Are women worth it?

Veeky Forums, should you generally go after girls, or will they all be gains goblins? How can I combat my loneliness while making gains.

Fucking a girl? Go ahead

Dating a girl? My philosophy is that the girl I want to be with will find me. Me trying to find her will only leave me unsatisfied with the result.

I'm not saying she will approach me and ask me out like in my japanese animes, but I'll see her there would be my oppurtunity to take it.

I had a year long relationship, sex every day balls were drained we always had fun ect.

Near the end she cheated on me with some frat dude and sent pictures to me. I ended it there as she cheated on me once before. I wasn't even mad just sick of her shit and the sex and fun wasn't worth the disrespect.

I say all this to say during the year of constant sex, food, drinking, and weed, while it was fun, it ruined my gains. I used to bench 225 lbs but now I struggle with 185 lbs. It took me an entire summer to detox and get my health back in line and i'm still recovering mentally from that BS.

Also keep in mind I was a weak willed faggot and let her talk me into alot of shit, even though when I met her I was fit asf and smashed bitches constantly. She was 21 and I was 19 so take that as you will.

Women are worth it only if you keep them last priority to everything else. I assume you're a young man, you should have 10000 other things to worry about other then a wet warm whole to stick your dick into (fitness, diet, work, hobbies). Focus on those first and ultimately woman who you truly enjoy being around will enter your life organically. You have to be okay with being by yourself first, and not putting pussy on such a high pedestal that if you aren't getting it, it makes you feel bad. If you aren't secure in yourself, its no way you're in any position to deal with all the problems and emotions of another human being. Worry about yourself and what you want to do and pussy will follow down the line.

t. Sex addict who just got out of a year long abusive relationship with a literally Stacy roastie and who is currently doing a 90 day nofap/nosex detox to get his mental state back in order.

Forget these thots, get fit and make money bro.

Why would she intentionally send you pics? Fucking cunt

He's a huge faggot for not leaving her after being cheated on the first time.

>I used to bench 225 lbs but now I struggle with 185 lbs
whooptiedo all you have to do is lift for a month and you'll be back. see me when you recover from a accident my nigga

Yes, just don't put pussy on a pedestal and treat her like an equal human being.

I've dated women who were completely unable to act as functioning adults as well as those who absolutely impress me. Everyone is still learning, have some patience, but be able to take a step back and look at the situation as a whole.

Also goes for abusive relationships. They can be tricky if you don't realize what's happening.

Why did vegeta do this to goku? I thought they were friends.

she sent them back I told her I wanted to break up with her and she was basically like "lol im fucking someone else anyway loser". Needless to say she came crawling back to me barely a month later when Chad was done with her, she wanted me to come over and have sex with her but I came over and just let her give me a handjob (she gives the best fucking handjobs jesus christ). Haven't seen her since but she still hits me up on facebook we are pretty neutral towards one another.

well we broke up before but she kept luring me back in with sex (the sex was bomb), and promises that she would do better and she needed me (she had some shit going on in her life and as her boyfriend I felt obligated to help). Things aren't always so cut and dry, but yeah I was a faggot for not cutting her off sooner. However I learned how to deal with bitches bullshit now and I have a handjob girl so it wasn't a total lose.

>she gives the best fucking handjobs jesus christ
What is this, elementary school?

>t. virgin who's never been touched by a woman

it was when the evil magician babidi let all of Vegetas repressed feelings for Goku out and made him evil again but not really he was just being an asshole. They ended up doing some really kinky shit in their fight.

>being neutral after getting cucked twice

C'mon man. Just tell her to fuck off for good

I will once I find another girlfriend or until she tricks someone else into a relationship. Its free sex when I want it though so why cut her off.

>How can I combat my loneliness while making gains.

you just answered your own question, slugger.

Nah, not that user but in my experience they'll give it a few quick strokes (most pull like they are trying to twist it off) and then see if they can fit it in their mouth. Srs why would you want a woman to give a handy j if shes got a mouth ass and vagoo?

Getting your dick wet isn't everything. She is getting some benefit out of this too.

>fuck bf
>cheat on bf twice
>be a disrespectful cunt to him while fucking another dude
>crocodile tear my way back to fucking my ex

If you're not her human dildo. Someone else will be or already is. I'd say, don't give her the pleasure of getting to fuck you. I'm sure you can find another girl.

you should have pumped her and kicked her out you fucking cuck. handjob? lmao

>see me when you recover from a accident my nigga
Ayy I know that feel my dude.
I was out of the gym for three months and was nearly bedridden the entire time.
My upper body strength was cut in half and my legs felt like they were at 30% strength.
This happened over a year ago so my chest is stronger than ever but my squats and diddles have yet to reach my previous working sets.

I specifically said she gives the best handjobs as in she actually knows how to give them. Clearly 99% of woman don't know how to give them which is why when you find one that does know how to give them you keep her for as long as possible. Her handjobs are better then her blowjobs. I have another girl who is a champ at giving blowjobs but suck as handjobs. I have other girls who can't do either but have good pussy, and other girls who can do both but have trash pussy.

Not all girls are plug and play sex dolls, it takes some getting a feel of each others strength and weaknesses. Porn gives the impression that every girl is the best at giving head, handys, fucking and everything when in reality most girls will be good at one or two of these things. If you ever find a girl thats great all around sexually and isn't a slut and a decent person marry her because you've found a literal unicorn.

>I'm not saying she will approach me and ask me out like in my japanese animes

Lowering the bar already user?

Next I bet you'll expect her to not say desu or wear an eyepatch

>"you are going to the gym again?"
>"why do you eat all this protein?"
>"where were you yesterday? running again?"
If she asks shit like that, run.
You can still find good ones though. My mate recently hooked up with a girl who is taking PT courses. Once she is done he promised start going to the gym again and I'm hoping she'll be able to make him stick with it.

I'm married and most days wish I was dead. I'd an hero if I didn't have weed.

Yeah, I still think you're a fool for even permitting hand jobs. Wasting everyone's time

They are not, no matter how sweet, how loving she seems in the end she will steal your most precious gains.

Your heart.

How do you let life get so bad?

>Also goes for abusive relationships. They can be tricky if you don't realize what's happening.
this

realized that i was in one, had to apologize for stuff i wasn't the culprit of, i gave more love than i have ever gotten back

I got married

So get divorced

I just paid $60k down payment on a house not too long ago that I'm not too thrilled about losing.

I haven't fucked her yet and don't plan on it. I specifically told her that her only purpose in my life is to give me handjobs if I want them. She agreed to the terms.

I want another girl and I'm seeing a few other women, but I'm mostly alone because im on a 90 day nofap/nosex fix my issues.

fuck her time, she wasted a year of mine. A few 30 minute handjobs aren't going to kill her, she can go be a slut after with whoever she wants.

if you're under 25 i doubt it, i'm 22 and i've only ever met brain damaged women who couldn't solve their own problems

26 guy here, somehow i always attract those with mild daddy issues. not the dyed hair, cutting ones but those that are emotionally incapable of giving love oder empathy it seems
really sucks

The only handjob I want is my girl grabbing my cock as she leads me into the bedroom
I can't blow myself, I can't fuck myself, and I sure as hell can't be jerked off by another person better than my own hand can. If her handjobs were really the reason you wasted a year with this bitch, you need to get better at your own damn handjobs

>the cuck being in any position to make terms

You're story is starting to sound like bullshit.

that's exactly it, you just said it better than i did, i've made a point to ask every potential GF i meet what they think of their parents, if they have parental issues i disappear faster than jeb bush during the election

good idea, but i can't seem to get out of this pattern it seems
if she in her teens tried to get acknowledgement from her father, run
if her father treated her more like a boy, has an immature or unemotional way of talking to her, run
had both of those, didn't end well

yeah, i completely agree

is it because we look, act or in some way show the girls that we're their father?
would love some psychfags opinion on this stuff

Why is everything so black and white around hear I see why you idiots don't understand women ands are lonely faggots.

Anyway to give you an explanation, it's called manning up and putting the bitch in her place.

well i don't look like a father, i may be 22 but i'm not an adult yet when it comes to looks, i surely know that i kind of act like a father figure to many, people naturally trust me, i used to like it but now i really don't because every relationship i have devolves into a psychologist-patient relationship and i don't fucking know why, everybody just tells me every fucking problem they have

yeah, same here really is weird if it's the way we act, or we dress or combination of something else
i mean, shouldn't it be a good thing that people can trust us?

it is damn it, but i'm starting to find it far too weird that every stranger i meet always tells me all their problems, i'm happy to help but it's just too weird, how is it even possible?
i even dress mostly in black damn it
it's probably the blond hair and the extraverted attitude now that i think about it

Agreed but what about a dead dad? Girl I just went out with had her dad die this summer. She also did say she thought she had an Elektra complex

Also her sister is a lesbian who she says doesn't talk to her anymore.
As I'm explaining this I'm maybe thinking run...

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fuck bro that sounds like a really though situation, i'd tell you to run but i know that i wouldn't because i would just feel too sorry for the girl

First of all you brag about free sex whenever you want then when some user told you to keep away from her you said its only handies and you wouldn't fuck her. Second of all, how about you at least get some oral you 12 year old.

>manning up
My ass.

>i would just feel too sorry for the girl
maybe thats why user, we have a lot of empathy towards other woman, maybe that's what attracts those kind of daddy issued girls

...well
shit

If dad dies the girl will lose her mind. I dated a girl for almost ten years we were going to get married. Her dad died and less than two years later she fucking our neighbor. Anecdotes though and totally depends on the situation. Is she mentally strong?

60k vs wishing you were dead

Seems like an easy choice, good luck tho

i feel like half of these stories are fake, idk
but seriously user what are you trying to ask? how to find a gf? you will have to be a rocket science to figure that out. just go out and ask her out. you can sense people who are wifey material and who are brainwashed with the trend.

>you can sense people who are wifey material and who are brainwashed with the trend.
you can't the girl from next door, sweet as a prune might look like wife material but she might be fucked up in the brain which you only realize years into a relationship

You must have missed the part where I said I only saw her once since we broke up for good and that was like two months ago. I've been seeing other girls she's just one option so it doesn't really matter she has no significance to me, she's on the back burner. It's called recycling hoes.

>Is she mentally strong?
Too soon to tell on this, she's in sales and is pretty firey personality / wit wise. Doesn't seem especially neurotic

>i would just feel too sorry for the girl
>we have a lot of empathy towards other woman, maybe that's what attracts those kind of daddy issued girls

I definitely have this repeating pattern. Dated a girl a year or so ago simply because she was SOOOO obsessed with me that I felt bad NOT dating her. Which is fucking retarded in hindsight. I've just never had someone appear to be so into me. (She dumped me a few months into dating, cut off contact, then reappeared months later BEGGING me to come back and giving me a 4 page long Love Letter explaining how I was the 'Eternal Love' etc) This girl also had daddy issues, single mother who raised her who decided to start dating a FtM tranny. So her father figure was a chick pretending to be a dude, no idea what fucked up shit that implanted into her psyche

Seeing other girls as FWB or serious relationships?

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fucking hell man
what the hell is wrong with people

Fwb obviously

mentally ill people are very recognisable, lol.

user just go in a busy area and observe people you'll can sense and figure out who is who. idk user you learn by making mistakes, just communicate till you make it. stop.

>have a handjob girl
I thought you were on nofap/nosex. As if getting heejs from this bitch wasn't bad enough. C'mon

I am. I don't use her anymore, therefore I don't see her. Anymore retarded questions?

Height, weight and lifts?

I hear girls usually cheat on men with a low OHP

5'7
155 lbs

Bench: 185 lbs (225lbs before relationship)
Squat: 310 lb
Deadlift: 400 lbs

Women cheat on everyone. I cucked this one guy who was bigger then me (which is 80% of guys at my college anyway). I lift because I want to be able to pick heavy things up, no for women.

Breh I feel you.

There was a day I had a girlfriend and was hitting mad sidepussy. I live in Eastern Europe and love Asians so I basically only fucked Kazakh/eastern Russian girls. My girlfriend one day went through my phone and found out.

Was mad as fuck, but I basically mustered the courage and was able to forgive her for finding out and being nosy.

I know it's beta but I feel you breh.

Pic related was me when I found out.

>doesn't post OHP

The rumors are true then.

Everyone has a low OHP

>Was mad as fuck, but I basically mustered the courage and was able to forgive her for finding out and being nosy.
>I know it's beta but I feel you breh.
Kek

>Being this much of a sociopath
Sorry you were born with a small penis

>no prenup

you done goofed

>are women worth it?
passing on your genes is

Prenups actually just get thrown out the second divorce proceedings begin.

Marriage is 100% a trick by the xx jews

Can make viable eggs from our own reproductive cells and grow them in artificial wombs now.

Ive never understood this logic

Girls you meet and fuck randomly are prolly either on the pill or want to use a rubber so they arent gonna get a kid in 95% of cases so why does this matter?

>inb4 relationship
Most relationships dont seem to end up in kids either, those girls are deffo on the pill so not an argument

>Most relationships dont seem to end up in kids either
just like most diets dont seem to end up in weight loss right? guess diets don't work!

Not even remotely close and doesnt in the slightest answer my question but ok