Tfw rejected again

Man the fuck up. I was rejected THREE times on Thursday night and THREE times on Friday night. Yeah it hurts the ego, but last night I was finally able to pull a girl.

It's about building the emotional calluses to rejection so you can work on your game. Lifting and keeping your body in shape is only part of being a man. It's time for you to work on your mindset and stop being such a pussy.

Those who have bread don't have teeth

Well you won't win them all. Fuck did you expect? People are still people.

Hey, at least you tried. That's what matters. Cheer up big boy, there's bound to be someone out there who loves you as much as you love them.

>tfw don't even know any girls to ask out
>tfw haven't been to a club or bar or party in years
>afraid a bouncer won't let me in to a club
>afraid girls will be in groups and won't want to talk to an ugly, autistic manlet who is by himself

>>Just stop being a pussy
th-thanks for the information

>the series I and my ex were watching has a new season
>can't watch because I'll be sad throughout the whole time
>will never see the end of the series either
>gym closes in 30mins

>tfw only fat chicks show interest in me
Why :(
I'm ottermode and apparently not ugly

>finally ask onetis out yesterday
>doesn't respond
>tells co-worker to tell me that she's in love with him
>he already has a GF and she would rather be a sidechick than be with me
>still delude myself that if I keep lifting I'll end up with her one day

Kill me

probably manlet
ottermode tall guy even if auschwitzmode get lots of bitches

>let the women come to you.

27 years and counting..any day now

I'm 6'1

>exhange student girl on dating app asks me to "show her the city" after we exchanged a few messages
>don't know what to do because my car broke down and I'm very busy with work and school

Manlet then. Average height In Denmark is 6'2. Average people are manlets, so 6'3" is the manlet cut off.

We use Denmark for manlet data as they are a pure Arian race. So the data can be trusted

depends on your birthplace, but shouldnt be manlet tier
are you a creep maybe? acne? no hobbies?

>creep
Whatever the fuck that means
My skin is bumpy but I have no acne, and I do have some hobbies but it's not like anyone ever gives a shit to find out anyway

I live in Canada, I'd say I'm decently taller than average, people say I'm tall all the time.

>Same
>But that's just because I never tried

Feels bittersweet man

no, the average from the most recent study in Denmark is 5'11, I'm 6'3 and tower over pretty much everyone, by a good amount even

You're 6'3? How's it feel being the tallest at all times, with zero people being taller than you?

Doesn't feel special desu, the whole manlet thing is blown out the water, I get that's easy to say when you're tall, but none of my friends who are shorter than me have any trouble pulling

>My skin is bumpy
Ephialtes pls

average male height in denmark is 5'11" buddyboyo

>spend your time working on yourself and let the women come to you

The first step to get a girlfriend is to actually make friends.

Friends don't judge your appearance as much but they do judge your character. If you have friends that actually respect you and you can chill 1 on 1 with them and have a quality time but you still can't find a gf, then that's a sign you gotta work onyour appearance.

I used to wonder all the fucking time why I can't a gf when I realised that, shit, even people I considered close friends didn't want to hang out with me. I realised I was anxious, kinda beta and I lacked confidence. This might sound like hipster shit, but people can really sniff out your insecurities by even the smallest facial expression you make.

I started working out, got some hobbies, met new people, worked on my social skills little by little (it took me years) and I actually started caring about people and didn't just want to use them to make me feel better. Then people started caring about me. I started having a good time.

That gave me confidence since I realised I'm not that strange and that many people I considered normies were far more beta than me and far more insecure.

That was the point I truly stopped giving a shit about every little thing wrong with me and focused on having a good time. I got a sense of humor.

By the time I lost 40 pounds and got some muscle on, getting bitches was natural. Then after I fucked around a bit and learned how I function sexually, I got a gf. She was far more "beta" than me, I had way more friends than her, so I was socially "superior" to her. Women like that, as do most people in general. They like hanging out with "better" people so when you reach that point, you'll have an abundance of chances to get a gf/meet new friends so you stop giving a shit and being socially anxious all the time.

You have to stop wanting a gf just because you don't like not having one and you'd better start becoming a better, socially calm (or the opposite of socially anxious) person.

How come she don't want me man?

if she just die, she will not suffer
quickly killing her is a bad option

How do you make friends though?
Everyone my age already has friends. Guys are busy working or chasing girls, not starting new platonic relationships. And i cant really blame em

thanks user. I am going to go to the park today and talk to someone,

>get mired 4-5 times a day
>overhear girls talk about me from time to time
>need to be on the aphex of a caffeine with theanine high just to be able to carry a normal conversation

they all quickly lose interest and move on to DYEL loudmouths who laugh about stupid shit

life was less painful when I was fat and hopeless. nothing hurts more than hope.

>Stop chasing women. You're the man, spend your time working on yourself and let the women come to you.
Women will never come up to you even when you're cute they will give off signals like look at you smile etc if they like you though

This

Get a hobby/a job.

Also this is optional but if you're kinda young smoking weed once in a while can get you in contact with a shitload of people.

This is absolute bullshit. Cutest chick I ever dated walked up to me and ask me if I wanted to go to drinks with her. It's rare for sure, but it's not as impossible as you put it.

This book helps, find a hobby and then find some people who share your hobby.

Depends where you live and if she had already something to drink.

The Kino Chad

>smokes
>diet consists of pancakes, coffee, cherry pie, milkshakes, and whatever else he currently feels like eating
>has never done a push up in his life, doesn't even know what a 'gym' is
>has had sex with Isabella Rossellini, Monica Bellucci and thousands of other starlets
>hair that will be exhibited in museums after his death and will be studied by scientists for centuries
>makes kino after kino like no one's business
>always a smile on his face

vs. the Veeky Forums Virgin

>hates his life, doesn't actually like working out but does it anyway because of the faint hope that if his pecs are one day big enough women will have sex with him
>can't even get hookers because all of his money goes to fitness related stuff
>small, shrunken penis from steroids
>no matter how hard he works out his body still isn't in good enough shape, probably misshapen
>even if he one day does manage to get a gf, it's some ratchet brainless bimbo with a pussy looser than a worn out sock

seriously, why haven't you taken the /art/ pill yet? all the hottest, most substantive women flock to these types. no exceptions.

>why haven't you taken the /art/ pill yet?
Because women are only interested in the rich artists.

If you genuinely think women are so stupid and shallow they will just run off with any random man who approaches them with muscles, regardless of context or even knowing who the fuck you are, then of course you're going to utterly repulse the ones with half a brain, whose intelligence you insulted to the Nth degree recurring.

Sure it can happen, but how improbable is it?
In the vast majority of cases it's the man that chases the woman.

please respond

nope, even the struggling ones get the best ladies

tfw rejected by girl but remain friends
tfw retarded and fall for girl even harder
tfw have to listen to her date plans and shit
brb kms

How is it stupid and shallow to accept date invitations from strangers who approach you? People have been doing that for centuries at least you white knight dummy.

I think im getting to this point.

>tfw you will never find someone who completely understands you

Dude if you want a girl but she doesn't want you, you cut contact immediately.

At this point you're just eating her shit.

>rejected once
>never tried again
Nice

Forget about women, center your life around yourself.

Why do you chase complete strangers though? What idiot of a woman is just going to open her legs to some random guy? How about you get to know eachother first? Actually put some fucking effort in and let her know she's not just going to get pumped and dumped. You don't like sluts but you expect us to just give it up to everyone and anyone who asks or she's a bitch (or you just haven't figured out we can't just say yes to everyone or are actually in a committed relationship).

Because that's how people get murdered? Why would I want to be with someone who literally only bothered to talk to me because of what he saw on the outside AND assumed that I'm like that, too? Women don't like being put on the spot and half of them probably only give their number to make you leave them alone/so they don't have to feel guilty about rejecting you. Even when I go out of my way to be encouraging and nice to random guys they end up basically threatening suicide and crazy shit like that if I so much as flinch because they're trying to unzip their pants or put an arm around me when I've already said no, I don't fuck with strangers because I'm not an opportunistic leech of a woman hoping you have some money to go with whatever is in your pants. Sorry, I don't operate like that and don't know what kind of woman does (this is coming from a liberal, sex positive burlesque-lover). Why on earth would you fuck a complete stranger?

hey

Probably. Have you tried getting an enema? Nobody likes poop.

>liberal
>"sex-positive"
>burlesque-lover
>woman

You described tinder and literally every woman does it dumbass. You think a dude is reading your fucking profile to decide if he wants to swipe?

Retard.

I dont expect anything and most girls dont bother growing a relationship because they get so much attention from other guys.
Girls will sooner pick out a better candidate than try to pursue something deeper with a guy who's been friendly with them for a while.

You can bet she will open her legs up to Chad on day one and ghost a guy like me who's trying to be respectful.

Men want to fuck hot women regardless of how well they know them. What is so hard to understand?

how do i get a gf then?

Not that guy and I agree, but how do you get to know a girl who's a stranger then?
Say you see a girl in some place unrelated to your daily activities and like her, so you want to get to know her. Just approach and tell her so?

how do i make friends if my only hobby is shitposting on Veeky Forums

Plenty of women open their legs for random guys. Do you live in a bubble?

it depends on what you like

I like music, I play drums and bass guitar. Got in touch with a shit load of people.

Just do shit you like man, it's really simple.

Find some hobbies, some hobbies you truly enjoy, not just because you want to meet women, meeting new people will eventually lead to meeting women.

I'm the typical autistic fucking loser that posts on Veeky Forums all the time.

I play the guitar and really like music so I went to a music school thing and we had a concert. I didn't even give a fuck about bitches to fuck because I was just so much into doing my thing.

After the concert, I was with the band chilling and we had a female singer that was 18 years old. Suddenly she started massaging my shoulders and getting all flirty. I am an autist and I didn't do anything but that was one of the moments that people talk about, you know

>be yourself, it will just happen

And it fucking did. A girl showed interest. I know it sounds kinda autistic and it's nothing but really, you don't have to try that hard, you just have to be passionate about something and people will just play along.

Find someone new don't let yourself be cucked. And if she wants to be a side chick she's trash tier anyway bro. Learn to pick better.

The thing is, one necessarily needs social hobbies. I don't really know which ones there are besides music, dancing and sports.

Over 3 billion fish in the sea my guy, keep trying

Yeah but I don't like Chinese, Korean, Indian, or Blacks. I also won't be moving anywhere and my age range is limited to 18-27.

So how many options do I really have? Probably like a few thousand at most.

Biking is a big one, you can meet dozens of people joining a bike club, though a lot of them might be older (50s, not like 80s). You could join a martial arts group, a hiking group, maybe a general fitness club that trains for 5ks and marathons and stuff. If you're in the UK there are a lot of small rugby and soccer teams, you can join those. Hell, taking a class at a gym will help you meet some people.

Also, get in touch with your neighbors. If you don't know the people around you then you don't know anyone.

This may sound strange, but you could join a book club. They sound nerdy, but from what I've heard most are less about reading books and more about just general socializing.

stop bein a puss and man up u fag

>go to sport, all the sports dudes are friends and they would just be cordial with me
>go to college, all the college guys would find people they knew before or immediately gel with other normies
>go to hobby shop, all the TT people already friends with each other and id just stand by the side

I think im too far gone with the social retardation. Getting Veeky Forums and hooking a girl before i spill my spaghetti is my best hope.

Then you deserve better than a woman like that who won't take the time to appreciate you for who your are or develop a real bond. I hope you find someone special user

There's your problem; you're preoccupied with what you want from the woman so become completely oblivious to what she may want or how she reacts to being targeted whilst minding her own business.

It just seems insincere to me to approach someone based on appearance, so I don't even make eye contact with attractive men I see. Apart from it pressurising someone, it just feels like my efforts to build something with them would be tainted by the ulterior motive of being blinded by outward beauty. I think it is much better to let relationships develop out of existing friendships, people you already value and are interested in without whether they'll let you sleep with them/you instantly finding them sexy being a factor. If they end up not wanting to fuck, that sucks (and yes, girls get friend zoned) but if they do, then that's cool and you hit the jackpot. If you spend time with someone because of a mutual interest (activities rather than a 'date') there isn't this always question of whether the other person is only trying to get into your pants hovering over everything, making EVERY action or question 'loaded', a means to an end. I' miss the type of girl who will never ever accept a drink/meal/other offers from men because I know they will probably want more and it will be manipulative of me/put me under considerable pressure. There is no way I could ever relax around them. Being approached by a stranger with expectations that is rapidly formulating opinions of me based on a tiny window of interaction is literally my worst nightmare.

How is it insencere to approach someone based on looks, we've been doing it for hundreds of thoudands of years. We're hard wired to do it. Don't be SJW-like

I'm not on Tinder and for good reason, it seems

Hello. You doing ok?

>There's your problem; you're preoccupied with what you want from the woman so become completely oblivious to what she may want or how she reacts to being targeted whilst minding her own business.

You asked why I'd want to approach a stranger, so I answered.

Don't get me wrong, I still do the song and dance routine of getting to know a girl and all that, but only because I have to, I can't say I enjoy it too much in all honesty.

Appearance is literally the first thing people see. It's not like your personality is on a name plate.

>tfw 25 years old
>ugly as fuck
>havent had friends since i was 12
>no friends led to not having girls
>no friends and no girls led to getting angry and miserable
>which in turn caused more lack of friends/girls
>which made me a social retard unable to even know how to make friends or even want to
>which makes my personality even worse
>etc
>at this point even if i was able to get friends i wouldnt even know waht to do with them

what do you do when you know your life is over

yeah, I'm peachy. you?

>It just seems insincere to me to approach someone based on appearance
I don't see why. Physical appearance is the first aspect you notice of someone, and something that can be readily judged.
From there you can proceed and see how the person actually is, and if you do like their personality and get along together, what's the problem? That already precludes people who want to solely "get in your pants" regardless of who you are, because you get to know them and their intentions. If they want to get in your pants and much more than that, what's wrong with it?

What are your hobbies? I'll be your friend.

Think outside of the box.

I bought a motorcycle, suddenly I started hanging out with people that liked motorcycles. I knew them really but I never made an effort, nor they, to get in touch.

I shaved my hair due to hair loss, one random dude from work had the same experience, we started joking about it, we then started hanging out.

I got a new dog, got him for a walk, starting chatting with a random neighbor.

One morning I didn't have fresh bread for my toast. I started hanging out with some fag for a couple of weeks because I mentioned that.

You don't really have to find a best friend every time. Little experiences matter. Just think about how stand-up comedians can joke and talk about the simplest shit, yet crowds gather to experience that.

You know how they say that you gotta find pleasure in the small things and take it easy? That's what they mean.

Guys who fuck girls aren't masters of hobbies nor do they absolutely have an astounding knowledge of something in particular. It's just that they find pleasure in doing things all of us like and they can share those experiences in an interesting/funny way that bonds them with others.

I know that's a glorified way to say "socialise" but that's all it is. The only thing that matters is that you're honest. When people realise that you're feigning social situations solely to fuck a hole, they get turned off, be them guys or girls.

Be honest and take it easy.

>have 4 girls ranging from 6 to 8

Okay Ahmed.

I don't get how you go from a couple of talks with someone you barely know to hanging out. How is it done?
I've only ever hanged out with my old friends from high school and some other friends with which I formed a DnD group. Other than that I don't know the process to go and hang out with people.

You thing people that you see socializing around you didn't have hardships growing up?

It's all about the mindset dude. If you DON'T want to find pleasure in life, you won't.

Find a hobby and a job and try to lighten up. It's those hardships that will eventually lead you to relate with people.

Fix your body and your mind. It's not easy but you learn nothing from an easy life.

It doesn't have to go from a couple of talks to hanging out.

If they're interesting enough, you might want to chat with them more.

If you are interesting enough, they might want to chat with you more.

If not, it's not the end of the world. Learn to chat around and have small talk about. I guess you have a sense of humor, you're on Veeky Forums all day. Chat with your mom, with your cousin, with your taxi driver.

If it just seems abnormal to you, get a job that forces you to interact with people. The important thing is to get out of your comfort zone. I didn't like it when I started socializing. I kept blushing and stuttering. It gradually goes from 1% enjoyment-99% "suffering" to higher enjoyment and less suffering.

unironically this, although ive somehow managed to have 3 gfs in my life i don't think ill ever be man enough to try again

NUMBERS GAME, dont give up brah

Nah, I do talk with people more or less and I've been getting more social lately, but still don't quite know how to get to the phase where they invite me to go out with them. Don't know whether I should invite the ones I like for a drink either.

>Slept with ~18 girls through tinder
>Only one outside of that

The fucked up part is that I fucked that one chick more times than any girl I ever met on tinder. Maybe even combined.

Chances are they're as socially awkward as you.

Keep socializing and keep having a fun time, it will happen. The more you worry about it, the more you start getting anxious and fucking it up.

Just don't keep thinking all the time that there's something wrong with you or that you're not good enough. Perhaps it's their fault. They might not be interesting enough, they might be bland etc

Nah, I'm shy but I don't have low self esteem. Just trying to figure out all this. Thanks for your replies.

Godspeed breh, take it easy, have fun.

That's how it should be m8.