28 yo kv

im not dyel but im autistic

>why the fuck do you care

are you one of those guys who doesn't care if their entire family hates them, or if the people around them don't like how they act?

you're delusional mate. i am not a chad and barely lost my virginity by the end of hs. i suffer from horrible social anxiety and was abused as a kid by my stepdad. the trick is figure out your purpose and it will free you from focussing on the bad because once you have a real goal and you know it in your heart then the inefficient self pity you are showcasing will seem ridiculous and you'll naturally level out

You will miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Didn't your father ever tell you this?

You're right man.

Take no agency in your life.

Keep waiting for everything to happen to you just like in your chinese cartoons.

Keep us posted.

>watching anime
I don't watch anime. It's autistic as fuck.

That's not how that happens. Who told you this?
Every person in the world is trying to find a mate. It's the most normal thing to do. Unless you molest or verbally abuse the person you are trying to court, none of what you said will happen.

Nothing wrong with being alone senpai

>none of what you said will happen
>tfw this has legitimately happened to 3/6 friends i have because they weren't chad

Why did you post this thread? What are you expecting?

Nothing you do/say/have is going to get females to just start approaching you. And I'm pretty sure you wouldn't know what to do if they did.

you can wait to be a little bit older, with a job and keep lifting, it's different when you have muscle or just dyel creepy, wear nice clothes, smell good, women will notice mabe not 10 or 9 or 8 or 7 but 6 or 5 will

>And I'm pretty sure you wouldn't know what to do if they did.

P. much 95% of Veeky Forums right there

Mine was a quiet guy until he passed away a few years ago. Never really learned anything from him. So yeah never heard that growing up. Also not the guy you were replying to.

So did they those 3/6 guys decide to internalize their failure, and never try to improve what made their advances fail?
Good women have a lot of men to choose from. To be acceptable as a potential partner, you need to be valuable as a man.
If those 3 guys were DYEL anime acne-ridden NEETs, of course they would be reprimanded. But for them to be ostracized and removed from social circles?
Give me details, user. Did those 3 guys get touchy? Did they shoot out of their league? Did they approach women who they just met? Were the women of good character, and kind?

>only 2 years to go before becoming a wizard

Don't fuck this up by fucking some random uggos.

Do you have the one with time vs teenage gf possibility?

I am sorry to hear that, user.
Strong, mature, masculine figures are essential for both men and women in their adolescent years. I hope you found one, figuratively or literally, later in life.

If this is you can I please get your height and weight. Your body is goals

You have to take risks faggot. I dont understand why you fucking people love crying about being virgins and not getting laid, yet you take literally zero action to fix it. If your ego is so fragile you're afraid of some useless cunt telling you no then fine, but don't make threads on Veeky Forums complaining that women are this and that and they only want niggers and chads.

>Were the women of good character, and kind?
Yes, from an external view.
>Did they approach women who they just met?
No. These people were friends for more than three years.
>Did those 3 guys get touchy?
No.
>Did they shoot out of their league?
Eh, like maybe one guy did. The other two, no. I'd say they were on a level playing field.

The entire experience sort of fucked them up, it was very messy. I didn't expect women to be so cruel and caustic, even if they looked all good and sweet to the naked eye.

They haven't tried to approach women for a bit. One has, I guess, but he's not having much luck. One is DYEL, the other two are actually p. fit (one did football, the other cross-country). No terrible acne, and they aren't NEETs.

>you take literally zero action to fix it

If men actually have to take action to get a girl, they're a beta. Women approach men, and if they don't approach you, you're out of the dating/fucking pool.

I'll admit it's pathetic to be crying and wailing and whining online, sure, but it's because there's not much else to do besides that and get Veeky Forums and potentially hope that a girl approaches you eventually (if ever)

>>No. These people were friends for more than three years.
What do you expect then?

Yeah, good point.

Oh believe me i did, user

This. Women have to show interest first, ive actually tried cold approach with 0 success. But when women do the approach its different

Knowing a girl had a longtime crush on you and you failed to act in time is worse, at least you know you're completely undesirable

Choice. He wrote some good books too.

>wait to long to make a move
>get cucked by some chad
Many such cases!

OP HERE

LIKE I FUCKING SAID RIGHT HERE Started this fucking thread and got ignored instantly because everyone is replying to some underage faggot. This is my life, being ignored on every possible ocasion.

>im not dyel
I don't believe you. Post a damn pic already if you want advice.

You guys are retarded. I've gotten laid plenty of times by making the first move with women at parties, bars, even classes at uni

How the fuck do you talk to women

i dont know how to lead things up and i dont know how to flirt

Most of the time you're not going to get approached, that's what morons like you dont understand. The only time you MIGHT get approached is at a bar/club, but even if you do get approached you still have to make moves. Expecting to get approached is literally a feminine mentality that's how girls think. If you're seriously expecting to get fit and have hordes of women approaching you everywhere you go, I'm gonna tell you this right now you are wasting your time. If that's what you want, then skip the gym completely and get famous instead.

>22yo khv
>some girls might have shown interest
>couldn't think of anything to say
I don't really mind being alone and don't really go anywhere where I'd meet people.
Still kinda annoyed how autistic I act when a girl comes to talk to me. I don't mind the silence so I usually don't initiate conversations but I can talk a lot if I'm interested in the subject. Then sometimes I get this feeling that I should say something but nothing comes in my mind so I just stare at the ceiling squinting my eyes and tense my muscles but still no thoughts.
Still I don't blame my past self because I'd do it again the same way. I just go with the flow and enjoy the ride and don't take life too seriously. As my music teacher once said "remember to breathe".

>but im autistic
Lol, no. You aren't. You're a loser and mentally ill.

t. never talked to a girl

Not to mention you wouldn't even recognize a girl approaching you or really, any basic animal/human behavior, really. You're dumber than even the simplest form of life.

you gotta love yourself first man, you don't even need a reason to love yourself, just exercise it. it might seem harder to love yourself than to squat 600lbs, but it can be done, just keep doing it. Fucking starting strength man, we need Starting Self-Love
just feel your heart til you feel the beat, then feel the warmth and let that emanate, meditate, elevate
you got it man, you need no other, we are all alone, there is only one

>Not to mention you wouldn't even recognize a girl approaching you or really, any basic animal/human behavior, really. You're dumber than even the simplest form of life.

So, Veeky Forums?

Literally just go to a bar, go up to some cutie and ask her about herself. Buy her a drink and use the initial small talk to get jumping-off points for better conversations. If you look and smell nice then she'll probably be into it. You'll only learn through experience so don't get discouraged by failing at first.

I legitimately feel sorry for ugly people. I've been able to just live my life without thinking about or trying for women and they just end up in my lap through random interactions. I cant imagine being so ugly that you actually start living manually and analyzing everything you do and say.

>talking to bar sluts
are you retarded or something?

>approach girls at a bar and just bee urself lmao

Alright, Chad.

Alright then stay a kissless virgin. Barsluts are training wheels for talking to women.

No, they generally have incredibly high standards and are easy to dump men off if there's even a single flaw because they get approached constantly. Barsluts are more prone to rejecting Chad than non-Barsluts, so normies can't get anywhere close.

It's better than tinder and that online dating bullshit. If you weren't a virgin you'd know that. The point is to get comfortable and experience with talking to women.

Not the guy you responded to but you have the most delusional outlook ive ever seen. I am nowhere near Chad status and have had many positive interactions with random barsluts.

If my 5'6" manlet friend can do it and get laid, then you really have no excuse

Okay so you're either trolling at this point or you're incredibly delusional. I hope you're trolling because this is really sad to see. I guess some people will tell themselves anything to feel better about their failures.

I completely disagree with everything you said. What kind of bars are you going to?

I find it funny that no one responded to this either.

We all have insecurities that we have to deal with, sometimes they're not that big of a deal but we cling to them.
I think the key is to just ignore that little voice that tries to remind you of your insecurity and just try until you achieve your goal.

Don't go full autismo though

>tfw listening to Love Me Like You Do pretending it's a girl saying it to me

>Lars and the Real Girl
Good taste OP.

>he thinks drunk women out on the prowl for cock have incredibly high standards
Have you ever actually been to a bar?

I don't think you've been in a bar before lmao
as long as you're chill you should have no problem

oh wow my answer already has been typed out; this
thread tl;dr: OP doesnt lift.

Escorts or be moderately successful and wait for women in their 30s&40s trying to salvage their post-cock carousel trainwreck of a life.

17 is accurate

Hmm, let me guess.

You all are:
1. White
2. 5'10"+ or above
3. 5/10+ facially

>more excuses
you do realize women go to bars for dick right? it honesty sounds like you've never stepped foot in one. and are you really trying to imply only white guys get laid at the bar?

Women looking for a hook-up go for higher-tier guys, you utter retard. They don't go for anything below 7/10. Long-term relationships, they'll go lower.

Nice larp dipshit. You don't have to be ugly for what you said. I'm not ugly and neither are my friends but we have a hard time. It's all about just being properly socialized I guess and I know I'm not. For example I don't try to make eye contact with people most of the time even if I think a hot girl is lookin at me because it causes social anxiety. Im not even an anti social guy, I'd say the opposite maybe. It's just something about girls that gives me autism.

>added some random girls on snapchat
>they say i'm cute and give me text game tips
>soon i'll move on to tinder to chat up girls there
>then move on to bar sluts
>finally, god willing, i'll starting training on girls who are worth something

who /gonna make it/ here?

>tfw never saw dad growing up

Whats worse guys, a dad that was never in your life or a dad that was but you never got to see because of work and other things (church in my case).

I had a couple months left in the Marine Corps when it dawned on me that everything I learned about being a man I learned on my own and guys, I am a really shitty teacher

Thats not a Chad move that's an easy anyone can do it move. It's a casual social situation where people are to have fun, drink, and find someone to sleep with. Honestly I have problems too I'm not a Chad but the bar scene is by far the easiest way.

After having been on a party school/large college campus for two years and observing social dynamics between men and women, yes.

White men who are 5'10"+ have literal harems surrounding them often from what I've seen, a multi-racial crowd of girls or primarily white. They are given the proper confidence to go out to bars, use Tinder, and do casual hookups.

80-20 rule buddy boy

meine dude small talk is key. It doesn't have to be a subject you are interested and know a lot about it. Just show a little bit of interested and start conversations with common things like asking if she had a busy day if you're talking with a qt who is working, or what was she had/have before/after this one to a qt pa2t classmate. It's not that hard m8 just be mindfull of the situation; and remember is she ask things back she is interested, if not just drop the conversation and move on.

What you're describing is incredibly common dude. You have to try to be below 5/10 facially if you're in good shape physically unless you're deformed.

GUYS IS THE WALL/POST COCK CARROUSEL MEME REAL???? Older anons does sex become way easier to get in your late 20’s and 30’s? I got laid a decent amount in high school and in uni but since I graduated and am in my mid twenties all these girls have gotten really picky and shitty. A) I have less of a social circle as back then so not as many women to choose from and b) the few I have approached the past few years besides 4-5/10’s typically goes nowhere beyond getting a number/Snapchat exchanging messages for a bit and then getting ghosted. I don’t drink because of past alcohol problems so that makes it ten times harder and moved back to my parents recently for a few mo the to save up and look for a new job so pussy is out of the question till I move out anyways but when I do am I just gonna have a repeat of these cunts acting entitled? Not even a bad looking dude I catch chicks Mirin multiple times a week but never cold approach.

Yes, but i was also a skelly with acne

Alright whatever, fuck you. Stay in denial. Call me a retard. Do whatever it takes to keep up this delusion you've created about women in bars.

What I've told you is reality, it's from my own experiences. I don't look like Chad, and yet I've gotten laid plenty of times at bars.

You should be married with kids in your late 20's and 30's anyway so it doesn't matter.
The people perpetuating that meme are MGTOW betas trying to give themselves a bit of hope, poor saps.

I'm extremely white (like pale), 6' even, and have an average or lower face with a 8+/10 body because I lift a lot. Don't make excuses, there's nothing stopping you from getting ripped.

stop being a GOD DAMN PUSSY.

>tfw born a capricorn instead of sagittarus

>GUYS IS THE WALL/POST COCK CARROUSEL MEME REAL????
No lmao why would you ever believe that

>white
Maybe in 1970 or early '80s. In 2017 if you arent a black guy you dont even exist to hot women

You just had to go and race bait didn't you

>it's people telling manlets that they just need to be themselves and man up thread

I'm 5'7 and bitter about almost every day but honestly I'm doing alright, it's really not that bad if you just keep it to yourself.

Its the truth though. Im a 6'0 white guy former skelly getting Veeky Forums and i have had zero luck with approaching women and "social circles". If i was black i would be chad

If it makes you more comfortable, forget about "talking to girls" and "flirting". Talk to another human being like they're a unique person with individual dreams, hopes, fears and regrets. Talk to her because she's a complete person that you have genuine interest in knowing. If you really just want to make them like you there are sincere ways to do exactly that.
read a book fag

It is time to get /fitlit/.

Look at this guy. He's a buddhist monk. He lives in celibate. He is a hundred times happier than the average normie. Why are you so concerned over girls and sex? There's nothing stopping you from being happy by yourself.

black guy here

it's worse.

Lol that's not the truth, that's just an excuse you've told yourself instead of dealing with your own incompetence.

Your mission in life is to have children
Enlightenment is nice but continuing your bloodline is better

>Automatically seen as masculine cause of the (((media))
>cant get a gf
But how lol

> it's really not that bad if you just keep it to yourself.
tinder date literately asked me on whatsapp my height just about when she was going to meet me on a first date
i toked her I am 5ft6, she thought I was joking, but I confirmed my height and she said she could not date a guy of her own height

mind you she sent the first message, she was active, she even drew pictures for me (like stuff form industry I work with, she took the time to find what those were)

that is your main metric, man. everything else is a bonus.
if you are a manlet that is like you are ugly, fat, badly groomed, poor, bit stupid and boring.
height is 40-50% of male attractiveness.

idk if you're still here, but there are much worse things
Rejection is always a terrifying monster while it lies in the unknown, but when you face it you realise how little it actually matters.

I see girls on campus that i've tried it on with but got nowhere all the time.

desu it's probably creepier to never try anything, because it's not normal. Girls expect guys to try something with them now and then

I agree. I believe that if you become happy you will also become confident and have the ability to better achieve which ever goals you set for yourself. When started uni I learned that I had become better at socializing by just becoming more content with myself via physcal exercise. I used to be afraid of talking to people but now I don't even think twice if I have something to say. It's almost like lifing cured my autism. Sorry for the blog post but I wanted to make my point clear because it would seem there's still some autism left in me.