>Be beta all my life >Too scared to talk to grills >Vent through porn >Final year of high school I get heavy into lifting >Gain 30 lbs before college starts >Move into dorms, nobody knows how much I'm hiding my power level >By some fluke I manage to strike up a conversation with a girl at a party >She's super into me, feeling up my muscles >We make out and she invites me back to her place >Feels so natural, we start taking each other clothes off >She drops down to her knees >I feel like I should like this, but I feel nothing. >She asks if something is wrong, dick is a shriveled newborn rat >Mfw a lifetime of porn and hentai has fucked up my sex drive
WHY! I GOT SO FUCKING CLOSE! IT'S NOT FAIR! HOW DO I RESET MY BRAIN?
I think you were too nervous or jacked off too recently.
Ian Peterson
It's desensitizing. Youve downregulated all the receptors on your dick so your brain doesn't get overexcited every time you fap.
Literally over fapping. It takes for your receptors to recover, let alone your brain rewiring off hentai.
Blake Johnson
Don't drink alcohol. Kills test.
William Long
This is literally me except it's happened 6-7 times in a row now since I started Uni
>tfw 20 and still a virgin L-late bloomer h-haha
Angel Howard
This happened to me too, fucked a girl for an hour and 45 minutes and had to fake cumming. She said I was a champ to last so long, kek. Had to not fap for a month straight to be able to finish inside a puss puss.
Henry Reed
How long would a serial masturbator have to do no-porn/no-fap to reset his shit?
Jose Wilson
dude you gotta stop the porn and jerking off.
Robert Hernandez
>tfw was the same way with porn >tfw when losing virginity thought I wouldn't be able to get hard >am able to and can't stop being hard I don't know what is wrong with you or how to fix it. Just thought I'd share that it ISNT the porn's fault. So don't be a pussy and stop paying for porn.
Jace Turner
>spend literal months of your life thinking about sex or watching others have sex >can't even get hard
Maybe you were born a cuck?
John Richardson
>tfw even the so-called "betas" are going to parties and getting girls to suck their dicks within days of going to college
Luke Adams
you just gotta relax and want it, stop masturbating and definitely stop watching whatever porn you watch
Christian Richardson
Can't say that I've ever had a problem with it not coming up at all, but on my first time I did have performance anxiety and intermittently the little guy decided to go semi limp. It didn't help that she was possibly more shitty at sex than my virgin self and desu wasn't all that attractive.
STOP watching porn regularly. At the most do it once every few days to a static image of a woman, do more cardio, find a chick you feel comfortable/confident around, try again.
Jack Cooper
Only fags don't watch porn. Idk why you can't get hard but it isn't porn's fault.
Jaxson Hernandez
more like average acting men
pussy is easy to get and those who arent getting some have personality flaws that no amount of lifting is going to fix
Evan Brown
That's the thing. I have no problem at all getting hard watching porn. I didn't even notice I had a problem until just now.
Parker Ortiz
Nigger when did I say I couldn't get hard? I was talking about a past experience where I wasn't as hard as I could have been, and said it was because I was nervous as fuck. Are you gonna try and tell me that performance anxiety isn't the reason either? I also didn't say I don't watch porn (I do, too much really) I'm just trying to help a guy out who says he couldn't get hard at all with a real woman. Porn induced ed is pretty well documented, quit talking out of your ass.
Carter Stewart
That's the whole point dipshit. You can get hard to porn, but not with a real woman.
>you are gay >it's porn enduced ED. >performance anxiety
Pick 3
Sebastian Morgan
I honestly think hentai forced me into the exact reverse situation. Things like Black Bible and the Dark Love series taught me that fucking women was done over seemingly hours, fucking her senseless, making her feel helpless and out of control, dominated.
I literally find this so hot, that I only need to think of spanking or choking the girl, and I am diamonds. And then I try to do the aforementioned. Fucking girls until they are worn out little fuck puppets.
Like...I know its fucked up. But...I know that the origin. Hentai made me this way.
Jaxson Nelson
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Grayson Hill
>porn induced ed is pretty well documented Where? On Veeky Forums? Normal men watch porn and don't have a problem with ed. So OP don't cancel your Brazzers™ subscription because this retard said so.
Liam Edwards
nofap can help with that.
Brandon Long
>tfw making out still gives me a boner despite rabid 2D porn addiction >tfw can easily get hard with 3D women, just can't cum because I basically have to use a firm grip and lube to feel anything on my own and no woman I've been with is aggressive enough to satiate me, not even sex
>tfw want to do nofap but balls literally hurt if I go more than a week or so without fapping
Blake Price
get an onahole so you dont have to use your sand paper hands it will help you regain sensitivity
Colton Parker
>tfw too ugly to trick girls into liking me
Daniel James
Hahahaha welcome to the club mane. I'm 22 and have never climaxed with any of the women I've been with. I'm pretty much scared of sex now, been on a dry spell for almost 2 years of having real sex. I quit porn this year so I feel a lot better about it now.. Now I just gotta get over the damage of not socializing for almost 2 years and I should be good!
Tyler Clark
But they don't watch it excessively, just occasionally
Henry Martin
Same shit happened to me but I didn't realise what caused it until this year, I'm 23. Stop masturbating, you should be able to get rock hard after about 2-4 weeks but if you're addicted that will be an almost impossible task to manage straight away. Just go as long as you can and work your way to two weeks if you can't do it cold turkey. But honestly it's as simple as just not masturbating, and of course lay off porn and hentai but there's almost literally no reason to watch that Shit unless you're fapping which you shouldn't be doing anyway.
Nolan Martinez
Porn is literally the devil. I want you and everybody reading this to beat that into your heads.
Sebastian Wilson
Does edging once every few days break no fap?
Lucas Gray
>tfw only porn i watch is of girls peeing >at my place of work we have single bathrooms >i was in there today and hear someone go into women's bathroom next to me, likely one of the handful of younger (late 20s-early 30s) female coworkers around >hear her sigh and a heavy stream of pee hitting the water >i literally stop mid-piss because i went from normal soft to rock hard erection in a few seconds
im dead guys
Connor Cooper
From personal experience yes, and even worse is once you get in the mindset of edging you usually just say fuck it and cum anyway. Better to just learn discipline and not do it at all.
Brody Perez
Join us at /nofap/ bretherin
Brandon Johnson
being beta is just up to conditioning through childhood, it can be reversed
Ian Rogers
>get Veeky Forums >the only girls who want my dick are the same thirsty 2/10s - but now only want it twice as hard >oneitis still wants nothing to do with me >no mires from anything above a 5/10
ITS OVER. ITS FUCKING OVER... ALL THE CALORY COUNTING... ALL THE SHITTY CHICKEN... ALL THE EFFORT... AND FOR WHAT?
Charles Allen
same thing happened to me. I'm hoping nofap/nodrugs/noalcohol fixes it..
Lincoln Nguyen
porn fucked you up forever
Ian Robinson
>nearly 2 hours of fucking that's my boy
Ayden Martin
lmaooo you faked while wearing a condom right? i had a similiar problem but the girl im with likes me so much she just stuck it out and it got easier and easier to cum inside her and on her
Joseph Bennett
A month.
Nathaniel Barnes
>not trying out the nofap meme
Luis Hernandez
>Mfw a lifetime of porn and hentai has fucked up my sex drive sometimes its alcohol, anxiety, and no emotinoal attatchment (tho if you were into the girl and not just along for the ride that shouldnt be a problem in this case)
Henry Jones
Long read, but completely relevant, and will help you OP.
Landon Bell
Look just do nofap for a week or two and remember that porn is bad. I learned that the hard way. I failed to get hard for a girl. I finally smashed but lost the erection for after fucking her for 20 mins and didnt cum. I decided to fess up about my previous pathetic hookups with middle aged single moms, porn addiction, and repressed upbringing. Why? Because what could have gone wrong did go wrong with her the first time we hooked up, and there was not much that could be made worse. She was very understanding, and not in a "you poor thing" sorta way, but a calm "I see, well thats okay because Ive got you. Youre a cool guy, youll get out of the rut." As well I told her there was nothing wrong with her looks like she was afraid of (shes a bit of an attention whore and likes to feel hot but w/e). I am under no delusions our hookups mean anything too real even though we have some cool ass conversations and already know more about each other that most people know about either of us. user, just do the noporn and nofap and find yourself a kindhearted skank. Dont get down on yourself. Its gonna be okay.
Forgot to mention: Second time around, we made out, I ate her out til she came p hard a couple times, but got too nervous and it died. So we laid down, and I held her in my arms. I slowly started to get and and started dry humping her. Started to kiss her again, and things heated up from there. I had to calm down and feel warmth towards her and safe around her. Find a friendly skank user. Dont be like a kid about it, but be honest about your history if shes an understanding and patient type.
Gavin Murphy
does that mean my history can be "im a 25 year old kissless virgin" and a girl would be unerstanding
Brayden Richardson
Phrase it differently and sound unemotional and yeah. Dont make it clear you feel pathetic. Just state it as a fact and basically express the point "Youre like crazy hot, and Ill be real with ya, Im a nerd who goes to the gym whos kinda lost. Lend me a hand, and I wont be weird about this k?" Keep in mind this is anecdotal. Go for a stoner or hippy chick. In my case it was a native stoner grill. Very sweet and not very pretentious at all.
Ayden Jenkins
Truth right here
Christopher Davis
sex requires an emotional connection. you failed.
Ayden Mitchell
honest feedback, if its not too much trouble
>damn, sorry i've been to busy being disciplined and hitting the gym and not.... >my old cardio routine hit a plateau so i'm switching it up >so much for open minded >are you virgin shaming me >should've stayed home and read a book instead >you know i bet your coworker wouldn't be busting my balls, or.... wait- sorry if autism, but i genuinely don't care about my lack of experience, but i hear that that alone makes girls uncomfortable, while also hearing that if you don't care, they don't care, which makes this all kind of confusing
Daniel Martin
That is super autistic. Just be honest, unemotional, and improvise. Dont rehearse too extensively with formulaic phrases. I have literal 'tism, so I see where youre coming from. But seriously thats autistic.