How do I stop cumming within 30 seconds of masturbation or sex?

I have both. it goes back and forth

4 hours personal record

I can cum within a minute if I'm masturbating but so far I've been able to last in the act

Though i don't fuck a lot so i it's not a big test sample

Count yourself lucky. I've fucked a few girls and can never cum inside with a condom. I fuck until I get tired and then have to jerk myself off.

don't have a 4" dick

I can come to vaginal sex but not oral.

Whats the secret to coming from oral?

I don't cum unless there's a trigger word. But sometimes I lose erection because I'm not that aroused. Trigger word and cues arouse me not sex itself.

Try a dude. Might make you last longer if you're straight.

So if I last 4-5 minutes, is that normal?
my first few sex experiencing really sucked and I haven't had sex for years since

I mean the actual experience was good. Stopped myself from cumming in 30 seconds, girls were beautiful, etc. But I was a nervous wreck and almost lost my boner more than once. Basically thinking too much.

I'm debating getting viagra just to get over the sex stigma, maybe pay a hooker or something to get over it for good. What should I do?
Don't want to fuck up sex with someone I actually like.

>implying this is bad
You feel alpha as fuck compared to cumming in a minute. Oh boohoo can't finish normally, just rip off the condom and wank it to finish.
>there are people who complain about being able to stay hard for long periods of time without cumming/going soft
kill yourself retards

Stop fucking gremlins

Masturbate dry and furiously daily for a few months, worked for me

Fuck you, I wanna finish inside my woman for once

Gotta learn to find your pace, if you cum quickly always be on top so you have control of the situation. Start making the sex, and when you feel yourself getting close to popping, either pull out entirely or stop humping if you can control it. And transition to some foreplay, start making out, suck on them titties. Sometimes if I've edged myself to much, I pull out and start eating the pussy to give my dick time to reset.

If you are going bareback you can check out, K - Y Duration Spray, doesn't work with a rubber on though...no personal experience just something I've read about it.

This, while it sounds ideal to fuck her until she cums three times straight sometimes what you (and her) want is a fill up

Focus on your hand and mouth skills and then you can do whatever the fuck you want with your dick.

It's been like 6 months for me since I last had sex, this chick i'm dating wants to bang. I keep avoiding it because i'm gonna cum in like 2 pumps. Plz help

fuck more often. Cant fuck? buy a flesh light. fuck that 3 times a day. try to last longer each time. you got to desensitize the tip. thats the only way youll last longer. all that bullshit about thinking about unsexy shit only goes so far. you need to calm the nerves of the cock.

>Start making the sex

My brother. I usually last an hour but if I get nervous and think about stamina I cum under a minute.

Add me on kik if you want serious advice on this, dont have time right now but i PROMISE i got some good tips - 015jake (can text in about 3 h)

>gorillas playing baseball?
My almonds have been activated.
Thanks user.

That shit is fucking afwul. Quitted years ago and started to treat the real cause not the symptoms.
I never really got full on impotence but as time went by it got harder and harder to come. Sensitivity decreased but erection stayed. My parter loved it but it was hell. RickandmortyMrNeedful.jpg

Thou it made enough of confident zombie to go out, change my identity, limiting beliefs and have epic 6 hours sex marathons and eventually a relationship with a small celebrity that had a crush on and to pick up 9.5/10 from a bar and fuck her hours and hours without even cumming once. Something i would never even imagined to be possible, being before anxious and having panic attacks with strangers

But still i would choose every fucking time being awkward, to have approach anxiety and to last less than 15 minutes in bed than to escape/supress life with ssri, sugar, alcohol, fast food, nicotine and compulsive gaming/movies , for what that is possible overcome with harder but better ways

>SUFFERING from premature ejaculation

it's not your fault when the girl you're fucking needs 20 minutes of continuous vibrations from a hitachi, a buttplug in her ass and a 8 inch dildo fucking her cunt to orgasm

>Can't jizz without having my feet fully extended
>Otherwise can go indefinitely at any pace
Feels good.

Edging, and don't cum at the end of the session

train your dick that stimulation does not equal cumming

warning I now can't come after 40 minutes unless someone sticks a finger up my bum

A lot of it is mental man. I've lost my boner and finished in less than a minute multiple times. I saw a doctor thought I had ED. Viagra was 600$ for full prescription. Dad gave me his which I didn't know he had. Used it once knocked it out of the park that one time and things went back to normal. No losing boners no finishing quickly. You just gotta get over that mental hump

This caused my hip flexors to get tight because I had to flex my legs and hips hard to get off. Now I'm stretching to unfuck my shit up. I mean, it isn't the whole reason my back and hips hurts nowadays, but it sure did help make the problem worse by far.

Can confirm.

if youre straight then fuck a dude, bed you dont PE then faggot

Hi
Ur fucking wrong

I quit my Ssris after thinking you can live life without them. You can't. You become a happy little neet who is incapable of basic motivation and dealing with basic social situations.

The panic attacks come back after a year so if you were employed (not likely) you wouldn't be able to hold a job anyway.

If they put adderal in the water the Gdp would hit 7% growth

wooooooow wait a minute
I do this so hard that my calves cramp up when I masturbate and can't come when having sex
is this the source of the problem?

Is this truth? me benis is smol (18x15cm) and i suffer from fast cums

>"and that's how i developed a new fetish"

mine is 25x15 and i don't.
buy a fleshlight and train alone.

>25x15

don't scare me user

CANT CUM AT ALL

ONLY MAYBE FROM LONG HANDJOB

PE + ED is the WORST combination. Years of frequent masturbation + poor diet + depression have ruined my penis.
I will say that I was in an LTR for 4.5 years, and had sex on average 6-7 times per week. Sometimes I would cum in less than 10 seconds, sometimes I made it three minutes.

i always try and nut fast, why do i wanna last longer? to pleasure her?
No thanks

>Can fap on /hc/ for like an hour
>ten seconds of actual sex

>My almonds have been activated.
>Thanks user.

Actually Pete stopped promoting food in general and is now pushing fasting as superior

Aquire more beautiful woman

>tfw the opposite
>tfw death grip masturbation has left me unable to come during sex
>tfw will never feel the feeling of exploding inside a woman from pumping her
>tfw tired of explaining that it's not her
>tfw blessing and curse

yeah this

the entire population of china and the usa could bounce off my dick and i wouldnt bust a nut

I find that if I've had a dry spell for a long while, it takes me about a week or two of regular sex again before I'm not nutting super fast. If you're about to cum, pull out and start fingering her.. or just cum, if you don't want her to fuck you any more.
>in b4 le beta male pleasuring a woman meme
women talk about guys they fuck just as much as guys talk about girls, and you can get a reputation as a 1-pump chump faster than you think

Cardio

Lemme guess you still wank every day

Stop it you faggot.

Taking your dick out and fingering actually is a beta move, user.

>jizz
>wait
>go again
Second boners are way harder than first ones, its some sort of blood magic.

I hadn't had sex in three weeks but the other day I got a bj and chummed in literally 30 seconds, felt so fucking good tho after all that time

There are lots of different treatment options for ED, PE and depression. You should see some doctors and find a treatment that works for you. It could make your life a lot better

Just get drunk

Travel safe pupper

Cardio, Paxil, Whiskey.

Pick 2.

>reddit sex advice

Not for me. My dick is painful and sore

>cum in 30 seconds jerking off
>cant cum inside vagina

once I defeat the urge to cum early (by slowing down/taking it out/flexing prostate or whatever), I can go on for quite long, sometimes I get almost unable to cum

Travel safe pupper

My fucking sides

Never been able to bust fat Nutts while having sex.
I dunno it just doesn't happen. When I want though I control it 100%, I guess women don't dislike me being able to hold for so long. It does feel kinda awkward though when you've been going at it for 2+ hours and you just start getting bored...

Wank not want you illiterate fuck

18cm? That's 7 inches. The average is like 5.5

this desu senpai.

death grip desu

"Want" still makes sense in a separate context you illiterate fuck

Are you me?

I blow in like 30s if I control the tempo, if my gf is doing it then it takes much longer.

How do i start cumming withing 30 seconds of masturbation or sex?

Shit man. My gfs sore by the time it starts to tingle, and even then it still takes another 20min. And I've all but given up on jacking off as it takes forever.

Cardio.

Kegels (30s full lock, and quick pulses).

Stretching..

>wondering what sex is like with full splits training

>Takes me at least 20 minutes to cum
>has been getting harder to keep an erection
I need to /nofap/

Cool man, doesn't really answer the question.

Nutrition.

>She cums several times
>Ends up exhausted
>She sits down and opens her mouth ready to receive your load because she is too tired to keep receiving the dick
>You cum a whole lot of creamy white paste
>She enjoys every bit of it, thinking that you are her man and the best at le sexy time

OH MAN THE CURSE

This.
>Tfw too ashamed to ask for a prescription for Viagra

>Girl I been seeing begs me to nut in her
>Takes like me 25 minutes of raw pounding her pussy
>she cums in like 15 minutes but let's me thrust away
>"please cum inside me, cum inside me baby please"
>let it rip

Anyone else know this glorious feel? Where are my don juans at?

shes not going to leave just because of that unless she's a total bitch, but it will contribute to overall dissatisfaction in a "veil has lifted" sort of way unless you bring in some toys to help

travel safe pupper

She doesn't beg for it but she has came from the feeling from me cumming in her.

She's bled a few times, she's 5'1 and I'm 6'1. Feels good knowing she still likes it though even though I'm close to breaking her

sounds like a whore.

>guys talk about girls
Do we really? I never brag about my sex life to a guy friend, it seems kinda cuckish? But girls do all the time anyway.

>But girls do all the time anyway.

can you explain what you mean byt this

Meant that girls talk about their sex life all the time.

How so?

But user, you are tired as well. Cardio kill gains.