>invite girl over
>make out and grind for 20 minutes
>soft as fuck still , but manageable
>out condom on
>dick goes completely soft
>take a break and try again
>happens again
wtf is happening to my dick? I'm 19 and never had problems getting hard in general before I dated my first girl about a year ago. I feel like I'm too young to have this problem.
any anons have dick trouble? what did you do to try to increase libido? how did it work?
all help greatly appreciated.
too much porn and/or masturbation?
Had the same, stop masturbating for like a long time and then you'll be back in action if you keep it moderate on dates with handgelica and stop watching porn
At 19 I was still in my zombie gamer like state playing WoW and girls/sex was the last thing on my mind. You're way head of the average person here. I'm 30 and only catching up.
I've never had an issue with erections though, I think this is a new age thing with your generation, maybe not enough veggies or something, maybe stop drinking energy drinks, sleep more, etc.
You were just too nervous.. if you're feeling panicky the rush of adrenaline will put you in a fight or flight mode preventing your dick from functioning properly.
stopped jerking it in general (and watching porn) about 2 weeks ago when I first started banging this girl
Maybe you are gay? Shove a finger up your bum to see if you'll get an erection.
currently on 2 weeks, will try
I don't feel nervous with her but i guess it still could be performance anxiety my diet consists of alot of caffeine, also my sleep schedule is very bad , related ?
Had the exact problem recently, gonna try again with her tonight. Haven't fapped for a week which was mainly what I thought it could be. But who knows. Gonna have some pre-workout beforehand too to try get the blood flowing a bit better.
>my diet consists of alot of caffeine, also my sleep schedule is very bad , related ?
I'd be willing to bet my 40 bitcoins that's why your erections are shit/non-existent.
90% of erectile dysfunction in young healthy man is psychological. Just relax, don't rush it and have fun.
>shit sleep + lots of caffeine
>health young man
pick 1
PWO will only make it worse. Unless you're taking yohimbine HCL (though that's not really a pwo)
don't listen to these low test betas telling you to stop watching porn and jacking off. The only case where that would be beneficial is if you are hitting 30 and low t like the fags ITT. Your problem is you're overthinking it probably. You are thinking about not being able to get hard and it is happening. Just try to be in the moment when you're with a girl.
Are you retarded?
Have you never heard of this thing called "STIM DICK".
Don't be a retard, like half the population functions on bad sleep and lots of caffeine.
half the population is fat with man tits and soft cocks
Fat guys with kids, only like 10-20% of men below 40 have ED.
Do a hardcore leg workout, you'll not regret it
Get drunk. Seriously. Whiskey dick is a meme. Youre probably too high inhibition and need to lower it with some booze.
>tfw tried having sex with gf 3 times so far
>couldn't get hard because overthinking + nervous
and now every new time I will try the fear of fucking up again will just make it worse and worse and worse. We're gonna try again tonight and I don't really know what to do, I'm going in with the expectation that I will not manage to get hard. I'm get hard when we hug standing up, I get hard when she puts her leg over my crotch, I get hard when we make out, but as soon as clothes start coming off I start freaking out.
Don't fuck dog.
Could be alcohol, porn, nerves, sleep, diet, or a combination. They can all fuck you up mid-term, like I've had problems with my ex when I was drinking a shittonne even while not drunk. Biggest one I'd go for is porn, just cut porn and fap with a relatively loose grip and not too intensely for most of it. I had this recently with a 10/10 qt, couldn't get hard the first couple times then did after a few days of no porn and just one gentle fap.
You're an idiot
>tfw struggled in missionary after I killed my core for the first time in ages
Lots of slow foreplay, and 0 fapping ever. Don't worry about performance at all, I guarantee she won't give a shit if she actually cares about you if you finish in 10 seconds the first time.
I cannot control my ejacutlation. As soon as I put a condomo I come. I last even less with condoms than raw. It's really taking its toll.
What can it be, condoms too small?
you're just nervous
I had this problem when I took someone's advice and masturbated before a grill came over. Every time I've done that I end up noodle stabbing as soon as the condom is on. Must be something about the way I masturbate because I can always get hard and go again soon after the first round of sex.
Imagine being with a man, it helps me get it with my gf.
Sleep is the single most important resource your body needs besides water/food
Start getting 7-9 hours sleep and go for a run when you wake up and you can thank me later
If you are feeling too nervous/anxious, pop a Viagra pill m8, once you get the hang of things you won't need it.
Your girl won't be able to handle that much rock hard dick.
Death grip kills the penor.
Mate at least you dont get what i get every time i was gonna see this girl i would get the biggest urge to vomit. I couldnt even eat becuase of it and i was trying to bulk at the time. I even vomited in front of her once after i ate an spple she gave me
Shes been my gf for 3 months now and is cooking me a roast right now and i just got back from the gym.
Had same thing happen. Has to do with being nervous. Just don't think about it and have her put the condom on, seriously do it.
Fortunately the chick was really into me so she stayed the night and we ended up doing it the next morning.
>I couldnt even eat becuase of it and i was trying to bulk at the time.
Women are gainz goblins, I'm telling you dude