Finally land fulltime job

No it's not, give us your story then.

I go to bars all the time in my college town and meet new people. It's called not being an aspie faggot afraid of talking or meeting people.

Re-read the post you dumb faggot. The cage door is wide fucking open, you are no trapped or being tortured by anything other than the fact that you are just a dumb unimaginative nigger who can't comprehend making change for yourself.

> inb4 a bleu bleu my life is so sad I can't get gf when I make zero effort :((((

>It's called not being an aspie faggot afraid of talking or meeting people.

Well lucky you, neurotypical

It's ok bro a lot of people here are in the same boat. Stick it out, if you feel like you're at the bottom it can only get better from here right?

No fuck you, encouraging someone to live through daily torture that will never end by giving them false hope.

Not lucky, get over your fears of people. It's completely irrational and all in your head. Do some drugs to do a little introspecting.

>Lifting for women

This was the mistake you made. Lifting is a tool that HELPS you get women. It is not going to do the job all by it's self.

Don't fucking kill yourself because you made a simple mistake you faggot. If you really need a female companion that desperately just cut down on your gym time a bit and start socializing some more.

This is the highest I've been in years and it only shows me how low I am.

Holy shit you are a retard

Other than the obvious of "go get help", there's also the fact that people who are going to kill themselves would just kill themselves which leads me to believe this is either a cry for help, or for attention.

Any of the listed problems are easily, i repeat, EASILY changeable. Literally just stop going to the gym, quit your job while looking for a new one, and go out into the world to look for a girlfriend. If you have nothing to lose, then why not?

Suicide isn't a joke, if you're not joking, then seriously consider going to see a psychologist and really think about what you want from life while you're at it.

You do you though, if you want to do it, you'll do it regardless of any advice you get from anyone else. Just remember your actions will have consequences, try to not rush into permanent decision for what is most likely a temporary problem.

I've been memed by this bullshit before and done any drug you can name, they do fuck all. I've been to therapy, it did fuck all. You can't just fix unattractiveness, both physical and emotional.

>just throw yourself into crippling uncertainty while suffering anxiety and depression.
Stop posting.

Most of the people who fail suicide via jumping describe a feeling of immediate regret as they jumped. They realize how temporary and small their problems are. Juxtapose that with the idea of being literally nothing and it puts it in perspective. Grow a backbone and make some changes in your life for you.

Lower your standards then. Or get facial surgery to fix your flaws. There's literally no excuse. You don't have a mental disability dude just pound some phenibut and go out and socialize at top rated bars / nightclubs on yelp. Proximity theory is legit

Go be a bartender on the weekends. You will make some bullshit money and get to talk to drunk qts. Guarantee pussy.

K.

Heroin.
>user hasn't done heroin, because user is acting suicidal over the lack of a relationship.
You are ungrateful because you haven't lost the game yet.

T. Loser

My standards are low, phenibut does fuck all, facial surgery I'm weighing my options.

>physical unattractiveness
Well you are right.. can't fix that. What are you (honestly) on the scale?

The reason you don't have a gf is the same reason you made this post.

Enjoy your dirt nap faggot, even tho we all know you won't go through with it...

>go be an over populated job

Sure I'll just walk in and shake the managers hand.

Cunt, life is uncertainty. Boo fucking hoo that you can't know every single event that will happen in your future. Either deal with it or don't.

I'm not here to hold your hand, i'm giving you advice as a person who's been suicidal for a decade who stopped to think about it, it IS a PERMANENT 'solution' to a FINITE 'problem'. If you want to die, then i'm not going to stop you, i'm telling you that you should sit and think about it, not just blitz into this shit without a care because "hurr durr my feelings are hurt".

Existential Panics are normal, it's normal to be fearful of the fact that life is a piece of shit, not a single person asked to be born and some people just don't like living. That's fine. That's life.

Ultimately, if you can't handle the fact that you don't have some ultimate control over the universe and that life has its shit moments, then fine, whatever. But don't think that suicide is some fucking pretty and easy solution. It's fucking hard and it's the last thing you'll see, it's fucking heartbreaking to those you leave behind, especially to those who have to clean up the fucking mess. It's fucking childish to kill yourself before you put in the fucking effort to change. Go seek help, Go talk to people, GO THROW YOURSELF INTO UNCERTAINTY, because if your alternative is death, then you seriously have absolutely nothing to lose. And when and if that shit doesn't make you want to live, laugh in my face and jump from a tall fucking building.

Probably a 6 to myself which means a 4 to women.

Any couple I see in public the male is always more attractive than the girl, so it seems like I'm fucked.

I always thought I'd be a decent counselor or something, talk retards out of killing themselves. Reading this fuckwits posts makes me realize that I was wrong. What an awful job it must be, trying to not lose your temper while some ego riddled self absorbed victim makes excuses. I wonder if they ever just throw in the towel and go through the motions of the job but become apathetic to the outcome?

>Any couple I see in public the male is always more attractive than the girl, so it seems like I'm fucked.
I think you are just having confirmation bias. Also, would you be willing to post a pic or one to /soc/?

You don't understand suicide. Stop posting.

Think of all that fit gym pussy
Find a better gym with easy women

Right, I totally have no idea of suicide, as a person who's attempted 5 times. Whatever the fuck you want sunshine.

Not him but if you have attempted it 5 times and you're still alive, you clearly don't know anything about suicide...

Obviously you have no idea if you failed 5 fucking times. Just put the gun in your mouth.

Not that faggot, but how did you mess it up 5 times? What did your family think?

Girlfriends make you feel worse. Take up a hobby, skill, instrument or sport instead. Something where your improvement will be obvious and measurable.

Are you fucking retarded? Dumb un-attractive sluts who failed out of gen-ed courses in college become bartenders. Are you saying that even though you managed to get a full time job you can't manage to get a job that human trash gets? Just go into a bar and ask if they are short staffed on the weekends. Like 6 out of 10 bars are and they will probably hire you since you can prove you manage a real job.

user, wait...

Give me your stuff before you kill yourself.

3 time when i was 9 i tried drowning myself, knife up my wrist and swallowed some pills (turned out to be panadol). Needless to say, they weren't impressed, went to counselling when i was 10 and been in there up till i was 18. The other two times were just because I couldn't fully commit, I stumbled and I really didn't understand how to do it, so I did the knife thing again, but I only got a small gash that bled a bit.

My family didn't deal well with it, they broke down, our family was already dealing with my sister who attempted a few times as well, but ultimately, it just came down to me disappointing them and them sitting me down begging me to think next time.

It's fucking heart breaking looking back on it, there's so much wrong with surviving after an attempt, so many mental pains that come from simple things that i would have missed had I succeeded.

And when I started studying into how to succeed in killing myself, studying into methods, times, places, I made a detailed step by step for myself, I decided I wasn't ok, that i wasn't in the right mind, that I had a problem and seriously seeked help.

The reasons I failed was because i didn't want to bother a lot of people, i didn't want to jump into traffic, to jump off a building and risk hitting anyone on the way down. I'm in australia so guns weren't an option and chemical deaths didn't seem like a quick way out after reading up on bleach swallowing.

I'll admit I didn't have a good knowledge on suicide methods, but i know what the outcome looks like, what it does to others who are there to witness it. I've seen the pain, the grief, and what it's like to be in the mindset of "there's no other way". Its a horrible thing, it really is, especially when you unnecessarily bring others into it.

OK guys you talked me out of it thnx.

Diddly do it faggot

NOBODY FUCKING CARES

You can absolutely fix being emotionally unattractive. The advice you've been given is sound and effective, I just have a feeling you've never actually followed it.

Step up nigga.

Wow your genetics are piss weak for mental health. Don't procreate.

Good for you user. I'm glad that you didn't do the deed. How are your family now that you are stable? Marceline

Shit thread faggot

>pretty women get the job
k.
as a male, unless he's a total gymrat can make any convoluted drink while doing tricks, he ain't getting that job with no inside connections

My uncle has been a counselor for most of his life. It's a soul-crushing job if what he tells me is to be believed.

Didn't plan to. Don't wanna spread that shit.

The whole shebang took a massive toll on the family relationship, my parents divorced after it was all over.

I think honestly though, it's definitely better this way, we're all better now that we're not in such a destructive environment, and we all are healing our relationships with one another slowly.

I'm just glad that I lived, because I can watch my little sister grow up and see my nephew. A lot changes over the years, a lot more reasons to keep going, which could have never happened had I succeeded over such petty and finite reasons.

Thanks for staying based though, hope your life is good user.

Good talk m8, cheers.

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Listne to the lyrics of this song, it always helps me

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Im fucking serious when i say this here, so please beleive me. You can do it. I had to do it. When I was in highschool I had a few really traumatic experiences with psychedelic drugs that really ruined my confidence in my self and gave me terrible social anxiety. For a long time i would literally go months with only seeing the girl at the grocery store check out.

YOU CAN CLIMB OUT.

Your problem is you probably have really shitty models built up in your head of what it means to socialize. YOU DONT EVER HAVE TO STEP FOOT IN A BAR IF YOU DONT WANT TO.

You dont have to go to bars to meet people. Go to clubs, volunteer at the human society, take some classes. Fuck, go to church. Maybe you’ll meet some weird ass girl who will like your weird ass self :)

You like smaller groups with 4 people? Thats fine. Do that. Ive just recently got to the point where I can manage going to bbqs or events with more than 10 people and thats ok.

The point is, start small and realistic. People telling you "oh just go talk to 5 strangers every day" dont understand how utterly fucking terrifying that kind of unstructured situation is for someone like us. So i reccomend taking some classes. It doesnt have to be anything serious, something as simple as woodworking or a cooking class. ANYTHING THAT IS HIGHLY STRUCTURED IS GOING TO BE COMFORTABLE BUT STILL PROVIDE YOU WILL OPPORTUNITIES FOR HUMAN CONNECTION.

you need the human connection user.

I wish you good luck.

You'll make time if you really wanted it.

Bros, I'm seeing an escort tomorrow because I'm working 6 days a week and I usually can't seal the deal in a few hours.

Any advice for me?

>mfw

relationships are fucking overrated. did u ever have a gf? If yes you would know. 9/10 girls will try to suck the life out of you I can tell. I feel the exact opposite, I feel free like a bird now that Im single.

Hey man.

You seem like a nice guy, I'm happy that people like you still exist.

Best of luck with your life.

oh yeha? you go to bars alone in your college town and meet people? all those college students are really receptive to someone approaching them alone when they are with friends huh?

The real advice is here OP.

Why you gotta post this pic?
Too many feels, man :(

OP is a sniveling little faggot
He set a date for his suicide knowing that something between now and then will change his mind
If he was a man of action he would do it right now but he's not so he came to this board for pity

How much effort have you put toward a female that was worth continuing a relationship with? None? A smile?
I sat at the edge of the flatirons in Boulder down and out contemplating why I shouldn't do a flip with not a single person to call, disowned, hadn't eaten in weeks, ready to die, and that survival instinct kicked in and I found the motivation in myself to keep on
No I don't have a gf and life sucks, but I made the choice then and there that I'm going to ride this motherfucker until it stops and experience as much as I can
Once you get to that point minor inconveniences like OP is dealing with are nothing and you keep moving.
Stop whining and do something about it

You see this is what I don't like about "people" like you. You act like what you're going through is somehow unique like your suffering (and I hate to call it suffering because it diminishes what is experienced by those who have actually lost something or undergone something traumatic) is anything other than completely mundane.
Other people CAN'T go through the same negative emotions which you have and the same lack of self actualization because that will diminish the one thing which makes you you. You are truly stunted as a person if you identify yourself not based upon what you have done and what you can do but by lines in the sand which you have not crossed.
You are nothing special and nothing which you are going through is unique. Find something to build a personality around other than self pity and coveting that which you have not yet experienced because you think that THAT will make you happy.
As an aside if you are so much of a fuckup that you're ready to end it all why would you want to inflict yourself onto another person? You can't honestly think that you are in any way a pleasant person to be around and you clearly have a shit load of baggage. Why would anyone worthwhile waste their time with a wreck like you?

I'm in the same situation. It sucks because I can't even go out to places because I am self conscious of being alone.
>be me at steakhouse
>think everyone is eyeing me for eating alone
>overhear waiter say to my waitress "better be nice to him because he is alone"
>tfw beta and still gave a huge tip
I just want to go to a fancy restaurant and have a steak with a qt. Why can't I have that?

please dont. relationships are shit. they only decay and end. when do they become anything more.
Im at the same point and you need to do things for yourself.

Lmao women aren't worth it.

I will copy my post in another thread like that about your problem, and be fucking happy because getting a fucking girlfriend is a trap.

>want to talk? you have your friends
>want to have sex? have a qt3.14 with who you can have casual sex
>want to cuddle and all? don't be a faggot, you faggot
>want to talk about your feelings? call your fucking mother

Seriously, keeping single is the way to go. Don't kill yourself, you fucking faggot.

I didn't read the rest of the thread, but if you were my bro, I'd tell you that relationships are not all they're cracked up to be. Yes, they have some really great points, but they also have some really shitty points and take a lot of work to maintain. I'd also tell you that you will never be happy in a relationship until you can be happy on your own. There is so much to live for, and I know things suck right now, but you are going to make it. One day, you'll look back on this with your beautiful family and laugh.