What's wrong with me Veeky Forums? I've started dating my current GF last November...

What's wrong with me Veeky Forums? I've started dating my current GF last November, and she lost her virginity with me in mid December. She's a 7/10, tight body, firm ass, decently sized tits, cute face. I've always had a pretty high sex drive and since she lost her v card we fucked almost every day we saw each other. I've never had any erection problems (besides the first times, when I was using condoms that were too tight) until last month. One time I wasn't really feeling like having sex but we had it anyway, and my dick went soft during penetration. On Tuesday I was tired and we didn't fuck. Today we fucked in the morning, my dick went soft while changing position. We fucked again tonight and after almost half an hour I hadn't come. She begged me to cum because she couldn't take it anymore, so I faked an orgasm after a few minutes. I don't know what the problem is, two days ago I couldn't wait to fuck her but today I had to think about another girl to get an erection. I'm having zero problems at the gym, in fact my strength is increasing more than usual. I'm not stressed and I'm getting enough sleep. Please help me, I don't want to ruin our relationship.

but have you tried front squats?

This

How much do you bench, OP? What color are your nipples? Give us some stats so we know what we are working with.

Yes but I don't do them anymore
My tested bench 1RM is 115kg, nipples are dark pink

I'm married and I usually think of other women when I fuck my wife.

Cant get off to the same thing day in and day out it gets old.

>what color are your nipples

This guy gets it

Let your balls refill idiot

I have been fucking my wife for 9 years and I have a hard time looking at her because it makes me cum fast. Squeezing her tits or ass, bust my nut. Look at her beautiful face, bust my nut. I'm not even a sappy faggot. She pushed out 3 kids and has a 4th inside her. She's just fucking gorgeous. Pussy still tight (for me) and not a stretch mark to be seen. Maybe you should have married a hotter woman...

Sometimes your sex drive just dips for a week or two. It doesn't mean anything is wrong. Your body isn't a machine built to pound 24/7 like porn/pop culture would have you believe.

How long after you fucked her for the first time did you start?

Make a fuck break

If you're worrying about getting a boner it will inhibit your ability to get a boner

Or maybe you're just bored of the same old shit. Try introducing some weird shit. Tie her up.

She is hot but I like variety. I see someone who is comparable to her looks and I start to wonder what her pussy tits and ass looks like butt naked.

I'm a man and this is how we are programmed biologically. Get your test checked.

Like day 3 I was thinking of her friends.

You guys are sexual fucking deviants Jesus Christ.

As a functioning member of society, let me give you some tips:
>Don't fuck everyday, nut has gotta come from somewhere.
>Don't bang if you don't want to, there's a chemical signal involved there. Not a single part of our conscious has control over our libido.
>Change it up, experienced or not, talk to gf about sex and things you both might be interested in. DO NOT break your boundaries for sexual pleasure however. Have a line in the sand, this is a relationship thing, not a sexual health one.
>Lastly, ask your doctor for advice not a Taiwanese figure appreciation topic board's advice.

How old are you OP? If you're above 24, then you need to realize your body more and more is going to need more recovery time and you will never have that complete full-of-energy-can-drink-battery-acid state you have before that age line is crossed. Don't put more pressure on yourself than what you can handle, relax and as another user said, let your balls refill. Conserve energy, it's all a steady downhill slide into the grave.

Fuck. I didn't get laid in my early 20s and im turning 24 soon

>Above 24
>Most fighters are in their prime are ages 25-35

Dont listen to this idiot. He's trying to hold you back.

Day 1 and 2 maybe just fatigue build up, run a 4-day/wk Sheiko program and tell me how horny you are after a three weeks. After that purely psychological. Have a few drinks and loosen up, get over yourself, and fuck her. Also do some cardio, dick.

Hey OP, no one cares about your pathetic humblebrag story that you have to tell here because you have no friends to tell

You are low T. I've seen women on their period write less sappy emotional shit.

Your growth boosts stop at that age, which means damage and imperfect cellular re-composition will compound over time until the machinery is so fucked it breaks down. From that time period forward, you're basically riding the biological wave until it finally settles and you fall back into the ocean depths.

Bro science. With your logic it would be impossible for people over 25 to build muscle.

Fuck off out of here cunt.

lol, no. Not how aging works, and muscle building has nothing to do with it, it's just cellular regeneration and the errors that keep increasing as you destroy and reform your cells. After the growth stages where the damages experienced are effectively concealed, the energy expenditure for a given action will increase because entropy is making short work of the system you're using, forcing a taxation increase to perform the same function over time.

you watch porn too much
thats what happened to me
ruined my relationship
and then my life

>because entropy is making short work of the system you're using

What the fuck does this even mean

He's just talking out of his ass. I'm 26 and have been working out for 6 years I've never even taken a deload week let alone more rest.

He just never increased his work load so is making excuses.

>the energy expenditure for a given action will increase because entropy is making short work of the system you're using
Body is not a closed system dumb dumb.
What you're trying (I think) to talk about is accumulated genetic damage, which is part of aging but doesn't directly affect muscle growth, and certainly not as early as 24 or likely even 40. You will not gain muscle as fast as you did before then, but it doesn't mean you wont gain muscle at a good rate, and is due to different hormone levels and not what you're trying to say.

> We fucked again tonight and after almost half an hour I hadn't come. She begged me to cum because she couldn't take it anymore, so I faked an orgasm after a few minutes.

CHAMP !

> I had to think about another girl to get an erection.
Totally normal

> I don't want to ruin our relationship.
Already ruined but you're still delusional

Just relax man. All you need is to take a little break from the sex.

are you fucking retarded? He was never talking about gaining muscle and working out in his first post. He was talking about general health, and as you grow older you're not recovering from previous energy exertions as you used to.

This. Shit in the body fluctuates all the time, something being a bit different for a little while doesn't mean anything is necessarily wrong.

Same as feeling shitty for a while doesn't mean you need a psychiatrist.


If it's only a drop in sex drive, you're fine.
This isn't fitness though

I'm 21

I don't masturbate more than once a week so I don't think that's the problem

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