Well, it happened. I tried having sex with a girl and I couldn't get hard. What now Veeky Forums?

happened to me too the first time

and the 2nd time and the 3rd time and the 4th time

what worked for me was using lube. cant go in when youre not hard very well but once you slip inside with lube your dick will get hard much easier when you start thrusting

aslo another tip is to get her to try and make you hard with her hands as it mimics how you fap

I had this with every single girl i've been with.

Every first few times we got going, I wouldn't be able to get hard or even stay hard. One of these girls is amazingly hot as well, other two eh.

Anyone, I find it easy to get comfortable with them, after like twice doing it, talking about it, etc. They're cool with it most the time, I just say I use to beat the shit out of my cock when I was a teen. After 2 nights of no hardness, you'll start picking up the pace, now i'm rock whenever she kisses me, mad.

Just have fun with it bro, don't stress, 99% chance your dick is fine, just stop watching porn and see her more often and TALK about it nigga, but don't tell the truth like you watch too much trap porn, she is a girl and won't understand the fact it's not gay ;)

This is a fool proof plan FOLLOW THIS YOU DUMMY.
1. Drop porn and fapping
2. Have her put the condom on. Do NOT focus on your dick or how hard it is. Having her put it will distract you, make you less nervous and keep you hard.
Now go try again.

this post is very gay tho

you into the pills and the disco and shit too?

Listen to this man OP the trips don't lie

Condom won't go on if you're soft tho

That's why you have her blow you. Also start eating dark chocolate from time to time, helps with blood flow to your dick. If you are honestly hopelessly soft then I guess Viagra is your only go to method here.

FUCK OFF
I only sucked off my friend once when we was 14, thats fucking it man ok?

even if she blows you it doesnt mean youll get hard

dude stop giving useless advice about this if you havent experienced the problem first hand

do the helicopter, works for me

I have you numbskull that's why I tried what I wrote and it worked. 9/10 cases it's guys being either nervous or simply fapping too much and destroying their dick. Now fuck off you impotent shit

Reduce fappage to once a week. And try not to look at porn just use your imagination. Eventually stop watching porn all together.

does noporn actually work? ive heard conflicting opinions about this

obviously fucklord no opinion on the matter

Nofap is an entirely different ball game though

You were nervous user dw it happens to everyone

>she

Try again or fuck a trap.

Similar experience. I've tried to have sex 8 times now and couldn't get it up any of the times, even tried fucking a dude once to see if I was gay and didn't know. I want to fuck so badly but it's extremely discouraging, I've kinda given up at this point :(

should've had some viagra on you just in case. She doesn't have to know you took it either, she'll be super impressed when you bust 4 loads inside of her and make her cum over and over again

dont give up. it's much easier if you're trying to have sex with a gf who you can talk to comfortably about these things with rather than one night stands though

Find one girl. Don't fuck around. I couldn't get hard fucking around. All these girls I've been soft with, after seeing them more, getting comfy, i start seeing them, i get hard

I'm an autist and can't into relationships. Grew up in a weird, emotionless home so I have serious communication and relationship issues. I've had four gfs ever and the relationships never lasted more than 2 weeks.

Kys

I can confirm this: I had trouble getting or staying hard enough to top anyone, couldn't for the life of me do it as soon as my dick knew what was happening or putting on the condom. Then I met my (now) husband, took some practice but I have absolutely zero issues now in that regard. You need to be with somebody you feel comfortable with, you don't feel any pressure at all with, no anxiety. Emotions do play a big role in these things.

no homo right?

Wet your dick with her vag juices before putting on the condom. It's either placebo or the pheromones from a girl's vagina actually works some dick magic under the covers, but I've literally run experiments on myself with my girlfriend, and I can sustain an erection for almost twice as long as when I put the condom on without getting my dick wet first. YMMV

>I tried having sex with a girl

Just out of curiosity, what do you usually try having sex with?

Well at least u didnt get fucking genital herpes like I just did.
My dick, nose and left eye looks like shit, and gf claims to not know she had it. FML
Wish I couldn't get hard

Give her aids as revenge

Working on it, I'm so fucking pissed right now

Have you been with her a while?
If so she's probably cheating on you.

Before inserting your dick into her vagina, eat out her pussy while you jerk your dong with the fury of one thousand suns.

next time you're with a girl and can't get hard, put your finger in your butt.

works every time.

only 3 months

But she's probably cheating anyway, since she is female and cant be trusted.

Only positive thing is that shes on her knees crying and want to do everything for me.
Going to a party today, she can stay home and clean the house

>gf claims to not know she had it
She probably didnt
You know how many guys a girl can fuck per month if she is willing to? Its mind blowing so she likely didnt know she was infected.

Girls can also get sores inside their vagina which would hurt but no less than a rough pounding so she might have thought that it was just soreness after her hookup with some random dude she didnt even know the name of

The only comfort in this is knowing she's spreading the disease to a lot more guys than just me.

>more guys
Hey, not cool man. Us guys need to stick together
Point is use this to your advantage, she is regretful but be careful. Females change their mind quickly and as soon as she finds herself a new guy you will be out the door.

True that.
I give it one, maby 2 months until its game over.
Then I'll find out who she's after and tell him she infected me with herpes.

Can't wait for this shit to go south

I couldnt get hard multiple times and lost my errection midway all the fucking time for 3 months until i could relax. The most important thing is to HAVE SLOW SEX dont fuck her like a gorilla dont do anything like that. Slow even paced thrusts until you came with her a couple times. Even cialis didnt work for me and i've been through like 20 pills. Slow sex is what worked for me

how often do you need to make your penis threads? At least wait 2 days before the next one.

>white boys can't even fuck

lmao

I don't understand how this even happens. Even if I'm just hugging some girl I want to fug I get at least a half chub.

It's caused by anxiety. Basically when the guy is such a cowering beta bitch nature turns their dicks off to stop them from making more beta bitches.

BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD!
SKULLS FOR THE SKULL THRONE

I get anxious too but my penis never does

Best advice I ever got was to be honest with the girl. If she's cool, she'll make it work.

I'd failed to get it up god damn about... 20 times? With about 3 different girls, over literally about 3 year time frame.

Was giving up hope and I even went to a doctor to get the old penis pills, but they told me just to be honest with my partner.

Went on tinder date, took her home the second date. Fooled around and was like "Just so you know i've never actually done this before, I've always had problems with nerves and getting it up, like if that happens it's not you."

Fooled around that night and didn't get it up, but because she was chill about it she stayed over and we shagged in the morning. After that it was EZ mode because the psychological block was gone.

Once they know they're usually super cool about it. Just keep fooling around and eventually it will work.

Don't give up my nigga

I'm on the same boat. Tried punching my V-card the other week and got ED.
thx 4 advice. stated nofap/noporn immediately after. Going on 2 weeks now. I'm scared that all the trap porn I watched fucked me up too much.

You're a champ. I don't feel so alone in my woes anymore.

I'm pretty sure this is a modern problem (for young men). Porn combined with higher pressure to please a woman and more casual sex makes for discomfort and anxiety on initial encounters. I've only encountered OP's problem myself having sex outside a committed relationship. Shame and the disconnect/lack of trust and empathy between you and a relative stranger makes it worse

It will keep happening over and over. Viagra doesn't help if you arr physically healthy.

Source: me