Veeky Forums what can I do to stop myself from cumming after 5-10 pumps in a girl during sex...

Veeky Forums what can I do to stop myself from cumming after 5-10 pumps in a girl during sex? I hookup with a lot of randoms and this is something that kills my confidence and probably why i cant get them to call me because because I cum to fast. I have a lot of muscle but if I cant perform in bed, what good is it? Please help me bros. I know its all anxiety and shit, i know SSRI's work but if i take even a half a pill I cannot sleep at all that night and i feel like im poisoning myself. I need to figure something out...

>caring what a women thinks about your sexual performance

lol

>not wanting to satisfy women

This is why they leave you for Chad

Don't watch porn and stop jacking off more than twice a week. Also try not to pump to quickly in the start of it. Find a slow and steady pace where you feel that you have control and gradually increase the depth/roughness as you get more into to it

Something that helped me OP was when I came too quickly and couldn't help it, I'd stay inside her and keep pumping to stay hard. Keep fucking her slow until you feel like you can cum again then pick up the pace

Girls will usually focus more on that you kept hard after you came than the fact that you came quickly

Exactly this

I have the opposite problem, i can't cum no matter hwo long we fuck, it's depressing as fuck. Did the porn jew broke my dick?

Make your own thread

I know that feel bro.

Jerk off 24 hours beforehand

Don't jerk off for at least 2 days before you expect to have sex.

NoFap is such a meme.
Apparantly it cures both cumming too fast and not be able to cum.
Such a load of fucking shit

OP, you may want to try reverse kegels, meditating for that performance anxiety, etc.
The number one thing that has helped me though is stretching! I highly suggest practicing your hindi squats, do some frog pose, and just really work on opening up your groin.

The results have been pretty immediate for me; taking me from minute man to about five minutes in a day or two, and over the course of a couple inconsistent weeks, I've been improving.

The porn and/or masturbation jew got you! Honestly man, I was like this for a long time and then the pendulum swung so hard the other way. I highly suggest you limit porn/fapping for a bit --but I have no annecdotes to explain why. Just my suspicion

They are random spontaneous hookups because I like to fuck randoms

This is me. What do??

Maybe you should stop then, considering you apparently aren't doing it right or enjoying it much

Veeky Forums how can I get to cum with real intercourse?

Thats why im trying to fix it

Imagine Kevin spaceys giant head hovering in front of you with a creepy smile. Works for me. Or if you play cs imagine going up cat as a T with a CT with an awp on goose or Plat with no flashes or smokes. That honestly works every time even though its cringey.

Stop jerking off twice a day

nigga you gay

Seriously though this used to happen to me and the only thing that fixed it was finding a girl that was willing to bone a bunch of times until I was relaxed enough to cum. It's just need to learn to let go and let yourself get into it. Try closing your eyes and picturing yourself in whatever situation turns you on the most. e.g. for me what worked was doing her doggy style and imagining I was raping my fat ass coworker

I keep myself from cumming uncontrollably early by rubbing my dick on the girl's vag a little before sticking it in. Works like magic for me.

"Accidentally" break the condom and hit it raw. Or stop giving a shit about how she enjoys it and just do whatever it takes to make yourself cum.

Hey man durex performax intense condoms have been big help to me.

Surprisingly, blacking out on benzodiazepines and booze is what did it for me.

HIIT

Think about something else?
Fuck them and cum, wait 20 minutes and fuck them again?

Dude this isn’t really a problem eventually you should get desensitized to it.

"ooh baby, you're so hot you're going to make me cum already"

????????????????

This guy is a fool

jerk off as much as possible until your dick bleeds
Repeat as soon as your dick heals for 4 years
Take a 1.5 months long break from beating off, and then only jerk off twice a week at most. Also no porn

>I hookup with a lot of randoms
Then how is it a problem? You're never talking to them again, plus men are expected to be pretty quick when they fuck a new grill. Just reload and go again and stop being a puss.

> Leave

How can she leave when i just pump and dump her?

Stay mad faggot, get back to licking girls piss holes so they don't leave you for Chad,

This may sound strange, but I swear it works for me. Flex one or both biceps and/or chest as hard as you can, and focus on the flex. It works in two ways:

>keeps your mind focused on your upper body, away from your cock
>puts some of the blood into your upper body.

I tried flexing my abs and quads at first ,and not only does it not work, but it makes you cum quicker. Anyway, if done right, you'll feel less sensation in your cock. I go from

>not realizing women are more satisfied by your enjoying yourself than your incompetent pussy eating

this is why you will never be Chad

>women
>having any type of consideration for others
LOL

Do 15 to 20 min of High Intensity Interval Training 2 or 3 times a week.

How and why does HIIT fix PE?

I thought most johnnies can’t take two loads though, wouldnt want to chance pregnancy.

you're fucking helpless, keep on jerking on those blacked cuck vids then.

Stop watching porn, srsly, the moment I knew I fucked up was when I couldn't stay hard while fucking. I stopped watching porn cold turkey and have never had a problem since, now my problem is exactly like OP's, I cum too fast.

Learn to calm you down with breathing. Also don't pull it abruptly if you're about to cum, instead use condom, leave it inside and breath deep until the crisis is over.

I'm a different user. Was just curious as to how it worked. No need to get your panties in a twist.

>Learn to calm you down with breathing
I think your mileage may vary with this technique. I find that it helps a little, but doesn't come close to being a solution for me.

This. Flex it yo

>asks clarifying question
>"you're fucking helpless"
He doesn't want to blindly follow your potentially shitty advice user, just answer his question.

This
A woman's pleasure should come from the fact you chose to fuck her, and she satisfied you.
>also
Eating pussy is the most beta move
"If I lick her beef curtains, h-hopefully she will c...call me back"

>A woman's pleasure should
Well it doesn't, and she will go and tell all of her friends what a lame fuck you are.

Not him but high amounts of cardio helps me a lot, a woman literally asked if I was on viagra

Chances this guy is a virgin?

Lmao I envisioned that and it hurt me deeply

Damn bro you must’ve eaten some nasty ass pussy in your time.

i wish that shit didn't turn me on..

i feel like such a noob loser.

fuck the porn jew dragon man.

>what a lame fuck you are
I have a big dick and fuck them hard. That's all they need

I literally watched brutal gore to prepare for having sex with a girl.

When I got close to cumming I looked away, slowed down my pumping, and did my best to visualize the gore. This helped kill my sex drive since I'm not a psycho. Once I no longer felt like cumming, I ramped up the heat and focused on the girl.

i used to imagine murdering the girl i was fucking to make myself finish
that was briefly before i stopped watching porn

>Veeky Forums what can I do to stop myself from cumming after 5-10 pumps in a girl during sex?
Have you tried not cumming? Practice that, practice peeing, holding it, then releasing it again.

Does wonders and you don't even have to practice that much to figure it out.

>unironically eating pussy like a finook
Only on birthdays, maybe

>Don't watch porn and stop jacking off more than twice a week

fit advices somebody who cums too early

Nigga you need to de-sensitize yo dick.

Spend as much time jacking off as you can. Just don't watch degenerate porn like interracial or cuck or whatever.

Fap twice a day if you can.

I dont want to be quick when fucking a new girl

Tell now you are able to do this

lul

99.32(repeating ofcourse) %

There are many factors, but I realized much of it is largely psychological. I bust in under 10 strokes/before penetration most of the time because I kept thinking that cumming was my goal. Other times, I've lasted longer because I was not very "into" the girl. I've had sexual issues for years, but something that helped was getting a Gf who cared. She's the first girl I've been able to open up to. When I first got a Bj from her, I literally came as soon as her lips and tongue passed over the head of my dick; she's a legit 10/10 and I got overworked and couldn't help myself. I stayed hard, but we had sex and I bust after 5 strokes.
She cared for me though, and she said it was ok. We started working through it together, she tells me when she thinks I'm getting too excited and reminds me to control my breathing. She takes the lead when it comes to sex now, and she makes sure we have a lot of sex/different types of sex/sexual experiences to get me used to the sensation. My experience may be different, my Gf likes to mommy/baby me and acts like I'm a child sometimes. She said that my inablilty to control myself was "adorable" and she has mentioned she wants me to look more like a twink (currently 5'10" 140lbs). Sometime I'm afraid she might be a closet pedo or something.
More than anything, you have to realize that the goal is to enjoy sex, and isn't cumming.

I see cuckolding in your future lad

>wears condoms
>doesn’t get chlamydia every 4 months
Fag

How so? She's into me enough that she gets wet just from holding and smelling me. I do what she wants in bed, and she gets off on getting me off. Her sexual tastes might be weird, but cucking me isn't part of it.

More cardio. Breathe deep. Masturbate slowly and make it last. Go down on them generously.

why are you even having sex in the squat rack, fagtron?

tldr?

Just cum and then wait a few minutes and go again. It's not the end of the world.

Find a girl that you care about/cares about you, and learn that sex is about enjoying each other and not getting off.

Not about getting off*

This is probably actually the best advice in the thread. Not just HIIT, but cardio in general is the single most important factor in PE.

>she's a legit 10/10

Lol you literally couldn't be any more delusional. Enjoy eating cum out of some slut's pussy, beta male

>eating pussy

Do I look like a fanook?

...

Thats hard when they are random hookups lol

insert sitation here

citation

I too tried Gavin McGinnes' disembodied head of Kevin Spacey advice and all that happened was I came while thinking about Kevin Spacey.

1 benadryl. Thank me later.

>fucking randos
There's your problem, you're a nervous fucker. Have sex in the context of a relationship and it'll improve you degenerate ape.

Why does he want an airplane in that sentence?

Benadryl works? Like if i popped one 30 minutes before sex it works?

That's pretty much how Ted Bundy got started.

Confirmed terrible in bed.

Get high and distract yourself while fucking. Works for me every time, I can basically cum on demand while high

Oi m8 ur a shit
I'll wear a woman like a snorkel, eat that box till she cums while you stroke it to chinese math levels of hardness until you cum into a fucking sock. Virgin scum

Well I dont smoke the green jew.

And that's why u smoke cock faggito

No, its why i have a successful corporate position making more than both of your parents combined LuL+

I fucking WISH I had this problem. Only time I've ever had an issue cumming is after a round or two already and being super drunk. Being a two pump chump sucks.

Christ you're pathetic

Don't listen to this literal child. Be a man and pop some oxy's. If you have zero tolerance you probably won't cum but can fuck them till they bleed.

No you don't
>lasting so long you both get raw and it starts to hurt
>her trying to finish you with a raw spot
I mean unless you're a masochist, shit isn't great for either person invovled.

Ive had a similar issue with my most recent gf. Its never really been an issue with other girls Ive been with in the past, maybe the first couple times when I was more nervous. But still over a year later I never seem to last past 2 or 3 mins of consistent stroking. She pretty petite and has narrow hips so Im not sure if that makes her unusually tight? That is the only thing I can think of different about her.

Anyone experience anything similar?

friendly reminder that if you don't like eating pussy you are literally a homosexual man

Fuck these bitches, I use to nutt in minutes....


>lotion up the dick, dry skin makes you more sensitive
>cardio, it relaxes your anxiety and it gives you awesome hard ons
>jerk off a couple hours before