college freshman
I know I can get laid but I'm too lazy to approach girls because jerking off is "good enough" in my head. Not wanking for the next 90 days, hopefully I won't die of blue balls. Girls are fucking hot around campus. I didn't have time to jerk off yesterday, and I decided not to today. Mainly because my ugly gaymer suitemate brought his gf back to the suite, and wtf she was a qt. I need to kick my shit in gear and acquire qt gf.
Join me brothers
giv aryan gf
>tfw no southern belle aryan gf
even my beta roommate has one, this is why I need to stop jerking off
You can do it. Make yourself proud.
right on. you too man.
If you're not exceptionally good looking, on an athletic team, or socially popular (top frat house) you won't fuck different girls weekly
Doesn't mean you shouldn't take advantage of googly eyed freshmen who go out and get shitfaced because they don't know their limits
If you're an underclassmen, you should rush. Best decision of my life, it literally feeds freshman whores into my vicinity if you do end up getting a bid
I don't even want to fuck different girls weekly. I just want a gf to fuck and hang out with. I'm pretty good looking and 6'2" so once I get my body out of chubby mode I'll be fine. Problem is I have no real motivation to talk to girls, which I'm trying to fix by not masturbating.
I'm on day 3. It's getting rough. But I will endure for those sweet morality, willpower, and motivation gains. But don't forget, porn is the true enemy, not occasional masturbation.
>7 Days NoFap
I think I'll relapse tomorrow, not felling any benefit from this desu
I'll try to keep masturbating to 2-3 a week tho instead the 2-3 a day I used to do
Sophomore
5'6"
black but jacked
majority (85%) white campus
fappings p. much all ill ever get, but ill try and hold back that vice for the gains
>I know I can get laid but I'm too lazy to approach girls because jerking off is "good enough" in my head.
You probably have an avoidant attachment style.
t. similar situation
>2-3 a day
How
oh fuck I just googled that and that was scary accurate
>I know I can get laid but I'm too lazy to approach girls
Be a horny teenager with a lot of free time in summer and addicted to porn
if you think that's what's wrong you're a damn fool. you need to get better at being social. next time it's lunch or whatever, sit with a random group of people. just butt your way into a conversation. build your confidence.
>beta roommate with hot gf
>has one and you DON'T
gg retard, sounds like you're a jealousfag. lol.
I woke up from a dream about my ex mid jerk off. Then continued in the middle of the night. So now back on day 1. Day 2-4 are the hardest for me (normally day 2)
claiming to be too lazy to approach girls is your beta mind convincing itself it's satisfied when you know it isnt
I've had a fucking absurd sex drive my entire life, but I just recently started talking to this girl and it's like gone now, she's not even that great looking? Can someone explain?
On the weekends I jerk it like 5-10 a day.
Well it's more like massaging my prostate at the base of my dick.
I don't have to be hard to get off and it goes super fast.
I was worried it was the source of my weekly bouts of monday depression, so I tried stopping for a week, and it's definitely the social anxiety from going out on Fridays that makes me depressed and not the jerkin.
you're in college... go to a party if you want to get laid it's literally so fucking easy
now get your personal diary off Veeky Forums
>go to a party if you want to get laid
>go to a party
where the fuck do you think we are
hint: [spoiler]Veeky Forums[/spoiler]
Quick rundown for the sake of conversation?
This is the most pointless general on this board.
Join a fraternity and quit being a fucking pussy
its been a week without porn and I'm starting to wonder what the benefits really are. I feel like I'd last all of ten seconds the next time I fuck. I don't feel anything major besides this. my libido has gone up a bit but thats it.
this
i don't like parties, the loud black people music annoys me and my feet get tired of standing around
some people have a strong natural tendency to withdraw from/avoid friendships and romantic relationships because of fear of commitment.
Your body is telling you to stop pursuing her. Same reason I think that guys sometimes can't get it up. Something in your brain is saying it's a bad idea.
fraternities are just degenerate excuses to get shitfaced and do a bunch of drugs. I have friends pledging but I don't find the idea appealing. I go to an SEC school so they take shit way too seriously, if frats were the same as like the 80s when my dad was in one, an actual brotherhood thing instead of some hedonistic madhouse, I'd do it .
Same. Not even a sperg like you. Join clubs and shit or go to more chill venues like hookah bars, it's one of the few places vape tricks are considered cool and I know you own one you fucking faggot so take advantage of it.
Frats are fucking stupid. I can get laid and drink without paying a butch of lazy degenerates 1000s of dollars to join a stupid 3 letter organization.
Plus I hear a lot of gay shit goes down with the frats around here and someone died and I'm not down for that shit.
Heck, literally just be bored and have nothing to do. Fapping is a fantastic time waster, and one of the most commonly cited benefits to /nofap/ is the extra time in the day.
I live in Houston and I fapped during the hurricane after practicing nofap for five months. I'm going to do the 90 day challenge starting today. Haven't fapped yet so I know I can do it again.
Me cumming put an end to the storm (srs).
tfw relapsed after a solid month of just only getting laid
muh sex drive is truly insatiable, I don't even like sex that much anymore it's just another thing but there are so much more important things to use your time and energy for
but still having only been fapping a fraction of what I used to I've noticed huge benefits regarding my Dopamine/reward/motivation system, on top of that beginning to eat very clean to help even more. I have become more disciplined, productive, sociable, and am in probably a better all around mood
That's hilarious
A) How can you even tell what a fraternities like if you haven't joined one - your friend experiences pledging don't fully describe the experience; its a very narrow view they've seen and since schools just started their probably drunk on the high of getting a bid.
B) You talk about them taking shit too seriously but call it degenerate to get drunk and take drugs and party... whos taking themselves too seriously here?
>Stop going to the gym for a week
>Eat lots and lots of sugar
>Suddenly nofap is really easy
Is this the power of low testosterone?
>I know I can get laid but I'm too lazy to approach girls
This is how I felt too before I actually approached girls
on day 3 or 4
prob gonna masturbate or fuck in the next 3-4 days
dude you've got to be a niche interest for so many girls at your school. If you're actually jacked, there are tons of girls who want to sleep with you. Go to your college bars bro I promise you'll get laid in the next 2 weeks
Day 69 here (in a relationship with occasional sex)
The sex feels like when I first started doing it, really great and my wife seems to enjoy it more. I can cum in any position (compared to only certain ones when I was fapping), something I can probably attribute to desensitization.
If we don't have sex whenever, for whatever reason, I'm fine with it because I know the next time will feel just that better.
>be in uni
>have be semi popular due to high status within student organization
>also be super social and like people
>two girls yesterday wanted to fuck
>had to be at work early today so said no to both, can't be bothered waking up somewhere else when I already don't have much time
Such is life as a semi-chub social dude. Wouldn't have gotten laid nearly as many times if I hadn't been such a social person.