Veeky Forums, why the FUCK am I into sissy and femdom porn

Veeky Forums, why the FUCK am I into sissy and femdom porn.

It is fucking with my mind so much. It stops me from approaching women, and causes me to over analyze everything I fucking say to the point where all I think about almost everyday is imaginary conversations with women, where I make a fool of my self trying to impress and attract them.

All I want is to be not into submissive shit like this, I want to enjoy being dominant and teasing women, instead, I crave for them to ignore me and humiliate me. Whenever i feel anxious, I fap to femdom porn and it relieves my anxiety.

I'm scared to do nofap because if i do it for like 3 months, and I STILL prefer femdom porn, i won't know what to do with myself.

Please guys, help me. This isn't a troll. Give me genuine advice.

I'm in the same boat bro. I love male submissive porn. It's probably why I'm so scared to talk to women. The first porn I ever watched was femdom porn so I was ruined fom the start :(

Start by ditching porn completely, not just sissy and femdom, all porn. You'll you see the difference it makes in the way you perceive the world and women.

It's very hard at first, but it's worth it

its okay just keep off the porn and stop beating it and in a month you'll be able to jerk it to a clothed barbie doll

Just wire your mind different, you only have a bad habit and you just need to change it for something else and it's done, get another hobby or when you want to masturbate do something else.
But if you don't want to get other hobbies, instead of fapping to femdom, fap to maledom and stop looking at sissy porn, that's it if you think the Nofap is not going to work.
But I suggest you start with Noporn and Nofap, start to abandon your fetishes and it will all go okay.
I was in your same boat, my change was not "the best" possible but is better than being afraid of women and such.
Just give it a try to Noporn and Nofap and see how it goes, you don't lose anything in trying, the change starts in yourself, if you don't try it you will never see if you can

get that cancerous porn outta here

Dude I have the exact same predicament as you. I'm gonna try not watching porn for the next couple months then start 2018 fresh.

My biggest advice is to meditate and clear all that conditioning in your head. It's difficult at first, but every day I do it I feel better about my psychology and don't feel so attached to it.

I had the same thing with sissy stuff. I used to cum so much to sissy gifs, vids or sth. Although I never fapped to actually sissys, just regular hetero porn with sissy captions. I was just turned on by the thought of submission I guess.
Then I fucked some girls who liked being choked and stuff and now it is fine. Kinda realized that I like the imagination of the woman being submissive and just accepting that she is nothing but a hole to fuck.

Best is probably to go cold turkey breh. Don't look at that stuff anymore

You talking from personal experience?

Yes.

And now you are happy with being more dominant leaning towards women?

Also, where does this even come from? Why did we feel liek this in the first place?

try injecting testosterone or take some dbol pills?

Teach me your ways.

Mate i've toyed with this idea so much. testosterone is the manliness hormone, so if i take more of it, i'll become more manly right? I.E getting rid of my submissive (female) desires.

But Test obviously has a lot of drawbacks.

Yes, but you also have to put some effort in it, quitting porn is just the beginning, the first step (and you'll fail many times in the process due to horniness and anxiety).

Having said that, if you really want to be dominant and teasing with women, working on your social and conversation skills is the best things you can do, far more important than being fit I would say (wich is also important, of course).

Are you a manlet?

speaking as someone on test, no.

if anything the desires become worse because it increases your sex drive.

So it will just amplify my need for sex, but not change my desires? Fuck sake.

Boy love is the purest love imo. Try sucking a cock and cuddling him afterwards. Feels pretty good

>I'm scared to do nofap because if i do it for like 3 months, and I STILL prefer femdom porn, i won't know what to do with myself.

No point in being scared, get on nofap for hard 90 days and see what happens.

Stop consuming fucked up porn
Buy a fleshlight

idk man personally I don't think your problem is the porn. it's probably self esteem.

go do some volunteer work or just generally do something positive for your community and you'd probably stop over analyzing

that way if anyone ever tries to take a huge shit on you, they'll seem like the one in the wrong because you're the humanitarian here

it's a flawed mentality but trust me normies never look into things as deeply as you do