Anyone else kind of hate their parents for putting them at such a disadvantage? I'm talking fitness...

shut up weebshit

I just don't like that my dad didn't teach me none of his 8 fucking fluent languages.

Also hate that my mom allowed me to be fucking obese and slack in school cuz fear of bullies instead of just forcing me to change skewls.

Otherwise I had pretty awesome parents with Chad and Stacey genetics

Yes! Ive been thinking about this alot lately. They never really teached me anything. Also they let me quit too easily.

lol

I blame them for whatever happened while I was under their roof. Afterwards, even if it was as a consequence of what happened there, it is all on me. I have told my parents as much, and I have told them that if they want to feel proud of my achievements, they need to take responsibility for the bad things I have in my life as well.

I have so much anger towards my parents. I just want to say so many hurtful things to them but can't bring myself to do it even though i kind of hate them. I don't want to make things worse but I just want them to feel some of the pain they've caused me. I was happy when my dad's girlfriend died of cancer because he felt some really deep pain.

Yup
They homeschooled me which fucked me up academically
They got us evicted from my house I grew up in, had to move in with a family friend, during all that they got a divorce which fucked me up emotionally since I was like 11
I've lived in 9 different places since 2010
They fucking suck

I wish I had a little more guidance growing up to be honest. Both my parents worked a great deal and I was kind of listless in my teenage years, I've had to learn everything the hard way.

Trust me, you'd still be an autistic faggot even if you went to a regular school.

You are a bad person. Remember that.

no. i hate myself for petty things like hating other people for things that i can control and change in my life. sad. pathetic.

I was homeschooled too

I'm mostly sad that I didn't have many opportunities to make friends.

They chose to have you. You had no say in it and then you expect to be thanked for that?

My parents were hyper critical of everything i did or wanted to do like i wanted to play football but my dad said my neck was too long, or when i told him i wanted to start going to the gym he told me if i get big everyone will want to fight me, or i want to be a police officer but he said everyone will hate me and i won't have any friends except for other police.
That is just three examples of a lifetime of him rejecting my interests and because my own father didn't believe in me i thought i must have been stupid for wanting to do those things so i never tried and i just sat in my room playing video games all day.
It wasnt until i stopped telling him things i enjoyed and just started doing them that i actually started enjoying my life but that wasn't until i was 22. He had put me down for so long i missed out on so much.
I dont even talk to him any more and haven't seen him for years.

Keked hard at this one.

My parents were too liberal to give me much direction in life. I think all boys fundamentally wish for some hero, someone who's a bit authoritative to guide them on the right path and be a great role model. Parents have checked out in a lot of cases and just let the jew raise their children. It's a shame.

Anyways, I love my parents now that I'm an adult, as they are just very kind people, but I will not raise my kids the way they did. I want to be very involved and for them to look up to me.

Damn, that's rough. Sorry, user. I'm glad you broke free eventually.

>some guy blew his load and forgot to pull out in some whore, like billions of other guys in the world who do the exact same thing
>this is considered an accomplishment

fuck outta here

Do I hate them? No. Do I resent them for not being wealthy, intellectuals, professionals, or just generally upper class? Absolutely.

I remember I was passing out all over the place when I was younger because I wasn't eating enough.

"I don't have time to buy groceries."

Yeah, well, I don't have time to love you.

>Dad was a gambler that made us poor by spending almost all of the family money on betting
>Groped me when I was a child
>He was never really in the household usually
>Mom was an obese whale that just took it and passively raised me while letting me develop horrible eating habits
>Removed from home at 15 by child protective services because they found out that dad groped me
>Not enough evidence to get a conviction so he's free
>Now living with aunt and uncle at 27 years old because I need to finish college

I fucking hate my parents.

My mom is a mentally ill, neurotic, hateful woman, who has a problem with everyone and everything but sees me and her as a unit and against the world. It disguists me to no end. She guilts me any time I try to develop some independence, especially if it goes against what she thinks my life should be like, a favourite line of hers is "you are only doing this because you see X doing this" as if I have no will of my own.
She'd criticize and condemn any people I tried being friends with except some losers like myself, and then be surprised I was never welcome anywhere and never had any friends.

My dad is a spineless wimp who lets her completely shit on him and humiliate him and never stands up for himself or even walks away when she's being a bitch.

I can't afford to move out at the moment, as it's either that or finishing university, I hope I can endure another 3 years with them.

The only lessons I learned from them are examples of what not to be.

My parents gave me everything I have so uh... no?

let me guess op, you're a subhuman nonwhite?

fuck off man, some people actually have bad parents.

>Allowed me to be obese
Like the numerous rolls of fat; that's on you

Fuck. At least you have the aunt and uncle, user, and hopefully you have some respect for yourself. I hope you do, or will at some point.

I think jews are the worst thing in existence, but I also think there are some terrible, terrible white people that deserve bullets in the head (see pretty much everyone in DC or on the television). I've worked with a trouble kids volunteer place for a few years, and there are some awful stories I hear from, yes, even the white kids.

Tell her shes a bitch straight up next time, then leave to give her time to think without arguing to give her ammunition against you

be proud of where you come from my dude. nothing worse than some self hating asian/asian fusion.

POV of a complete loser autist here

I'm your typical pathetic loser you think of when you think of Veeky Forums. 25 years old, kissless virgin (never even asked a girl out), no friends since I was 12, basically a shut in my whole life, shit job, bitter, miserable autist, etc

My parents provided a ton for me financially (upper middle class, went to nice schools, vacations every year, paid for my entire college tuition, father gave me 50k stock portfolio when i turned 21), but besides financial support, they really didn't do much for me.

My mom just doesn't really care about anything besides her work. I graduated from high school 5'7" and 115 pounds because in my childhood my mother would frequently literally not let me eat more dinner if I was hungry because she wanted there to be leftovers the next night so she didn't have to cook instead of me having enough to eat. I went to college with access to the all-you-can-eat cafeteria I gained 15 pounds and 2 inches in height within two months.

But my father is by far the worst. He's a hypocritical, narcissistic, selfish short tempered asshole who seems to hate people and he passed all these traits on to me..Me and mom have disliked him as long as I can remember since I was a child because of what a short-tempered complete asshole he is. I have no happy memories with him. Every vacation we had turned miserable because of him. Any time I would ask to do "bonding" activities with him he would tell me he didn't want to. In my 25 years, I have never once seem him do a social activity with someone besides my mother. I literally don't even talk to him even though we live in the same house, because talking to him literally makes me upset with how much I dislike him. In fact just last night he was screaming at my mother and twisting her arm behind her back because he didn't like something she said. He gets upset at how I'm angry and yell all the time, when he is literally exactly the same.

(1/2)

Eh, it's fine to be proud of yourself, but it's also another thing to recognize that mixing is just not ideal at all.

I did that once, she started hitting me, and when I tried to leave she'd just stand at the door.

I nearly punched her that night, I legitimately wanted to kill her, but I tried not to do anything I might regret.

(2/2)

In a way i'm happy I'm their only child (father was 39, mom 33 when I was born) because I don't feel anyone would grow up normal with this household so I'm happy I'm the only poor soul who had to suffer through this. They never taught me any skills or life lessons (never even taught me how to drive). In another way, I'm sad because only children have a stigma of turning out to be social autists so I would like to know if it's just me (probably) or actually my upbringing and a sibling could have changed that (also have a very small extended family I rarely ever see or talk to, once a year at most)

But after all that I don't really blame my parents for anything, I take full blame and responsibility for turning out so worthless and feel bad for them that their only son is a worthless pile of shit like me

Sorry for the blog post.

Self respect and self esteem are my weakest lifts.

I finally lost all the weight from my shitty eating habits at 24 and was no longer invisible to girls. Hell even now I'm told regularly that I have a nice body (5'9" 173 lbs 13% body fat) but I still lack MAJORLY in the confidence department. Being a 27 khv who's pretty poor with a shit job will do that to you. I try really hard though - hopefully will finish school in the spring and work on paying back my loans. Literally all my parents did was provide a roof over my head - they taught me literally NOTHING about how to properly live life.

Any anons know have some tips for overcoming anxiety? I tried talking to this qt chick at the gym the other day and I literally ended up sputtering like an idiot. Shit sucks - I really want to train my social muscles.

Honestly, user, at your age I would visit one of the Chinese parlors, pay the 80 bucks for the massage and for her to touch your dick. I think it will be psychologically releasing to finally be in the presence of a woman in this way, and could hopefully translate into the real world as well, when you realize it's really not all that big of deal. But you've probably made it such a big deal at your age, that you need to do something like this to ease into being sexual with women.

as a 25 year old permavirgin, its not really just as easy as "dude just go to a hooker/massage parlor and have it happen then everything will be fixed"

i know that sex isnt a big deal, the problem is overcoming not only your fear of not knowing what the fuck you're doing when it comes to sex or even kissing, but overcoming your entire past of rejection/isolation and even feeling like you're worth trying to do anythign with a girl who has a ton of other options than you

My mom was great and did the best she could with me with a career working full time. My dad on the other hand was not so great. He wasn't a shitty dad, I know he loves me and he provided for me and gave me a good life. But I can't remember off the top of my head any time having a real father/son bonding experience with the guy. Never really tought me shit about life and how to live it. Didn't really soend a whole lot of time with me. Didn't do shit that a dad should do with his son. I turned out ok but I know I will approach thing way way way different when I have kids.
I feel like I can't connect with the guy now. Feels bad man

You need to get over it or let it consume you. Those are your only options. I lost my virginity at 25, and the girl was amazed I was a virgin. You just get over yourself and do it. Your body knows how to behave naturally once it's in the setting, as long as you don't wig out in your head space.

And yes, I do really think finally having Mei Ling Wei stroke your dick would be very "healing." Don't knock it till you've tried it.

There is nothing more pathetic than an adult who blames his parents for his own problems. Move the fuck on.

>You just get over yourself and do it. Your body knows how to behave naturally once it's in the setting, as long as you don't wig out in your head space.

dude i look at amatuer porn videos, see normal sexual positions and literally do not even understand how they work or how to move my bod. missionary position astounds me

Simple observation: YOU THINK WAY TOO MUCH. Get out of your head, which is why I suggested the massage to the other user - it's physical experiences you all need.

Would you recommend a massage parlor for a handjob or an escort where I could actually penetrate a woman?

Fed me to be fat until I was 13 and started realizing I needed to exercise and lose weight

I'd do the massage parlor, especially if you're already too much in the head. Consider: you get a nice body massage for over an hour, so she's already put you in a relaxed state and been touching on your body, and then you get the nice happy ending. If you were to go with the prostitute first, it's a lot more pressure on you.

Btw, here's a tip on the parlors. First you must go to one you know gives hand jobs (obviously), then a must is that you have to get naked in the massage room, don't keep on underwear. Lastly, she should kind of creep her hands towards your genitals, and if she does that make it known it's welcomed. And I don't know what the rate is in your area, but you always tip at least 40-50 here, in addition to what it cost for the hour massage.

Hope you have fun! I do it sometimes even just for the nice experience of the massage (which is great for those who exercise and play sports a lot) and the happy ending is just a bonus.

I bet you also listen to Greenday still you fucking cringelord

No, I don't blame others for my problems like some faggo-tier democrat getting high on identity politics.

yup still i didnt ask to be born

Holy fuck you people have issues. My parents weren't perfect, we do have a family history of diabetes, but I don't outright hate them.

The ubermench is not given user its earned

>confirmed to never make it

You stupid retarded nigger faggot cunt, How was a 10 year old supposed to know anything about fitness or nutrition if he was never taught and her mom brought him pizza and tendies for dinner? Kys

This. My parents weren't terrible, they raised me fine. I wasn't beaten (much) they weren't addicts or alcoholics, provided me with food and shelter, and even shown concern when I was a chubby kid. My school performance have been watched, and I have been scolded when it wasn't good enough, Until primary school at least.

I just wish they would have thought me anything about interacting with others. My dad never really taught me how to speak with women, and I have never received any support for anything I have expressed an interest for. I remember my parents always sparing time to sit down with me, and explain to me why the thing I want is not actually good and I don't really need it. I know I couldn't have been always right, but there is no way I was always wrong. The cool toy in the store when I was 8? Okay. The 4th fucking profession I tried to decide on as a lost teenager? Come on.

I remember spending my late teens trying to look for an idol, personal hero whom I could relate with, and show me the way. Until I've caught myself growing up and realized that even if I found someone now, there is no way I could be like them.

So in conclusion I uphold some grudges, and not happy about the psychological problems I have inherited from them, but still. They were alright parents. Aside from their obvious mistakes I will never forget, I hope I can do as well as them when the time comes.

My parents are really nice so I probably shouldn't complain but they never disciplined me or my sister. I never had to do anything. Virtually no chores and I didn't have to get a job. I'm getting my shit together and trying to work harder though. My sister has it worse, if someone disagree with her she instantly raises her voice and gets mad. Also my dad knew I was doing drugs and he never said anything.

Dad always thought my mum cheated on him and I wasn't his kid. Angry asshole, would hit me all the time for no reason, and then would often hit me harder for doing something wrong. For example being punched for brushing my teeth "wrong". Well I lived scared of doing anything around him so I just shut up and did nothing all the time, obviously turned into one of those shy quiet kids with no social skills. Worst part was my brother got similar and took it out on me, and would hit me all the time too, especially when I did better than him, which was often since I'm very naturally gifted in academic subjects. Eventually I learned to stop trying in school and shit, going from the top of the class in everything to a bit above average, would constantly sabotage my own attempts to be better at anything. Ended up a pathetic failure wouldn't you know. When I made my first friend in school, we were close, so I thought it was only natural to hit him all the time. Looking back at it I bullied and emotionally manipulated that kid, no wonder he broke away from me the second he got the chance. I just thought that was natural, but I really regret it now. Nearly 20 and starting to get my life back on track, moving out of my house soon and going to uni so hopefully I can return to my natural self at least a little.