Bros I need help. I cum in literally seconds...

Bros I need help. I cum in literally seconds. Within 10 stroke I finish and no amount of masturbation makes me last longer.
Do I need to do more cardio?
Heavier lifting?
Pls, I have a girlfriend and I don't want her to get bored and leave me.

I'll try anything.

take anti depressents for the complete opposite problem

I just cum, put on a new rubber and go right back in

>finish really quick
haha, oops, that usually doesn't happen, let's go again in a minute
>kiss her and finger her for a bit
>get hard after a few minutes
>fuck again
>I can last all day now
try it. OP

Take antidepressants for what?
I've tried. I've fucked her 3 times in the span of 30 minutes and I never last longer than a minute. I'd be okay with 10 or 15. Do I have a problem?

you habe an benis problems. erectile dysfunction.
inject trenbolone in the benis for muscle strentgh

No prob getting hard. Just finish too quick.

Do your kegels.

Psychological fight or flight response. U feel u dont deserve the girl so u cum as quick as possible in fear of consequences which in nature is the alpha male catching u and killing u. Or you wont get it up at all which is another flight response.

God damnit, I had a nice reply written up for you before my browser crashed. tldr version:

Try to regulate your breathing and stay calm. The more you worry about the issue, the worse it gets in the long run. I know this from personal experience. Also before you get down to the dicking, take things slow; go down on her and/or finger her for a bit (hell, make her cum if she'll let you before she begs for the D).

lol shes probably texting another guy right now..Women hate a bitch boy who cums too quick.

>I cum in literally seconds.
Vid for proof

Thank you for being helpful. I'll give it a go.

You are not nice, sir.

No

Where obtain?

No, make her do her kegels, then you can make her cum just as fast

Dapoxetine is an SSRI. It is an antidepressant that also is used for premature ehaculation because it can delay orgasm

Do math in your head while you fuck her. It works magic

sing the spongebob theme song in your head, if you still come in 30 seconds then you are gay/ japanese

sorry forgot to say no homo
no homo
plz post vid for proof

They sell desensitizing spray on amazon. I can last a decent while but two spritz' of that shit on the head of my dick and i can go for 30 minutes full piston.

I once did like 8 sprays and i actually couldn't keep an erection because i couldn't feel anything lmao.

Look for stud 100

>Bros I need help. I cum in literally seconds. Within 10 stroke I finish and no amount of masturbation makes me last longer.


I don't know, man. If you can't figure out your own dick......

I used to finish quick too bro.
I was so used to just trying to get the job done while wanking, that it transferred over into my sex life. I've found that 2 things have helped my greatly
1) go noporn. You'll find that you fap less and it takes you a bit longer to finish
2) try and distract yourself during sex. Don't ask me why, but my go to distraction is to imagine that I'm playing smash bros. It's always little mac vs mewtwo, and I'm controlling little mac.
Just find the right rhythm for your girl and then get the distractions going

Pegym.com is thaddaway my man

cum a second time?

...

Pretty much that.
I am guessing you havent had sex often and are deep down insecure about it, your dick or yourself.
Happend to me to at the beginning only if you get more confy you can keep it up.
Practice makes perfect like with everything in live.
Do Hope your girlfriend loves you enough to help you out

Cant you just go for round 2? If thats an option tell your GF to make you cum during foreplay - you'll have time then to regain your edge while pleasuring her.
I could barely last 2 mins with my last gf first round so i resorted to doing this when i felt a marathon fuck was needed.

If you cant go for 2 rounds try jacking it 1 hour before having sex ... it should at least help somewhat

take control buddy

focus on your own enjoyment and set the pace yourself, when you feel yourself close to cumming slow down, get into a new position or just simply pull out

also train your dick muscles

Just finish and go for another round

>8 SPRAYS

Get some viagra

Solid advice

Literally stop masturbating and stop watching porn completely. Only browse Veeky Forums on Veeky Forums

But Veeky Forums is gay porn senpai

Look into kegels and reverse kegels especially. If you're like me, your PC muscle (the one you squeeze to stop peeing) is weak and involuntarily spasms and squeezes when you're nearing orgasm. Get on dem dere kegels and you can learn to control it. Reverse kegels are important to balance it too. Also focus on controlling your breathing, take deep slow breaths.

How do I solve the opposite problem lads? I fuck for over an hour and it starts to get uncomfortable for her. Is it deathgrip? If so, how solve? I tried nofap for a week but after day 5 I lost my libido, which is also not helpful...

>Stop watching porn
>Jack off less, or not at all before youre expecting to get laid
>buy condoms that fit correctly
Problem solved

Make sure you aren't tensing your muscles in your ass and legs. You're probably doing this without realising. Just totally de-tense all your muscles when you're having sex. Make sure you control your breathing as well. I've found that if I get this under control when I first penetrate I can get in the right mindset and last for ages.

Everyone will have off days and come quickly, just make sure your oral game is really good and don't let yourself get embarrassed by it (this is very important if you want to see her again, she won't want to be both disappointed AND have to deal with a moody guy sulking in her bed).

If it becomes a massive problem I'd recommend going to a doctor and asking about getting a script for anti-depressants. Doctors can prescribe them off label for pre mature ejaculation so don't feel the need to lie about it. What will probably happen is that you'll get used to having sex and you won't need to take them after a few goes, just try not to become dependent on that kind of thing.

Like many suggested go to a doctor for ssri's. I was scared of my docs talkig about sex and touching my balls and stuff too but its a legit problem that sliperry slopes into more problems.

Its just a few times on ssri's you have sex too. You last long during medication and it usually carrys over really well to when you stop taking it.

Idk on hella venlafaxine and I nut on command

I mentioned this on Veeky Forums before and it sounds kind of cucky but if you focus on making her feel good you won't come as fast.

Also if you use positions that may not be as comfortable for you helps.

ask me for more tips cause i used to have the same problem

sauce

After you have sex enough times(especially with the same girl) you'll get less sensitive. Studies have shown this apparently.
Also are you uncircumcised? That may have something to do with it too(more skin and nerve endings)

Why do you care about lasting longer?
You can eat her pussy, you can fist her, etc...
You got memed into thinking sport fucking is what bitches want.
Just 30 minute foreplay and fucking cuddle her afterwards

Kek

>plays video games inside head instead of focusing on sex with women

is this autistic or chad as fuck?

8 SPRAYS C'MON

not that user but if you want to last longer just think about other shit, I think about boring things like baseball

Stop thrusting often. Go as deep as you can on her and move your pelvic area in a way that you will be rubing her clit.
Take it out a few secs, put it in, repeat.
Dont take it out when she is near orgasm, just keep rubing.

Most of this advice is fine but what you really need to do is learn to give the lickaroo. Give her at least one orgasm with a lot of foreplay/buildup, then the pressure's off you to perform. Read the book She Comes First for brotips. Make her legs shake, she'll make you go crazy nawmean.

Venlafaxine is an SNRI. For maximum dick-killing effect you need a pure SSRI, like paroxetine. Trust me, there'll be no nutting on paroxetine.

It's death grip. I have the same problem. Gf loves it and jerks me to finish.

As a short fuse myself a couple things that worked for me

>stop thinking about sex while you're having it.
>ex. Stop visualizing what's happening or don't think about and visualize that killer blowjob from earlier when your on top.
>it's kind of like porn and hyper sexualizes me so its way too much sensory overload and make some me come faster
>look into meditation and breathing techniques
>use it to not take yourself out of it but to control your pace, rhthym etc

>tfw she gets to enjoy it completely while I have to solve differential equations in my head to not bust in 5 minutes flat
You didn't prepare me for this, Veeky Forums.

>that feel when bad at math
I'm fucked.