Anyone here ever get erectile dysfunction?

I've been through this. Your subconscious is putting pressure on you to perform, creating performance anxiety. Do you watch porn much?

At least there's all kinds of medication for that. Premature ejaculation is a hell I wouldn't wish on anybody.

not really, the downside to ugly women is having to be seen with them in public, but in the bedroom no problems.

dated a 8/10 a while ago, blond blue 5'10 and her cunt damn near smelled up my apartment every time we fucked. big turn off, thought it was a one time thing but it happened every time we'd fuck.

dated a 9/10 beaner not long ago too and she had excessive body hair, had like a trail from her belly button to her pussy, instant turn off.

fucked a 20lb overweight 5/10 from work after a happy hour and her bod was perfect besides a bit of a belly, great smelling. turns me on instantly, but ugh having to hang out with her and having people see me... geeez

>fapping

Stop.

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serves a degenerate like you right.

hope you find out about prostate cancer soon enough, faggot

yeah, kind of a lot. how did you get through yours?

Stop eating animal and processed oil saturated fat

yourbrainonporn.com/

>dont.jpg
>stop watching porn
dont stop watching porn?

You probably won't believe it, but it mostly anxiety. That's why you can get a random boner when having sex is not expected.

The cure is to not focus on sex. Making out even though I am not horny works for me.

Never had it. When i get a boner during sex i stay up for over an hour. I'm 23 as well. It could be low test levels or just that you're having too many thoughts on your mind, not managing to focus.

this

i had OPs problem after i got dumped and cheated on,years later she crawled back and then i dumped her but i did have boner issues

i felt like trash,i piled on weight and i was basically a neet,i didnt like myself much so when it came to sleeping with girls in them years before she crawled back i had problems keeping it up due to low self esteem

now im pretty much fine

Anxiety usually comes from you expecting to get an erection to have sex, holding it up and/or premature ejaculating. The only cure is to let your penis controll you, not the other way around.

the trick is learn to masterbate at a high as fuck speed and a kung fu tight grip for years,putting a dick in any girl will never hit the spot ergo you can last as long as you want as fast as you want

i am 31 and i have never cummed by humping no matter how fast

i am uncut also.

>spend all of your time having guilt free orgasms alone

>suddenly you have to perform for someone

>dick isn't trained for this scenario and acts awkwardly

what did you expect

Idk about erectile dysfunction but I've had trouble getting hard once or twice or I couldn't cum but to be honest I was depressed and felt like shit all the time. I'm doing better now though.

>I fap pretty normally at home, so I think it's some mental block
>Starting to think low test levels could also be the issue.
Eat more protein, sleep more, workout more/harder than you already do and fap more when otherwise not having more sex
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Low test absolutely killed my libido.

I was on anti depressants for years which made me take FOREVER to cum. I would have to masturbate at high intensity for nearly 45 minutes to blow a load which made it a complete chore. Even after quitting them the damage was done - got blood tested one day and was at 196 for testosterone level. Now on TRT with no problems except for oily skin.

"If you don't use, it you lose it" applies to your body, your brain, AND your dick OP. Stop using any of these and neurons will start to prune and degrade

This is easier said than done.
It only takes one time for ED to happen to get stuck in an anxiety loop everytime you're about to have sex.

Something along the lines of "Shit,i got ED last time maybe i'm about to have it right now ?"

And that kind of shit is vicious,trust me.It's a downward spiral.

>hookup game

Why the fuck would I ever do that? I'm not a sociopath.

Keep the lights on or get some ambient lighting, I need to see what I'm fucking

I used to have boner issues, after a long sex break I struggled, so I popped some Viagra to get over the mental block and now I'm fine. It's all mental, honestly.

I got a similar problem OP
my gf won't be satisfied even after going 3 fucking times in a row and muh dick can't take it

holding orgasm for hours is a fucking pain in the ass too
she comes a bunch of fucking times I just wish she could just have a big one and be done with it jesus fuck

OP i've literally been through the same situation as you and this is the one serious bit of advice. stop watching porn. get out more. keep your mind occupied with other stuff. rub one out every two days but NO PORN. use Instagram pics to help you transition, if you must. but the minute you can fap without porn, is when you'll be ready to fuck a real woman. thank me later.

Fucking change, man. Stop being a monkey.

No, only if you let it. I'll offer you a counter: lost my virginity to an Australian model (really) that had way more experience with me. We'd been dry humping and kissing, etc, for a long time and I had a constant erection. We get naked to have sex, and it dropped and I became overly anxious. She was really nice about it and didn't mind. We did something else and an hour later started the whole routine over again (touching, etc) and it didn't go down that time.

The other user is right: YOUR BODY KNOWS WHAT TO DO. GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD. You know how you can place your attention in your finger? (Go ahead and try it now, just focus on your right thumb, like you're there). Next time you're with a girl, do that with your dick. You are your dick and all those sexual sensations. This is how to become an alpha lover as well, btw.