Mfw i realize that women aren't the meme, men are

>mfw i realize that women aren't the meme, men are
>mfw i realize that (smart) women approach life by trying to have a generally balanced, sane life that makes them happy and has some sustainability
>mfw i realize that many smart men approach life by compulsively focusing on one activity or a small subset of activities and hoping for the best (ex. the musician, the fat biglawyer making $750k with no friends, the jacked bodybuilder working at the gym, the guy who is obsessed with his girlfriend, the guy obsessed with getting laid)
>mfw i realize that the average man's life sucks because he makes it too hard for himself
>mfw i realize that the biological differences between men and women mean that it actually is easier to be a man if you're smart enough not to go all-in on something like business or bodybuilding
>mfw i realize feminism is true

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>women have muh balance, men are obsessive
That's why pretty much all modern technologies were invented by men, giving you the material luxury to write posts like this.

I generally agree with you though, if you don't care about improving civilization then it's much easier to just chill out

Not even bismuth has that many edges.

>mfw evolutionary selection means that men are memes because women are attracted to memes
>mfw OP is quintessential IYI

This is true, Men have always been on both sides of the spectrum. They earn alot of money or are homeless. (Hint; This causes the "wage gap" ) They are always the worst and best at certain jobs.

articles.latimes.com/1995-07-07/news/mn-21052_1_brain-cell

"The average man and the average woman have about the same level of intelligence, but men account for a higher proportion of both geniuses and the mentally deficient, according to a new study of IQ test results."

Ps; IQ tests are great for studies like this but dont think for a second IQ tests are accurate to measure an individuals intelligence.

The chinks have it partly right. Balance is key.

Problem with chinks is they are so passive. If you are passionate about all areas of your life equally, you will soar.

OP you are dumb. Women can coast because they have huge amounts of sugar daddies / husbands / bfs / camwhoring ready to pay for them.

Men need to specialise to gain the disproportionate share of resources that come with being near the top of a field and will allow them to attract women.

If I can squat 3 plate and create basic programs nobody gives a fuck about me. If I squat 7 plate and don't know how to use a computer then I am famous as fuck. If I am a disgusting dyel who is a top tier programmer I will always have a high paying job. Do you see how this works?

>Projecting this much

Not everything is about getting laid or projecting your own views. OP just learned about how sexual dymorphism has caused males to have a rather volatile lifestyle compared to women.

I'm not going to spoonfeed you this much, Google the fucking words

This is wrong. If you're the best anything, you'll get laid. However, this is the indirect route. Why is it that men who are top tier at ANYTHING have groupies? Because women are reading the way the men act. It would literally be impossible for women to read whether a man was winning or losing in a given hierarchy. The read the MAN, not his position! And how could it be any other way? The world is dynamic, and the successful guy of today could be irrelevant tomorrow. But women need to figure it how. How? They look at the men's behavior! Most guys will never understand how profound this is or any of the implications.

It sounds like you already know this. It doesn't sound like you've really taken the idea to its conclusion though, since you're still stuck on the guy objectively winning one of a few narrow games (fame, strength, money).

What are the behaviors of someone who is winning? Real self-esteem and clear-headedness. That's literally it. If you believe you're winning, you're winning. If you think someone is better than you, you're literally memeing pussy away from yourself to him. Its hilarious how dumb guys are with this

I guess that it's a matter of self-esteem. If I have value intrinsically, why spend my life killing myself to progress society? Beyond what is necessary to make a "good enough" contribution and not feel like a leech, of course. And the converse: if my life has no worth, why not put a huge effort into helping some seemingly worthy goal come into being? Thinking back to a pre-civilization environment and applying theory of evolution, we can see why this kind of self-esteem should be found more in women than men. Women give birth. Men are bigger and kill shit better. Someone needs to kill shit and someone needs to have kids, and it's pretty easy to figure out how to split things up.

Massive red pill: The paleo/primal/Weston A Price diet people are trying, with varying degrees of success, to come to terms with the idea that humans instinctively developed healthy, nourishing diets in their environments and their health deteriorated as they abandoned them for modern foods. (I am worried that these guys go wrong and give themselves weird shit like gout and various nutrition deficiencies, so I really wouldn't eat like these guys, but this idea sounds reasonable to me).

What if the set of beliefs and stories and symbols we call religion are the "traditional diet" for our minds? What if many aspects of Western society are fundamentally opposed to some aspects of our biology, and certain ideas (like the one that we are all unique children of God) were really quite important for healthy functioning?

I believe religion is much more than that and God is so much more than I could ever understand or even think about, but I've really been thinking about this lately.

>feminism is true

You poor, misguided young boy, I genuinely feel sorry for you and your generation.

It's funny that you brought this up with that phrasing. You have a good idea, but I have another one: I think guys are fundamentally more susceptible to memes than girls. Of course, we all recognize this once we phrase it differently. Men always seem to be way more "in tune" with the different dominance hierarchies than women (though this may be changing today as society is memeing us all hard and our diets are fucking all our hormones lol, maybe this is why chicks are joining the army and shit these days). It makes me think of the story of Sun Tzu and the concubines

No, Women just dont have a sense of humor.

Chinks, or asian culture in general, is about being disciplined but never enough passion or belief. then the next generation comes along and the original child, now a parent, takes discipline to be the bogeyman instead of lack of passion and they turn into "banana asians". I dunno this is obviously not valid in all cases, as youve got Ivy league families. Hell it might not apply to just asians as a whole bc any family can be pushy through religion, grades, etc. but the important part, is that while discipline keeps a structure standing, itll collapse because motivation only goes so far as pleasing your internal passions.

I mean meme in the original sense of the word, not the internet sense. And women do have a sense of humor; it's quite different from men's.

Which is also why you see suicide rates higher than normal in "prestigious" unis since their motivation was entirely dedicated to their own, and their energy just wasnt enough, so they decided to end it.

>OP doesn't understand that its only possible for women and trustfund babbies to do this

>literally wanting to be a lady
reevaluate yourself

Would you answer this ad?

Congratulations OP, you have now realized why it's 95% men who achieve anything of note in life and why most women are mediocre and hovering near the mean

we have the ability to autistically devote ourselves to something greater than merely existing

>small wages
stopped reading there bllox

Fuck you OP I'd rather feel the greatest pain and the greatest glory than go out like a mediocre waste of skin like you

in a heartbeat. Is there a modern equivalent to this ad? Can someone point me in the right direction here.

this is honestly a pretty reasonable argument. Sometimes I feel like kind of a feminine guy. And there probably is another step beyond this where you recognize your intrinsic worth and that you're complete on your own, but are so in touch with yourself as a man that you're dedicated to what you can do to structure the world with no sense of desperation or want. And if you're that integrated you honestly are beating someone trolling around and just having a fun time like me.

Desperate sad sack < little boy < man ?

dedication without desperation or want, you need to honestly keep these poisonous thoughts to yourself.

I dont get your post but you can suck my dick.

btw i checked em'

What is a woman without children?

gender rolls used to be completely different pre civilization.

the tribes were usually ruled by old women, the "grandmatriarchy". the mother's cult was in effect way longer than the current meme we have of "men are natural leaders". of course there wasn't much of a hierarchy back then, because you couldn't accumulate wealth. we just had shitloads of sex, hunted animals every now and then, and traveled to different places when we killed every single rabbit in the forest.

and right now we have a 6+ billion community of autistic men and slut women.

just imagine a culture ruled by grandmoms.
>find food
>eat it
>good lad

>no sense of desperation or thought
No thatll make you ana average guy. Youve gotta follow through with your passions with dedication(discipline). In fact, the "sad sack NEETs" recognize the world as futile and without passion. This defeative attitude will only lead to faster crumbling to a sad sack as you call it. Sad sacks are scared of the world and either give up on it or they continue as a mindless robot. They say university makes or breaks a man because it's a punch in the face about what you want. Sometimes people take initiative and are dedicated like jew zuckerberg. He had passion but also discipline. Others collapse and go to menial labor and other skilless tasks, soulless basically. or, if theyre rich, shitpost on /r9k/(no offense to you robots, you're gonna make it if youre lurking this board).

Greater collapse if you are a robot, the world is your bitch if youre passionate and dedicate

>gender rolls
perhaps the only food pic related would not enjoy

>the tribes were usually ruled by old women, the "grandmatriarchy".

made up bullshit

>not to go all-in on something like business
?? this has to be a chick

not smart enough to live life half-in like a female

None of you have any fucking clue what you're talking about.

Jesus christ, step out of your basement for once in a while and take a look at the world around you.

You can make a lot of money:

>working for some lucrative operation in remote Alaska desperately needing help
>an oil rig or some other remote drilling or mining site
>working as a mercenary

The problems are: suicidal tier loneliness, risk of death, lots of work

You made a pretty big leap there at the end bud. If you don't want to focus on one thing then don't. But that's not what feminism teaches...

A master of one thing is Better than being medicore at many

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not really though. a community where everyone specializes in something autistically specific is a fairly new thing. it came from capitalism.

was listening to a Jordan Peterson vid where he says that cross culturally, women consistently go for men in the same or higher socioeconomic class as them

objectively false, I'd like to see some proof aside from
>muh native american tribes
>muh tiny group of 50 people

if by fairly new you mean from the beginning of agriculture and civilization, yes

Yeah it would be nice to have everything offered to you on a silver platter and live life on easymode, but guess what, you we're born with the short end of the stick as a man.

Sharpen that motherfucker and stab life in the throat.

>mfw that obsession smart (white) men have literally created modern society with everyone doing their part
>mfw women live a well balanced life in a world we created
>mfw there are people that think men shouldn't be worshiped for this

>mfw i realize feminism is true

And I suppose you do.

Why don't you go live in those tribes?

Ghastly underrated

That is true. Only in western patriarchy do men want to enslave themselves, in many African Matriarchies, the greatest and most free societies, women do all the hard labour and men hang out. Same in many Asian cultures, or at least the women are expected to work hard, althoug the horrible patriarchy has been spreading there too.

Absolutely.

Video games should have already taught you that min-maxing is for faggots, how is this a sudden realization?

Bullshit theory made up by a feminist who wanted to create the idea that men ruined Utopia.

>gender rolls
>6 billion
>pants-on-head retarded claim with no substantial evidence
stop posting

wanted to call you some sort of PUA theory faggot but then realized you're entirely right lol

Literally just the same generic chaos magick rhetoric you find on /x/, it's a shitpost.

This argument is based on the logic that biological fatherhood couldn't be proven because tribal bands fucked indiscriminately. Instead of having a single father, a child would be raised by all the men to serve the band. The mother would nurture the child, like other band members. But they were cruel back then as well and a parent would just as easily leave a dumb child for their own survival than sacrifice themselves for its sustained life. I love me some human nature boii.

>t.sub-100 retard

I scored well last time I did one, all it proves is that I'm good at IQ tests.

>mfw i realize that many smart men approach life by compulsively focusing on one activity or a small subset of activities
That is because we are men.

Women are incapable of taking a purely objective interest in anything, and the reason for this is as follows.
A man strives to get direct mastery over things either by understanding them or by compulsion. But a woman is always and everywhere driven to indirect mastery, namely through a man; all her direct mastery being limited to him alone. Therefore it lies in woman’s nature to look upon everything only as a means for winning man, and her interest in anything else is always a simulated one, a mere roundabout way to gain her ends, consisting of coquetry and pretense. Every one who can see through a sham must have found this to be the case. One need only watch the way they behave at a concert, the opera, or the play; the childish simplicity, for instance, with which they keep on chattering during the finest passages in the greatest masterpieces.
Nothing different can be expected of women if it is borne in mind that the most eminent of the whole sex have never accomplished anything in the fine arts that is really great, genuine, and original, or given to the world any kind of work of permanent value. This is most striking in regard to painting, the technique of which is as much within their reach as within ours; this is why they pursue it so industriously. Still, they have not a single great painting to show, for the simple reason that they lack that objectivity of mind which is precisely what is so directly necessary in painting. They always stick to what is subjective. For this reason, ordinary women have no susceptibility for painting at all.
Individual and partial exceptions do not alter the matter; women are and remain, taken altogether, the most thorough and incurable philistines

go to bed Schoppy