break under normal human interaction.

Based user right here

I moved out for college at 17...

Nearly all marriages end up with the wife hen-pecking the man. Its normal. Also see: "the century of the self" documentary which touches on this at one point

Look up the phrase "happy wife happy life". most men are beta and live by this ideal. If you dont then you are uncommon

Are you lesbian?

This. Moms are the worst possible advisor for a man

i wanna sniff her feet

In my case my dad is definetely the dominant one in the marriage, but over the course of years my mom has set my brother, sister and myself up against my dad. Don't really know if he's happy, even though he's done a lot for all of us.

>ywn be a girl hot enough to turn other girls gay
fuck

ruined my last relationship by being too dominant desu
lashed out whenever I was displeased, wouldn't ever listen, even hit her once or twice for arguing back with me

I consistently mess my life up with my temper

feels bad man

This user. Keep in mind, nobody will ever love you more than your mother, but that certainly doesn't mean that you should listen to her on everything (or even most things.) You are her child and will always be her child. Seeing you evolve into a man is probably hard for her.

tl;dr

Just keep doing what you're doing and never take advice from a woman.

So fucking autistic it hurts my eyes to witness

>Thinks violence = dominance
Wew lad. Let me guess... manlet?

Calm down, mommy's little boy.

If you ask a woman if she likes muscle she will say no. But when you're at the bar and you stand out compared to all your friends then the answer is yes.

Women like fit men, obviously. But if you think they like steroided up men, with turtleshell backs and bowling ball delts, then you are a delusional.

>Then just don't eat the sweets I'll I bring them in the house if I want
Highschool was rough

"i'm not really into ronnie coleman type guys, teehee"
yeah no shit, those guys are also 0.001% of the population and don't even look human. if you think that's relevant, you're delusional.

Honestly man you're just a douche bag not someone that is dominant. Don't reproduce.

shut up, retard. nobody wants to hear you whine about the truth.

>moms are gains goblins

That's why I've been grooming mine. Currently pretty fuckin DYEL since I haven't lifted in like 8 years, but I've been hitting the gym with my mom every time I go and she gets into it. She went up on her bench and lost 7 pounds this week so I'm proud of her for that.

shoo shoo gains goblin

>ywn fuck women this hot

jej

Family is the first obstacle you have to overcome

its because of people like you they pump estrogen in our drinking water

I hope you find some kind of cure for your temper. It might be that your test levels are too high or your hormones arent balanced right. But i really know nothing of this subject

>When parents need to be raised by their children

...

Pretty much. Both of my folks are overweight and my dad's body is totally fucked from manual labor all his life. I've gotten both of them to lift but my dad goes overboard sometimes and it worries me.

my mom was complaining today because I lifted "all those heavy weights" while my family was on vacation

>tfw I only have two fucking 10kg dumbbells
>tfw had to explain that I usually take literally double of that for my biceps and can't actually work out anything else properly with those weights because they're too light

Damn nigga, gotta learn to choose higher quality chicks. Glad things turn out the way they did for you so far.

You know this for fact how?

>no one said mom wants the D
where am I

lol when did /r9k/ write a book?

She looks like a typical high-end escort. Depending on your bank balance and your level of dignity, you absolutely could.

I literally always do the opposite of whatever a woman says and its worked out great so far

jesus christ, what the fuck? most of this is bullshit but I do a lot of that "practical advice" stuff without even knowing it since I lived half my life with my mom and I genuinely think that women always try to control their man

>tfw never follow all the shit my gf tells me to do
>tfw never make my gf feel TOO secure about everything
>tfw always give love but not come off as a dependent pussy

I thought that's what every man does. why would you do all the stuff others tell you to do? if my own mother cannot force me, my girl definitely can't, fuck that shit

>when you're lifting some heavy ass weights
>someone says near you "I don't want to get big"

Don't kill yourself sweetie, you have so much to live for :)

Or you could get fit, go to a decent college, play on a sports team or join a frat and get that kind of girl on the regular.

>female
>on Veeky Forums
Nice try lad

any good-tier or higher woman doesn't actually care about your muscles. You just need to be average. Only bimbo bitches, standard girls who you can find everywhere and low iq bitches care about muscularity. Doesn't change the fact that they have the looks. They are still standard tier bitches with genetic advantage. My girlfriend doesn't give a flying shit about my looks or my weight. None of the girls I've been with or none of the girls I ever had feelings for cared about muscles. You guys are behind of a shill meme to get medium tier bitches

Try working at GNC. Every fucking day:
>I wanna lose fat and gain muscle but I don't wanna get big so halp pleez
>Do Deez here peels got no warranty? Like a fat melt warranty?
>Should I buy $300 worth of mass gainers if I've never worked out before?

That's not dominance that's just being a nigger you cunt.
To be dominant you have to control yourself first.

My old girlfriend said she doesn't like muscular guys either. I was really chubby around that time. She was really attractive, out of my league for sure, but she had severe body and self esteem issues. She gets upset when fitness/weight loss/gym stuff is discussed and likely "doesn't like" muscular guys because she feels intimidated.

So my goal is now to become intimidating.

Women don't know shit.

I don't think he meant it in a gross way, but your dad said your butt is the perfect amount of muscle for him to slide his boner through.

>Or you could get fit, go to a decent college,
Are you 17? I'll bet most of the people here are already enrolled or have already graduated from college

Guarantee that pussy will be wet 24/7. Tear it up my dude.

No, I"m not 17. I'm giving advice from experience because that's the only potentially useful thing this board is for.

If they're still in school, they can get swole and join the rugby team, or get some cardio and walk on the rowing team most likely. If you've already graduated, top MBA programs party like it's 1999.

what do you expect her to say when you are a fatass? She might just be trying to not hurt your feelings.

Nah she has always been with either skellingtons or fatsos. Never even really been friends with fit dudes. Definitely part of it, though I wasn't obese, just a bit overweight according to BMI.

It took me 29 years to learn this

This is what love is? Marriage, love, romance, attraction, trust, all just fucking memes? Did our ancestors know this and that explains why women have never had rights throughout history?

>Did our ancestors know this and that explains why women have never had rights throughout history?
Yes. But now because life is easy we think we know better. Welcome to Rome, enjoy the collapse.

>I'm giving advice from experience because that's the only potentially useful thing this board is for.
Ok fair man, but

>If you've already graduated, top MBA programs party like it's 1999.
Come on man

>why would you do all the stuff others tell you to do?

some people were raised this way. feminized education system punishes males for acting male etc.

>tfw ""raised"" by single mother