Finally got my body in check through fit, now looking for advice to reduce stress.
Age: 34 Height: 5'5" and fit Sex 3 times a week with my wife (one each of anal, oral, pussy). She has very low libido but she pleases me nonetheless. I listen to lots of hard music. No energy for Vidya anymore. Hang out with small group of friends occasionally.
Sounds like a decent life, but I am STRESSED. Managing lots of tech people in the Chicago area, very stressful job. I make over $200k but don't feel rich at all. Lots of politics at my pay grade and constantly need to work against people who want my head. My wife, while wonderful, has too much anxiety to work. I need to support her and I throw a lot of money down to keep her happy (vacations to nice places, etc).
I still need to work another 20 years at this rate to retire. I am getting physical symptoms from my stress: eye floaters/twitching, anxiety, random aches which sent me to the hospital only to find out it was in my head. Meanwhile I have been trying to cut down on some bad habits. Drinking a little too much..As recently as a few days ago I was paying cute cam girls online (non-foreign) to shit for me. Yes, I'm a degenerate, but getting that release calms me down..at least in the short term.
Been thinking of cutting out degenerate porn, but I need something to replace it. No fap is not an option, I have too much pent up pressure. Tried hands free meditation-style audio-only porn with a plug in me yesterday and it felt great..but I don't know if it will actually help. Has anyone had success with this?
Logan Wilson
8ch hypno
Alexander Brown
This is it, new masturbation meme, the nofap is dying.
Introducing audio porn, provides you with the benefits of porn, such as healthy sex drive, and test boost, without damaging your ability to imagine and to visualise sex, allowing you to get it up, last longer and stay hard during intercourse, because you won't be distracted by those impure thoughts
Nathaniel Torres
Can someone explain what's wrong with degenerate porn? I notice no difference in the quality of my life whether I watch puritan missionary porn or two trannies spit roasting a dude hanging from the ceiling.
Joseph Morales
source me my dude
Tyler Phillips
>"She has very low libido" >"has too much anxiety to work"
damn imagine how low her libido would be if she had to work 8 hours a day, you'd get laid once a year lol
Gavin Peterson
If you have sex 3 times a week you don't need to masturbate.
In your current state, I'd say you should go for meditation.
On another level: do you have any kids? Since I had a kid, my level has leveled out in a very positive way. I'm a 31 year old married dude with a stressful job and a history of substance and alcohol abuse, but since my daughter was born I've kept it pretty straight.
If you don't have any kids, that could also explain your wifes state of mind.
Good luck anyways brother.
Angel Ramirez
>5'5" Get rid of this and you should be fine.
Hunter Mitchell
eraudica
I haven't payed yet, they have lots of free stuff.
Hunter Reyes
Seems pretty gay. I'm more into femdom hypnosis stuff.
Brandon Perez
Wait isn't that that Russian ASMR chick who has the biggest channel?
Dominic Jackson
Just a random photo I found.
Note for anyone considering director-level management..it's very hard toll mentally unless you are a natural alpha. I personally am a natural introvert, non-confrontatianal, beta, etc. Everyday I am dealing with execs, other directors, employees, etc in a cutthroat megacorp. I need resort to unconventional tactics to succeed. I've gotten good at manipulating execs to make them "come up" with ideas that align with my team; it's a hand I've been able to play because I come across as non-intimidating. I also prep ahead to have the courage to say "No" to people who try to push me around; and usually I have come logic/facts prepared to fall back on.
It's all so hard though, I need my guard up at all times. Been thinking of taking a major paycut to go back to being a coder...but then after taxes that would cripple the lifestyle me and my wife have gotten used to.
Hunter Long
STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM THIS SHIT. THIS GETS DANGERPUSLY ADDICTIVE AND EXYREMELY DESTRUCTIVE.
Former full blown and partially recovered porn addict here, this audioporn was the toughest thing for me to beat and still kills my resistance sometimes. It will lead you into erotic hypno which is a road you can never come back from.
God no. All porn is deadly. Just have sex with your wife and ditch this porn shit, This form of porn btw releases the most dopamine so stay the fuck far away from it.
Samuel Wright
Yes
Gabriel Sanders
IMO your problem is that you're taking on too much job stress. This is driven by your overly high expenses, which is causing you to save so little that even at $200k you can't retire for another 20 years. The expenses are probably caused your wife being overly demanding (no work AND vacations etc.?) combined with you being too damn beta to tell her no.
Basically you've convinced yourself you need to do whatever your wife wants, so you work super hard for a lot of money, which stresses you out. Get a less stressful job for less pay, stop spending so much money, and if your wife doesn't like it then too bad.
tldr you fell for the marriage meme
Mason Nguyen
Do you lift often OP? I find when i have the most stressful times is usually when i make room for an extra day in my week to lift. Its like an hour and thirty minutes of release and focusing which levels me really nicely
I have sex nearly every night with my gf and i still feel the need to jack every few days Not everyone is the same user.
Luke Hall
this post just makes me want to get into erotic hypno so fucking bad
good sources?
Kayden Kelly
Show me the way to good HFO.
Adam Evans
This.200K and you can't retire for another 20 years??? If I were you, I'd dump the overbearing wife, save some money, then find a way less stressful job and enjoy life. What's the point of being alive if you aren't living?
Xavier Miller
This is it right here. I'll go out on a limb and say if you pulled in less money she'd leave you. Sounds like you have a transactional relationship. You give her shit and she lets you fuck her three times a week. Sounds like you have a very expensive hooker OP.
Kayden White
>making 200k a year >feeling poor
This is lifestyle inflation. I watched my father battle this his entire life. If he had just cheapened his tastes slightly things would be 20x less stressful for him. I recommend you get off the treadmill by reducing the expenses of your lifestyle.
Juan Cooper
/2013/02/22/getting-rich-from-zero-to-hero-in-one-blog-post/ Stop wasting your money you greedy fuck, you're not helping yourself or your marriage.
Mason Ramirez
200k...gawd dayum
Alexander Hernandez
>all that shit and he thinks fapping is the problem
Wew lad. wew.
First move for a stress-free life, lose the crazy gold-digger.
Gavin Brooks
God No STAY THE FUCK AWAY!
REEEEEEEE!!!!
Jaxon Barnes
>too much anxiety to work >sex 3 times a week >demands vacations wew lad pretty good deal for her to sit on her ass all day while you work and not even have the courtesy to blow you when you get home
Adam Watson
WHERE IS IT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Matthew Carter
How much money do you need to retire? How many years of work at 200k?
Ayden Phillips
You'll never take me alive!!!
Jack Price
I had my first HFO like after a year of "training". Felt incredible.
Jose Barnes
I know this board is way too retarded to share this kind of precious information or even have a midly serious discussion about the subject but I'm gonna go ahead and ask anyway
how do you even get into hypno? it doesn't do much for me, is it a matter of practice? share tips please
Cameron Howard
But it doesn't feel as good as a HFO in a pussy, because you quit this porn addict bullshit and disciplined yourself, stopped killing your gains with porn, stopped being an introvert, and met a girl you love.
Fuck off with this BS, erotic hypno is by far one of the most dangerous mines the kikes have planted in the road to human achievement.
You are right orgasms should be hands free but not without a pussy.
Aiden Rogers
It felt completely different than cumming during sex. Orgasmic pleasure lasted few minutes and my mind was completely blank.
Luis Lopez
> (You) >But it doesn't feel as good as a HFO in a pussy When people say HFO most of the time they mean completely no physical stimulation to the dick/pussy.
Tyler Lee
It's word play
Wyatt Howard
She doesn't work and only fucks you 3 times a week? Are you fucking kidding me? I have one word for you, WELLBUTRIN
Juan Gonzalez
whats the point of 200k with all the stress?
either stick to the job but decrease expenses, get a wife that works, or just ditch the job.
Parker Morgan
I understand it sounds like she's a gold digger from how I describe her but she's not. She has a good degree actually..maybe a 6-7/10 in looks but smart, red-pilled, fit, encourages me to be fit, etc. She is constantly trying to contribute so she can feel useful despite her bad anxiety. She does most chores, always obsessed with coupons/ ways to save, she does crafts/art and sells some of her stuff. She let's me do what I want in bed even though she doesn't like penetration.
I take her out twice a year to nice vacations, $100 dinners, etc. because otherwise I see her get depressed from cabin fever.
Tyler Scott
put a baby in her lad
Lucas Richardson
Have you tried sticking with one for an extended amount of time to see the difference? I've always thought the main downside of the more degenerate stuff is that you hate yourself afterwards.
Owen James
>Sex 3 times a week with my wife (one each of anal, oral, pussy). She has very low libido but she pleases me nonetheless. That's the most autistic thing I've read in the past month,
Jaxon Butler
Could never get that hands free new age shit to work. I went sleep with it playing. Figured I wake up to a wet dream at least. But nope.