How you holding up on this saturday evening Veeky Forums

Repostan from old bread
>Currently dealing with a severe wrist injury
>Scheduled for surgery in a few months.
>However, I might ALSO be looking at Rheumatoid Arthritis - this is where shit really gets bad, basically a step to lymphoma.
>Previously undergone surgery for other issue
>tfw young and body's collapsing. Might be able to lift, but never wrestle (again)
And
>got rejected by a girl.
>Normally I just lift away the feels till someone new comes along, but I can't due to aforementioned injury.
>She's very accomplished and well rounded
>Seeing her do things we would have done together kills me on the inside
>Can't do any other sport to get my mind off her either
>Stuck in a cycle of despair and anger.

I haven't told anyone outside my 3 closest friends about my injury and how I can't cope with the feels anymore. I don't have the heart to tell my lifting buddies about my wrist injury to be frank. They can't understand. I guess I wish I could redo the last 4.5 years of my life, so it doesn't end up so shit (and I would have probably never wasted time with my ex either DESU)

It's my third day of fasting.
I just like how my skin and mind are when I'm fasting, it gets healthy as fuck and I can focus better.

Fucking yes! Congratz man

hang in there. We all go through injuries.

Girl I've been seeing off and on just left me for second time in the last year.

>No friends at uni so I became completely dependent on her for my happiness
>All I do for the last two years since I've been in uni is lift and study
>I don't drink and I could never get into the whole frat bro party every weekend thing
>This girl was my absolute ideal, cute, smart, funny, down to earth.
>First time around, we wanted different things. I wanted a relationship, she wanted to go wild and have the "college experience.
>Literally not a week later she shows up to our lecture with some random guy, they grope each other and make out due on class.
>Tfw depressed as duck after seeing that, but at that moment I starting seriously lifting to deal with my anger
>End of freshman year, finally getting over her, made huge gains and doing great in school at this point.
>Meanwhile she failed some 1st year courses and looks the same if not worse than when we met, feels good.
>Sophmore year starts. She texts me out of the blue saying she's changed and all this bs about how she's ready for something serious.
>I stupidly believe this shit, take her back instantly.
>Date for a couple weeks, everything seems to be going well
>One day she just stops responding to me, later find out she's back with her Chad bf.
>Turns out she was using me to make him jealous.

The pathetic thing is even after all the shit she's put me through I still hold out hope that we'll end up together in the end. She's the only girl I've ever had a legitimate connection with and as beta and cliche as it sounds I really felt like we were meant for each other. Now I'm sitting in my dorm, absolutely furious and depressed at the same time, I know i should move on but it hurts so fucking much. All I want to do right now is lift these feels away bros.

Watching my university play college football, kind of miss being back there. Was a good time except for not having money ever.

Completed my second week of lifting (but been dieting much better and lost 65+ pounds since I started). Finally seeing some abs.

Overall not bad, wish my stocks were doing better but in due time.

Channel the anger into your lifts.
If you ever see her after class or something, confront her and tell her to her face what a shitty person she is for using you. It'll feel like a weight being lifted off your chest. I know it'll be hard but you should try and make friends, go to a frat party every now and then an just try to get to know people. You don't have to drink or anything.

Just got back from lifting, tried doing incline bench for the first time and used the same weight as my regular bench press warm up. Whoops! Luckily some Indian dude saved me from further embarrassment.

About to go to my first frat party in an hour, hopefully I don't throw up

Two tinder dates cancelled last min. Feeling pretty shit.

>moved to a new town across the country 3 weeks ago
>know nobody
>people at work don't want to hang out
>alone in my apartment on a saturday night in the prime of my life
how2meet people
everyone at my gym is a douche and everyone in my muay thai class is 40+ years old

its ok, just hangout with us user

Tinder

The new job is shit, I'm in my late 20s, I'm still DYEL and I'm tired as fuck from working 6 graveyards shifts in a row but I'm looking forward to the next opportunity.

Life's good mang. Got the coziest gym in town, everyone is bros and it has all the gear I could ask for. 2 platforms, 2 benches, 2 racks, shoulder and incline benches. Even a monolift. Has the whole "lifting in a garage with the bros" feel, can play whatever I want for music and go whenever I please.

Total cutie I met at wedding is crushing hard on me, we're staying up till 3 in the morning talking on the phone, feels like I'm a kid again.

Work is keeping me busy, just got a raise as well.

Lifes good guys, I hope you all feel what I'm feeling

Good advice, thanks man.

Kind of miss drinking and doing drugs on the weekends, but sacrifices must be made if I want to help turn this country around.

i got laid off tinder last weekend but nothing's happening this weekend

i just wish i had someone to go to bars with, i'm better at talking to people in person than over tinder

>balding at 20 years of age
what is the point of continuing on

Just cut it short or shave it. My last supervisor was in his late 20s, bald as fuck but pretty fit, he found a QT gf. Don't give up now.

Began SS from traditional lifting cause I moved to Wichita Falls and thought it would be fun to lift with Rip and the gang.

Only lifting 3 days a week and eating a ton. I just feel like a fat piece of shit.

embrace your baldness bro.
shave it off, give your dome a nice shine.
maybe grow a manly mustache

I'm already ugly and have a stupid head shape, I'm fucked

also I'd fucking kill to bald in my late 20s, literally been balding since 19

Feeling really good, been dating this chick for a while and for the first time in my life I feel like I can just be myself around a female.

Fuck man it can't be that bad, unless you have some hideously deformed feature you have as much chance as the next guy if you can be successful and charismatic.

Finasteride + Minoxidil.

Literally saved my hairline and even caused me to regrow a very slight amount. No side effects thankfully but not sure about the long term.

Listen to

It really isn't that bad. My hair started to go at 22. ive been shaving it since then. It's weird starting off, but you eventually get used to it.

This describes me perfectly. wew.

I don't want to fuck my hormones up but thanks user

>all these pansies complaining about losing hair in their 20s
>meanwhile I have arthritic joints in my 20s and have degenerative disk disease
>Hkv at 27

I'm fucking tired of myself brahs
>Sexually deviant because been addicted to porn for 10+ years
>Isolate myself from everyone. Known as the silent guy at work
>Probably have some kind of personality disorder
>Content in daydreaming instead of taking action
>Have only like 2 friends that i've known since highschool

help me lads

out of town girlfriend is nice and all but theres another girl i met that i have urges to risk it all for

i need some #lad advice

If it's thinning just take a #4 comb and buzz your head

have a cold but still gonna go out with ma boys to get pussy. Not looking forward to it desu.

If your current girlfriend and you are fine then don't throw it away over some pussy. If you think the other girl and you could have a good relationship and your relationship is on the way out then say fuck it and go for it. Alternatively you could try for a threesome.

At a bar drinking vodka seltzer. Too many people here. Ian trying to be more social, but my anxiety is making things worse. Fuck fit, how do I socialize with groups of people?

Stop following your ex bro
I blocked mine on everything months ago and I still struggle and sometimes feel tempted but there is nothing positive to gain from it man
STOP

Update, my team lost a close one. But not gonna drown sorrows in booze. NOT THIS TIME

#lad advice:

Don't do it. If you wanna hook up with someone else, just break up with your gf

drink more. See attractive girl. Go up to her and say some nonsense.

she lives 2 hours away and im wondering if its worth it but shes great in every way and i actually dont wanna hurt her :(

My balls are empty and my wife is 2 weeks late. Probably got baby #4 on the way.

Try nofap. It helps for people who chronically masturbate.

To keep on topic. I'm doing good. I hit a bench pr today. I am still weak but it's getting better. I would like to make some friends eventually tho. Besides the constant existential thoughts I'm doing okay.

got a little too drunk and lost my virginity too a 2/10 landwhale last night. Veeky Forums I feel disgusted with myself.

What kind of nonsense?

Think of it as exp

Ask her what a good shot is and then order 3, give her one and drink 2.

Ya, I know. In any other situation I would've completely cut her out of my life until I was over her. But she wanted to still be friends.

Plus, she's the type of person who would check who I follow/am friends with on social media, and if she saw that I unfollowed her she would flip the fuck out.

Writing that all out tho, you're probably right. I should just cut all contact.

you better be white

Some people are lucky and get a sweet car for their first time, but most people end up being the 14th owner of some beat-up old shit box. Losing your virginity is no different.

literally anything. theres a copypasta on Veeky Forums about me where i once got super drunk at a party while home for the summer and told my high school oneitis the entire plot to Ulysses by James Joyce while she was holding my arm and saying shit like "lets finish this story upstairs user" to which i would shush her and say some shit like "no just wait. wait. the next part is great! Bloom goes to a library and proves God exists through calculus!" etc

literally say anything at all user, just make it something you can speak passionately about and theyll be drooling

this is the reddest pill you will find on this website btw

Gimme a pickup line

"A-are you from Tennessee..?"

"Umm no?"

"H-haha okay..."

then go back to your stool

>hit 1 pl8 squat after ~2 weeks doing SL 5x5 (I'm a 6'1" lanklet,) just started lifting
>generally excited by gains and looking forward to future
>qt from work was eying me last I saw her, gonna ask her out tomorrow

It's a good feel

Yup, and all my kids have blue eyes. My daughter even has blond hair.

I never used pick-up lines. I just started talking to random girls. Usually I would make a funny comment about something retarded someone is doing. I'm a pretty funny guy.

I'm sad and alone, and cannot stop protein farting

The idea that it was my first time doesn't bother me too much. I feel ashamed that I let my cock enter such a thing. I feel violated.

did you at least have a good day

Just lower your standards. Just don't lower them enough that you consider dating fat girls. There's plenty of mediocre women with realistic expectations.

Do jiujitsu with gi to make solid friends. Gi keeps the fuckboys away.

I bet your dick felt good about it tho.

I feel great. This morning me and the gf went on a walk in the 45 degree cold and watched the silent fog move through the mountains (West Virginia). Then I literally read from 10AM to 8PM. It was a good rest day.
Got church in the morning with the family and then I'll probably go for a nice long run.

Hope all my Veeky Forumsbros did their best today and are ready for cozy and restful sleeps.

Yeah it wasn't bad, did back this afternoon

I'll try this, but I'm kind of a sperg so it might not work well

I wanted to fucking vomit afterwards

Just get in the habit of thinking before you speak. I'm literally a clinically diagnosed case of severe aspergers. Took me years to learn to think before I spoke. I'm lucky that I have a high intelligence tho so I'm pretty high functioning. Just run what you are about to say through your head and if it sounds retarded think of something not retarded to say.

Clearly your dick wanted to vomit before you fucked her more than you wanted to vomit after you fucked her.

this, a girl once tried to cuck me with another dude. came and said it to her face. no more relationship with her but jesus it feels good that i didnt just stand there and take it.

debating letting some potatoes sprout and go green so i can have the cheat meal that will end my life, but other than that decent.

>I skipped a chance to go out with the boys because I wanted to stay home and watch the game which we lost terribly and now I'm drunk and depressed.
>couldn't find a spot because no reserved spot and it's game day (university)
>parked a mile away from house at a property I know the owner but not the person living there
>might get towed
>haven't had my car all week and the day I get it back there's a ticket on it for sweeping

fucking end it lads, gym gains ain't shit when you're down for a day. I finished my CCW license training, I can't wait to walk around with confidence soon.

kekkkk

I played awkward jenya with some sloots. Help

Just keep improving yourself, that's all that matters

Don't shit where you eat

Just don't be yourself. Be someone you imagine would be fucking all those sloots at the same time later. Don't be an asshole, but don't be too interested in them. Also don't buy all the rounds. Just be cool. If you go for a piss, go talk to your friends instead of rushing back to them. You don't want it to seem like they are your only option.

That's the thing bro, I offered to let some people I'm starting to get more familiar with into my place and they commented on how well I have my shit together and if women knew what I had and what I did I would be taken instantly. I guess I just gotta push that autismo border.

Just live where all the females are dumb as shit

So... America?

>22yo
>senior in a college with over 20k students
>physics major so classes are just dudes
>kissless virgin
>sitting in my place alone while my roommates are out
>no friends here
>gym is closed

fuck this. i wasted my 3 years here and am about to waste the 4th. i wish i could do everything over again. i would pledge a frat (most important thing imo) and join a ton of clubs. this looming feeling of having wasted my college years (which i fucking did) is stressing me out and eating away at me.

I have anxiety (in general) with food/cooking; always worrying Im under or over cooking.

Ended up throwing out about a pound and a half of chicken after cooking it for over an hour...it just seemed 'off' and not cooked properly. So Im now sitting here stewing over the wasted food (I hate wasting food) and the wasted 5 bucks (I hate wasting money.)

My Saturday is ruined.

this vid may help you out in the future. it had a pretty big impact on me
youtu.be/b-a1jXgAsQI

Go to bar
Become a regular
Just talk to her; say hello
Baby steps bro

do this

jesus fuck this me

sex in the dark?

did you get it in?

you didn't eat her out did you

Everyone ends up banging some broad they dont feel that great about.

Just move past it.

>oneitis sealed my fate tonight

That sucked it was just be a male and have money. Motivation like that does not work irl

i'd just rather stay a virgin than fuck a landwhale desu

>math major in 4th year too
I feel like I wasted my first 3 years, girl-wise and lifting-wise. Now that I'm much less socially retarded and better looking, I really want to talk to grills, but I keep making up excuses to not to. I probably shouldn't even focus on girls at all since I'm in the process of applying to Masters programs, but I feel like thats another excuse. I have that looming feeling too bro

but it wasn't at all? take another look when your alone and sober

it's honestly starting to make me feel really depressed. it's just getting worse. i used to be chill about everything and just took things as they come. nothing really bothered me. but now i have no motivation to do anything. the only things i really do anymore are watch netflix, go to the gym, and do my homework/study. i get really frustrated and angry at the smallest things too. i also stopped feeling empathy sometime during my years here. i realized that people don't care about me, so why should i care about them?