Ex was on a date yesterday

>the next relationship will be perfect
>the next relationship
when you've got 4 years til 30, you stop thinking that there will be a "next"

>arguments on facebook
T R A S H

My wife is probably cheating on me but I have no proof and there's nothing I can do but call her horrible names which she will probably use against me in the divorce to take all my money.

>it's me not you"
>>week after she gets a "new" bf
it's always the "it's a new boy" excuse that one isn't it

Wut. I'm 25 and just snagged a qt. Does life end at 30?

Hire a private eye and a hacker.
They can make sure everything is on the up and up

I put up with it cause she's god-tier at giving head. Crazy bzs are just my thing.

Not a bad idea

Is it to much to ask for a succesfull intelligent beautiful girl, who's an absolute kinky girl in bed
who legitimately wants a relationship and not crash things with "not you it's me, oh no feelings anymore"

NAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAW.

Literally the cutest thing I have ever seen in my life. My heart has melted from cuteness.

w-will you go out with me?

>thinks she's not doing it to make her new lover jealous
lol .. certified cuckold

>tfw she answered to my last text

Don't want to read it lads, she wanted out

Gotta have Ben and Jerry's every night r-right babe? Heh I mean me fuck her she never likes this flavor anyway dumb whore.

You should lift to improve a facet of yourself.
Self image, discipline, even vain things like attracting a new girl.
Lifting to spite other people will only make you bitter, user.

>the one that got away
It's been 6 years and I had a 3 year relationship in the meantime but I still want her ;_;

But I don't want to get back together with her? And why would I be mad at the guy who got my sloppy seconds. I already made Arby's double roast beef out of her in the first month of our relationship lmao

Bitter and huge as fuark

:(
tfw was the one that got away for her

My friend had a huge crush on me for 2 years and she practically threw herself at me at a party once but I refused because she was a chubby 5/10

i feel like making a little chubby girl into a 10/10 lifting gril would be cool but time consuming

Can't change her face though

Fair enough, but I think I'd rather be mentally healthy and physically huge as fuark, at least then I'll be able to enjoy my gains with a better outlook.
One doesn't have to exclude the other, user.

>I broke up with my gf, I'm the one that dumped her. We were each other's firsts and have been friends since before we started going out
>She's really sweet and honestly a genuine qt, I just don't want to see her anymore
>Ghosted her, am ignoring her
>Hitting new PRs since switching programs

What do I do when she inevitably shows up at me house? She was and still is in love with me.

Was with an OLY girl, she had bad face acne, but 10/10 body.
Normally i'm all for face should be good looking first, but it's not the end of the world when her boobs are perfect, no fat around abs or ass

i would not answer the door but i'm a huge beta

>valentines day few years ago
>first time spending it alone in a few years
>decide to hit the gym and go for bench pr
>lmao2plate comes up surprisingly easy
>best valentines ever!
>feel awesome until i realized i'd left the weight 5lbs short on one side
>try again going for actual 2 plates
>fail
>hate valentines day to this day

don't be an asshole ?

It's probably best to be frank with her and tell her why you don't want to be in a relationship anymore.
That seems more fair in my eyes at least.
I know I'd want them to do the same if the situation was reversed.

You sound like an asshole.

How would you know what your ex is doing? You're not some sort of cuck that keeps in contact with their exes, right? Right?

blackcatinvestigations.co.uk
These guys are good in the UK, you can probably find something similar that specialises in this kind of thing if you are somewhere else.

I stalk her on instagram

Don't do that to yourself user. If they're no longer close to you there's no reason to keep tabs on them.
Don't live for another person's life, especially if it only stands to make you miserable. Being in limbo where you still have feelings for them will only burn you out.

no

why

This 100%

The best thing you can do is . Cuck.

>gf breaks up with me because she "feels like she is missing out" (i.e. wants to try being a slut for a change)
>a year later get an email from her if I still have her roller blades in my basement
>sure enough, they're there
>decide not to be a complete dick and ask how she's doing
>writes half a novel and confesses she still has pictures of me in her room
>leave her roller blades outside, tell her to pick them up when I'm not home and ignore her
Imagining her in 5 years getting fat and lonely and regretting breaking up with the one guy who was willing to stick it out with her crazy ass always brightens up my day. Meanwhile I'm living like I always wished I would when I was like 10.
>decent dosh
>riding motorcycles with dad
>guitars
>video games
>visiting friends every weekend
All that while I'm in the best shape of my life. All that's missing now is that my sister gets kids so I can be the cool uncle to them.

>gf broke up with you for spending too much time at the gym

Oldfag here. Never stay with a woman you don't want to be with; own your desires. That said, also don't be shitty, don't ghost people, and don't be dishonest. You don't want to be with her - that's reason enough to be justified breaking up with her, but you still have to justify it to her.

What if the woman doesn't want to be with you

This thread brought up some memories so I though I'd just throw this out looking for some sort of explanation on exs behavior.

>meet strawberry blonde qt at work
>we get closer over the course of a couple of months, we are both working 6-7 days a week with 10 hour shifts, and spending a lot of that time together, so for the time being we just kinda leave it as a work thing
>shes kind of a grasshoots, hippy type chick (very good personal hygiene though) who was at the very least, not a materialistic bitch,.
>decide I want some of that
>Eventually start "dating", just going out for food or coffee or whatever after work
>She ghosts me, I'm not gonna play games so go and confront her about it.
>She gives me this long drawn out explanation of how shes got fears of abandonment, wants to take things slow, isn't confident with her body yadayada
>Fuck at her place the next night (lmao wtf)
>Have a qt strawberry blond gf who likes to cook for me now
>things going well for a week or two
>ghosts me again
>confront her
>says she doesn't want to date anymore
>ask her to explain (I was genuinely confused, didn't care if it was another guy at this point, just wanted an answer).
>she says no to all of the above, says its not you its me
>asks if I want to still be "friends"
>no.
>Tell her goodbye, stand up to talk out the door
>she starts bawling her eyes out (we are in her workplace)
>just keep walking, haven't seen/talked to her since, though shes tried to re-establish contact a few times.

So what the fuck was that about? I don't really have any emotions about it anymore, but what the fuck? Ghosts me out of the blue, says basically that she doesn't wanna fug anymore even though she was creamin herself over my body not a week before. Then SHE cries after breaking up with me with by her own explanation, no good reason?

>>/adv/

That's how emotionally damaged/stunted girls behave. Ten times out of ten. Find one who is an adult.

>OP posts r9k tier thread, only loosely tied to fitness
>I add to the thread with a question of the same vein, get told to leave to another board.

Lmao if that's how it works then Veeky Forums would be the least trafficked board on this site, fuck off.

girl has issues I dated a girl with severe daddy issues, was a complete nut case

you were too ugly for her

Wut. I'm 25 and just snagged the best looking woman I've had yet.

sure

You're probably paranoid and a shit husband.

Mutual friends who keep tabs on both of us

She's an unconfident lesbian.

>43080040
go bait on r9k bottom feeder

You're weird mate.

if anything it was the other way around desu, femininity and not being materialistic score a lot of points with me.

why

I'm 36, getting married to a 29 yo next month.

She was lonely and horny.
She played the relationship thing for you...but the fears of abandonment drowned out the sex and relationship

So she quasi dumped you because FEAR OF ABANDONMENT
Ended it on her terms. You know, jump out of a burning building rather then burn to death kind of thing.

Keeping you around as a friend that she could play relationship with/fwb with till she was sure she wouldn't fuck it up or worse you would leave.

If you had fought for her again or had become her friend that's a boy who bursts his way into her life over her objections she might have stayed. Just ignored her bullshit and carry on with your relationship.

If she was really firm and her idea of friend was simply saying hello to each other occasionally at work...then fuck it.
She just wanted to get her pipes cleaned and not be lonely for a while.

>43080015
R u so pathetic that you enjoy shit attempts at baiting on fit ?

Yeah that's it. Not that women are hypergamous sluts who have dicks thrown at them every fucking day irl and on social media.

You've probably only ever had ugly gfs, if at all.

See I don't know what she actually meant by "friend" because she was being really ambiguous and kind of just leaving everything open ended.

At that point though we hadn't been working at the same place for some time, and I didn't really feel like finding out what "friend" meant and very honestly don't want to be some chicks walking talking netflix&vibrator, she was definitely a qt but she wasn't so much of a score that I'm gonna chase her around and jump through stupid hoops.

I told my friends that while I don't disapprove of their keeping in contact with my ex, I would ask them not to tell me anything about her doings unless specifically asked, and not to invite her and me to the same occasions, if possible.

>ex breaks up with me for toying with her and playing all these mental games, like I would break up with her and telling her I see her as a friend and then take her back on her birthday or Christmas
>after a year, she gets fucked by manlets and uglies, it's obvious she can't do better than me
>go out
>gets close to me
>tries to kiss me
>do the head twist and void it
>pat her in the back like a bro
>tell her everything's gonna be alright buddy you got this
>never call her back

She was going to let you define what that friendship entailed then.
She wanted you to chase her and confirm that you wouldn't leave her.
I guess.

But you're looking at it wrong.
You could have had a chef and a fucktoy as a sidegirl. If she's upset that you're dating or talking to other girls then make her define the nature of your relationship if she can't do that then she'd never be ready to commit and would have to work on it alone.

piece of shit

>MGTOW REEEEEEEEEE
Jesus guy.

boo hoo crybabby
btw what was the pr?

3.75pl8

She can't fuck other people if you're tearing her pussy up every day/week.

I have bad news for you kid...

holy shit my sides

Enlighten me please.

nice, then screw her she missin out

Because you think getting girls after 25 is impossible

My ex converted to lesbianism so I know I'm the only guy to have legitimate sex with her
The best she can get now is her blue haired dyke gf licking her puss haha

>just becsuse someone shows interest you fuck them
No.

>uwn have your pussy licked by your qt blue haired dyke gf

If she's a lying cheating whore she will find time to cheat on you. I don't know user, probably there's some faithful women out there but I won't even bet 5 bucks to that.

Yeah, maybe. If what I had had for the few weeks where it was good; sex and a feminine gf who liked to cook and cuddle with me afterwards then it would have been worth her stupid little games.

However not long before she came out with the breakup she pulled a "I'm not in the mood tonight" on me after we had already gone out on a date and gotten back to her place, gotten everything prepared for the next day (work and whatever) and were ready to spend the night however we pleased. I went and initiated physically and she pushed back after a few kisses, and then gave me that line. I gave her the benefit of the doubt that she was on her period or whatever but it still fucked with my head. She asked me if I was mad at her and said yeah and left. The breakup was a few days later.

Even if there was a way "for me to get back in her good graces" she isn't my wife, nor is she a princess, so I don't owe anything to a woman who isn't gonna fuck me.

>She chose a tongue coming out of a blue haired dyke over your cock

I am truly sorry user.

feel ya here. going through similar bro

>break up with gf of 3 years last November
>"it's not you it's me"
>cut all contact with her cold turkey
>found out a month ago she apparently started dating this new guy in February
>apparently he's one of those guys that always has to be the center of attention
>mutual friend told me she mentioned she "has to be careful where she takes him
>meanwhile I've gotten my life back together, have gotten somewhat fit, just hit 2pl8 bench

God I hate that bitch

you kill her

girls can get a new bf whenever they want so they can use that to spite us after ending the relationship. only thing we can do is get fit to spite them.

You are legitimately an ASPD person, seek therapy or just isolate yourself. You are sick.

...

yeah that not in the mood shit should not be happening that early in the relationship. you did the right thing

She was testing you.
You apparently failed whatever test she had going in her head.
Cue the ghosting and break up.

Should have kept her at arms distance and kept it as casual sex and dating.
She is obviously not ready for anything even semiserious.

>She was testing you.
this has to stop

She's fucking someone else user.

WTF!? I can smell your pussy from here. GTFO