Fuck Veeky Forums what do I do? Last night I had a girl over we were going to have sex but I couldn't get hard. I went down on her and she came, but I still feel like a fucking bitch.
I've been failing at nofap for the past 2 months but I'm going to take it seriously now. The girl wants to come over again tomorrow though wtf do I do
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some guys cant get hard, some guys cant cum.
You just nervous
who's this cutie?
I'll take care of her you limp dick motherfucker.
>tfw can get hard but can't cum
at least I'm not an early finisher
Try a bit of alcohol.
>she had an orgasm and she's coming back for more
literally wtf are you complaining about some of us are virgins
You've got the motivation now that you´ve realized how much you fucked up your sexual health.
If she's dtf for tomorrow, get sildenafil a.k.a. viagra, or better yet, tadalafil a.k.a. cialis, fuck her hard and long, and fix your shit up.
Do not rely on pills, use them as a TEMPORARY FIX and quit porn cold turkey, unfuck your brain/penis, and don´t look back.
>quit porn cold turkey
what the fuck does this even mean? is this another gay Veeky Forums meme
you are either underaged or retarded, and i don't know which i'd rather share a board with the least
Used viagra like this a couple of times. It worked until I was able to shake the nerves. Porn definitely fucked me up.
It takes half an hour or so to kick in which requires precise timing to not blue ball yourself. Probably don't let on that you're leaving the room to take your dick medicine.
i really dont understand how porn is fucking you guys up. I watched porn everyday back in high school and i still got hard as fuck everytime my gf came over and i was finger fuckin her.
for all you early finishers, try masturbating before sex. But of course this means you need to put a condom
DO NOT MASTURBATE AND STOP WATCHING PORN YOU PIECE OF SHIT
It will take time. Sorry. Here are some extra steps
1. Stop giving a fuck about anything other than using her as a masturbation aid, and have fun
2. If you have good insurance or a hookup, get some Viagra or Cialis
because half of /fit is DYEL with no discipline which results in them watching more and more fucked up shit
Any advice on getting those drugs in 1 day?
Should have listened and did no fap when we told you to. You fell for the pornographic jew
Also, checked. Sieg heil!
Man my advice. Stop giving a fuck. When I was giving a fuck I always come so fast... I didnt get hard. But when I stop giving a fuck I can control my bonner. Stop thinking in the girl. Be honest. My girl started to give amazing heads when I started being honest. Be a man. Be honest. Stop caring of the girl.
i just think all you mother fuckers are just nervous
I had the same issue and this was most of my problem. Good luck.
This. I used to jerk off once or twice a day in high school and I'd still get hard ons just looking at girls in school. Even into my mid 20s if i started to make out with a girl I'd start to get half hard ons and i watch porn throughout the week. Even now im 29 and been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years it doesn't take much to get me hard even if i watch porn every few days and im om a low dose ssri. Sometimes i think im broken because i dont get hard just looking at girls in slutty clothes amymore but then i read shit like this and feel great about myself.
Can't you, like, go to the drug store and buy them?
Where I live it's over the counter stuff.
You don't like in a nanny state cuckland, right OP?
steal it from your dad, if that's not an option then you are fucked
It's literally this. The majority of this board obviously suffers from depression or anxiety, but they've bought the meritocracy myth wholesale so they're convinced that every issue is a personal failing which can be rectified by following the advice of anonymous dipshits on forums.
I'm a college student in Oregon. I don't think I can get it over the counter unfortunately.
I fap pretty frequently, but I never have any trouble getting it up or stamina for that matter the only problem is my puny cumshots
Serious question guys.
Why do you feel bad when you can't get it up? Seriously? If anything, she is the one who should feel bad for not making you relaxed and not turning you on enough.
Getting hard part is probebly nerves, which is different from person to person. I get hard the second I start making out with the girl I'm dating atm, but I have a hard(no pun intended) time coming, especially from just her. Part of the issue is she doesn't want to have piv sex yet which I'm fine with, but the big issue is that I'm to used to death grip and porn. It takes a lot for me to come.
Gonna try no fap untill I see her next, I'm sure that will help a lot. I felt bad for her because I had to get my self off the first couple times we fooled around, so didn't fap for 2 days and I came so hard in her mouth while 69ing it was great. Realize now I need to cerb my porn and fapping, consistently.
As in ejaculate before sex?
Like 30 min before?
This. For me, usual a quarter or fifth of a pill is enough to give me a raging boner at the slightest touch or thought, and I only need it for "surprise sex" (when things move too fast for me to acclimate, like picking up a girl in a bar). After you had sex with the girl one or two times, it should be no problem to ditch the pills.
Get them anyway, for the next time you end up in such a situation.
For now, try to ease into the situation, give each other back massages, watch a movie with some touching, or just sleep together in the same bed, you might get used to the situation and get by without pharmaceutical help.
A lot of girls do, but that doesn't help anybody. It's best to just acknowledge it happens for whatever reasons.
Firstly, you're a fucking idiot. Both for falling for the "nofap" shit, and for asking for advice on here.
Nofap is a stupid meme, a joke made up by Veeky Forums users. It has NO scientific basis.
If you're having erectile issues, go to a fucking doctor, or just chill the fuck out.
Masturbating has nothing to do with it.
I've lost my errection before when I'm going too fast, popping out, not properly reentering and bending it. Doesn't hurt really, but I just go completely flaccid after a minute or so.
Preach it brother
>everything you said I can relate to because the same thing happened to me.
found the undisciplined fag. NoFap isn't a meme, you just have no willpower
>at least she gets the satisfaction instead of me
Maximal cuck mentality right here.
btw kys.
>muh willpower buzzword
Putting your hand on the stove for extended periods of time requires lots of willpower too. Doesn't change the fact its fucking retarded.
stop trying to make everything into some Dragonball Z motivational montage or gay shit like that. Real life is not an anime where doing something the hard way automatically means you're gonna be stronger for it
Not that dude but what is more pathetic
No fap meme to fix erectile disfunction
Or
Be me fap whenever the fuck I want and still get hard 24/7
Go buy boner pills from the porno store.
How can you be so retarded user
I wasn't able to cum any of the times I've had sex ever
working out and keeping a clean diet requires lots of willpower too. Doesn't change the fact its fucking retarded.
>college student
>can't get prescription pills on campus
How does it feel being a friendless loser?
You sound tense and nervous about it man. Take a deep breath and stop worrying about failing nofap, getting hard, and preforming. Just try to enjoy yourself.
Hahaha you are so funny
Criminally underrated post.
Alcohol gave me such a cool sex life that I became an alcoholic.
>Tfw its completely worth it
I need to get my fapping under control. Minimum I do it once when I wake up and once at night after gf has gone to bed. I can still get it up for her, but I even fap like an hour after i've fucked her if i have nothing else to do. I too am ashamed of how little i cum since my balls are always running on empty but my gf probably appreciates it since she hates the taste
except those things actually have proven long term physical and mental benefits, whereas nofap is literally just some shit losers on the internet made up who are fuckups in every area of life but want to think they are hardcore tough guys with muh willpower even though they spend all day on a nihilistic obscure internet forum populated predominately by virgins and social recluses in their early to mid 20s
>except those things actually have proven long term physical and mental benefits
>think they are hardcore tough guys
>muh willpower
>spend all day on a nihilistic obscure internet forum populated predominately by virgins and social recluses.
>thinking theres a difference between (You) and anyone else
the only difference here is you don't have NoFap powers, gtfo my board weak-minded cuckboi
No fap Is pretty much only good for having a better, stronger orgasm further down the line. I need to do it for a few a week because I'm far to conditioned to porn and my death grip. I'm dating someone for the first time in years and I find it's really hard and frustration to orgasm.
I didn't read any of the replies but fuck it bruh no need to stress. If you got her naked and went down on her till she was done then fuck you've achieved the same thing as a good dicking. It may not be quite the same but she's obviously satisfied. The massive give away is that she wants to come over again already.
You've obviously made a good impression with just your fucking tongue so she knows it will be better once you're hard. Therefore balls in your court man. You can take as long as you want, she's keen and wants to find out so make her work for it. No need to stress out man control your breathing and take your time. Getting it in isnt a race.
I was in the same boat I remember texting a girl saying "I want to come over and ravage you after work" and she's like
"Do it then"
And I was like oh... Ok...
Went over and same shit man had to get her off with my tongue because I couldn't get hard.
I eventually jerked it so much that I got hard in the end and only lasted 30 seconds because of so much touchy touchy.
Shagged her for a couple months after that, and when she's not seeing anyone we will happily bang out a bit of HIIT together.
TL;dr you've already won her over with your tongue do whatever the fuck makes you comfortable. Shag her tomorrow or next year. Balls in your court
Amen
lol this cuck
Pretty much throw out porn from your use entirely as a form of masturbation or getting hard.